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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Covent Garden - why don't I trust the reporting ?

422 replies

SerendipityJane · 05/08/2026 15:35

A woman stabbing four men ?

Or am I nasty and old ?

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BlessingYou · Yesterday 12:25

HousePlantEmergency · Yesterday 12:23

Did you mean to be so patronising?

How on earth do you have any idea how widely any of us read?!

And for what it's worth. Just ONE publication reporting that a woman has committed a crime, when in actual fact it was a man, is one too many.

Patronising bullshit.

I answered a question …

BlessingYou · Yesterday 12:23

ThatCyanCat · Yesterday 12:09

As if that person could patronise anyone engaging with them. Though to be fair, the purpose wasn't to patronise (I think they've given up on that since this morning, wisely), it was to deliver a deflective non answer that fills space.

"In what other circumstances are we expected to give the benefit of the doubt when we have been lied to over and over again?"

"Interesting."

"Why is that interesting? What are you trying to imply? In what other circumstances are we expected to give the benefit of the doubt when we have been lied to over and over again?"

"Don't read just one media source!"

Just be glad it's not a ten mile long wall of text...

Still no answer to what your insinuations are? “That person” indeed.

HousePlantEmergency · Yesterday 12:23

BlessingYou · Yesterday 11:45

I don’t expect anyone to give the benefit of the doubt to anything. Like I said before, don’t have just one source of news. Read widely. Read left, right, centre and things that would normally make you uncomfortable. If you encounter lies in some sources, doing this should equal it out.

Did you mean to be so patronising?

How on earth do you have any idea how widely any of us read?!

And for what it's worth. Just ONE publication reporting that a woman has committed a crime, when in actual fact it was a man, is one too many.

Patronising bullshit.

BlessingYou · Yesterday 12:20

GreyskySexRealistsky · Yesterday 11:58

There's no need to patronise anyone on here, thanks.
Many posters on here read widely, including trans media and publications and things that make us "uncomfortable". It's one of the ways to ensure our own arguments are sound.
Will you be dishing out the same advice to TRAs?
Heck, some of us even read news sources in other languages. And have the critical skills to judge them as well!

I answered a question.

AprilMizzel · Yesterday 12:18

Shortshriftandlethal · Yesterday 11:44

It had nothing to do with any images. Nobody had seen any images until more recently.

The suspicion arose because it was a non typical crime to be committed by a woman ( stabbing four men in public), but mostly because we have grown used to press reports using self declared 'gender identity' as an indicator of the sex of the perpetrator. This has been going on for years, at both national level and in local media reporting. Put these two things together and it now leads to suspicion.

If we cannot trust our national media sources to always correctly identify the sex of a perpertrator then people no longer trust it.

Edited

I'm on the Jason Arday thread - and found I'm not only poster who came away from BBC reporting thinking it was a black academic being targeted for being black. Only subsquently found there are many questions there.

Also confused why Met police were apologizing last night - now found they did a 4 month investigation into a journalist asking questions.

There's been so much poor or just wrong reporting on similar incidents to this covernt garden over years now - I think it's perfectly reasonable to wonder now.

ThatCyanCat · Yesterday 12:09

GreyskySexRealistsky · Yesterday 11:58

There's no need to patronise anyone on here, thanks.
Many posters on here read widely, including trans media and publications and things that make us "uncomfortable". It's one of the ways to ensure our own arguments are sound.
Will you be dishing out the same advice to TRAs?
Heck, some of us even read news sources in other languages. And have the critical skills to judge them as well!

As if that person could patronise anyone engaging with them. Though to be fair, the purpose wasn't to patronise (I think they've given up on that since this morning, wisely), it was to deliver a deflective non answer that fills space.

"In what other circumstances are we expected to give the benefit of the doubt when we have been lied to over and over again?"

"Interesting."

"Why is that interesting? What are you trying to imply? In what other circumstances are we expected to give the benefit of the doubt when we have been lied to over and over again?"

"Don't read just one media source!"

Just be glad it's not a ten mile long wall of text...

GreyskySexRealistsky · Yesterday 12:07

YesterdaysFuture · Yesterday 11:58

TBH the next time on any form for a shop or NHS and I am asked my sex I am going to accuse them of being "far-right" or "right-wing", because apparently asking about the sex of a criminal is now apparently that.

Yes, this.

And also: be sure to read publications from "the right" but don't cite anything from them (even if they're correct) lest you be judged as being "far right" yourself.

