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Another BBC mess: "Do you think it’s right to tell transgender people which toilet to use?" Let's ask some men...

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BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 12/09/2026 19:14

https://genderblog.net/bbc-gender-apology-row/

From Nick Wallis' Genderblog:

On 6 August 2026, BBC Three Counties local radio station, which covers Bedfordshire, Hertfordshire and Buckinghamshire, ran a half hour current affairs chat on the Jonathan Vernon-Smith Show. The midday item was posed as a question: “Do you think it’s right to tell transgender people which toilet to use?”

The first contributor put on air to talk about that question were Robin Moira White, a male barrister who claims to be a woman. Robin advocates for men to be able to use women’s toilets and does so himself. The next guest was Nora Padilla, a full-time policy officer at the campaign group TransActual, which also advocates for men to be able to use women’s toilets. Then we heard from “Michelle” from Watford. Like Robin, Michelle is a man who claims to be a woman and – surprise surprise – advocates for male use of female facilities....
[my bold]

And the story goes on. And gets more and more damning for the BBC. The useless, ridiculously activist, taxpayer-supported BBC... Still.

BBC Gender Apology Row

Now they’re in trouble. Sex Matters. (l-r) Dr Helen Joyce, Maya Forstater and Fiona McAnena I am not a defund the BBC sort, but I can understand the frustrations of those who are. I have spok…

https://genderblog.net/bbc-gender-apology-row/

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NotTodayTy · 12/09/2026 23:50

Rollingpinofdoom · 12/09/2026 23:44

So if you believe mixed sex toilets and spaces are unsafe for women, why do you think we should implement them? Just to protect TIM. In that case, no. Male on male violence is nothing to do with women. If some men feel unsafe in male spaces, that’s on men to solve.

I think we should go back to the old approach. Trans women use female spaces with the rampant entitlement we see today. You do your best to blend in and be pleasant, and you don’t ask and don’t tell. Simple.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 12/09/2026 23:48

Sharon Davies is an Olympian, her Damehood was in recognition for all that she's done for women's sport in this country. The fact that she's been campaigning to get males out of female sports is probably why it's taken the establishment so long to give her her gong.
She's worth every penny of the £400 a day at taxpayer's expense she's raking in.

iwishitwouldstartraining · 12/09/2026 23:47

alcovecupboards · 12/09/2026 23:34

Not billions but don't you find it odd that there are a few people who never mentioned it until they found a way to monetize it? Nick being one. Sharon Davies being another. She was down to her last farthing a few years ago and now she's raking in £400 a day at taxpayer's expense. You really think she believes half the nonsense she spouts?

I very much doubt that Nick Wallis is making much money out of this. He is just following the story. If there wasn't so much to write about, he would write about something else.

The attempt to remove sex discrimnation from the Equality Act is quite newsworthy as are medical scandals.

NotTodayTy · 12/09/2026 23:46

Rollingpinofdoom · 12/09/2026 23:40

So if men can’t be trusted to behave well in hospital wards and prisons, why are you expecting them to behave better in toilets? I mean, TIM will obviously have to use male wards and prisons now, so surely they’d be unsafe there? So by your logic, we should make prisons and psych wards mixed sex as well.

I've repeated myself three times and explicitly told you I don't advocate for that, and you're still arguing with an imaginary position I hold. At this point, I have to assume you don’t have basic reading comprehension skills.

AimsAndObjectives · 12/09/2026 23:46

alcovecupboards · 12/09/2026 23:27

It wouldn't be a problem for me - it would be for some of the more vocal 'GC' voices who have turned it into a money-making venture. (I don't actually believe they are GC in actual fact - I think they think they've found a grift to earn an easy crust from a captive audience. I think had it been financially necessary 15 years ago they'd be fully paid-up members of the no debate society.

Now do the Good Law Project😁

Rollingpinofdoom · 12/09/2026 23:45

FlirtsWithRhinos · 12/09/2026 23:44

And of course the eternal question - given that lots of men face risks from other men in various ways, why is it only the ones who claim to be women that anyone is suggesting have to get a pass to hide in the ladies bogs? Are the others not as important or something?

Apparently, they are Schrödinger’s men. Safe enough to be around TIM in mixed sex spaces, but totally unsafe to be around TIM in male spaces.

