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School brings in trousers only rule for all pupils - schoolgirls said to be in tears ...

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IwantToRetire · 07/09/2026 17:35

Schoolgirls have been left "in tears" after a controversial new uniform rule was enforced at the start of the school year, with furious parents claiming some pupils were stopped from attending lessons.

The row has erupted after Co-op Academies Trust introduced a trousers-only policy across its secondary schools from September.
Some families have refused to accept the change, with pupils at Co-op Academy Failsworth in Oldham arriving for their first day back on Wednesday wearing skirts.

Parents claim that a number of Year 11 girls were not allowed into class, with other pupils affected when they returned on Thursday.

The policy also applies at Co-op Academy Walkden, Co-op Academy Swinton, Co-op Academy North Manchester, Co-op Academy Manchester and Co-op Academy Belle Vue.

Full article https://www.aol.co.uk/articles/schoolgirls-tears-being-turned-away-100800000.html

Schoolgirls 'in tears' after being 'turned away from lessons' over 'ridiculous' skirt rule - AOL

A number of girls at Co-op Academy Failsworth in Oldham have been told they will not be allowed in lessons until they swap their skirts for trousers

https://www.aol.co.uk/articles/schoolgirls-tears-being-turned-away-100800000.html

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Octavia64 · 07/09/2026 18:37

The uniform policy states smart black trousers.

these are relatively easily available as lots of adult workplaces either require black trousers or men and women choose to wear them so I would imagine this actually makes uniform cheaper then eg branded trousers or a skirt.

the policy seems to say that the change is because of the new limit in the number of branded uniform items,

black trousers are cheap and readily available in a lot of shops in a lot of sizes.

seems a reasonable decision

SimplyMaidSimplyTasty · 07/09/2026 18:37

OhNoooooooooooooooo · 07/09/2026 17:41

Maybe, because they're probably sick of girls rolling up their skirts so you can see their arses, being accused of looking, not daring to mention anything, flashes of knickers etc

Trousers make everything easier

And also it means the boys that pretend to be girls will also be wearing trousers, and can't be "validated" with gender stereotypes, so that's a win.

I agree 100% with this! So much easier all round if everyone wears trousers.

However, I think school uniform trousers that are sold in the likes of Tesco, Sainsbury's, Asda, M&S and so on are pretty horrible. They're cheap, scratchy rubbishy fabrics and I certainly wouldn't want to wear them. But I very much dislike skirts and much prefer trousers!

The pupils should be permitted to wear their own choice of trousers in the school's preferred colour (most likely black, grey or navy), which should be pretty easy to obtain.

PassTheCranberrySauce · 07/09/2026 18:34

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 07/09/2026 17:42

Why on earth do girls have to look like boys? They are not boys and if they like skirts, what’s wrong with skirts? Heads should be concerned with improving education, not dictating all girls wear trousers!

Because, unfortunately, many girls wear skirts that are way too short, and are frankly a safeguarding issue. A lot of male (and to a lesser extent female) staff are genuinely scared that they will face accusations that they are looking. Enforcing rules around skirt length is a minefield for all staff.

Trousers are safer and generally easier to enforce as a uniform item.

soddingspiderseason · 07/09/2026 18:32

Good. I live near a couple of these schools. The rolling up of skirts at the top is ridiculous. Lots of teenage girls do it and it looks terrible. For all of them to wear trousers makes absolute sense. Many will no doubt be wearing jeans outside of school so I’m nit sure where this 1950s idea of women not being physically capable of learning whilst betrousered comes from.

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 18:31

IwantToRetire · 07/09/2026 18:23

Well if I had a daughter I would have for her to be undermined by an enforced notion that what women / girls do is the problem.

Let alone to know which seems to be the case from PP that there are handmaidens to the patriarchy in schools enforcing the notion that because boys dont know how to behave girls have to moderate how they behave and dress.

But I suppose it will prepare them for the future adult female world.

You mean you were out on you own. You mean you drank alcohol. You trusted a taxi firm.

That's pretty sick and depressing to read on a feminist forum.

What a woman does is a problem, if it s a problem. Simple as

I dont know why you're bringing in alcohol and taxis, presumably referring to rape

This is simply about ensuring that children are not showing off their bums and knickers. That is not a difficult concept, it is not appropriate in terms of social presentation to do that. A school has a right to dictate what goes on, on its property.

If kids and their parents think its ok, want to dress like that at the weekend, crack on. I wouldnt let my daughter out looking like that because its about basic standards of presentation.

Similarly my son does not range about the local neighbourhood presenting as a little road man like some of the other scallies. That is not appropriate presentation either, those clothes and that look has to change, its not allowed.

You cant just say you can do whatever you like and run against social norms because you're a woman.

Datun · 07/09/2026 18:30

Crikey, there's such a lot of fuss about school uniform. It shouldn't be this difficult.

Teenage children are massively concerned with the way they look, so personally, I'd give them as many options as (appropriately) possible.

IF the issue is short skirts and rolling them up, then A) have a rule, which is enforced, and B) maybe some lessons about why girls might do that. It could be viewed as an opportunity, rather than a condemnation.

