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Civil servants oppose plans to end trans reassignment leave policy

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Whattheflush · 10/08/2026 21:04

Oh for gods SAKE. The tide is turning but it feels like the wane is ever so slow.

Civil servants fight plan to scrap trans ‘reassignment leave’

www.thetimes.com/article/8b46e972-e753-4e32-94ce-04dd09a1bbd5?shareToken=b264d0a693114f10740e3ee99ed1f882

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Lexibletheflexible · 11/08/2026 07:01

AnonyMumAuDHD · 11/08/2026 00:07

However a google search seems to suggest that at present you absolutely can claim statutory sick pay for absence from work due to cosmetic surgery, but may not be entitled to enhanced (ie full) pay. So I guess so long as the trans person is treated precisely the same, for their surgeries as others are, it should be fair. Am just stunned that it would cover elective cosmetic surgeries at all. It’s all nuts.

This was my understanding too. For one, I don't have time reveal to an employer what surgery I am having or why so they would have no idea if it elective or not and no idea whether it is cosmetic.

AlexandraLeaving · 11/08/2026 06:36

csturbjikbfd · 10/08/2026 21:38

I’m a CS with a disability. In my dept, trans colleagues receive unlimited leave for reasons pertaining to gender reassignment and these absences are deliberately excluded from absence review trigger points. I can have 9 days absence in a rolling 12 month period before I am subject to action under absence management policies. My hospital appts don’t receive paid leave (and shouldn’t) and must be booked either outside of work hours or the time made up. The CS is supposed to foster good relations between communities and these sorts of policies do not do that as the unfairness is obvious.

Reposting @csturbjikbfd ’s post so that those championing the retention of 13 weeks (a quarter of the year every year) on top of normal sick leave limits for those with trans identities can comment on the lack of equity for those with disabilities, many of which will include recovery from surgery and cancer treatment.

If trans-identified people were being treated on a par with those with cancer/disabilities/etc, that would be one thing. But they are getting ten times as much. That is totally unacceptable. I cannot imagine how this appalling level of inequity was allowed to come about.

Helleofabore · 11/08/2026 04:49

Awkwardisfunny · 10/08/2026 22:37

Thank God you're not running the country.

Assuming you're female (switch it if not): If someone told you at age 8 that soon, you'd go through puberty and grow a penis and beard, and have a voice 2 octaves deeper.. would you have been horrified? Now imagine a doctor gave you a pill and said: don't worry, once you take this pill, you'll 'recognise' that you're male and then be okay with growing a penis.

Would you take the pill? Or fight tooth and nail because you "know" you're female. Because even at that age, you "knew" your gender. We all did.

That's how these people feel. They know from a young age that they're a certain gender, it's just that their bodies don't match. So either operate on their brains (/ provide a pill) or operate on their bodies. But which would you choose? Or just be miserable all your life and commit suicide eventually.

You are lacking not only in empathy, but in basic understanding of the condition and impact on those affected.

They need support and it's probably just the lesser of two evils that we choose to operate on their bodies.

Definitely doesn't apply to children and I never agree with that - it should be illegal for kids.

“Or fight tooth and nail because you "know" you're female.”

The issue is, that no male can ‘know’ what they are perceiving as themself being female. It is not an accurate statement. And vice versa. There is no possible way for them to have an accurate reference point.

Not one aspect of that person’s life has been experienced as the opposite sex, despite their self description that it has been.

It is all based on a personal subjective conceptualisation of how people of the opposite sex experience life and how they navigate the world with the sexed body they have.

RedToothBrush · 11/08/2026 01:39

Males piss out of a penis. It might be small but it's functionally not a female body part - it works differently and has multiple functions. Women have different anatomy which gets aroused in a different way and isn't used for pissing.

The understanding of how women's bit are massively different to men's bits is something that a lot of men are totally ignorant to. There's been some great threads on MN over the years where women have explained their partner's total ignorance of where they pee from and how as well as other basic biology knowledge which is massively lacking.

