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School brings in trousers only rule for all pupils - schoolgirls said to be in tears ...

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IwantToRetire · 07/09/2026 17:35

Schoolgirls have been left "in tears" after a controversial new uniform rule was enforced at the start of the school year, with furious parents claiming some pupils were stopped from attending lessons.

The row has erupted after Co-op Academies Trust introduced a trousers-only policy across its secondary schools from September.
Some families have refused to accept the change, with pupils at Co-op Academy Failsworth in Oldham arriving for their first day back on Wednesday wearing skirts.

Parents claim that a number of Year 11 girls were not allowed into class, with other pupils affected when they returned on Thursday.

The policy also applies at Co-op Academy Walkden, Co-op Academy Swinton, Co-op Academy North Manchester, Co-op Academy Manchester and Co-op Academy Belle Vue.

Full article https://www.aol.co.uk/articles/schoolgirls-tears-being-turned-away-100800000.html

Schoolgirls 'in tears' after being 'turned away from lessons' over 'ridiculous' skirt rule - AOL

A number of girls at Co-op Academy Failsworth in Oldham have been told they will not be allowed in lessons until they swap their skirts for trousers

https://www.aol.co.uk/articles/schoolgirls-tears-being-turned-away-100800000.html

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Parker231 · 07/09/2026 19:50

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 07/09/2026 17:42

Why on earth do girls have to look like boys? They are not boys and if they like skirts, what’s wrong with skirts? Heads should be concerned with improving education, not dictating all girls wear trousers!

Perhaps if the girls had worn their school skirts correctly, the school wouldn’t move to trousers only. Parents who don’t agree can always apply to a different school.

KittyCorncrake · 07/09/2026 19:49

RoyalCorgi · 07/09/2026 19:43

People keep talking about girls having their "arse" on show. I have never seen this. You'd have to be wearing a very short skirt indeed to display someone's behind.

I'm not really averse to trousers (I rarely wear skirts) but the one objection I can see is that if you're wearing a sanitary towel it can be visible through trousers in the way it isn't in a skirt.

And there really ought to be a decent alternative for the summer - trousers are unbearably hot in warm weather, so there should be an option to wear a summer dress.

I was s teacher until recently. Yes it is not pleasant walking upstairs behinf girls with skirts rolled up ridiculously /you really don’t want to see that. Unpleasant for everyone. And since the hyperbolic ‘everyone’s invited’ we are not allowed to sanction this egregious infringement of uniform rules as the accusation is ‘you were looking at my legs you are a pervert’

CurlewKate · 07/09/2026 19:48

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 19:14

What utter rubbish. Trousers do not make someone one sex or another

Otherwise lipstick and heels would make someone a woman. Is that the case?

No of course it isnt.

Women are not being erased at all.

Women are not being erased. However, they are being asked to conform to traditional male behaviour in a way that men NEVER are. As I said earlier, unisex always means women being allowed to wear/do men’s stuff. Never the other way round.

tomatoplants · 07/09/2026 19:47

RoyalCorgi · 07/09/2026 19:43

People keep talking about girls having their "arse" on show. I have never seen this. You'd have to be wearing a very short skirt indeed to display someone's behind.

I'm not really averse to trousers (I rarely wear skirts) but the one objection I can see is that if you're wearing a sanitary towel it can be visible through trousers in the way it isn't in a skirt.

And there really ought to be a decent alternative for the summer - trousers are unbearably hot in warm weather, so there should be an option to wear a summer dress.

Have you been near a secondary school recently?!

and a summer dress?! Really. It’s the teeniest tiniest boob tube type skirts worn round here with bum cheeks and knickers on show. And likely a san towel if that’s in place too.

Gengha · 07/09/2026 19:47

I do think it’s a stupid rule but a health risk, Jesus Christ, get a grip

tomatoplants · 07/09/2026 19:45

Oh not this again.

in tears?! Goodness. Loads of women wear trousers everyday. No issue. Much easier for schools not having to police the underwear on show by the girls that roll their skirts up so high.

one poster mentioned it’s about boys not behaving. It’s not. It’s not about boys. They’ve done nothing wrong. The girls are not “behaving” by not following the uniform rules. If they followed the rules then they wouldn’t have to wear trousers would they.

RoyalCorgi · 07/09/2026 19:43

People keep talking about girls having their "arse" on show. I have never seen this. You'd have to be wearing a very short skirt indeed to display someone's behind.

I'm not really averse to trousers (I rarely wear skirts) but the one objection I can see is that if you're wearing a sanitary towel it can be visible through trousers in the way it isn't in a skirt.

And there really ought to be a decent alternative for the summer - trousers are unbearably hot in warm weather, so there should be an option to wear a summer dress.

ArabellaScott · 07/09/2026 19:43

Neolara · 07/09/2026 17:38

I think the head teacher should be forced to go shopping for school trousers with 10 different girls who are completely different shapes to see what a nightmare it is to find girls' school trousers that fit

Obviously, not actually. But you get the point.

Wonder if the people bringing in the rule are mostly men?

For exactly this reason, as well as others, I expect this is potentially indirect sex discrimination (have just been reading the EHRC guidance on exactly this)

KittyCorncrake · 07/09/2026 19:37

OhNoooooooooooooooo · 07/09/2026 17:39

In tears..... Jesus Christ, woman up.

This!

Needingarest · 07/09/2026 19:36

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 19:14

What utter rubbish. Trousers do not make someone one sex or another

Otherwise lipstick and heels would make someone a woman. Is that the case?

