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Reflections on trans presence at a Dykes Who Hike event

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13RidgmontRoad · 13/09/2026 08:15

For those who don't know DWH, it's an informal mainly Instagram-promoted event and the organisers, two women in their 20s, arrange (relatively accessible) hikes in locations mainly in SE England. Cost to join is £2 a ticket. Yesterday was the first one I've been on, which was 17 miles (Newhaven to Brighton). Around 130 people attended.

There were 5-6 TW on the hike that I could see; two older chaps, one in a dress and heavy makeup, the other looking very much just like a bloke in men's clothing. Four younger ones who looked like the wind might blow them away.

Older blokey one was very annoying - lots of mansplaining on the Whatsapp group, selfies and borderline inappropriate jokes, generally ignored.

Two of the younger ones peeled off about halfway through as they couldn't cope with the rest of the distance. Remaining younger ones were a couple and kept themselves to themselves. They were rather timid and socially awkward, which was a bit of a contrast to 130 hale and hearty lesbians in hiking boots.

I felt like most of the women there just gave the lot of them a wide berth - bit of polite chat then forward or back to join other women.

The (lovely) organisers are quite young and there's absolutely no way either of them would come out and bar TW. I imagine they'd be terrified to take a view. So it seemed very much like weary acceptance. It was rather interesting to observe.

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ThisFunSheep · 13/09/2026 18:44

alcovecupboards · 13/09/2026 17:32

This is an LGBT+ group - explicitly so and set up with that purpose by inclusive lesbians. And very popular by all measures. There is a single sex only hiking group too - who could do with some more members so you could always join that one? Or set up your own.

It isn't an LGBT group because it doesn't include gay or bisexual men...well unless they claim to be a woman.

It also is debatable how much it's a transgender group as afaik they don't require any evidence.

I was making a general point about the importance of women's groups and why some women want a single sex environment.

I'm not a lesbian so obviously I wouldn't be joining either of those discussed. There will be lesbians in a similar position to me though.

When I last looked into this I couldn't find any appropriate womens only groups in my area.

I would also be extremely concerned about these being targeted by protestors, if they restricted their entry to biological women as even women's only rape crisis centres have been targeted.

AimsAndObjectives · 13/09/2026 18:32

MarieDeGournay · 13/09/2026 18:26

No, their branding is way off - they used a word in their marketing which is misleading as to composition - but don't worry, I'm not going to suggest the Trade Description Act 1968 appliesGrin
I'm just going to point out that if their group is not composed of dykes, maybe they should call it something else.

Accuracy in marketing is important, and (unless you are a talking egg in Alice in Wonderland) words, like 'dykes' or 'hiking', don't mean what random individuals decide they mean.

It looks like they have done enough to keep the queer-police at bay but are managing to signal that they are really a lesbian group by using the word Dyke. My thoughts are actually to leave them alone to get on with it.

ThisFunSheep · 13/09/2026 18:31

Is being "popular" the key test or actually having a women's event for only women - as the law seems to require?

Everyone seems to be assuming they are trans too despite not appearing to have made any changes and presenting as men wearing dresses...in a lesbian group. Huh.

Having worked in a lingerie shop I'm well aware there are men who get a sexual thrill from wearing women's clothing. Look up autogynephilia.

I am willing to bet there's been some of those.

I don't support any women's group having a policy of accepting trans woman. But if they do at least ask for a gender recognition certificate.

Lexibletheflexible · 13/09/2026 18:28

MarieDeGournay · 13/09/2026 18:26

No, their branding is way off - they used a word in their marketing which is misleading as to composition - but don't worry, I'm not going to suggest the Trade Description Act 1968 appliesGrin
I'm just going to point out that if their group is not composed of dykes, maybe they should call it something else.

Accuracy in marketing is important, and (unless you are a talking egg in Alice in Wonderland) words, like 'dykes' or 'hiking', don't mean what random individuals decide they mean.

It's perfectly accurate because it has got them the membership they desire. They're perfectly happy with their group from the looks of things.

MarieDeGournay · 13/09/2026 18:26

Lexibletheflexible · 13/09/2026 18:14

Seems to be branded well as it is relatively popular with the people who want to attend. Seems like they marketed just right.

No, their branding is way off - they used a word in their marketing which is misleading as to composition - but don't worry, I'm not going to suggest the Trade Description Act 1968 appliesGrin
I'm just going to point out that if their group is not composed of dykes, maybe they should call it something else.

Accuracy in marketing is important, and (unless you are a talking egg in Alice in Wonderland) words, like 'dykes' or 'hiking', don't mean what random individuals decide they mean.

Lexibletheflexible · 13/09/2026 18:14

RogueFemale · 13/09/2026 18:10

Massive branding fail to call the group Dykes Who Hike, with a subheader saying, no, actually, not Dykes but a free for all for LGBTQ+ 'folk' (to add that lovely little touch of twee).

