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The small community of Millport is to have an LGBT+ pride. Thoughts?

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MintBird · 22/08/2026 22:17

Millport is on Cumbrae (don't confuse with Cumbria)- a small island on the West of Scotland coast, population not much over 1,000 with a lot of elderly. It's the only town on the island so most people generally just say Millport. As one of the more Southern islands and its small size it is popular for tourists and cycling.

So they are going to have their first ever pride on Sep 12th. Pride events usually happen in cities so it's unusual for one to take place in a small island with a lot of elderly and Christian residents. Some on social media are complaining the "ideology is being pushed on small island communities" whilst others are saying Ayrshire is a decade behind Glasgow in terms of LGBT acceptance with men or boys being targeted even for discreetly holding hands.

https://millportpride.wixsite.com/millport-pride

www.heraldscotland.com/news/26252152.millport-host-first-ever-pride-festival-september/

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https://millportpride.wixsite.com/millport-pride

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ArabellaScott · 13/09/2026 11:00

MintBird · 13/09/2026 00:43

I saw a video of the parade.

There weren't any "puppy masks" or "men in chains" (sorry to disappoint) but there looked like a lot of happy locals waving pride flags- including the progress flag with the chevrons and the trans flag.

'Looked like a lot of happy locals'

How can you tell?

greenocklass · 13/09/2026 09:54

ArabellaScott · 12/09/2026 10:49

It's a nice idea.

And these remote Pride marches are nothing like the big city ones. There will be mostly a bunch of rainbow flags, well meaning people, trade unions and some corporate teams, and one or two drag queens and men dressed as women. Activists on best behaviour, no antagonism. It's the lovebombing aspect of the movement. The kind of march the politicians used to go on. No furries. No arses hanging out.

Having seen photos and video on local Facebook groups this pretty much sums it up. Didn’t spot any of the nasty fetish/furry folks, just lots of rainbows and an EIS banner. A couple of blokes in wigs. Pride like this is fine, if only it had stayed that way everywhere and didn’t now represent the issues we have seen in recent years more than it’s original intention which means many of us cannot support.

UnaGatita · 13/09/2026 05:58

ArabellaScott · 12/09/2026 10:36

The Drop In Centre, College Street
Pop by between 12.30pm-4pm
Young Adults 12-25 years
NAC Activity led Safe Inclusion Zone

12 to 25 is an odd age range. What 25 year old wants to hang out with 12 year olds?

When did a 12 year old become a young adult?

StylesSluttyShorts · 13/09/2026 01:52

I saw one too, they all looked a bit bored.

MintBird · 13/09/2026 00:43

INeedAPensieve · 12/09/2026 21:40

How did it go then @Womensacuriousarticle ? Was it celebrating LGB or was it just about T+ and did the locals pretty much ignore it? I have distant relatives on millport plus lots of closer family connections, I don't imagine they'd have been pleased with men parading about in chains, leather and puppy masks (like at Glasgow pride). If it was genuinely to celebrate same sex relationships as just like everyone else, then fair dos. It sounded from your previous posts though that it wasn't going to be...

I saw a video of the parade.

There weren't any "puppy masks" or "men in chains" (sorry to disappoint) but there looked like a lot of happy locals waving pride flags- including the progress flag with the chevrons and the trans flag.

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INeedAPensieve · 12/09/2026 21:40

How did it go then @Womensacuriousarticle ? Was it celebrating LGB or was it just about T+ and did the locals pretty much ignore it? I have distant relatives on millport plus lots of closer family connections, I don't imagine they'd have been pleased with men parading about in chains, leather and puppy masks (like at Glasgow pride). If it was genuinely to celebrate same sex relationships as just like everyone else, then fair dos. It sounded from your previous posts though that it wasn't going to be...

ArabellaScott · 12/09/2026 11:20

Hopefully a Wiki link will not trip whatever caused the auto-hide:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sisters_of_Perpetual_Indulgence

Ian Dunn named here as a 'Saint'.

Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sisters_of_Perpetual_Indulgence

ArabellaScott · 12/09/2026 11:15

Oh. Okay.

I posted a link to a blog on the history of the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence. Auto hidden.

Ian Dunn was involved way back when.

ArabellaScott · 12/09/2026 11:14

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Rollingpinofdoom · 12/09/2026 10:52

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 23/08/2026 11:49

Sounds like it's more needed there than anywhere else. Pride in cities is often very corporate, this sounds far more organic and homegrown.

It will really help LGBT children who daren't come out, and sounds fun. Hope everyone has a good time.

You seem very interested in the sexuality of children. Is this a bug or a feature?

ArabellaScott · 12/09/2026 10:49

PriOn1 · 23/08/2026 19:35

It was a good while ago now, but when my neighbours’ daughter came out as a lesbian when still in her mid-teens, her parents took her to the Pride march in the nearby (small) city and marched with her, which I honestly thought was lovely.

I also have lesbian friends on Facebook who March every year and seem to have a great time.

I hope it’s a lovely occasion where positivity dominates.

It's a nice idea.

And these remote Pride marches are nothing like the big city ones. There will be mostly a bunch of rainbow flags, well meaning people, trade unions and some corporate teams, and one or two drag queens and men dressed as women. Activists on best behaviour, no antagonism. It's the lovebombing aspect of the movement. The kind of march the politicians used to go on. No furries. No arses hanging out.

ArabellaScott · 12/09/2026 10:45

Anyone I've spoken to locally has just done a wee eye roll.

Ignore it and it goes away, is the general feeling I get.

Igneococcus · 12/09/2026 10:40

ArabellaScott · 12/09/2026 10:28

This is much how I hear it went down on Bute, and Oban.

Glasgow marchers bussed in. In fact the Waverly even brought a load.

