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Mermaids Mutiny! 🤞🤞🤞🤞

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DearestGentleReader90 · 11/09/2026 11:49

Ladies.....It's finally happening. Mermaids is absolutely crumbling. My daughter H has finally seen what a problematic charity it is and is no longer wanting to volunteer!
She still wants to identify as non binary which I am still getting my head around but at least she isn't getting her "support" from Mermaids anymore.
Shes told me loads about what's been going on there since the new Chief Executive has been in post. Apparently she is awful! Staff have mysteriously disappeared with no explanation and those that are still there are utterly miserable! The so called "helpline" is constantly closed because of staff shortages and volunteers are completely in the dark about everything. H says she has asked for updates about staffing and responses to media and has just been totally ignored. Ive told her to go to the Charities Commission and tell them what is going on but despite seeing all the flaws she won't but I might!!!! 😈
I really think they might be heading for closure 🤞🤞🤞🤞
Has anyone heard anything else?

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Shedmistress · 19/09/2026 17:53

Gosh, a throwback Saturday, thanks TPA, for reminding people about the dregs who used to work for Mermaids.

AstonUniversityPotholeDepartment · 19/09/2026 00:57

AstonUniversityPotholeDepartment · 18/09/2026 19:32

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The academic who recently resigned from a charity that promotes the medical transitioning of children had for years been writing blog entries related to pro-pedophilia activism and “minor attraction.”

Jacob Breslow, an Associate Professor at the London School of Economics, stepped down from his position as a trustee for UK-based trans activist organization Mermaids earlier this week after it was revealed that he had, on several occasions, made statements and published academic work that favorably portrayed pedophilia.

In 2011, Breslow, then a PhD student, spoke at a symposium titled “Pedophilia, Minor-Attracted Persons, and the DSM: Issues and Controversies,” hosted by pedophile advocacy organization B4U-Act. The stated purpose of the symposium was to lobby the American Psychiatric Association for changes to the diagnostic definition of pedophilia in order to “reduce stigma” against “minor-attracted people” (MAPs).

Breslow’s presentation was titled Sexual Alignment: Critiquing Sexual Orientation, The Pedophile, and the DSM V. In the lecture, Breslow promotes the concept of treating pedophilia as a sexual orientation, a goal long-advocated by B4U-Act.

B4U-Act describes itself as an organization that works toward a “collaborative effort between minor-attracted people and mental health professionals,” and has a history of lobbying medical authorities for changes in criteria which would declassify pedophilia as a disorder.

Founded in 2009 by convicted child rapist Michael Melsheimer, B4U-Act had apparently been approved by the founders of infamous pederast activist group, the North American Man/Boy Love Association (NAMBLA). After B4U-Act’s creation, Melsheimer had informed other pedophiles that his organization’s approach would be focused around garnering public support for normalizing pedophilia by falsely claiming the intention was to prevent child sexual abuse.

At their symposium, Breslow read from a paper in which he rejected the understanding of pedophilic attraction to children as being inherently harmful, and supported the concept of pedophilia being classified as a sexual or political orientation.

“Allowing for a form of non-diagnosable minor attraction is exciting, as it potentially creates a sexual or political identity by which activists, scholars, and clinicians can begin to better understand Minor Attracted Persons … Many tend to begin with the linkage of pedophilic desire to harmful and abusive relationships and acts, and end up proliferating, rather than questioning, normative gendered and sexual intelligibility,” read Breslow’s abstract.

The article continues with a quote from Breslow's presentation in which he compared child molestation to masturbating over a shoe. I am not going to supply that quote in full, as I think it's too disturbing to post on MN.

This material was all in the public domain, but mysteriously Mermaids didn't/couldn't find it before they appointed him as a trustee of a charity that is nominally for children. And we're supposed to think Mermaids is a valuable and safe source of support for children, are we?

KnottyAuty · 18/09/2026 21:25

DrBlackbird · 18/09/2026 20:39

I wondered what had happened to Dr Jacob Breslow. First, the LSE where he was an associate professor, held an ‘independent investigation’ and I know you’ll be surprised that in January 2023, "The independent investigator found that there was no basis for the School to take action against the individual." He resigned anyhow citing harassment. No idea where he’s gone to but possibly back to the US?

Urgh - wishing I hadn’t googled this guy.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-63137873

Sign reading 'London School of Economics and Political Science'

Mermaids trustee quits over paedophile-group links

Dr Jacob Breslow resigns from the transgender charity after attending a paedophile-support conference.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-63137873

DrBlackbird · 18/09/2026 20:39

I wondered what had happened to Dr Jacob Breslow. First, the LSE where he was an associate professor, held an ‘independent investigation’ and I know you’ll be surprised that in January 2023, "The independent investigator found that there was no basis for the School to take action against the individual." He resigned anyhow citing harassment. No idea where he’s gone to but possibly back to the US?

Boiledbeetle · 18/09/2026 19:58

AstonUniversityPotholeDepartment · 18/09/2026 19:32

Can we also take a moment to remember the delightful Darren Mew, see image attached.

The original image, minus unimpressed smilies, was available on Darren's Twitter, to any 12 year mermaids user who searched his name. It sat there on his twitter until it was brought to mermaids attention. He left mermaids the same day. This was just after the map apologist trustee mentioned above had to resign.

