The parents of young women (who don’t want to use women’s toilets) also are vocal about mixed sex toilet designs, as they don’t want their daughters using the men’s. Campbell, Maugham, Hale.
This is a typical result (this one from a schoolgirl who campaigned for ‘gender neutral’ toilets):
‘The gender-neutral bathrooms are both horrible and amazing. I am so glad we have them, but they are disgusting,
mostly because of the way students treat them. The issue mainly comes from how small and how few they are, and
it’s not uncommon that the four small bathrooms are filled with sex, drugs or vaping. We need to address these
problems, or the gender-neutral bathrooms will continue to be the most disgusting in the school….I consider everything in the third floor bathroom a biohazard. Almost every time I make the mistake of going in, I leave trying to purge my mind of the horrors I just witnessed. Whether it is people having sex, poop smeared on the walls, or the toilet being clogged with an entire roll of toilet paper, horrible things have happened in that bathroom.’
This is the typical response from the teacher trying to safeguard: ‘It’s not great because you’ve got a private space that’s publicly accessible and difficult for school staff to monitor.’
The girl’s solution was to have more gender neutral toilets to spread the sex and drugs and misuse out so she was more likely to find a clean one.
I have got many examples of ‘gender neutral’ designs going wrong. Schools have been the guinea pigs (because they are exempt from certain legislation) and pupils, especially girls and medically vulnerable, have paid the price. Let’s learn from where things have gone wrong for schools and not repeat the same mistakes.
If anyone from the above councils wants to chat about toilet design and safety, please ask me.
p.s. If people think schools are special cases, they are not. I have the evidence for that too.