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Jo R’rith’s comments on trans anxiety, public spaces and current guidance

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TBATST · 17/08/2026 19:57

This just up on socials from Jo:

"Regular viewers to "The Jo R'rith Show" will know I suffer a great deal from anxiety attacks, and PTSD from events that began in 2015. Viewers are probably also familiar with my status as a trans woman in Britain, a country that in that time has become increasingly transphobic and bigoted.

Y'all may also be familiar with my costuming/cosplaying/fancy dress or whatever you want to call it, particularly my Uruk-Hai Orc costume. But what you may not realise is that they all intersect - I have anxiety attacks because I am a trans woman in a country that is abusive towards trans people and is trying to segregate us from the rest of the population. I travel to and from events where I wear my costumes, risking transphobic abuse and hatred for being trans. Only when Im in my costume do I get any respite from the fear and anxiety, basically because I'm unrecognisable beneath said costume, and because no one feels confident enough to have a go at the intimidating Uruk-Hai General wearing armour standing before them.

But my anxiety is strong, sometimes overpowering, and that's before the new EHRC guidance on how to be a bigoted cockwomble towards trans people, is included. You see I, like a great many trans people; know my rights and the law. I know that I haven't been banned from female toilets or changing spaces, but I also know that you, Joe Public, don't know that; because you've been fed a shit tonne of lies by the Press, and by TERFs telling you different, and Im sure that, if they find this post; some TERF cockwomble will erroneously claim that it is against the law, but they're lying So that means every time I use a public space, say the female toilets at a services or the like, then I run the risk of encountering someone who thinks I shouldnt be there, and so anxiety, panic and my PTSD."

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MrsOvertonsWindow · 19/08/2026 13:03

BoreOfWhabylon · 19/08/2026 12:34

I'm informed by MNHQ that the OP won't be returning Wink
They're leaving the thread up because it would be criminal to lose posts like the Scooby Doo one Grin

Well done to MNHQ for all their efforts in tackling so many bad faith trolls in recent weeks.
It must be so time consuming but then these posters aren't the brightest. This OP on another thread posted a lengthy rambling comment forgetting that one of his mates had posted this much earlier on in the thread. 1/10 for effort.

But they do offer posters many opportunities for entertainment (and recipes) as well as generating incredibly articulate and thoughtful posts about women's rights. And of course Scooby Doo posts 😂

BoreOfWhabylon · 19/08/2026 12:34

I'm informed by MNHQ that the OP won't be returning Wink
They're leaving the thread up because it would be criminal to lose posts like the Scooby Doo one Grin

ArabellaScott · 19/08/2026 10:59

SlackJawedDisbeliefXY · 19/08/2026 10:49

I'm still chuckling at the Scooby Doo pronunciation for R'rith - genius

100%

SlackJawedDisbeliefXY · 19/08/2026 10:49

I'm still chuckling at the Scooby Doo pronunciation for R'rith - genius

Shedmistress · 19/08/2026 09:53

Posting it on here would fit the MO

ArabellaScott · 19/08/2026 09:49

Some men just enjoy scaring and intimidating women.

Igmum · 19/08/2026 09:15

RedToothBrush · 18/08/2026 09:22

"I am anxious so I knowingly wear stuff that intimidates others so they are silenced into not commenting. It makes me feel better.

And then I walk into the ladies".

Yup. And here he is doing just that. Not sure I’d want to see either incarnation anywhere near me while I was in a state of undress.

And am I the only one who thinks the OP is Jo R’r? He doesn’t have many instagram likes so not sure his ‘show’ - assuming that’s not of euphemism for life - has many viewers.

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Jo R’rith’s comments on trans anxiety, public spaces and current guidance
FlirtsWithRhinos · 18/08/2026 23:57

She's all kinds of fabulous 👌

Boiledbeetle · 18/08/2026 23:22

DialSquare · 18/08/2026 08:47

And a gold lamé handbag

I'm not too sure about the handbag.

Jo R’rith’s comments on trans anxiety, public spaces and current guidance
Boiledbeetle · 18/08/2026 23:13

JamesKirkupReviewWritersFund · 17/08/2026 22:20

My eyes!

Jo the Orc's insta account shows marmite spread on the top of a shop bought Xmas mince pie. The depravity knows no bounds.

(said as a marmite lover but........ some things are just too much)

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Ooh I quite like the sound of that. Probably the munchies kicking in though. Thankfully I'll have forgotten by the time I next have mince pies in the house

Boiledbeetle · 18/08/2026 23:11

I've got to stop reading threads like this when I'm stoned.