No of course it isnt.

Women are not being erased at all.

Well some women/girls may feel that way, clearly some do, just as some boys wouldn’t like to if forced to wear a skirt, even if they e.g. may wear a kilt in other situations doesn’t mean they’d be happy being forced to wear a grey school skirt. What’s the justification for not giving people a choice???

BabblingBiddy · 07/09/2026 19:36

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 19:29

Uniforms are not a choice, thats the definition of a uniform. There are plenty of professionals wearing trousers as part of their working uniform.

That wasn't my point though. A uniform can have choices within it and still be uniform.

RockyFraggles · 07/09/2026 19:35

I wonder how many of the girls who are in tears at having to wear trousers as uniform actually wear skirts out of school. I bet very rarely.

In fact, I would bet my house on pretty much every school girl choosing to wear trousers or shorts outside of school the vast majority of the time.

It's really not a big deal if skirts aren't allowed at school.

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 19:29

BabblingBiddy · 07/09/2026 19:19

Surely we campaigned for choice? Forcing girls/women to wear skirts and heels is no different to forcing them to wear trousers.

I hardly ever wear trousers FWIW. I can never find any that fit well and are comfortable. I've also never rolled my skirt up to make it shorter.

Uniforms are not a choice, thats the definition of a uniform. There are plenty of professionals wearing trousers as part of their working uniform.

Weekmindedfool · 07/09/2026 19:28

Give me a break. Our school recently have the option for all girls to wear trousers and now I would say 80% of them prefer to do so.

Maaate · 07/09/2026 19:26

The uniform policy states smart black trousers

But I bet certain types of trousers aren't acceptable - e.g. stretchy, skinny fit or slightly cropped length which a lot of girls find fit better 🤷‍♀️

BabblingBiddy · 07/09/2026 19:19

Ohshitiveturnedintomymother · 07/09/2026 19:12

It’s funny that feminists spent so long campaigning to be allowed to wear trousers and now the so called feminists are aghast at girls wearing them all over again.

it wasn’t that long ago that no girls school
would allow trousers and women in the work place had to wear skirts and heels. Is this really better than trousers?

Surely we campaigned for choice? Forcing girls/women to wear skirts and heels is no different to forcing them to wear trousers.

I hardly ever wear trousers FWIW. I can never find any that fit well and are comfortable. I've also never rolled my skirt up to make it shorter.

AlphabetBird · 07/09/2026 19:18

Amazed to find out I’ve been inadvertently dressing as a man.

School uniform rule changes always trigger a flood of regional newspaper sad face pictures because little Johnny/Jacinta can’t wear their favourite trainers or whatever.

I can’t get excited at all about a school requiring smart black trousers. Many uniforms have trousers for both sexes, and no one on earth will believe that any of the girls in that school can’t find a plain black trouser.

Honestly, I’m most ways I’m anti- uniform, especially where the rules are draconian or excessive. I really don’t think a plain black trouser counts.

Wishesandhorses · 07/09/2026 19:17

Fgs tears over trousers? They'll all own jeans.

The skirts common in the secondary school girls locally are so short they barely cover the bum, it's not appropriate. I've got every sympathy with this. School should be the experience of needing to follow the dress codes that will be entirely normal in most workplaces.

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 19:14

Needingarest · 07/09/2026 19:10

I’m not sure what on earth the school board were thinking imposing this new rule, forcing girls to wear what the boys traditionally wear was always bound to annoy people and reinforce the belief that women’s identity is trying to be erased

What utter rubbish. Trousers do not make someone one sex or another

Otherwise lipstick and heels would make someone a woman. Is that the case?

No of course it isnt.

Women are not being erased at all.

Ohshitiveturnedintomymother · 07/09/2026 19:12

It’s funny that feminists spent so long campaigning to be allowed to wear trousers and now the so called feminists are aghast at girls wearing them all over again.

it wasn’t that long ago that no girls school
would allow trousers and women in the work place had to wear skirts and heels. Is this really better than trousers?

Needingarest · 07/09/2026 19:10

I’m not sure what on earth the school board were thinking imposing this new rule, forcing girls to wear what the boys traditionally wear was always bound to annoy people and reinforce the belief that women’s identity is trying to be erased

jumpingjohnny · 07/09/2026 19:08

Its almost comical how parents are adamant their 5/6/7 year old dd MUST wear shorts under their uniform for modesty, but then a few years later fight for their dd's right to walk around school with their bum cheeks on show!

soddingspiderseason · 07/09/2026 18:43

CurlewKate · 07/09/2026 17:52

Trousers are default men’s clothes. Once again, “unisex” means something male that women are allowed to have. Funny how it never works the other way!

Really?! I rarely wear a skirt or dress these days; smart trousers for the office and jeans the rest of the time. I’m still a woman I think. Clothes are just clothes. Putting on a dress does not make a man a woman or vice versa. Unless I’ve accidentally transitioned?

LlynTegid · 07/09/2026 18:40

Deal with the girls and young women who are rolling up skirts if they wear them and then spend half or more of the day sitting awkwardly or adjusting their clothing.

Deal with the boys and young men who wear their trousers too low so you can see their probably dirty underwear and who fail to realise what this originally signified in men's prisons.

The only thing I can think is wrong here is if parents did not raise objections last term via the formal complaints procedure when the policy was announced.

Skirts of reasonable length should be an option.

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