Rollingpinofdoom · 12/09/2026 23:44

So if you believe mixed sex toilets and spaces are unsafe for women, why do you think we should implement them? Just to protect TIM. In that case, no. Male on male violence is nothing to do with women. If some men feel unsafe in male spaces, that’s on men to solve.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 12/09/2026 23:44

And of course the eternal question - given that lots of men face risks from other men in various ways, why is it only the ones who claim to be women that anyone is suggesting have to get a pass to hide in the ladies bogs? Are the others not as important or something?

MrsOvertonsWindow · 12/09/2026 23:41

alcovecupboards · 12/09/2026 23:34

Not billions but don't you find it odd that there are a few people who never mentioned it until they found a way to monetize it? Nick being one. Sharon Davies being another. She was down to her last farthing a few years ago and now she's raking in £400 a day at taxpayer's expense. You really think she believes half the nonsense she spouts?

So you're not happy with Nick Wallis and now Sharron Davies? Both who've relentlessly stood up for women in recent years with Sharron in receipt of massive abuse from unhinged transactivists

Still - you do you and all that. .

Rollingpinofdoom · 12/09/2026 23:40

NotTodayTy · 12/09/2026 23:35

Fuck me. Are you sure you’re with it? I just said we shouldn’t force mixed sex spaces everywhere

So if men can’t be trusted to behave well in hospital wards and prisons, why are you expecting them to behave better in toilets? I mean, TIM will obviously have to use male wards and prisons now, so surely they’d be unsafe there? So by your logic, we should make prisons and psych wards mixed sex as well.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 12/09/2026 23:40

alcovecupboards · 12/09/2026 23:34

Not billions but don't you find it odd that there are a few people who never mentioned it until they found a way to monetize it? Nick being one. Sharon Davies being another. She was down to her last farthing a few years ago and now she's raking in £400 a day at taxpayer's expense. You really think she believes half the nonsense she spouts?

Don't you find it odd that Stonewall, Mermaids, GLP, Pride et al have raised many millions to support trans people yet haven't funded any additional unisex provisions? Don't you find it odd that their focus has all been on the much less practical, less popular and frankly less morally justifiable tactic of demanding the use of women's spaces?

Rollingpinofdoom · 12/09/2026 23:37

alcovecupboards · 12/09/2026 23:33

Are you OK? You must have put your back out with that reach. Are you wilfully misunderstanding again?

You’re the one who said you didn’t think some GC people were pretending to be GC didn’t you? I suppose that’s nothing to with the fact they’d make mincemeat out of any TRA pitted against them. The interview with KJK and Helen Webberley is a great case in point. Even Piers Morgan can verbally beat a TRA. Which is something.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 12/09/2026 23:35

Rollingpinofdoom · 12/09/2026 23:32

We are?? How do I sign up?? Is there like a secret list??

Think we must still be on the list waiting for all the cheques to come rolling in for our "grift"

NotTodayTy · 12/09/2026 23:35

Rollingpinofdoom · 12/09/2026 23:28

So you are admitting mixed sex spaces will not always be safe? So why are you advocating for them? Why do you want to put women in danger? Why do you think the toilets will always be busy?

Fuck me. Are you sure you’re with it? I just said we shouldn’t force mixed sex spaces everywhere

alcovecupboards · 12/09/2026 23:34

MrsOvertonsWindow · 12/09/2026 23:31

Oh dear. Maybe it's bed time if we're getting onto all the billions that women are making out of standing up for child safeguarding and women's rights 😂😂

Not billions but don't you find it odd that there are a few people who never mentioned it until they found a way to monetize it? Nick being one. Sharon Davies being another. She was down to her last farthing a few years ago and now she's raking in £400 a day at taxpayer's expense. You really think she believes half the nonsense she spouts?

alcovecupboards · 12/09/2026 23:33

Rollingpinofdoom · 12/09/2026 23:30

So let me understand, people only pretend to be GC to make money, but all trans people are totally honest and true? 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄. Bless you my sweet summer child.

Are you OK? You must have put your back out with that reach. Are you wilfully misunderstanding again?

iwishitwouldstartraining · 12/09/2026 23:32

SwirlyGates · 12/09/2026 20:48

It's a really weird question to ask, I think - if they'd asked, "Do you think it's right to tell men which toilet to use?" or "Do you think it's right to tell women which toilet to use?" people would be scratching their heads wondering why you were asking, because it's bloody obvious. People don't get to choose the toilets they use, they are told which one and expected to get on with it.

