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Jo R’rith’s comments on trans anxiety, public spaces and current guidance

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TBATST · 17/08/2026 19:57

This just up on socials from Jo:

"Regular viewers to "The Jo R'rith Show" will know I suffer a great deal from anxiety attacks, and PTSD from events that began in 2015. Viewers are probably also familiar with my status as a trans woman in Britain, a country that in that time has become increasingly transphobic and bigoted.

Y'all may also be familiar with my costuming/cosplaying/fancy dress or whatever you want to call it, particularly my Uruk-Hai Orc costume. But what you may not realise is that they all intersect - I have anxiety attacks because I am a trans woman in a country that is abusive towards trans people and is trying to segregate us from the rest of the population. I travel to and from events where I wear my costumes, risking transphobic abuse and hatred for being trans. Only when Im in my costume do I get any respite from the fear and anxiety, basically because I'm unrecognisable beneath said costume, and because no one feels confident enough to have a go at the intimidating Uruk-Hai General wearing armour standing before them.

But my anxiety is strong, sometimes overpowering, and that's before the new EHRC guidance on how to be a bigoted cockwomble towards trans people, is included. You see I, like a great many trans people; know my rights and the law. I know that I haven't been banned from female toilets or changing spaces, but I also know that you, Joe Public, don't know that; because you've been fed a shit tonne of lies by the Press, and by TERFs telling you different, and Im sure that, if they find this post; some TERF cockwomble will erroneously claim that it is against the law, but they're lying So that means every time I use a public space, say the female toilets at a services or the like, then I run the risk of encountering someone who thinks I shouldnt be there, and so anxiety, panic and my PTSD."

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ElenOfTheWays · 20/08/2026 20:58

DramaAndBullshit · 20/08/2026 18:36

please, @elenoftheways, take a bow.

Thank you 😁 I'm here all week

DramaAndBullshit · 20/08/2026 18:36

ElenOfTheWays · 19/08/2026 22:01

Mordor presumably. But one does not simply walk into Mordor women's loos

Edited to add. I know the Uruk Hai are from Isengard but I couldn't think of a joke for that

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please, @elenoftheways, take a bow.

Audience Applause GIF by Searchlight Pictures
ElenOfTheWays · 19/08/2026 22:01

DramaAndBullshit · 19/08/2026 21:31

“I have anxiety attacks because I am a trans woman in a country that is abusive towards trans people and is trying to segregate us from the rest of the population.”

Where does he live? He mentions Britain, but there’s no UK laws segregating trans people. What kind of abuse is he getting? The kind that asks him to get out of the ladies changing room?

Mordor presumably. But one does not simply walk into Mordor women's loos

Edited to add. I know the Uruk Hai are from Isengard but I couldn't think of a joke for that

ElenOfTheWays · 19/08/2026 21:58

Helleofabore · 19/08/2026 20:51

Anyone remember the elf that dropped by to lecture us on biology. I believe he was a Green Party committee member or something.

I think I remember he did elf porn too on an alt account on twitter when had porn.

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The fuck is elf porn? The mind boggles (not to mention the pointy ears)

DramaAndBullshit · 19/08/2026 21:31

“I have anxiety attacks because I am a trans woman in a country that is abusive towards trans people and is trying to segregate us from the rest of the population.”

Where does he live? He mentions Britain, but there’s no UK laws segregating trans people. What kind of abuse is he getting? The kind that asks him to get out of the ladies changing room?

Thehorticulturalhussie · 19/08/2026 21:08

ElenOfTheWays · 19/08/2026 20:27

Ah thanks I must drop in sometime. Sounds like my kind of joint

You would be most welcome. Drop in for a glass of whatever you fancy, it will have neither alcohol nor calories but will taste exactly as you wish. The bar gerbils are excellent mixologists and the women propping up the bar are friendly and not at all eccentric.

Helleofabore · 19/08/2026 21:08

GreyskySexRealistsky · 19/08/2026 21:00

The fluttery one?