Theres a huge amount of this surrounding trans ideology. The post up thread about 'growing a penis' is hilariously one of these examples.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 11/08/2026 01:18

Hoardasurass · 11/08/2026 01:15

When a male goes through puberty his penis grows and for boys who were born with a micro penis it may suddenly become visible or more obviously a penis.
This does not mean they are suddenly growing a penis that they didn't already have it just means that the one they already had has got bigger

Yeah, I'll accept that as a reasonable alternative description of how these lads develop.

The Dominicans perceive the lads as having vulvas.

Hoardasurass · 11/08/2026 01:15

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 11/08/2026 00:59

Nobody grows a penis after birth

These boys with 5 alpha 2 reductase deficiency would beg to differ...

When a male goes through puberty his penis grows and for boys who were born with a micro penis it may suddenly become visible or more obviously a penis.
This does not mean they are suddenly growing a penis that they didn't already have it just means that the one they already had has got bigger

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 11/08/2026 01:06

MakesNoDifference · 11/08/2026 00:13

It would depend on the employers policy. They couldn’t give full sick pay for normal sickness or illness and not for gender reassignment, but they could for cosmetic surgery. The EA is clear time of for gender reassignment is comparable to time off for sickness/illness, and doesn’t specify cosmetic surgery.

CS employees with actual cancer get sickness absence warnings, despite being disabled by law from diagnosis. They don't get 13 weeks scot-free.

This change brings gender reassignment procedures into line with cancer patients. HTH.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 11/08/2026 00:59

Hoardasurass · 10/08/2026 23:24

Nobody grows a penis after birth so your entire premise falls down at the 1st point.
Also there is no pill that makes people happy to be their birth sex or not so again you're talking nonsense.
Everybody knows what sex they were born and thinking that you feel like the opposite sex is an erroneous thought process because no male can know what it feels like to be a female they can only assume and asign thought processes to females and then decide that they feel that way too.
What they need is psychiatric help to deal with the underlying mental health conditions that have triggered their body dismorphia and delusional thought processes ie watchful waiting therapy which worked for decades before affirmation therapy came along

Nobody grows a penis after birth

These boys with 5 alpha 2 reductase deficiency would beg to differ...

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 11/08/2026 00:54

Awkwardisfunny · 10/08/2026 22:37

Thank God you're not running the country.

Assuming you're female (switch it if not): If someone told you at age 8 that soon, you'd go through puberty and grow a penis and beard, and have a voice 2 octaves deeper.. would you have been horrified? Now imagine a doctor gave you a pill and said: don't worry, once you take this pill, you'll 'recognise' that you're male and then be okay with growing a penis.

Would you take the pill? Or fight tooth and nail because you "know" you're female. Because even at that age, you "knew" your gender. We all did.

That's how these people feel. They know from a young age that they're a certain gender, it's just that their bodies don't match. So either operate on their brains (/ provide a pill) or operate on their bodies. But which would you choose? Or just be miserable all your life and commit suicide eventually.

You are lacking not only in empathy, but in basic understanding of the condition and impact on those affected.

They need support and it's probably just the lesser of two evils that we choose to operate on their bodies.

Definitely doesn't apply to children and I never agree with that - it should be illegal for kids.

Tell me you're not an autistic woman without telling me...

Female puberty was traumatic for me, with tits and body hair and bleeding and cramps and suddenly being sexual prey. Male puberty would have been traumatic for me, with testosterone surges and body hair and random erections. I still, in my forties, feel like my breasts are parasitic growths that aren't actually part of me.

At six, I asked my mother if cutting my hair short would make me a boy, because I wanted to be one as I could see even then that men and boys get an easier ride through life. If I'd been male, at least that would have provided me with some protection from sexual assault and immunity from pregnancy.

You really have no idea just how little women, eapecially autistic ones, have a sense of "gender identity", assuming that "gender identity" is even real, which I doubt.

