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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

If the majority of women voted in favour of self ID?

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MaIeficent · Yesterday 00:45

What would you do?

Completely hypothetical question. I'm not so interested in hearing about the stats/reality or that 'it would never happen'. Just hypothetically what people's stance would be if it did.

I'm conflicted as I don't think I could ever be in favour but I simultaneously support the right of women to make their own choices even if I disagree with them.

Would you defer to them in recognition that this is the decision that makes women as a whole happiest or would you soldier on and try and impose the wishes of a minority group onto a majority of dissenting women?

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MagpiePi · Yesterday 08:20

BunnyBunbunbun · Yesterday 07:55

I'm confused. You are non-binary yet you claim to be a woman. Non-binary means you see yourself as neither a man nor a woman, so how can you be a woman? Similarly, how can you be straight if you are non-binary and hence neither a woman nor a man? Straight means attracted to the opposite sex, but you claim to have no sex, so there is no such thing as straight or gay in this context.

I was confused about this too!

Waitwhat23 · Yesterday 08:19

Retiredfromthere · Yesterday 07:17

In how many of those countries was there a clear question posed to women? The usual strategy seems to be a) pass self ID without any vote and with a side of 'This is just like making things fair as we did for gays ', b) make correctly sexing (aka misgendering) illegal and prosecute. This then makes it impossible to go back and protest. Or even talk openly.

I do not think that a) could happen now. Anywhere. There would be challenge.
So I really do wonder whether there will be any more self-ID laws incoming.
If there are then it will perhaps be as,a result of non-binary trans self-ID or gender fluidity expansion. But legislating for that will be a problem.

It was the Denton's playbook in action -

https://spectator.com/article/the-document-that-reveals-the-remarkable-tactics-of-trans-lobbyists/

In particular -

‘In Ireland, Denmark and Norway, changes to the law on legal gender recognition were put through at the same time as other more popular reforms such as marriage equality legislation. This provided a veil of protection, particularly in Ireland, where marriage equality was strongly supported, but gender identity remained a more difficult issue to win public support for.’ (Kirkup's bolds)

The document that reveals the remarkable tactics of trans lobbyists

A great deal of the transgender debate is unexplained. One of the most mystifying aspects is the speed and success of a small number of small organisations in achieving major influence over public bodies, politicians and officials. How has a certain id...

https://spectator.com/article/the-document-that-reveals-the-remarkable-tactics-of-trans-lobbyists/

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · Yesterday 08:16

Waitwhat23 · Yesterday 08:05

Exactly. The difference between 'do you think people should be allowed to self identify into the gender they feel most comfortable in' and 'should these same people be allowed to access single sex rape crisis services on the basis of self id'

https://wingsoverscotland.com/transforming-the-question/

Edited to add - the link above is from 2020. Other polls since then have shown less support for self id generally, not more.

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Thanks for the link, even in 2020 most people said NO, and yet people like the OP are still peddling the tripe that 'most women' support this.
Fortunately there are people on MN that have memories like elephants, and like the internet, they never forget. 😂
It would appear that the majority of women will not be voting for self ID OP, so your question is moot.

Waitwhat23 · Yesterday 08:05

Heggettypeg · Yesterday 01:47

It would be interesting to know, in each of those cases, what exactly "supporting self-id" amounts to.
Surveys over here tend to get "yeah, sure" responses if they ask vague questions about "supporting trans rights", but rather less enthusiasm if specific questions are asked about transwomen in women's sports, prisons etc.

Exactly. The difference between 'do you think people should be allowed to self identify into the gender they feel most comfortable in' and 'should these same people be allowed to access single sex rape crisis services on the basis of self id'

https://wingsoverscotland.com/transforming-the-question/

Edited to add - the link above is from 2020. Other polls since then have shown less support for self id generally, not more.

BunnyBunbunbun · Yesterday 08:05

MaIeficent · Yesterday 00:45

What would you do?

Completely hypothetical question. I'm not so interested in hearing about the stats/reality or that 'it would never happen'. Just hypothetically what people's stance would be if it did.

I'm conflicted as I don't think I could ever be in favour but I simultaneously support the right of women to make their own choices even if I disagree with them.

Would you defer to them in recognition that this is the decision that makes women as a whole happiest or would you soldier on and try and impose the wishes of a minority group onto a majority of dissenting women?