BinturongsSmellOfPopcorn · 18/08/2026 22:44

Dadalus · 17/08/2026 20:37

I never got why fantasy authors put random punctuation into the names of character or species. If in your fantasy world, the humans had to translate some otherworldy name they'd heard into English, why wouldn't just do it phonetically? Who does the apostrophe help?

I generally assume it's in place of a glottle stop - as with the Lepsius letters. Or a sound we don't have a letter for in the Roman alphabet and they couldn't be bothered to check whether Lepsius or Paleotype had it covered. Fantasy authors, with one or two notable exceptions, tend to lack philological rigour.

As for the OP,

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Grammarnut · 18/08/2026 22:09

TBATST · 17/08/2026 20:11

And what do we think about their claims of PTSD? Also to be mocked, do you think?

Easily dealt with. Stay out of women's spaces.

Davros · 18/08/2026 14:33

@Abhannmor “by the sons of Warvan, you shall be avenged.”
I don’t know how to spell Warvan. My pronouns are dumb/dumber

murasaki · 18/08/2026 13:57

slug · 18/08/2026 13:44

Indeed. The story is, he was at a one day cricket match in the Basin Reserve in Wellington. The basin is just that, a basin shaped grounds with really good acoustics.

At the lunch break the production team from Lord of the Rings turned up and set up microphones all round the perimiter. They then got the crown to stamp and grunt in unison. So that sound of the orcs marching is my Dad.

Brilliant. My dad, being a cricket lover and the parent who read all the Tolkien to us when we were little would be very envious!

slug · 18/08/2026 13:44

Indeed. The story is, he was at a one day cricket match in the Basin Reserve in Wellington. The basin is just that, a basin shaped grounds with really good acoustics.

At the lunch break the production team from Lord of the Rings turned up and set up microphones all round the perimiter. They then got the crown to stamp and grunt in unison. So that sound of the orcs marching is my Dad.

MitheredNotDead · 18/08/2026 12:15

slug · 18/08/2026 12:01

My Dad was an Orc.

Well actually he was the voice of an Orc.

Oooooh, now that’s a claim to fame!

SlackJawedDisbeliefXY · 18/08/2026 12:12

DialSquare · 18/08/2026 08:47

And a gold lamé handbag

Surely he should be channeling GaGa's 'stomach clutch' from her 2010 walking-meat-raffle MTV awards outfit?

slug · 18/08/2026 12:01

My Dad was an Orc.

Well actually he was the voice of an Orc.

JustEatThePizza · 18/08/2026 11:48

Man who is interested in a fantasy world and also Lord of the Rings.

teawamutu · 18/08/2026 11:45

MagpiePi · 18/08/2026 10:32

Igneococcus · Yesterday 20:25
Yes, that is why I'm wondering. How do you know someone is trans if they are under a full Uruk-Hai costume?

I AM GRISHNAK, SKULL CRUSHER, SHIELD BREAKER, SERVANT OF THE ETERNAL DARK LORD, SAURON!!

...my pronouns are she/her

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You win the internet today.

yetanotherusernameAgain · 18/08/2026 11:41

Thanks @SerendipityCat .

SerendipityCat · 18/08/2026 11:20

yetanotherusernameAgain · 18/08/2026 10:42

Which "socials" did @TBATST harvest the post from? Couldn't have been Instagram because @TBATST claims not to have access to that

Facebook. I linked “her” page earlier on.

Shedmistress · 18/08/2026 11:16

MagpiePi · 18/08/2026 10:32

Igneococcus · Yesterday 20:25
Yes, that is why I'm wondering. How do you know someone is trans if they are under a full Uruk-Hai costume?

I AM GRISHNAK, SKULL CRUSHER, SHIELD BREAKER, SERVANT OF THE ETERNAL DARK LORD, SAURON!!

...my pronouns are she/her

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I'm not gonna lie, this is going on my next tankard. Which I might throw later today now my HRT is working again.

Abhannmor · 18/08/2026 11:03

MagpiePi · 18/08/2026 10:32

Igneococcus · Yesterday 20:25
Yes, that is why I'm wondering. How do you know someone is trans if they are under a full Uruk-Hai costume?

I AM GRISHNAK, SKULL CRUSHER, SHIELD BREAKER, SERVANT OF THE ETERNAL DARK LORD, SAURON!!

...my pronouns are she/her

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' By Grabthar's Hammer! '