Far right, right wing etc etc are fast losing their power as insults, in the same way terf and transphobe have. Time for the TRAs to engage their imaginations and come up with a new slur.

GreyskySexRealistsky · Yesterday 11:58

BlessingYou · Yesterday 11:45

I don’t expect anyone to give the benefit of the doubt to anything. Like I said before, don’t have just one source of news. Read widely. Read left, right, centre and things that would normally make you uncomfortable. If you encounter lies in some sources, doing this should equal it out.

There's no need to patronise anyone on here, thanks.
Many posters on here read widely, including trans media and publications and things that make us "uncomfortable". It's one of the ways to ensure our own arguments are sound.
Will you be dishing out the same advice to TRAs?
Heck, some of us even read news sources in other languages. And have the critical skills to judge them as well!

YesterdaysFuture · Yesterday 11:58

TBH the next time on any form for a shop or NHS and I am asked my sex I am going to accuse them of being "far-right" or "right-wing", because apparently asking about the sex of a criminal is now apparently that.

Shortshriftandlethal · Yesterday 11:55

BlessingYou · Yesterday 11:45

I don’t expect anyone to give the benefit of the doubt to anything. Like I said before, don’t have just one source of news. Read widely. Read left, right, centre and things that would normally make you uncomfortable. If you encounter lies in some sources, doing this should equal it out.

Our "sources" are own our own personal experiences in most cases. We're not sitting here as keyboard warriors. We are women from all backgrounds and occupations; and different parts of the country - who have woken up to the tyranny of trans ideology often through harsh personal experiences and/or revelations. Not everybody is on twitter; or redit or whatever it is people get their 'news' from these days.

YesterdaysFuture · Yesterday 11:53

BlessingYou · Yesterday 02:36

The starting OP was simply “A woman stabbing four men ?Or am I nasty and old?” There was no mention of the BBC or other media.

Of course, the implication was there that the ‘woman’ was not a woman at all. There had already been plenty of right-wing X posts that I’d seen by then suggesting as such, so I wasn’t surprised to see the thread. The faux “It’s the media’s fault we react this way” is curious, though, as it implies that women here don’t have much agency. This ‘BBC bad’ line is one that has been fed to you over years by trolls - so much so that you have come to believe it and repeat it. I’ve seen this occurring not only in Britain but with national broadcasters in other countries ATM, so it isn’t localised to you.

You’ve made a mistake? Own it. You’d gain more respect.

How did you know that the posts were "right wing"?

The "BBC bad" line has been created by trolls? So I must be mistaken that there were internal BBC reports worried about bias, and misleading news (such as the Trump capitol hill editing)?

Shortshriftandlethal · Yesterday 11:50

BlessingYou · Yesterday 02:36

The starting OP was simply “A woman stabbing four men ?Or am I nasty and old?” There was no mention of the BBC or other media.

Of course, the implication was there that the ‘woman’ was not a woman at all. There had already been plenty of right-wing X posts that I’d seen by then suggesting as such, so I wasn’t surprised to see the thread. The faux “It’s the media’s fault we react this way” is curious, though, as it implies that women here don’t have much agency. This ‘BBC bad’ line is one that has been fed to you over years by trolls - so much so that you have come to believe it and repeat it. I’ve seen this occurring not only in Britain but with national broadcasters in other countries ATM, so it isn’t localised to you.

You’ve made a mistake? Own it. You’d gain more respect.

Also women here are not stupid people who are simply fed lines by social media which they then believe. Theer are many here who have been involved in the push-back against trans tyranny for many years; meeting in each other's homes; not announcing their meeting/venue times until the last minute lest they be attacked by trans activists; people who have been banned from their special interest forums; disciplined at work; ejected from their local labour parties and trade unions; bad mouthed by people; told they are bigots; and told that they are alt right wingers who have been manipulated.....

None of this is remotely true; rather it is the other way around. Provocateurs who come on this board to provoke tend not to actually understand the issues or the motivations of people who post here; instead they believe what they read and share on-line; usually completely misrepresenting the issues as they are perceived and understood.

ThatCyanCat · Yesterday 11:48

BlessingYou · Yesterday 11:45

I don’t expect anyone to give the benefit of the doubt to anything. Like I said before, don’t have just one source of news. Read widely. Read left, right, centre and things that would normally make you uncomfortable. If you encounter lies in some sources, doing this should equal it out.