I know someone who travelled up to Oban. A straight person with a lanyard.

Locals just stayed clear apart from the small handful of those involved.

It's manufactured consent, I suppose. Gives the appearance of nationwide movement by reusing the same busload of people with a bunch of polyester flags and whistles.

Potemkin villages.

There was very little on the local FB sites. In previous years several local organisations and businesses got involved and posted about it on their social media. I saw nothing this year. There is one shop that had rainbow bunting up that I saw, I might have missed some.

ArabellaScott · 12/09/2026 10:36

The Drop In Centre, College Street
Pop by between 12.30pm-4pm
Young Adults 12-25 years
NAC Activity led Safe Inclusion Zone

12 to 25 is an odd age range. What 25 year old wants to hang out with 12 year olds?

ArabellaScott · 12/09/2026 10:29

Igneococcus · 12/09/2026 09:03

The Oban Pride this year had someone called Sister Alaska of the Haus of Nunsense leading a "moment of noise", something about to show the right wing fascists to show that they are still here. I see if I find the Oban Times report on it somewhere.
I have honestly no idea how this is helping some local gay kid.

That's the Order of Perpetual Indulgence. A dodgy bunch.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sisters_of_Perpetual_Indulgence

ArabellaScott · 12/09/2026 10:28

Womensacuriousarticle · 11/09/2026 19:33

I'm on Millport, and with 20+ years connection to the island. Grew up just over the water from the island. I know the area and the people.

I can tell you this much. The native islanders - most of them families who've been here for generations, and the elderly west of Scotlanders who have retired here, most of whom have been desperate their whole working lives to get to retire here, and the most frequent island visitors - don't want this event.

But they don't want to have to deal with the people behind the event.

The people behind this are not from the island. They are seen as an annoying, hyper woke pestilence, doing the usual meddling and imposing that incomers do, and best ignored.
No-one wants anything to do with them, except the few other incomers.

The island businesses will take their money tomorrow, and tolerate them. But aside from the one pub known locally to be gay friendly, where the flags would be expected - on this night before the event, there are no flags on the streets of the town, and only a few windows with small A5 size posters.

If there are any numbers tomorrow, the majority will have been boated in from elsewhere. They will not be islanders.

This is much how I hear it went down on Bute, and Oban.

Glasgow marchers bussed in. In fact the Waverly even brought a load.

I know someone who travelled up to Oban. A straight person with a lanyard.

Locals just stayed clear apart from the small handful of those involved.

It's manufactured consent, I suppose. Gives the appearance of nationwide movement by reusing the same busload of people with a bunch of polyester flags and whistles.

Potemkin villages.

borntobequiet · 12/09/2026 09:18

Igneococcus · 12/09/2026 09:03

The Oban Pride this year had someone called Sister Alaska of the Haus of Nunsense leading a "moment of noise", something about to show the right wing fascists to show that they are still here. I see if I find the Oban Times report on it somewhere.
I have honestly no idea how this is helping some local gay kid.

Sister Alaska of the Haus of Nunsense

Anyone who has read Terry Pratchett’s The Truth might be reminded here of “Sister Jennifer” of the Little Flowers of Perpetual Annoyance, “she” of the rotating eyeballs. Except of course Pratchett is fantasy, and funny.

Igneococcus · 12/09/2026 09:03

The Oban Pride this year had someone called Sister Alaska of the Haus of Nunsense leading a "moment of noise", something about to show the right wing fascists to show that they are still here. I see if I find the Oban Times report on it somewhere.
I have honestly no idea how this is helping some local gay kid.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/09/2026 08:47

Interesting context, thank you.

Womensacuriousarticle · 11/09/2026 20:06

Mammut · 23/08/2026 10:49

Not sure that it’s a particularly ‘christian’ community? And don’t see any problem with a Pride event on the island.

An LGB only pride wouldn't be a problem.

But we all know what the organisers of this event is pushing, and it's not LGB pride.The islanders don't know the half of it, and why would they - the island is a place of sanity away from the madness and evils and shit in the world and that's why it's been so beloved by Glaswegians and Clyde coasters and west of Scotland folk for so many generations. Peace and respite.

Womensacuriousarticle · 11/09/2026 19:58

DoYouSellBuckets · 23/08/2026 10:11

How lovely! So nice to see grassroots celebrations and community events like this!

It's nothing like grass roots, and it's not an event run by the community of Millport.

Womensacuriousarticle · 11/09/2026 19:57

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 23/08/2026 09:56

I don't see a problem with this either. It'll be a day out for most participants, very similar to this one a few miles to the south: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-glasgow-west-61605733

I've never been there at the right time to observe it, but having spent a great deal of time on Arran over the last quarter of a century I'd be amazed if everybody participating was resident there. It's a small place with a lot of elderly people but also a lot of slightly alternative types, a huge number of visitors and a fair number of high profile businesses run by gay men. In many ways it's not surprising that this has been set up. I see they've lent their equipment to the Millport Pride and encouraged their followers to go. I hope everybody has a lovely day.

Arran natives dind't want this any more than Millport does.

These are incomers imposing their will as they always do. Nobody who's an actual islander wants to engage with them.

Womensacuriousarticle · 11/09/2026 19:50

jackstini · 23/08/2026 08:25

Well the elderly can also be LGBTQ, and I know a lot of Christians who also are

Plus anyone can support Pride - there must be some desire for it to be happening

Are you against it for a personal reason?

😅The vast majority of the elderly on Millport are there because they speciafically choose to be there.

The sudden desire for a pride event is certainly not coming from the Millport elderly!

Womensacuriousarticle · 11/09/2026 19:44

AstonUniversityPotholeDepartment · 22/08/2026 23:33

By your description, it sounds like a grassroots event spearheaded by passionate locals. Good on them.

😂It SO isnt!

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