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Thoughts on a video that claims that women’s spaces should validate trans women?

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aquapod · 26/08/2026 17:22

On YouTube the other day I was served a video by a trans identified male (Transgender Positivity) who was speaking about his experience of using women's spaces and how he feels about the rise of unisex bathrooms in the UK.

I assume I was shown this video because I sometimes have watched gender critical content. Anyway in this video he talks about how he is disappointed and unhappy with unisex bathrooms because he felt very validated being allowed to use women's single sex spaces and it helped him get over his feelings of "imposter syndrome".

He also said that unisex bathrooms reduce the chance of meaningful interaction and humbling experiences in public spaces and between different kinds of people meaning that even if women object to men in their single sex spaces its basically good for them to have to tolerate men like him in them.

His title literally says "female spaces are my spaces" and the whole gist of his argument is that he no longer feels validated using a unisex bathroom even if it is perfectly safe for him to do so. It also seems he misses the chance to humble and educate women by imposing himself on them in their single sex spaces.

He seems to live in Poland most of the time but is British by birth. He doesn't seem to give a damn about how actual women might feel or what they might want, it's all about him and his desires as per usual.

OP posts:
allgoodhere783 · 26/08/2026 17:28

It's funny how everyone hates unisex bathrooms though!

Women- don't want to share with men, having men pee on the seats, risk of assault

Men- have longer queues and no urinals means it takes longer. Not to mention risk of being accused of SA

Trans- no validation - hahahah!

MrsOvertonsWindow · 26/08/2026 17:28

Welcome to Mumsnet OP.

Must we listen to yet another tedious man trying to erode women's rights and the safeguarding of girls and women?

Boiledbeetle · 26/08/2026 17:27

Anyway in this video he talks about how he is disappointed and unhappy with unisex bathrooms because he felt very validated being allowed to use women's single sex spaces and it helped him get over his feelings of "imposter syndrome".

🤔🙄🤐

allgoodhere783 · 26/08/2026 17:26

🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢

RoseInAPot · 26/08/2026 17:25

Well he can just fuck off then. I cba to watch any of his nonsense.

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