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Wonderful Bodies Connected Communities

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IwantToRetire · 11/09/2026 20:06

This workshop will bring together cis women who have undergone breast surgery (due to cancer, or other health reasons) and trans and non-binary individuals (including those who do or do not undertake gender-affirming surgeries or hormone therapy). It will be a fun, safe, brave, explorative space. The main activity will be ‘body mapping’ where participants, if they wish, lie on big pieces of paper on the ground, on which an outline of their bodies is drawn. Participants then fill in their outline with pictures or words about feelings and experiences, which they can share with the group if they wish. Body mapping is followed by discussion on connections and differences between the two groups.

Full event listing at https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/wonderful-bodies-connected-communities-tickets-1999775422120

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Wonderful Bodies Connected Communities

Workshop for women with mastectomies and trans/non-binary people to feel good about our bodies and explore what we have in common.

https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/wonderful-bodies-connected-communities-tickets-1999775422120

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ArabellaScott · 12/09/2026 12:52

Indeed. Women who have undergone breast surgery/removal due to traumatic history, and men who have other reasons for focussing on breast growth or lack thereof.

Wishesandhorses · 12/09/2026 12:49

And my cynicism here comes from exactly what Arabella says - why is this simply not for everyone with unusual/surgery affected bodies if that is the actual focus and purpose and it is something positive in this way?

Why is it so very specifically the two very labelled groups, with those labels being so important?

Wishesandhorses · 12/09/2026 12:45

ArabellaScott · 12/09/2026 12:36

Workshop 'will bring together cis women who have undergone breast surgery (due to cancer, or other health reasons) and trans and non-binary individuals (including those who do or do not undertake gender-affirming surgeries or hormone therapy)'

Those 'individuals' could be anyone. Any bloke with a creative gender identity.

Which, okay, fine. It's mixed sex. But it's presented in a misleading way.

Why not say it's for everyone?

It sounds in implication as if the women with breast surgeries are required for those with trans identities who may or may not wish to engage in surgery. It specifically states 'cis women' with breast surgery 'brought together' with people with trans identities.

The next obvious question would be why.

ArabellaScott · 12/09/2026 12:36

Workshop 'will bring together cis women who have undergone breast surgery (due to cancer, or other health reasons) and trans and non-binary individuals (including those who do or do not undertake gender-affirming surgeries or hormone therapy)'

Those 'individuals' could be anyone. Any bloke with a creative gender identity.

Which, okay, fine. It's mixed sex. But it's presented in a misleading way.

Why not say it's for everyone?

ArabellaScott · 12/09/2026 12:34

My concern is if a woman assumes it's all female, and goes along and there's a bloke there, will she feel comfortable? Will she feel able to leave?

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ArabellaScott · 12/09/2026 12:33

Well, we don't know. It could be anyone.

The workshop will be facilitated by a three-person team. One of us is trans, two of us are cis women who have had mastectomies.

Two women. One person who we are only told is 'trans'.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 12/09/2026 12:28

Thanks for the info, I did assume the 'trans' was a woman who had had her breast removed, the fact that it might be a man makes it even more revolting, more fool any woman who goes to this. All the sympathy for the 2 'cis' women has now disappeared.

ArabellaScott · 12/09/2026 12:17

So, yes, it's voluntary, but why is the information so coy? Why no mention of the 'trans' facilitator's sex? Consent is only consent when its informed.

ArabellaScott · 12/09/2026 12:16

My suggestion would be that if the 'trans' facilitator is a male, who is participating because his hormone treatment didn't go according to plan, this should be made very clear. It's presented as if it's a workshop for women, and the assumption from posters on here is that the 'trans' presenter is female who has had her breasts removed. It's quite possible it's a man.

A woman who has been through a traumatic experience deserves to be given clear, factual information so she can decide if she wants to attend.

MyThreeWords · 12/09/2026 12:14

I have mixed feelings about this.

On the one hand, I do think it is a bit daft, and possibly an example of forced teaming between fundamentally different bodily challenges. And, coming from the parasitised Feminist Library it does seem reasonable to think of it as possibly co-opting a specifically female challenge (mastectomy) to perform certain male bodily preoccupations.

But on the other hand, it is completely voluntary for all participants, and perhaps the women, as well as the men, feel some benefit from a joint exploration of different barriers to bodily self-acceptance. Yes, it all sounds a bit silly, but if the participants find it helpful, is there any harm? I guess I just don't feel very comfortable with mocking other people's choices. People do all sorts of things that others find daft.

ArabellaScott · 12/09/2026 12:06

This same workshop ran last year.

forum.breastcancernow.org/t/transgender-cis-women-mastectomy-sharing/137693

ArabellaScott · 12/09/2026 12:02

'The workshop will be facilitated by a three-person team. One of us is trans, two of us are cis women who have had mastectomies.'