IwantToRetire · 07/09/2026 18:29

NoisyBrickDog · 07/09/2026 18:23

Are they being forced by the boys to roll their skirts up?

It doesn't matter why or how they roll up their skirts.

If it was an all girls school, unless one really old fashioned notions of modesty, it wouldn't be a problem.

It is because society which only validates boys behaviour is that if they do roll up their skirts "they are asking for it".

And these naughty provocative girls should learn early on that even when it isn't their fault, they will be told it is.

Which is what you are doing.

What sort of "feminist" message is that.

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IwantToRetire · 07/09/2026 18:23

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 18:13

Its nothing to do with boys and their behaviour. Its about ensuring that children, because thats what school girls are, are appropriate dressed and not showing off their bum and underwear.
The woman you make reference to is an adult. I dont think that outfit is appropriate either but she isnt a child, its her responsibility how she presents and what she wears.

Im not a believer that anyone can present how they want and wear what they want, you have to be dressed appropriately in public. Boys with half their arse crack hanging out, with their pants on show - not appropriate, Girls with haif their arse hanging out of their skirt with their pants on show - not appropriate. Its about basic standards of presentation.

Well if I had a daughter I would have for her to be undermined by an enforced notion that what women / girls do is the problem.

Let alone to know which seems to be the case from PP that there are handmaidens to the patriarchy in schools enforcing the notion that because boys dont know how to behave girls have to moderate how they behave and dress.

But I suppose it will prepare them for the future adult female world.

You mean you were out on you own. You mean you drank alcohol. You trusted a taxi firm.

That's pretty sick and depressing to read on a feminist forum.

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NoisyBrickDog · 07/09/2026 18:23

IwantToRetire · 07/09/2026 18:05

Amazing how on a supposedly feminist forum so many are saying it is because women are the problem that this has had to happen.

Just shows that girls shouldn't have to go to school with boys, as it limits their rights!

Are they being forced by the boys to roll their skirts up?

ginasevern · 07/09/2026 18:23

@IwantToRetire "Amazing how on a supposedly feminist forum so many are saying it is because women are the problem that this has had to happen."

Well I guess if girls are going into school showing their arses and knickers, then it is a problem. Boys are going to look aren't they! That's not ingrained misogyny, it's called sexual attraction - which is as old as time. Do you really envisage some kind of futuristic world where men aren't remotely interested in female bodies? If boys were rolling down their trousers to show their underpants or leaving their flies undone, then it would be equally wrong for school and a solution would need to be found.

NoisyBrickDog · 07/09/2026 18:17

Dmsandfloatydress · 07/09/2026 17:48

Newsflash! Male and female bodies are different! Trousers are absolutely fine in the winter but to wear cotton flannel trousers in the summer, for girls, is a health risk which doesnt impact boys the same way, or they would have ensured that they wore shorts for the last 100 years!

How are police and paramedics able to wear work trousers in the summer for 12 hour shifts without getting heat stress...?

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 18:13

IwantToRetire · 07/09/2026 18:08

It is totally about boys.

Given that you can walk down the street and see women women sheer leggings with only a short top which are far more revealing. Rolling a skirt up is nothing.

The problem is boys and parents who cant bring their sons up to behave properly.

And adults need to stop opting for the easy solution, ie blame girls instead of tacking ingrained misogyny.

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Its nothing to do with boys and their behaviour. Its about ensuring that children, because thats what school girls are, are appropriate dressed and not showing off their bum and underwear.
The woman you make reference to is an adult. I dont think that outfit is appropriate either but she isnt a child, its her responsibility how she presents and what she wears.

Im not a believer that anyone can present how they want and wear what they want, you have to be dressed appropriately in public. Boys with half their arse crack hanging out, with their pants on show - not appropriate, Girls with haif their arse hanging out of their skirt with their pants on show - not appropriate. Its about basic standards of presentation.

ChristophersRobins · 07/09/2026 18:13

OhNoooooooooooooooo · 07/09/2026 17:49

... right.

Look at all those girls already wearing trousers fainting every day at school. 😂

Actually, in my school we do tend to have a few heat faints each summer term. It's a small, single form entry primary, and we have 3/4 fainting episodes most summers despite the school size. We have a lot of kids in modest clothing in the school (so not necessarily cultural clothing, but very covered).

It's only ever been girls in the fair few years I've been there and it's only ever our older girls in modest clothing - not most girls by any means, but everyone I remember fainting has been. The combination of jumper, trousers, shirt and head covering does seem to have them fainting (we've had a couple of mums faint on us over the years too in summer). As secondary schools are known for strict rules around jumpers and blazers anyway, I don't think it's a laughable idea that it might lead to overheating to a dangerous degree. (We tend to be begging them to remove clothes due to heat, but for cultural and religious reasons, the older ones prefer to stay in full uniform.)