You post some statements about views on self-id in other European countries but post no links or data for them. I'm a bit sceptical as to these claims of widespread support amongst women for self-id in these countries. There used to be similar polls that showed women in favour of "trans rights", self-id or men in women's loos in the UK, but we know how those were always framed in a certain way or didn't specify the actual issues, so people weren't sure what they were expressing an opinion on other than "rights". Context played a big role in how these "majority opinions" in favour of "trans rights" were achieved, and I'm sure the same is similar for the unspecified foreign opinion polls you found.

In any case, you are non-binary so you are not a woman so your own question doesn't even pertain to yourself. In this "majority of women" are you including biological men who claim to identify as women?

PoisonCrystal · Yesterday 08:00

What? You mean imagine there was a Brexit-like referendum and people voted in favour of removing all single-sex spaces, OP? Seriously? I’d hope that I would be channelling my inner Elizabeth Fry.

BunnyBunbunbun · Yesterday 07:55

TransParentlyAnnoyed · Yesterday 01:18

There is no registry of trans people. All of them self-ID, no matter what documents they hold..

Same way I self-ID as disabled. I don't claim any benefits, but I definitely have irreparable nerve damage which badly affects my mobility.

I self-ID as straight, too. And non-binary. (As of yet, no one's come round to put a stamp on my arm confirming this, but give it time.)

So the question's ridiculous. Not only does it ignore that most cis women aren't transphobic, but self-ID is what we all do. All the time.

I'm not having anyone tell me I'm not disabled because I don't have the right paperwork. Or that my son isn't a trans guy because his identity doesn't (yet) match all his documents.

Most women know that men attack us where we want and the authorities will do nothing. Those poor girls attacked at that Army base had instructors walking in on them dressing and teenage boys invading their rooms. See also that awful case of the serial sex attacked who was given freedom.to rape and kill more women because misogyny, patriarchy and the massively underfunded justice system which keeps calling women.

There is no social contract, there are no safe public spaces, and attacking trans people is a massive distraction from confronting the reality of male violence. Pretending any man needs to transition to 'access' women is insulting our intelligence.

I'm confused. You are non-binary yet you claim to be a woman. Non-binary means you see yourself as neither a man nor a woman, so how can you be a woman? Similarly, how can you be straight if you are non-binary and hence neither a woman nor a man? Straight means attracted to the opposite sex, but you claim to have no sex, so there is no such thing as straight or gay in this context.

sanluca · Yesterday 07:46

MaIeficent · Yesterday 01:54

Fair point. But if I'm not mistaken, self ID in these countries means men using women's spaces and women seem to be mostly in favour.

I can tell you most women are not in favour of self id in those countries once they realise how bad men can abuse the law. There are already many examples in Spain, Norway, the Netherlands and other countries of this happening and then women realise how screwed over they actually are.
Acceptance is degrading in all those countries, not just for the grifters and abusers but also the people who actually fully medically transitioned and are now left in limbo. Awful situation.

ElectoralControversy · Yesterday 07:29

Would they be happy to impose their will on an unhappy majority because "they don't know what's best for them"

They're not actuslly going to be unhappy are they?

Noone would be going round saying 'I'm so sad my miscarriage support group doesn't have any males in it'
'What our gym showers really need are more cocks waving round, i cant believe those terfs have banned them'

Its an "er, ok I guess, i should be kind" from them rather than a "yes please!"

And as a parallel, i would also still support abortion rights even if a majority of women voted against them - it's easy for a majority to think they'll never need a right (eg to a single sex space, to trial by jury) until they do

SodThisHeadache · Yesterday 07:27

I wouldn't be pissing in a bottle and throwing it all over myself, vandalising any MP's offices, shouting 'witch' in the face of my opponent, throwing smoke flares into an enclosed space, carrying a placard with a guillotine on it, launching myself at a woman and punching her (then insisting she refer to me as 'queen of the Cats' in court), letting insects loose in a hall where people are having peaceful discussions about their sexuality, stopping anyone from watching a film they'd made that put forward their viewpoint, getting the police to knock on their doors and intimidate them for lawful speech, er.... you get the picture

Retiredfromthere · Yesterday 07:17

MaIeficent · Yesterday 01:54

Fair point. But if I'm not mistaken, self ID in these countries means men using women's spaces and women seem to be mostly in favour.

In how many of those countries was there a clear question posed to women? The usual strategy seems to be a) pass self ID without any vote and with a side of 'This is just like making things fair as we did for gays ', b) make correctly sexing (aka misgendering) illegal and prosecute. This then makes it impossible to go back and protest. Or even talk openly.

I do not think that a) could happen now. Anywhere. There would be challenge.
So I really do wonder whether there will be any more self-ID laws incoming.
If there are then it will perhaps be as,a result of non-binary trans self-ID or gender fluidity expansion. But legislating for that will be a problem.