If gender identity was a real biological thing, it would look the same throughout history and across cultures. Yet women in different cultures and periods in history behave and dress differently, as do men. I don't have tattoos on my chin, yet Maori women do. My male colleagues don't wear embroidered green velvet minidresses, yet Henry VIII did.

B9waiting · 11/08/2026 00:28

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 10/08/2026 21:14

Until now, transgender employees could take up to 13 weeks of special leave in a rolling 12-month period for medical treatment and recovery related to gender identity without it being counted as sick leave.

The objection as far as I'm concerned is that I don't think anybody should be having surgery for a psychological issue, and providing this very generous paid leave makes it more likely that some civil servants will go down that path. Looking specifically at surgery on the genital area, there's a high risk of post-operative infection and complications, and the end results are really nothing like the real thing. If I ruled the world all that surgery would be banned.

Completely agree - plus the tax payers are paying twice; once for the NHS & the other since they’re a direct taxpayer funded employee!

UtopiaPlanitia · 11/08/2026 00:26

RedToothBrush · 10/08/2026 23:57

This.

Equality means you treat surgery as you would treat all other surgery or absence for medically related issues.

The policy of 13 weeks no questions asked arguably discriminates against disability as defined under the equality act.

As per usual frankly: people with disabilities and long-term illness have been badly let down by the HR/ EDI focus on the easier and more performative actions in the workplace.

<sarcasm> Who wants to faff about doing occupational health assessments and reasonable workplace adjustments for their employees when you can just hang up some progressive bunting and have a middle-aged man in to tell his 'inspiring story' of wearing his female relatives' clothes from a young age. <end sarcasm>

Switchnow · 11/08/2026 00:22

AnonyMumAuDHD · 10/08/2026 23:05

Because it’s elective surgery? Should anyone having a face lift, boob job or hair transplant be entitled to paid leave out of the company or tax payers purse?

Imho no. Not for any of those whether it’s for vanity/cosmetic reasons or to support transition.

All non emergency surgery is elective. Employers can set their sick leave policies to be more or less generous but they can’t specify which types of sickness they’ll cover (unlike insurers).

Switchnow · 11/08/2026 00:17

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 10/08/2026 21:14

Until now, transgender employees could take up to 13 weeks of special leave in a rolling 12-month period for medical treatment and recovery related to gender identity without it being counted as sick leave.

The objection as far as I'm concerned is that I don't think anybody should be having surgery for a psychological issue, and providing this very generous paid leave makes it more likely that some civil servants will go down that path. Looking specifically at surgery on the genital area, there's a high risk of post-operative infection and complications, and the end results are really nothing like the real thing. If I ruled the world all that surgery would be banned.

But you don’t.

Presumably you wouldn’t begrudge ‘genital surgery’ for someone who had a GU medical condition, on the basis that they ‘might get an infection’? Or someone who had a birth mark or scar corrected, even though that’s a psychological issue rather than a physical one.

The law requires the upholding of sex based rights and the rights of trans people. Get used to it.

MakesNoDifference · 11/08/2026 00:13

AnonyMumAuDHD · 11/08/2026 00:07

However a google search seems to suggest that at present you absolutely can claim statutory sick pay for absence from work due to cosmetic surgery, but may not be entitled to enhanced (ie full) pay. So I guess so long as the trans person is treated precisely the same, for their surgeries as others are, it should be fair. Am just stunned that it would cover elective cosmetic surgeries at all. It’s all nuts.

It would depend on the employers policy. They couldn’t give full sick pay for normal sickness or illness and not for gender reassignment, but they could for cosmetic surgery. The EA is clear time of for gender reassignment is comparable to time off for sickness/illness, and doesn’t specify cosmetic surgery.

RedToothBrush · 11/08/2026 00:08

Awkwardisfunny · 10/08/2026 22:37

Thank God you're not running the country.

Assuming you're female (switch it if not): If someone told you at age 8 that soon, you'd go through puberty and grow a penis and beard, and have a voice 2 octaves deeper.. would you have been horrified? Now imagine a doctor gave you a pill and said: don't worry, once you take this pill, you'll 'recognise' that you're male and then be okay with growing a penis.