Also, as well as missing out gender-critical women, they missed out gender-critical men. They do exist after all - many men want single sex spaces not just for women but for themselves. And the men could make a case for welcoming trans women in the men's.

It's so, so frustrating because in practice the question is completely irrelevant.

Sex can be objectively quantified, but identity can't, so the only question worth asking is whether toilets should be single sex or mixed sex. If you have decided that they should be mixed sex, you then need to ask how that impacts safety, for all the reasons detailed at length on this board by keeptoiletssafe.

Rollingpinofdoom · 12/09/2026 23:32

MrsOvertonsWindow · 12/09/2026 23:31

Oh dear. Maybe it's bed time if we're getting onto all the billions that women are making out of standing up for child safeguarding and women's rights 😂😂

We are?? How do I sign up?? Is there like a secret list??

MrsOvertonsWindow · 12/09/2026 23:31

alcovecupboards · 12/09/2026 23:27

It wouldn't be a problem for me - it would be for some of the more vocal 'GC' voices who have turned it into a money-making venture. (I don't actually believe they are GC in actual fact - I think they think they've found a grift to earn an easy crust from a captive audience. I think had it been financially necessary 15 years ago they'd be fully paid-up members of the no debate society.

Oh dear. Maybe it's bed time if we're getting onto all the billions that women are making out of standing up for child safeguarding and women's rights 😂😂

Rollingpinofdoom · 12/09/2026 23:30

alcovecupboards · 12/09/2026 23:27

It wouldn't be a problem for me - it would be for some of the more vocal 'GC' voices who have turned it into a money-making venture. (I don't actually believe they are GC in actual fact - I think they think they've found a grift to earn an easy crust from a captive audience. I think had it been financially necessary 15 years ago they'd be fully paid-up members of the no debate society.

So let me understand, people only pretend to be GC to make money, but all trans people are totally honest and true? 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄. Bless you my sweet summer child.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 12/09/2026 23:30

We have an idiot savant in the building. What fun, not.

Rollingpinofdoom · 12/09/2026 23:28

NotTodayTy · 12/09/2026 23:26

Obviously not all men will be put off from committing a crime, but a busy space is still going to put most people off. If it didn’t we wouldn’t have street lighting and CCTV everywhere

So you are admitting mixed sex spaces will not always be safe? So why are you advocating for them? Why do you want to put women in danger? Why do you think the toilets will always be busy?

alcovecupboards · 12/09/2026 23:27

Rollingpinofdoom · 12/09/2026 19:53

But why would that be a problem? Surely it’s good people hear both sides of the debate. It’ll enable both sides to put forth their most coherent and logical arguments won’t it? I mean one side you’ve got men saying they want to access female spaces because they want to, and the other side women explaining why they should not be allowed. It’d be an eye opener I think.

It wouldn't be a problem for me - it would be for some of the more vocal 'GC' voices who have turned it into a money-making venture. (I don't actually believe they are GC in actual fact - I think they think they've found a grift to earn an easy crust from a captive audience. I think had it been financially necessary 15 years ago they'd be fully paid-up members of the no debate society.

NotTodayTy · 12/09/2026 23:26

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 12/09/2026 23:20

Just pointing out that being in a busy park/public place does not stop men from being dangerous.

Obviously not all men will be put off from committing a crime, but a busy space is still going to put most people off. If it didn’t we wouldn’t have street lighting and CCTV everywhere

NotTodayTy · 12/09/2026 23:23

Rollingpinofdoom · 12/09/2026 23:14

So you ARE expecting women to be human shields for TIM aren’t you? Why do you hate women so much? Don’t you think they deserve single sex spaces?

a TIF was raped within one hour of being put in a male psych facility? Don’t think anyone had told those men they had to be well behaved in a mixed sex space. She was raped 3 times before she got moved. So tell me again why mixed sex spaces are safe for women…. I’ll wait….

Why do you resort to extreme emotion manipulation and character attacks? You are so clearly beyond debating in good faith.

I was specifically answering your question around why a trans woman could be unsafe in a single sex space and safe in a mixed sex space. I wasn’t even arguing for universal mixed sex spaces like the original commenter. I was just making the point that environment and people can change behaviour. Do I think mixed sex spaces are safety than single sex spaces for women? No. Do I think a mixed sex space is safer for trans women? Yes. Do I think we should force mixed sex spaces everywhere? No.

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