CohensDiamondTeeth · Yesterday 07:11

SodThisHeadache · Yesterday 07:01

Agree with this entirely. 'impose your will' is pretty loaded, and contains an assumption about how women like us operate. That's not how we do things. How could we anyway?

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Exactly!

How could we? Was my first thought too.

Then I thought hang on! What does this poster mean by "impose our will", exactly?

Edited to add when I read that post, I also thought every accusation is an admission isn't it. As you say, we don't operate like that. We aren't TRAs.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · Yesterday 07:05

Baileyonice · Yesterday 06:37

Rights are often embedded in law & in many countries that's constitutional law or signatories to human rights law that's almost impossible to change so popularity contests aren't relevant.

Laws can be changed and treaties can be left, they are all just political constructs, and political parties that ignore the will of the people can become irrelevant to the people.
Unless it's a dictatorship, of one sort or another, then laws and treaties are irrelevant because authoritarian regimes don't pay any attention to them. See Russia and the treaty it had with Ukraine.

Baileyonice · Yesterday 07:04

Igneococcus · Yesterday 06:56

I wasn't talking about the case, I was talking about the general public opinion wrt self ID in these countries which is heavily influenced by the lack of open debate caused by prohibitive legislation. Which is something you might have figured out if you'd actually followed a thread rather than flap about like in some frantic whack-a-mole game.

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Thank you for explaining to everyone that you have literally no idea about the necessity, implications & principles pertaining to constitutional law.

SodThisHeadache · Yesterday 07:01

CohensDiamondTeeth · Yesterday 02:28

"What I'm asking is whether GC feminists would support self-ID as seen in other countries if the majority of UK women wanted it? Would they be happy to impose their will on an unhappy majority because "they don't know what's best for them"."

Would I support self-ID as seen in other countries if the majority of UK women wanted it? No. I wouldn't jump off a cliff just because my friends were either.

Would I be happy to impose my will on an unhappy majority because "they don't know what's best for them"? What do you mean by this?

Would I do whatever I could to campaign for the return of single sex spaces if they were all rendered mixed sex? Well yes of course! Obviously. We need those.

TRAs could campaign for, and be happy with the consenting allies in mixed sex spaces.
I don't think mixed sex spaces are the safest option, because, y'know all the men in there, but I'm not going to tell another woman she can't use that mixed sex space if she wants to.
I'd be there to support this theoretical woman if she later decided that mixed sex spaces weren't as safe as she'd thought later.

There is no need to remove the provision of single sex spaces for women in order to provide mixed sex spaces.

Why can't everyone's needs be catered to fairly, why has it always got to be all or nothing as far as the TRAs are concerned?

Agree with this entirely. 'impose your will' is pretty loaded, and contains an assumption about how women like us operate. That's not how we do things. How could we anyway?

Igneococcus · Yesterday 06:56

Baileyonice · Yesterday 06:46

Yes. I was responding to your comment about Brazil & why public opinion was irrelevant.

I wasn't talking about the case, I was talking about the general public opinion wrt self ID in these countries which is heavily influenced by the lack of open debate caused by prohibitive legislation. Which is something you might have figured out if you'd actually followed a thread rather than flap about like in some frantic whack-a-mole game.

SodThisHeadache · Yesterday 06:51

@MaIeficent

"Would they be happy to impose their will on an unhappy majority because "they don't know what's best for them".

How could we impose our will?

Edited for typo

Baileyonice · Yesterday 06:46

Igneococcus · Yesterday 06:43

Have you not understood the question in the opening post?

Yes. I was responding to your comment about Brazil & why public opinion was irrelevant.

Igneococcus · Yesterday 06:43

Baileyonice · Yesterday 06:37

Rights are often embedded in law & in many countries that's constitutional law or signatories to human rights law that's almost impossible to change so popularity contests aren't relevant.

Have you not understood the question in the opening post?

Baileyonice · Yesterday 06:37

Igneococcus · Yesterday 06:30

These are all countries where it has been made near impossible to discuss this issue openly, see the two year jail sentence for misgendering in Brazil recently. I bet if a proper open debate were conducted before a binding poll numbers would change.

Rights are often embedded in law & in many countries that's constitutional law or signatories to human rights law that's almost impossible to change so popularity contests aren't relevant.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · Yesterday 06:31

GrumpyPanda · Yesterday 04:13

Let me ask you a question in return OP. Should the death penalty be reintroduced if sufficient majorities of citizens were in favour of it? And should such majorities keep us from advocating against it?