Would you take the pill? Or fight tooth and nail because you "know" you're female. Because even at that age, you "knew" your gender. We all did.

That's how these people feel. They know from a young age that they're a certain gender, it's just that their bodies don't match. So either operate on their brains (/ provide a pill) or operate on their bodies. But which would you choose? Or just be miserable all your life and commit suicide eventually.

You are lacking not only in empathy, but in basic understanding of the condition and impact on those affected.

They need support and it's probably just the lesser of two evils that we choose to operate on their bodies.

Definitely doesn't apply to children and I never agree with that - it should be illegal for kids.

You are not showing much understanding here.

You are spouting unsubstantiated appeals to emotion, most of which have been debunked as exactly that - guff.

As it goes I've just seen a brilliant video on twitter explaining this type of hyperventilation and butchering of logistics to shame and manipulate.

https://x.com/i/status/2086932074959908927

I recommend everyone watch it as this post is a good example of what is talked about in the video which breaks down the nonsense.

I was looking to share this video and this post has provided the perfect example and reason to do so.

It's fascinating.

Jennifer 🟥🔴🧙‍♀️🦉🐈‍⬛ 🦖 (@babybeginner) on X

She does it again!! Brilliant examination of the gish gallop you’re likely to run into. So well done!! She’s amazing!

https://x.com/i/status/2086932074959908927

AnonyMumAuDHD · 11/08/2026 00:07

AnonyMumAuDHD · 10/08/2026 23:05

Because it’s elective surgery? Should anyone having a face lift, boob job or hair transplant be entitled to paid leave out of the company or tax payers purse?

Imho no. Not for any of those whether it’s for vanity/cosmetic reasons or to support transition.

However a google search seems to suggest that at present you absolutely can claim statutory sick pay for absence from work due to cosmetic surgery, but may not be entitled to enhanced (ie full) pay. So I guess so long as the trans person is treated precisely the same, for their surgeries as others are, it should be fair. Am just stunned that it would cover elective cosmetic surgeries at all. It’s all nuts.

RedToothBrush · 10/08/2026 23:57

spannasaurus · 10/08/2026 21:52

Gender reassignment discrimination: cases of absence from work
(1)This section has effect for the purposes of the application of Part 5 (work) to the protected characteristic of gender reassignment.

(2)A person (A) discriminates against a transsexual person (B) if, in relation to an absence of B's that is because of gender reassignment, A treats B less favourably than A would treat B if—

(a)B's absence was because of sickness or injury, or

(b)B's absence was for some other reason and it is not reasonable for B to be treated less favourably.

(3)A person's absence is because of gender reassignment if it is because the person is proposing to undergo, is undergoing or has undergone the process (or part of the process) mentioned in section 7(1).

If the policy is changed then the transperson will be subject to exactly the same terms and treatment as they would if they had cancer or required treatment due to a disability so there would be no discrimination on the basis of GR

This.

Equality means you treat surgery as you would treat all other surgery or absence for medically related issues.

The policy of 13 weeks no questions asked arguably discriminates against disability as defined under the equality act.

WerewolfOfLoudon · 10/08/2026 23:51

I actually would have been horrified at 8 years old if someone told me I was going to grow a penis.

Why would any female child grow a penis? Boys have penises.

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AnonyMumAuDHD · 10/08/2026 23:49

Hoardasurass · 10/08/2026 23:24

Nobody grows a penis after birth so your entire premise falls down at the 1st point.
Also there is no pill that makes people happy to be their birth sex or not so again you're talking nonsense.
Everybody knows what sex they were born and thinking that you feel like the opposite sex is an erroneous thought process because no male can know what it feels like to be a female they can only assume and asign thought processes to females and then decide that they feel that way too.
What they need is psychiatric help to deal with the underlying mental health conditions that have triggered their body dismorphia and delusional thought processes ie watchful waiting therapy which worked for decades before affirmation therapy came along

Indeed and boy children are not told they will go through puberty and grow a beard [and a penis, he’d have one of those already]. They are told they’ll grow up to be a man like daddy, uncle Bob, [insert male sports idol of choice] etc. A beard is not an essential male attribute, only an optional one [one I kind of which my 18yo wasn’t trying to cultivate frankly and along with wishing DH hadn’t grown one one Movember and four years later still has].