Darren was the digital engagement officer at Mermaids!

Mermaids Mutiny! 🤞🤞🤞🤞
AimsAndObjectives · 18/09/2026 19:58

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 18/09/2026 18:51

You're celebrating because a charity which counsels gender-questioning children - and gives them someone to talk to if parents are abusing them - might be in trouble?

Your poor kid.

Read the post properly. It's 'her kid' that has seen what's happening at Mermaids and withdrawn her support.

frenchnoodle · 18/09/2026 19:37

Wasn't this the charity that, back in 2021, stored details of children and those children's personal details, including transition process on an unsecured internet database email group, so some trusties in the USA could "read" them if they were interested in that kind of thing?

You know for those interested in puberty blocked children.

zanahoria · 18/09/2026 19:33

MyPearlViper · 11/09/2026 13:08

But but but... that Eurovision group gave them all the profits from one of their singles! Surely they must be rolling in dosh

It was not even their Eurovision song but another one that disappeared without trace. Mermaids probably got about 100% of 35p.

zanahoria · 18/09/2026 19:24

Remember Monday

Forgotten by Tuesday

AstonUniversityPotholeDepartment · 18/09/2026 19:15

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 18/09/2026 18:51

You're celebrating because a charity which counsels gender-questioning children - and gives them someone to talk to if parents are abusing them - might be in trouble?

Your poor kid.

The children's charity that appointed a trustee who gave a presentation at a paedophile-support conference? The charity with a trustee who had a dubious social media presence?

I really would not go down this route if I were you. Hell knows what you'll have us remembering next. Just because an organisation identifies as supporting children doesn't mean it actually does.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-63137873

Maaate · 18/09/2026 19:12

Shame all their celebrity supporters who were more than happy to jump on the trans trend for clout have now lost interest

#sadtimes

Apollo441 · 18/09/2026 19:07

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 18/09/2026 18:51

You're celebrating because a charity which counsels gender-questioning children - and gives them someone to talk to if parents are abusing them - might be in trouble?

Your poor kid.

You mean the charity that encourages child transition, binding and parental alienation? That tried to sue a gay charity? That had extremely dodgy trustees? I hope they rot. And if you go along with any of their nonsense then I pity any child under your care.

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 18/09/2026 18:51

DearestGentleReader90 · 11/09/2026 11:49

Ladies.....It's finally happening. Mermaids is absolutely crumbling. My daughter H has finally seen what a problematic charity it is and is no longer wanting to volunteer!
She still wants to identify as non binary which I am still getting my head around but at least she isn't getting her "support" from Mermaids anymore.
Shes told me loads about what's been going on there since the new Chief Executive has been in post. Apparently she is awful! Staff have mysteriously disappeared with no explanation and those that are still there are utterly miserable! The so called "helpline" is constantly closed because of staff shortages and volunteers are completely in the dark about everything. H says she has asked for updates about staffing and responses to media and has just been totally ignored. Ive told her to go to the Charities Commission and tell them what is going on but despite seeing all the flaws she won't but I might!!!! 😈
I really think they might be heading for closure 🤞🤞🤞🤞
Has anyone heard anything else?

You're celebrating because a charity which counsels gender-questioning children - and gives them someone to talk to if parents are abusing them - might be in trouble?

Your poor kid.

Igmum · 18/09/2026 15:31

Well here’s hoping they crash and burn. They have done so much damage to so many children. Ironically they started off supporting watchful waiting but changed to affirmation and dramatic medical intervention under Susie Green. I want troubled children to get good, sensible support, not life damaging drugs.

DearestGentleReader90 · 11/09/2026 22:45

Sad to hear that 😢

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prejudiceandpride · 11/09/2026 22:41

as a disabled person working in the charity sector, I'm afraid that's actually also very common OP.

DearestGentleReader90 · 11/09/2026 14:11

Thats so true. A few years ago they had so much money, online presence and a giant staff team. Now there are honestly about 10 staff members and my daughter says she is only aware of 1 transgender member of staff which is just mind blowing to me. Imagine having a charity for disabled people and having one disabled member of staff 🙈 so even trans people don't want to work there!!!!!!!
How the mighty fall eh?

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DameKatysShenis · 11/09/2026 14:04

MyPearlViper · 11/09/2026 13:08

But but but... that Eurovision group gave them all the profits from one of their singles! Surely they must be rolling in dosh

Urggghh gross. I’m a big fan of Eurovision and championed them (as I do with most uk entries), but I’m glad they got zero televote points now!!

PeachOctopus · 11/09/2026 13:58

I’m glad to hear that their child indoctrination line has closed.
It feels a long time since celebrities were tweeting about how much they loved and supported them, Starbucks was selling cookies for them and the National Lottery was chucking money at them.

DearestGentleReader90 · 11/09/2026 12:23

I think this is the time to rally and really help the process. I am thinking of writing to thier key funders and make them aware of how they arectreating staff and volunteers. To see it close its door will be such a huge relief 🤞🤞🤞

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NotInMyyName · 11/09/2026 11:51

If this is true and the beginning of the end. What great news for your family and probably others. 👏👏👏

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