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School brings in trousers only rule for all pupils - schoolgirls said to be in tears ...

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IwantToRetire · 07/09/2026 17:35

Schoolgirls have been left "in tears" after a controversial new uniform rule was enforced at the start of the school year, with furious parents claiming some pupils were stopped from attending lessons.

The row has erupted after Co-op Academies Trust introduced a trousers-only policy across its secondary schools from September.
Some families have refused to accept the change, with pupils at Co-op Academy Failsworth in Oldham arriving for their first day back on Wednesday wearing skirts.

Parents claim that a number of Year 11 girls were not allowed into class, with other pupils affected when they returned on Thursday.

The policy also applies at Co-op Academy Walkden, Co-op Academy Swinton, Co-op Academy North Manchester, Co-op Academy Manchester and Co-op Academy Belle Vue.

Full article https://www.aol.co.uk/articles/schoolgirls-tears-being-turned-away-100800000.html

Schoolgirls 'in tears' after being 'turned away from lessons' over 'ridiculous' skirt rule - AOL

A number of girls at Co-op Academy Failsworth in Oldham have been told they will not be allowed in lessons until they swap their skirts for trousers

https://www.aol.co.uk/articles/schoolgirls-tears-being-turned-away-100800000.html

OP posts:
jumpingjohnny · 07/09/2026 21:22

I don't understand how periods are 'safer' in skirts. Black trousers where it won't show through are surely 'safer' then risking bleeding down your legs if you're in a skirt?

fashionqueen0123 · 07/09/2026 21:21

IwantToRetire · 07/09/2026 18:29

It doesn't matter why or how they roll up their skirts.

If it was an all girls school, unless one really old fashioned notions of modesty, it wouldn't be a problem.

It is because society which only validates boys behaviour is that if they do roll up their skirts "they are asking for it".

And these naughty provocative girls should learn early on that even when it isn't their fault, they will be told it is.

Which is what you are doing.

What sort of "feminist" message is that.

I agree. I mean look at this…

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-suffolk-49663689

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 21:19

Toodarktooearly · 07/09/2026 21:07

No but you can give them choices, trousers or skirts it's really not hard

Well the kids have ruinedx their chance of a choice havent they. Keep causing problems with the current uniform, its going to change

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 21:18

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 07/09/2026 21:06

Braces and big boobs do not work. The poor lass will just be picking the straps up off her arms all day.

And who sells this nonsense in secondary age sizes? Pinafores are primary school stuff.

Cross over at the back

Anything else?

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 21:18

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 07/09/2026 21:04

I'm sure that most parents don't know how to sew a pinafore dress, nor own a sewing machine.

They wouldnt have to, a school would simply get a school supplier link and specify that as the uniform. Its not rocket science. You really have an obstruction to everything dont you

panolar · 07/09/2026 21:16

OhNoooooooooooooooo · 07/09/2026 21:12

Bit, surely they get too hot and faint? I'm often stepping over be-trousered girls on the street that have passed out....

😂😂😂

OhNoooooooooooooooo · 07/09/2026 21:12

panolar · 07/09/2026 20:54

I judge the parents TBH, well those who object to the trousers I mean. That is just feeding the girls with contrariness for something that's eminently sensible for a school uniform in a mixed sex setting.

Remember it is not mandatory to roll your skirt up to your arse, but I really do think the girls who do this are trying to attract attention from the boys. If they wear trousers that won't happen. You can say that is sexist, I don't care, they have a choice and the amount of time spent policing girls crotch visibility is ridiculous.

As for needing twenty different trouser types for different shapes, easily solved with e.g. barrell leg or jog pant versions. When these girls are floating down the High Street on a Saturday afternoon to meet and gaggle with their mates, none of them are wearing crotch revealing skirts, oh no, so they do like trousers after all!

Bit, surely they get too hot and faint? I'm often stepping over be-trousered girls on the street that have passed out....

tomatoplants · 07/09/2026 21:07

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 07/09/2026 21:04

I'm sure that most parents don't know how to sew a pinafore dress, nor own a sewing machine.