We spent over a month off uniform this summer, to accommodate a need to be both cool and fully covered to prevent exactly this issue, which isn't going to happen in secondary realistically. I can completely see girls fainting by overheating if they are used to dressing in a cooler way in summer than thick school trousers (because strict uniform rules do not allow for light, wafty linen trousers realistically).

dh280125 · 07/09/2026 18:12

IwantToRetire · 07/09/2026 18:05

Amazing how on a supposedly feminist forum so many are saying it is because women are the problem that this has had to happen.

Just shows that girls shouldn't have to go to school with boys, as it limits their rights!

I hate to, but I'm coming to agree. Mixed schools are really only an advantage to boys.

IwantToRetire · 07/09/2026 18:08

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 18:04

No the problem isnt boys at all. This isnt about boys behaviour

This is about girls putting their bums and knickers on show. Its not appropriate and no one wants to see it. Teachers spend fruitless hours telling them to wear their skirts properly. Wasted time

Wont happen now they're wearing trousers.

It is totally about boys.

Given that you can walk down the street and see women women sheer leggings with only a short top which are far more revealing. Rolling a skirt up is nothing.

The problem is boys and parents who cant bring their sons up to behave properly.

And adults need to stop opting for the easy solution, ie blame girls instead of tacking ingrained misogyny.

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dh280125 · 07/09/2026 18:08

Its ridiculous. If I were a parent there I'd be outraged.

Kroovy · 07/09/2026 18:07

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 18:04

No the problem isnt boys at all. This isnt about boys behaviour

This is about girls putting their bums and knickers on show. Its not appropriate and no one wants to see it. Teachers spend fruitless hours telling them to wear their skirts properly. Wasted time

Wont happen now they're wearing trousers.

I work in schools! I’m in favour of this! Female here too.

IwantToRetire · 07/09/2026 18:05

Amazing how on a supposedly feminist forum so many are saying it is because women are the problem that this has had to happen.

Just shows that girls shouldn't have to go to school with boys, as it limits their rights!

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likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 18:04

IwantToRetire · 07/09/2026 18:00

I think that's what gets me!

Even if girls are rolling up their skirts, the problem is boys.

Because boys dont know how to behave women have to adapt, be made to wear clothes that wont "provoke" men / boys.

What a terrible message to young women growing up.

Some say but it easier for the school in terms of administration.

So again the message is to girls growing up you are just too much trouble.

My hope is that a young boy who insists he is a girl starts a legal action say the school is being transphobic in not allowing him to express his true self.

His court case would probably win. But doubtless girls goint to court would lose.

No the problem isnt boys at all. This isnt about boys behaviour

This is about girls putting their bums and knickers on show. Its not appropriate and no one wants to see it. Teachers spend fruitless hours telling them to wear their skirts properly. Wasted time

Wont happen now they're wearing trousers.

Cobrakainerd · 07/09/2026 18:00

The girls claiming they should wear what they want need to take it up with the girls who have ruined it for everyone by being unable to wear skirts properly.

IwantToRetire · 07/09/2026 18:00

CurlewKate · 07/09/2026 17:52

Trousers are default men’s clothes. Once again, “unisex” means something male that women are allowed to have. Funny how it never works the other way!

I think that's what gets me!

Even if girls are rolling up their skirts, the problem is boys.

Because boys dont know how to behave women have to adapt, be made to wear clothes that wont "provoke" men / boys.

What a terrible message to young women growing up.

Some say but it easier for the school in terms of administration.

So again the message is to girls growing up you are just too much trouble.

My hope is that a young boy who insists he is a girl starts a legal action say the school is being transphobic in not allowing him to express his true self.

His court case would probably win. But doubtless girls goint to court would lose.

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OhNoooooooooooooooo · 07/09/2026 17:59

Dmsandfloatydress · 07/09/2026 17:57

i have no idea which school you are referring too? And simply because one ( private) school decides to make children uncomfortable while they learn that doesnt mean that all children should be??? undoubtedly the private school will have air conditioning whereas our local school was forced to shut for several days as the temp reached 44 in the assembly hall. Therefore , the Guardian article is relevant.

No it's not relevant.

How many girls wearing trousers during the summer months at school have fainted etc BECAUSE they were wearing trousers??

I'll hazard a guess at exactly zero.

hmmdunno · 07/09/2026 17:58

OMG - school mandates what can be worn as part of uniform kind of the point of a uniform

TallSturdyGirls · 07/09/2026 17:58

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 07/09/2026 17:42

Why on earth do girls have to look like boys? They are not boys and if they like skirts, what’s wrong with skirts? Heads should be concerned with improving education, not dictating all girls wear trousers!

Have I stumbled into the Victorian era? I wear trousers and I don't look like a man.

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 17:57

Toodarktooearly · 07/09/2026 17:52

Trousers are so uncomfortable if you have an hourglass figure I hated my school uniform trousers in the 70s but there was such a backlash they were only compulsory for a year. I haven't worn trousers as an adult rarely wear jeans as in haven't owned a pair for 20 years. Forcing girls to wear clothes primarily designed for boys is patently unfair.

Trousers are designed for people with 2 legs

I absolutely hated skirts at school because of chub rub, it was very difficult.

I now never wear skirts

You cant please everyone.