See? Irrelevant non answer.

BlessingYou · Yesterday 11:45

ThatCyanCat · Yesterday 11:41

See? Total deflection and derailment.

And you still can’t answer.

BlessingYou · Yesterday 11:45

HousePlantEmergency · Yesterday 11:26

And still no response to:

In what other circumstances are we expected to give the benefit of the doubt when we have been lied to over and over again?

"Interesting"

I don’t expect anyone to give the benefit of the doubt to anything. Like I said before, don’t have just one source of news. Read widely. Read left, right, centre and things that would normally make you uncomfortable. If you encounter lies in some sources, doing this should equal it out.

Shortshriftandlethal · Yesterday 11:44

BlessingYou · Yesterday 07:59

You seem to be making a few assumptions about me here. That aside, yes, these threads do make me wonder about the media literacy of some posters. It’s has always been the case that you should never trust one news site only, but cross-check on other media sites for sanity - especially if it’s a particular interest area. Skepticism is healthy, as you note, but that is not what was happening here. What happened here was an automatic jump to this is a trans woman based on the images. That is misogyny and laziness, not skepticism. Nothing to do with the BBC or anything else.

It had nothing to do with any images. Nobody had seen any images until more recently.

The suspicion arose because it was a non typical crime to be committed by a woman ( stabbing four men in public), but mostly because we have grown used to press reports using self declared 'gender identity' as an indicator of the sex of the perpetrator. This has been going on for years, at both national level and in local media reporting. Put these two things together and it now leads to suspicion.

If we cannot trust our national media sources to always correctly identify the sex of a perpertrator then people no longer trust it.

ThatCyanCat · Yesterday 11:41

BlessingYou · Yesterday 11:40

You haven’t answered my question either. Again you seem to be implying you know something about me and my history as a poster. Who do you think I am?

See? Total deflection and derailment.

BlessingYou · Yesterday 11:40

ThatCyanCat · Yesterday 11:35

You won't get an honest, direct or intelligent answer. It will be some selection of "yes it is", "no it's not", "apart from that" and any kind of nonsense accusation. The purpose is obtuseness, deflection, time wasting and pushing pertinent posts out of visibility.

You haven’t answered my question either. Again you seem to be implying you know something about me and my history as a poster. Who do you think I am?

ThatCyanCat · Yesterday 11:35

HousePlantEmergency · Yesterday 11:26

And still no response to:

In what other circumstances are we expected to give the benefit of the doubt when we have been lied to over and over again?

"Interesting"

You won't get an honest, direct or intelligent answer. It will be some selection of "yes it is", "no it's not", "apart from that" and any kind of nonsense accusation. The purpose is obtuseness, deflection, time wasting and pushing pertinent posts out of visibility.

HousePlantEmergency · Yesterday 11:26

And still no response to:

In what other circumstances are we expected to give the benefit of the doubt when we have been lied to over and over again?

"Interesting"

BlessingYou · Yesterday 11:13

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

No, that was an ad hominem.

Thank you for the explanation though.

AprilMizzel · Yesterday 11:13

I didn't see any images before this thread was posted - and I was commenting early on.

I can't say what other posters saw especially those who came to the thread later.

It's a wider issue - loss of trust in media reporting and institutions across several issues.

BlessingYou · Yesterday 11:08

HousePlantEmergency · Yesterday 10:17

And to add, I've just ordered a search of news articles on order of date and the only photographs I can find (which were part of reports posted literally minutes before the thread started on 15:35 on 5th August) are the extremely grainy ones of her on the ground, face down.
You can't make anything out.

It was only AFTER the thread was posted that news agencies were providing clearer photographs

So, yes, images before the thread was posted.

HousePlantEmergency · Yesterday 10:17

And to add, I've just ordered a search of news articles on order of date and the only photographs I can find (which were part of reports posted literally minutes before the thread started on 15:35 on 5th August) are the extremely grainy ones of her on the ground, face down.
You can't make anything out.

It was only AFTER the thread was posted that news agencies were providing clearer photographs

HousePlantEmergency · Yesterday 10:05

BlessingYou · Yesterday 09:51

Interesting. I’d seen images before the thread existed.

Why is that "interesting"?

Strange response.

But notably no response to my question about why we are expected to trust sources that we KNOW have repeatedly lied for years.

Again - In what other circumstances are we expected to give the benefit of the doubt when we have been lied to over and over again?