😂😂 you’ll run out of barriers soon.

Toodarktooearly · 07/09/2026 21:07

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 17:57

Trousers are designed for people with 2 legs

I absolutely hated skirts at school because of chub rub, it was very difficult.

I now never wear skirts

You cant please everyone.

No but you can give them choices, trousers or skirts it's really not hard

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 07/09/2026 21:06

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 20:56

Not if they just have bands/braces to hold the skirt bit up, except they're not detachable so the skirt hangs at the length it is and cant be moved upwards

In any case, yet again, a solution found, but a barrier is put in place.

Braces and big boobs do not work. The poor lass will just be picking the straps up off her arms all day.

And who sells this nonsense in secondary age sizes? Pinafores are primary school stuff.

TheBers · 07/09/2026 21:05

Parker231 · 07/09/2026 20:39

DD went to a non uniform school along with millions of girls around the world. She wore jeans or shorts every day from age 4-18 without any issue.

And?
I have literally said my lived experience was different. As will some other girls. Just because your daughter didn’t leak, was always prepared throughout the month and had adequate protection, I can guarantee others won’t.

Theres actually a current TV advert for a sanitary towel that shows the monthly dilemma on “what to wear” in case you think I’m being dramatic.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 07/09/2026 21:04

tomatoplants · 07/09/2026 21:01

I’m sure a fabric can be found to solve this 🙄

I'm sure that most parents don't know how to sew a pinafore dress, nor own a sewing machine.

tomatoplants · 07/09/2026 21:03

panolar · 07/09/2026 20:54

I judge the parents TBH, well those who object to the trousers I mean. That is just feeding the girls with contrariness for something that's eminently sensible for a school uniform in a mixed sex setting.

Remember it is not mandatory to roll your skirt up to your arse, but I really do think the girls who do this are trying to attract attention from the boys. If they wear trousers that won't happen. You can say that is sexist, I don't care, they have a choice and the amount of time spent policing girls crotch visibility is ridiculous.

As for needing twenty different trouser types for different shapes, easily solved with e.g. barrell leg or jog pant versions. When these girls are floating down the High Street on a Saturday afternoon to meet and gaggle with their mates, none of them are wearing crotch revealing skirts, oh no, so they do like trousers after all!

I had stretchy bootcut style trousers at school. Really comfy and stopped the thigh rub from wearing skirts.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 07/09/2026 21:02

Meanwhile, my all-girl school refused to let the girls wear trousers unless the girl was in a wheelchair until the current decade. The girls campaigned for trousers continuously from before my time until finally the governors gave in. That's a minimum of 35 years fighting for what these girls are rejecting.

I hated it. Chub rub and the "razor cuts or bullying about leg hair" dilemma in the summer, itchy tights that laddered in the winter, having to worry about how I sat all the time, and having ice blocks for feet for most of the year.

I would have loved trousers.

tomatoplants · 07/09/2026 21:01

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 07/09/2026 20:55

The problem with pinafores is that they make your whole torso too hot.

I’m sure a fabric can be found to solve this 🙄

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 20:56

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 07/09/2026 20:55

The problem with pinafores is that they make your whole torso too hot.

Not if they just have bands/braces to hold the skirt bit up, except they're not detachable so the skirt hangs at the length it is and cant be moved upwards

In any case, yet again, a solution found, but a barrier is put in place.

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 20:55

panolar · 07/09/2026 20:54

I judge the parents TBH, well those who object to the trousers I mean. That is just feeding the girls with contrariness for something that's eminently sensible for a school uniform in a mixed sex setting.

Remember it is not mandatory to roll your skirt up to your arse, but I really do think the girls who do this are trying to attract attention from the boys. If they wear trousers that won't happen. You can say that is sexist, I don't care, they have a choice and the amount of time spent policing girls crotch visibility is ridiculous.

