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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

'Pregnant people'

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StickySundew · 18/08/2026 18:01

I know there are more important battles, but this pisses me off and we've learned that gender-centric language is used as a wedge.

Only women get pregnant. Don't try to erase the relevance of female sex. This doesn't happen to men - all the info my friend with prostate cancer gets refers to men with prostate cancer, not 'people with prostate cancer'. There'd be outrage and a lot of hurt if someone tried to set up support for 'people with prostate cancer'.

This time it was the Food Standards Agency, issuing a reminder about the groups most at risk from salmonella poisoning.

I just wanted to let off steam.

So that I have a bit more excuse, let's have an utterly pointless voodoo poll to see how many enablers and TRAs are hanging around.

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RowsOfFlowers · 26/08/2026 09:42

I agree tbh. I think it’s nonsense. I’ve dreamed of becoming a mother and now I’m finally getting to experience it, the word women isn’t even being used. I feel betrayed and disappointed.

6ate9 · 26/08/2026 09:39

@RowsOfFlowersnon-biological women”. No such thing!

They are MEN!!

CreativeGreen · 26/08/2026 09:16

Once the NHS can provide safe good quality maternity care for all women and babies, then maybe they can indulge themselves with irrelevant luxury beliefs demanded by the trans lobbyists. Until then they have one job - and that's to improve safety and outcomes for women and babies - everything else is a distraction from that core purpose.

yes. Every time there’s some new report or scandal about babies dying because women were ignored, women left maimed after awful treatment, women enduring painful procedures that leave them traumatised, there’ll be some representative on Woman’s Hour explaining how they’re going to do better and then referring to “pregnant people” in the same breath. Tell me you’re not taking this seriously without …. Well, actually, by refusing to use the word that is the most relevant and necessary here

Peregrina · 26/08/2026 08:53

Once the NHS can provide safe good quality maternity care for all women and babies, then maybe they can indulge themselves with irrelevant luxury beliefs demanded by the trans lobbyists. Until then they have one job - and that's to improve safety and outcomes for women and babies - everything else is a distraction from that core purpose.

Couldn't agree more. We have been complaining about the standards in maternity care for at least 50 years, and "lessons will be learnt" and bugger all happens.

And I am quite sure if middle - aged white males could get pregnant, the standards would change.

iwishitwouldstartraining · 26/08/2026 08:51

RowsOfFlowers · 26/08/2026 08:13

What I don’t understand is if they want to include non biological women, why can’t they say “women and pregnant people” “women and birthing people” ??

this to me, is much more inclusive language… and women don’t get erased.

Because it's like saying 'The UK and Scotland'

It doesn't make sense, unless you are trying to force ideology or politics on people.

6ate9 · 26/08/2026 08:46

RowsOfFlowers · 26/08/2026 08:13

What I don’t understand is if they want to include non biological women, why can’t they say “women and pregnant people” “women and birthing people” ??

this to me, is much more inclusive language… and women don’t get erased.

“women and pregnant people” “women and birthing people””

One word, ‘women’ would cover all that. No need for the added ‘pregnant people’ or ‘birthing people’!

RowsOfFlowers · 26/08/2026 08:13

What I don’t understand is if they want to include non biological women, why can’t they say “women and pregnant people” “women and birthing people” ??

this to me, is much more inclusive language… and women don’t get erased.

ElenOfTheWays · 26/08/2026 02:26

CreativeGreen · 25/08/2026 17:01

It’s not trans men that are the issue tbf - I think most feminists who are sex realists would very much welcome trans men in any woman-only setting

I think the reason for egregious language mangling like this is much more to do with concerns that trans identified males won’t accept the word “woman” being used in contexts that exclude them

In a nutshell.

NibliaBiblia · 25/08/2026 22:28

AstonCanKissMyArse · 25/08/2026 22:25

Bloody hell plese tell me that wasn't on an official communication?

No but it's sadly popular on some podcasts etc. I did see one midwife quoted on a report who said women and birthing people but because that was too wordy it turned into WBP for the rest of her comment. She used WBP about six times in a few paragraphs! Better to be a person than an acronym I guess 🤦‍♀️

AstonCanKissMyArse · 25/08/2026 22:25

NibliaBiblia · 25/08/2026 22:20

Birthers is my worst one. Not even people 😭

Bloody hell plese tell me that wasn't on an official communication?

NibliaBiblia · 25/08/2026 22:20

6ate9 · 18/08/2026 20:17

And birthing people!!

Birthers is my worst one. Not even people 😭

AstonCanKissMyArse · 25/08/2026 21:59

Also 'actress' was a euphemism for prostituted woman in some circles.

And most women prefer words to describe their profession that don't draw attention to their sex - because of sexism. Acting ability has sod all to do with sex.

Unlike pregnancy.

Sometimes sex is relevant and sexual differences are important and we would like it to be recognised - because when it isn't, women lose out.

Where its not relevant, great, ignore it.

Its not the gotcha that some people think it is!

iwishitwouldstartraining · 25/08/2026 20:53

chirrupybird · 25/08/2026 20:12

But also women don't wat to be women, we can't call a woman an actress any more they are an actor, why?

We do still use the word 'actress', but the reasoning behind using the word 'actor' instead is that both men and women act.

However, men and women do not have the same internal organs and physiology, and this matters to medical care.

Sometimes sex is relevant, sometimes it isn't.