Only someone with deep seated [negative] issues about men would frame puberty to a male child like that.

Hoardasurass · 10/08/2026 23:36

MakesNoDifference · 10/08/2026 23:31

@Hoardasurass why are you ignoring my reply?

I didn't i was working my way through the thread and im also not at your bec and call.
Why do you think you have the right to demand an answer which btw you got at the same time as your demand posted

Hoardasurass · 10/08/2026 23:31

MakesNoDifference · 10/08/2026 23:10

You are very arrogant for someone completely wrong. That’s not a thing under the Equality Act. Section 16 covers discrimination for time off related to gender reassignment. You can’t treat someone taking time off for gender reassignment any less favourably than someone taking time off for sickness or injury.

Yes and now they are being treated exactly the same as everyone else so what's your point/problem?
The man who wants a boob job now has the same hoops to jump through as the cancer patient who wants breast reconstruction both of which are cosmetic surgery.
Like for like so still not discrimination but again nice try

MakesNoDifference · 10/08/2026 23:31

@Hoardasurass why are you ignoring my reply?

Hoardasurass · 10/08/2026 23:24

Awkwardisfunny · 10/08/2026 22:37

Thank God you're not running the country.

Assuming you're female (switch it if not): If someone told you at age 8 that soon, you'd go through puberty and grow a penis and beard, and have a voice 2 octaves deeper.. would you have been horrified? Now imagine a doctor gave you a pill and said: don't worry, once you take this pill, you'll 'recognise' that you're male and then be okay with growing a penis.

Would you take the pill? Or fight tooth and nail because you "know" you're female. Because even at that age, you "knew" your gender. We all did.

That's how these people feel. They know from a young age that they're a certain gender, it's just that their bodies don't match. So either operate on their brains (/ provide a pill) or operate on their bodies. But which would you choose? Or just be miserable all your life and commit suicide eventually.

You are lacking not only in empathy, but in basic understanding of the condition and impact on those affected.

They need support and it's probably just the lesser of two evils that we choose to operate on their bodies.

Definitely doesn't apply to children and I never agree with that - it should be illegal for kids.

Nobody grows a penis after birth so your entire premise falls down at the 1st point.
Also there is no pill that makes people happy to be their birth sex or not so again you're talking nonsense.
Everybody knows what sex they were born and thinking that you feel like the opposite sex is an erroneous thought process because no male can know what it feels like to be a female they can only assume and asign thought processes to females and then decide that they feel that way too.
What they need is psychiatric help to deal with the underlying mental health conditions that have triggered their body dismorphia and delusional thought processes ie watchful waiting therapy which worked for decades before affirmation therapy came along

GreyskySexRealistsky · 10/08/2026 23:15

PermanentTemporary · 10/08/2026 23:11

Eh? Male children have a penis all their lives, they don’t suddenly get one at puberty. What a bizarre view of human development.

Yeah, that poster lost me as well at the "growing a penis" bit. Whut? And then says we lack understanding? Hmm...

socialdilemmawhattodo · 10/08/2026 23:11

GCornotGCthatisthequestion · 10/08/2026 21:06

What is your objection to people being allowed time off to recover from surgery?

Because THAT surgery is not necessary, it is optional. Hope you will be in favour of the tax payers paying for me to have a tummy tuck, breast augmentation, eye blephoplasty, etc? Actually I threw the latter in as i do have a congenital eye defect, would never be able to get further corrective surgery on the NHS. So why can some sections of the population get totally optional surgery, and others can't?

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