As for needing twenty different trouser types for different shapes, easily solved with e.g. barrell leg or jog pant versions. When these girls are floating down the High Street on a Saturday afternoon to meet and gaggle with their mates, none of them are wearing crotch revealing skirts, oh no, so they do like trousers after all!

Its not sexist to say girls are showing off their knickers and bums for the boys. Its a fact. Its human nature but its also human responsbility for the grown ups to take charge and say, no you're not doing that. So trousers it is.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 07/09/2026 20:55

tomatoplants · 07/09/2026 20:51

But if girls just adhered to the rules then we wouldn’t even be discussing this.

if girls are so desperate to wear skirts due to periods or fainting or whatever then I agree with another poster to bring back the pinafore (knee length). Then they can’t be hitched. Pinafore or trousers for all.

The problem with pinafores is that they make your whole torso too hot.

panolar · 07/09/2026 20:54

ArabellaScott · 07/09/2026 20:43

The judging of young girls on here is bloody awful.

I judge the parents TBH, well those who object to the trousers I mean. That is just feeding the girls with contrariness for something that's eminently sensible for a school uniform in a mixed sex setting.

Remember it is not mandatory to roll your skirt up to your arse, but I really do think the girls who do this are trying to attract attention from the boys. If they wear trousers that won't happen. You can say that is sexist, I don't care, they have a choice and the amount of time spent policing girls crotch visibility is ridiculous.

As for needing twenty different trouser types for different shapes, easily solved with e.g. barrell leg or jog pant versions. When these girls are floating down the High Street on a Saturday afternoon to meet and gaggle with their mates, none of them are wearing crotch revealing skirts, oh no, so they do like trousers after all!

tomatoplants · 07/09/2026 20:53

QueenietheGreat · 07/09/2026 20:29

@IwantToRetire
In the name of 'equality' lets
Make it so all the boys have to wear kilts.......

And allow them to hitch them up so high it’s all on show. Wonder what the response from people would be then?!

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 07/09/2026 20:53

IwantToRetire · 07/09/2026 18:05

Amazing how on a supposedly feminist forum so many are saying it is because women are the problem that this has had to happen.

Just shows that girls shouldn't have to go to school with boys, as it limits their rights!

Girls shouldn't have to go to school with boys because boys pose a sexual assault risk.

tomatoplants · 07/09/2026 20:52

CurlewKate · 07/09/2026 20:31

So why is it being standardised as default male? And why are girls being told to moderate male behaviour? Get boys to stop upskirting, rather than get girls to change their behaviour.

Edited

This isn’t about boys.

girls aren’t following uniform rules. Schools sick of wasting time managing it - solution is trousers.

tomatoplants · 07/09/2026 20:51

TheBers · 07/09/2026 20:30

Loads of women wear trousers everyday. No issue.

Yeah but as an adult female you have choices about how you deal with periods.

As a teen girl I didn’t even have a choice about towels or tampons because we lived miles from shops. Thick tights and a skirt saved my embarrassment a few times when I wasn’t prepared.
I know schools are equipped these days but trousers are still unforgiving of random bleeds.

But if girls just adhered to the rules then we wouldn’t even be discussing this.

if girls are so desperate to wear skirts due to periods or fainting or whatever then I agree with another poster to bring back the pinafore (knee length). Then they can’t be hitched. Pinafore or trousers for all.

ArabellaScott · 07/09/2026 20:43

The judging of young girls on here is bloody awful.

SchadenFreude8 · 07/09/2026 20:42

CurlewKate · 07/09/2026 19:48

Women are not being erased. However, they are being asked to conform to traditional male behaviour in a way that men NEVER are. As I said earlier, unisex always means women being allowed to wear/do men’s stuff. Never the other way round.

Your comment about girls/women being asked to conform reminded me of a story earlier this year about a girl's schools that was due to start admitting boys. The uniform included a pink shirt but on the admission of boys, the decision was made to change the uniform shirt to blue.