SirChenjins · 25/08/2026 20:40

chirrupybird · 25/08/2026 20:19

Why does it make any difference to your care if you are a person (woman) or a woman (woman). If the care is bad or good that's what it is, the word used makes no difference.

If an NHS service uses incorrect terminology to describe something that only women can do then I worry that they are more concerned about centering the rights of a tiny minority rather than upholding the rights of a far greater number of women. Could it mean, for example, that they ignore the legislation around single sex spaces in the hospital? Is there a risk that requests from women for a female midwife or Dr might be ignored? Remember Dr Upton was clear that he would continue treating women even if they wanted a female Dr - and his managers supported him in that.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 25/08/2026 20:36

chirrupybird · 25/08/2026 20:19

Why does it make any difference to your care if you are a person (woman) or a woman (woman). If the care is bad or good that's what it is, the word used makes no difference.

The NHS care for pregnant women and new borns is appalling on any scale with countless enquiries and recommendations. The idea that medics caring for mothers and babies should spend endless hours writing or learning policies that mangle factual sex based language and divert from their core purpose is completely unacceptable.

Once the NHS can provide safe good quality maternity care for all women and babies, then maybe they can indulge themselves with irrelevant luxury beliefs demanded by the trans lobbyists. Until then they have one job - and that's to improve safety and outcomes for women and babies - everything else is a distraction from that core purpose.

CreativeGreen · 25/08/2026 20:28

chirrupybird · 25/08/2026 20:19

Why does it make any difference to your care if you are a person (woman) or a woman (woman). If the care is bad or good that's what it is, the word used makes no difference.

Because if the care given is apparently less important than the imperative of not offending trans identified people, it probably isn’t as good as it might be

CreativeGreen · 25/08/2026 20:27

chirrupybird · 25/08/2026 20:12

But also women don't wat to be women, we can't call a woman an actress any more they are an actor, why?

I think there are good arguments on both sides about actor/actress. I always thought the argument that you wouldn’t say teacheress or doctoress was compelling, but I do also see the point that “actress” is specifically someone who plays women

but it doesn’t mean anyone who objected to being called an actress would also object to being correctly identified as a woman in a gynaecological or obstetric context

chirrupybird · 25/08/2026 20:19

MrsOvertonsWindow · 25/08/2026 19:52

That shows how little you know about pregnancy and childbirth. Women can tell you that far too many of our shockingly appalling NHS maternity services are drowning with all sorts of anti women language and rhetoric instead of focussing on providing safe maternity care that doesn't kill women and babies.

Maybe spend a bit of time on Mumsnt listening to women - you'd be amazed what you can learn.

Why does it make any difference to your care if you are a person (woman) or a woman (woman). If the care is bad or good that's what it is, the word used makes no difference.

chirrupybird · 25/08/2026 20:12

But also women don't wat to be women, we can't call a woman an actress any more they are an actor, why?

StickySundew · 25/08/2026 19:52

FFS. More than 35 new posts since I last checked. I assume mostly the usual dialogue of the deaf and stubborn, but as I started the thread I'll try to have a read later and respond if it seems worthwhile.

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MrsOvertonsWindow · 25/08/2026 19:52

Mouldemort · 25/08/2026 14:41

Feminism is the radical notion that women are people.

This phrasing emphasises their humanity and makes it more likely they will be taken seriously. But it also describes, 12-year-old girls who get pregnant through rape. And, obviously, trans men and some non-binary people can get pregnant. Most pregnant people are women. Some are girls., Some are neither. "Women are not people" is a very weird hill to die on.

The NHS for example, will use the language that an individual prefers. No midwife is going to call you a pregnant person or talk about chest feeding unless you want it.

That shows how little you know about pregnancy and childbirth. Women can tell you that far too many of our shockingly appalling NHS maternity services are drowning with all sorts of anti women language and rhetoric instead of focussing on providing safe maternity care that doesn't kill women and babies.

Maybe spend a bit of time on Mumsnt listening to women - you'd be amazed what you can learn.

borntobequiet · 25/08/2026 18:25

Mouldemort · 25/08/2026 15:32

A women, as gender critical people as so fond of saying, is an adult human female, so no pregnant person under 18 is a woman. Some girls get pregnant. “Person” covers everyone.

Biologically, an adult is an individual who has reached sexual maturity, so a pregnant human female is an adult in that sense, and a woman by definition.

6ate9 · 25/08/2026 18:06

onlytherain · 25/08/2026 18:03

@Mouldemort “Trans men, who have a uterus and ovaries can also become pregnant.”

Trans men are women, hence the name "trans men", not "men". Biologically they are - and always will be - female.

We have not changed the language for autistic people (2-3% of the population), people with ADHD (5%), dyslexic people (10%), people with severe trauma (11%). Why should we change it for 0.13%, when this change would simultaneously disadvantage 50% of the population - 50% who are also often suffer discrimination?

It’s very simple, men are more important than women! It’s unfair, but we women must ‘know our place’!

onlytherain · 25/08/2026 18:03

@Mouldemort “Trans men, who have a uterus and ovaries can also become pregnant.”

Trans men are women, hence the name "trans men", not "men". Biologically they are - and always will be - female.

We have not changed the language for autistic people (2-3% of the population), people with ADHD (5%), dyslexic people (10%), people with severe trauma (11%). Why should we change it for 0.13%, when this change would simultaneously disadvantage 50% of the population - 50% who are also often suffer discrimination?

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