Is the 'trans' facilitator the man referred to in the post above?

ArabellaScott · 12/09/2026 12:01

https://forum.breastcancernow.org/t/commonalities-with-trans-non-binary-people/142231

'After diagnosis with DCIS, a mastectomy, and becoming a uniboober, I met up with a trans friend who also turned out to be a uniboober. They were taking hormones hoping to grow two breasts, but unexpectedly, just one grew. We helped each other feel good about our atypical bodies.
Although having cancer is completely different from being trans, we found we had a few things in common. For example, our bodies don’t fit with ideas about what is ‘normal’ for our gender. Cancer reducing and gender affirming interventions sometimes involve similar surgeries or hormone treatments. We are all trying work with health care systems that don’t always meet our needs. etc. And of course some people with breast cancer are trans/non-binary.'

archive.ph/ebDD8

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 12/09/2026 11:31

A disgusting forced teaming.
If the 2 'cis' women who have lost their breast because of a killer disease think they have something in common with a 'trans' who's presumably chosen to have her tits chopped off because she mistakenly thinks it will make her a man, then they're pathetic.
Perhaps they're attempting to deal with the trauma of a very frightening situation, if so it's a maladaptive coping mechanism.

MarcTheGenderSkeptic · 12/09/2026 00:49

The more the activists try to make the logical end points of trans ideology normalized and force team it with women who genuinely have had life changing experiences requiring procedures like mastectomies etc, the more they in fact show up how far out of the scope of anything that could be called normal trans ideology is.
To think that you can put a woman who's had to lose her breasts for necessary reasons next to a woman who's chosen to lose her breasts because she's been told that's consistent with a fantasy, and consider the situations as equivalent, is barking mad.
Then again, trans ideology and the belief that gender temperament trumps biological sex <is> barking mad.

JellySaurus · 11/09/2026 23:13

Rollingpinofdoom · 11/09/2026 20:27

So what do breast cancer survivors have to do with “trans and non binary” people? You've got one group who had to have their breasts removed in very upsetting and difficult circumstances and another group who want to have their breasts removed and see having them removed as a source of joy. This cannot end well.

And potentially a third group: males who feel that their sadness about having flat chests is in some way equivalent to the sadness felt by women who have flat chests due to cancer surgery.

This workshop is a sick concept. It’s basically using women as support humans and validation props . Not just any women, either. The organisers should be ashamed of themselves.

Rollingpinofdoom · 11/09/2026 22:41

saveforthat · 11/09/2026 22:39

Yes, I will

I’m in

saveforthat · 11/09/2026 22:39

LeftBoobGoneRogue · 11/09/2026 21:15

Is anyone going to join me and email Susie telling her about how offensive this is?

Yes, I will

Rollingpinofdoom · 11/09/2026 22:01

Coatsoff42 · 11/09/2026 21:59

Yes, thats why I said detransitioned women, the ones who regret their mastectomies after the fact.

But there is a difference. Those women voluntarily removed their breasts. Breast cancer survivors did not. And I don’t think that’s the audience the event is for.

Coatsoff42 · 11/09/2026 21:59

Rollingpinofdoom · 11/09/2026 21:46

I think it might be more than insensitive. It would probably be horribly offensive to the cancer survivors. Can you imagine going there and being around people who actively want to remove the body parts you have just lost?

Yes, thats why I said detransitioned women, the ones who regret their mastectomies after the fact.

AimsAndObjectives · 11/09/2026 21:54

'Nowt so queer as Queer folk.

IwantToRetire · 11/09/2026 21:51

I see it is being held at the Feminist Library, and it does sort of sound like the sort of trans acolyte type event they would put on.

But it maybe that they are just letting out their meeting room or something.

There have been earlier threads about how the current "management" of the Feminist Library are trans cuckoos who have appropriated an early Women's Liberation endeavour to preserve feminist writing in a safe women only environment.

A well meant but can now only seem naive believe in sisterhood.

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Rollingpinofdoom · 11/09/2026 21:46

Coatsoff42 · 11/09/2026 21:44

It might be useful for detransitioned women who had mastectomies and now regret it. I don’t know if it would be insensitive to cancer survivors to share the experience though, it seems like two distinct groups.

I think it might be more than insensitive. It would probably be horribly offensive to the cancer survivors. Can you imagine going there and being around people who actively want to remove the body parts you have just lost?

Coatsoff42 · 11/09/2026 21:44

It might be useful for detransitioned women who had mastectomies and now regret it. I don’t know if it would be insensitive to cancer survivors to share the experience though, it seems like two distinct groups.