Good point, the last time they had a survey regarding the death penalty in the UK, the majority were in favour of it and all the political parties recoiled in horror. 😱

@MaIeficent - Fair point. But if I'm not mistaken, self ID in these countries means men using women's spaces and women seem to be mostly in favour.

You are mistaken, in the countries where self ID has been imposed on the population women weren't asked if they supported it and they haven't been asked if they support it since it's been introduced. You can't claim women seem to be mostly in favour if nobody's bothered to ask them if they are or not.

If a referendum was held in all these countries about whether or not there should be self ID and the results was an overwhelming NO, would the OP support the withdrawal of the manifestly stupid idea.

Igneococcus · Yesterday 06:30

MaIeficent · Yesterday 01:17

I was under the impression that the majority of women supported social transition but were against legal reform. However, from googling it I'm not so sure now. It seems that continental Europe and the wider world has quite differing views, obviously excluding places with strongly patriarchal/dictatorial governments.

Google AI tells me that:

  • Spain holds some of the highest overall public acceptance rates globally and 'voted heavily in favor of progressive social reforms' with younger, intersectional feminist groups strongly defending it.
  • The Nordics were pioneers in self-ID with regional Eurobarometer and domestic polls evidencing exceptionally high support for self-determination. Societal norms regarding gender equality and individual autonomy are deeply institutionalised, leading to a broad female consensus that legal transition should be depathologised.
  • The majority of German women support the self-identification law, known in Germany as the Selbstbestimmungsgesetz (Self-Determination Act), with extensive polling showing that women consistently express higher rates of approval for the legislation than men. 51% of German women surveyed stated they approve of or completely support the Self-Determination Act.Only 31% of German women rejected the law.
  • In Ireland, public polling (such as standard Ipsos/MRBI data on social issues) indicates that Irish women, particularly those who drove the landmark abortion and marriage equality referendums, overwhelmingly favor self-ID.
  • in Latin America coalitions of women activists explicitly tied transgender liberation to their wider fights against gender-based violence and patriarchy. Consequently, self-ID enjoys robust, mainstream support among female activists and voters in these nations.
  • In sharp contrast to continental Europe and Latin America, the gender gap operates differently in the UK and US, where self-ID remains a major cultural flashpoint. However, polling by YouGov UK reveals that young British women (18–24) overwhelmingly support self-ID.

It's as yet unclear whether the age disparity in the UK shows that women change their views as they grow older, or whether this is just a generational difference of view and the consensus may shift as this generation takes over and passes their views onto their children.

These are all countries where it has been made near impossible to discuss this issue openly, see the two year jail sentence for misgendering in Brazil recently. I bet if a proper open debate were conducted before a binding poll numbers would change.

Baileyonice · Yesterday 06:08

Cattenberg · Yesterday 00:49

Can women consent on behalf of other women? Even if a woman is happy to waive her "rights" to female-only sports teams/changing rooms/toilets, surely other women's rights aren't hers to give away?

You could say the same about women who want private cubicles & are against open change rooms regardless of sex.

Logistics & practicalities often determine rights. See: open borders.

PermanentTemporary · Yesterday 06:03

I’ve understood that the headlines place me in a minority on this issue since 2015 or so.

The difficulty I have is that in the conversations I have had 1:1 with women who would definitely not self-identify as GC, there’s a big group where there’s hardly any difference in their views from mine. I don’t understand how they see their own views or how they would conceive of the vote they make but I dont think their vote invalidates what I believe.

The fundamental bedrock for me is that being female or male is not an identity and therefore the entire concept of ‘self identification’ can’t work.

Charitythoughts · Yesterday 05:46

MaIeficent · Yesterday 01:54

Fair point. But if I'm not mistaken, self ID in these countries means men using women's spaces and women seem to be mostly in favour.

I have a friend in Portugal who was completely unaware that the government had brought in self id because T campaigners had , following the ascribed playbook, tied it into basic LGB rights. When I explained what it meant she was horrified and said most ppl had no idea because it hadn't really been talked about and that ppl were in favour of LGB ppl having equivalent rights to straight ppl that of course trans ppl shouldn't be discriminated against and that was as far as it went. Further discussion with her colleagues showed that no they hadn't really understood self ID had been brought in either

so I'm very sceptical of any survey which shows women in countries with self ID are widely supportive because in my experience most ppl actually have no idea what ut really means beyond "oh yes of course ppl can dress how they like abd of course we shouldn't be mean to them"