Why yes! But I will not mention any names.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 19/08/2026 21:00

Helleofabore · 19/08/2026 20:55

There is also the male person who keeps posting pictures of JKRowling as a gotcha when people tell him he doesn’t pass. Ie. he posts her pics as if they are his pics. He gets interviewed at protests occasionally.

He does cosplay too and posts it on his social media profile.

The fluttery one?

Helleofabore · 19/08/2026 20:55

There is also the male person who keeps posting pictures of JKRowling as a gotcha when people tell him he doesn’t pass. Ie. he posts her pics as if they are his pics. He gets interviewed at protests occasionally.

He does cosplay too and posts it on his social media profile.

Helleofabore · 19/08/2026 20:51

Anyone remember the elf that dropped by to lecture us on biology. I believe he was a Green Party committee member or something.

I think I remember he did elf porn too on an alt account on twitter when had porn.

panomara · 19/08/2026 20:50

BackToLurk · 17/08/2026 20:17

Like if Scooby Doo was saying Lilith.

😂😂😂

Waitingfordoggo · 19/08/2026 20:44

What a great thread. Thanks for starting it @TBATST 👏🏻

ElenOfTheWays · 19/08/2026 20:27

Thehorticulturalhussie · 19/08/2026 20:13

Spot on, excellent summary.

Ah thanks I must drop in sometime. Sounds like my kind of joint

Thehorticulturalhussie · 19/08/2026 20:13

ElenOfTheWays · 19/08/2026 20:11

Something like "we've had chicks with dicks - now brought to us by Jo R'rith meet the orcs with norks"

Spot on, excellent summary.

ElenOfTheWays · 19/08/2026 20:11

Thehorticulturalhussie · 19/08/2026 17:21

If this was The Blue Stocking we would inevitably be having a healthy and definitely-not-at-all-weird conversation about norks.
But it isn't. So we won't. That would be unseemly.

Something like "we've had chicks with dicks - now brought to us by Jo R'rith meet the orcs with norks"

ArabellaScott · 19/08/2026 20:11

Orc-hiectomy. 😶

Thehorticulturalhussie · 19/08/2026 19:39

ArabellaScott · 19/08/2026 19:04

Norcs. Surely.

Definitely not 🙂

ArabellaScott · 19/08/2026 19:04

Thehorticulturalhussie · 19/08/2026 17:21

If this was The Blue Stocking we would inevitably be having a healthy and definitely-not-at-all-weird conversation about norks.
But it isn't. So we won't. That would be unseemly.

Norcs. Surely.

Thehorticulturalhussie · 19/08/2026 18:42

🤢

JanesLittleGirl · 19/08/2026 18:37

The brain might make a light snack.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 19/08/2026 18:20

Thehorticulturalhussie · 19/08/2026 15:58

V unlikely. The meat would be slimy/rank/sinewy/malodorous and the skin would be leathery/rank/tough and about 10 inches thick. Appreciate that I haven't considered the entire Orc here but the various appendages and extremities don't bear thinking about.
Amirite?

That’s why if you’re going to eat orc you should go with offal. The kidneys are a bit ‘gamey’ but the sweetbreads are considered a delicacy in some circles

Thehorticulturalhussie · 19/08/2026 17:21

ElenOfTheWays · 19/08/2026 16:57

I'm imagining something like this

If this was The Blue Stocking we would inevitably be having a healthy and definitely-not-at-all-weird conversation about norks.
But it isn't. So we won't. That would be unseemly.

ElenOfTheWays · 19/08/2026 17:08

TBATST · 17/08/2026 21:02

Any pictures, for those of us that don't have Insta so can't view that profile?

Here ya go

ElenOfTheWays · 19/08/2026 16:57

Igneococcus · 17/08/2026 20:17

I travel to and from events where I wear my costumes, risking transphobic abuse and hatred for being trans.

How do you tell someone is a trans-Uruk-Hai?

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I'm imagining something like this

Jo R’rith’s comments on trans anxiety, public spaces and current guidance
ElenOfTheWays · 19/08/2026 16:48

BackToLurk · 17/08/2026 20:17

Like if Scooby Doo was saying Lilith.

Perfect. That's settled in my head as the pronunciation now. Thank you
I even hear it in the voice.

anyone scooby GIF