More accurate to call it Humans Who Hike. Or maybe Folks With Legs. Both of which would exclude the + brigade who might identify as faeries or mermen. Very tricky.

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Seems to be branded well as it is relatively popular with the people who want to attend. Seems like they marketed just right.

RogueFemale · 13/09/2026 18:10

Massive branding fail to call the group Dykes Who Hike, with a subheader saying, no, actually, not Dykes but a free for all for LGBTQ+ 'folk' (to add that lovely little touch of twee).

More accurate to call it Humans Who Hike. Or maybe Folks With Legs. Both of which would exclude the + brigade who might identify as faeries or mermen. Very tricky.

WellThatsNotAGrowthMindset · 13/09/2026 18:07

AstonCanKissMyArse · 13/09/2026 17:54

Why is it bizarre to want to see laws and rules properly applied?

I find it bizarre that some people seem to think it doesn't matter.

Because this group has said it is inclusive. Their group. Their rules.
The other smaller group is not including trans women. If the OP joined that one to find the rule was not properly applied, fair enough to reflect.
But to reflect on a group doing what it says it will do. That is odd. Not all lesbians are GC, not all are trans exclusionary.
And if critics of the inclusive group are straight anyway, which GC lesbians are you fighting for? Have they asked you to? Cos in this case, clearly, they can literally vote with their feet.

Lexibletheflexible · 13/09/2026 18:04

MarieDeGournay · 13/09/2026 18:03

OK, so we've established that 'Dykes Who Hike' are not necessarily dykes at all. In fact not necessarily female at all, the word 'Dyke' is being used as a portmanteau word to mean anybody.

So what about the other part of the name of the group? The 'hiking' bit? do they actually hike, or is that just a portmanteau word that covers roll-blading, bike-riding, and parkour?

Does 'Dykes Who Hike' mean 'Anybody Who Does Anything'?

Yes they hike as the OP detailed.

MarieDeGournay · 13/09/2026 18:03

OK, so we've established that 'Dykes Who Hike' are not necessarily dykes at all. In fact not necessarily female at all, the word 'Dyke' is being used as a portmanteau word to mean anybody.

So what about the other part of the name of the group? The 'hiking' bit? do they actually hike, or is that just a portmanteau word that covers roll-blading, bike-riding, and parkour?

Does 'Dykes Who Hike' mean 'Anybody Who Does Anything'?

oviraptor21 · 13/09/2026 18:01

Lexibletheflexible · 13/09/2026 17:57

The law doesnt say anything about dykes except perhaps that it is a discriminatory term that some have reclaimed.

Indeed. And that is the crux of the issue. The group is called "Dykes". It is therefore up to the organisers who they wish to include.

If the group was called Women - then it would have to be women.
If the group was called Lesbians - I don't know.

I can understand the frustration among GC lesbians but in this case they don't seem to have a case - which is why terminology matters and you can't just say - that's what the organisers decided, or that's what the majority want.

alcovecupboards · 13/09/2026 17:58

AstonCanKissMyArse · 13/09/2026 17:57

That was a reference to your previous comment that this 'isn't a group for GC people like you'.

Did I say that?

Lexibletheflexible · 13/09/2026 17:58

AstonCanKissMyArse · 13/09/2026 17:57

That was a reference to your previous comment that this 'isn't a group for GC people like you'.

But it isnt because it is openly inclusive of trans people.

AstonCanKissMyArse · 13/09/2026 17:57

alcovecupboards · 13/09/2026 17:54

They haven't excluded GC people. The OP is literally an active member.

That was a reference to your previous comment that this 'isn't a group for GC people like you'.

Lexibletheflexible · 13/09/2026 17:57

oviraptor21 · 13/09/2026 17:55

Because the law may say it should be. I don't know if the law does though.

The law says women should be biological women only.
What does the law say lesbians are?
What does the law say dykes are?

The law doesnt say anything about dykes except perhaps that it is a discriminatory term that some have reclaimed.

alcovecupboards · 13/09/2026 17:56

oviraptor21 · 13/09/2026 17:52

There could be many reasons by the Hiking Dykes (excluding transwomen) has lower numbers - more recently set up, no publicity (perhaps deliberately to avoid TRA interference), fewer hikes, other different parameters, etc

Hiking Dykes have been going decades longer. The inclusive group is a few years old. I find it surreal that you suggest TRA interference on a thread about a GC person joining an openly trans inclusive group. Surely it goes both ways - unless of course hypocrisy is the order of the day?

Lexibletheflexible · 13/09/2026 17:56

oviraptor21 · 13/09/2026 17:52

There could be many reasons by the Hiking Dykes (excluding transwomen) has lower numbers - more recently set up, no publicity (perhaps deliberately to avoid TRA interference), fewer hikes, other different parameters, etc

Or just that nobody wants to go, like a whites only walking group probably wouldn't get many attendees of any ethnic background.

oviraptor21 · 13/09/2026 17:55

Lexibletheflexible · 13/09/2026 17:49

I think it was always called as it is now. Why should the group be single sex if the organisers want it to be inclusive of people who identify with the term "dyke"?

Because the law may say it should be. I don't know if the law does though.

The law says women should be biological women only.
What does the law say lesbians are?
What does the law say dykes are?

Lexibletheflexible · 13/09/2026 17:54

AstonCanKissMyArse · 13/09/2026 17:51

They can't exclude GC people though - that would be illegal discrimination on the grounds of belief.

I think the point thatis repeatedly going over some rather aggressive posters heads is 'what are the rules'?

And why does there seem to be one set of rules for some people (randomly excluding certain people but not others) and not for others (women who want single sex spaces, which yes, we understand doesn't involve hiking trails, we are more discussing the general principle).

What are the rules and why do some people get to form exclusive groups but others don't?

This 'inclusive' group is not inclusive of everyone. Or is it? Again, what are the rules?

They can certainly exclude anyone who makes members they welcome feel oppressed, marginalised or outright attacked. Of course if you dont share your views and just hike like everyone else, nobody will know you are GC. It will be when you start trying to coerce the organisers into expelling trans women that you are thrown out yourself.

The rules are that the group is a Walking group based in LDN for queer, bi, wlw girlies, trans and non-binary folk. Clearly stated.

alcovecupboards · 13/09/2026 17:54

AstonCanKissMyArse · 13/09/2026 17:51

They can't exclude GC people though - that would be illegal discrimination on the grounds of belief.

I think the point thatis repeatedly going over some rather aggressive posters heads is 'what are the rules'?

And why does there seem to be one set of rules for some people (randomly excluding certain people but not others) and not for others (women who want single sex spaces, which yes, we understand doesn't involve hiking trails, we are more discussing the general principle).

What are the rules and why do some people get to form exclusive groups but others don't?

This 'inclusive' group is not inclusive of everyone. Or is it? Again, what are the rules?

They haven't excluded GC people. The OP is literally an active member.

AstonCanKissMyArse · 13/09/2026 17:54

alcovecupboards · 13/09/2026 17:42

It must be so bizarre to go through life like this. Do you have anyone in real life you can get support from? Genuine question because you don't seem very well.

Why is it bizarre to want to see laws and rules properly applied?

I find it bizarre that some people seem to think it doesn't matter.

oviraptor21 · 13/09/2026 17:52

Lexibletheflexible · 13/09/2026 17:36

The thing is, there are so many women who are for inclusion of trans women, especially in non-heterosexual spaces, that they massively outnumber the amount of women who are against them. That is why lesbian events that exclude trans women are so sparsely populated as the GC hiking group shows.

There could be many reasons by the Hiking Dykes (excluding transwomen) has lower numbers - more recently set up, no publicity (perhaps deliberately to avoid TRA interference), fewer hikes, other different parameters, etc

AstonCanKissMyArse · 13/09/2026 17:51

Lexibletheflexible · 13/09/2026 17:27

Not if she doesn't believe in inclusion of trans people or self identification as this group clearly do. It isnt for GC lesbians who feel aggrieved, threatened or offended by the presence of trans women in such a space.

They can't exclude GC people though - that would be illegal discrimination on the grounds of belief.

I think the point thatis repeatedly going over some rather aggressive posters heads is 'what are the rules'?

And why does there seem to be one set of rules for some people (randomly excluding certain people but not others) and not for others (women who want single sex spaces, which yes, we understand doesn't involve hiking trails, we are more discussing the general principle).

What are the rules and why do some people get to form exclusive groups but others don't?

This 'inclusive' group is not inclusive of everyone. Or is it? Again, what are the rules?

alcovecupboards · 13/09/2026 17:51

oviraptor21 · 13/09/2026 17:48

No-one has said that trail is a single sex space. Where are you getting that from as it would be ludicrous.
What people are saying is that the group should be single sex. I suspect legally it's in a grey area. If it was called Women Who Hike then it would have to be single sex. I don't know whether the recent Supreme Court ruling and subsequent EHCR guidance defined terminology such as lesbians and dykes to be single sex too.

It's an explicitly inclusive group and there is no requirement for it to be single sex. There is also a (significantly less well-attended) single sex hiking group that has existed long before this one if you wish to join that one. But going into an explicitly inclusive group and demanding they change? That is outrageous. Once again though - it's a hiking group! A hiking group!

Lexibletheflexible · 13/09/2026 17:49

oviraptor21 · 13/09/2026 17:48

No-one has said that trail is a single sex space. Where are you getting that from as it would be ludicrous.
What people are saying is that the group should be single sex. I suspect legally it's in a grey area. If it was called Women Who Hike then it would have to be single sex. I don't know whether the recent Supreme Court ruling and subsequent EHCR guidance defined terminology such as lesbians and dykes to be single sex too.

I think it was always called as it is now. Why should the group be single sex if the organisers want it to be inclusive of people who identify with the term "dyke"?

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