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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Polycule falls apart

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RoyalCorgi · 31/07/2026 08:54

I expect people remember that Heather Herbert (charged in relation to social media comments he made after Ann Widdecombe's death) is in a polycule with Sophie Molly (aka Sparkles, aka Euan Weddell) and someone called Poppybear.

Molly, I believe, is a witness for Jolyon Maugham in Sarah Phillimore's libel case against Maugham.

Poppybear has been posting some very indiscreet posts on BlueSky about both Molly and Herbert, and it looks, tragically, as if the polycule has fallen apart.

According to Poppybear, Herbert's comments about Widdecombe "painted a bullseye on all of us", and led to the police coming in and "invading" all their devices (whatever that means).

Also according to Poppybear, living with Sophie Molly is "like being permanently slapped around the face by pathological laziness unless it's something that grooms her ego."

Oh dear.

https://x.com/DogLoverOfPI/status/2082944747862188490

In a separate development, apparently Herbert has had his toxic kidney removed by the NHS so the money donated to the fundraiser is going to be used for something else:

https://x.com/WillyWoofter/status/2082494111555190875

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WrongKindOfFeminist · 05/08/2026 16:17

UtopiaPlanitia · 05/08/2026 15:41

Some further info on the case included in an article by Stephen Daisley:

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2026/08/05/police-dont-deserve-our-support-or-money/

'Some wonder whether policing, like so many institutions in Britain’s national life, is now intractably captured and politicised. Where before they would have happily endorsed calls for increased investment, they question whether it is in their interests that an organisation that appears hostile towards people like them be given more of their money.

The revelation that a journalist was not only investigated by officers but ordered not to contact the subject of his story will only inflate the numbers feeling this way.

It does not matter that no action was taken against Grove in the end. The very fact that the Metropolitan Police spent four months investigating a journalist for his reporting activities, the fact that seemingly no one involved realised how thoroughly disgraceful the very existence of such an investigation was, is proof that Scotland Yard has badly lost its way.

It is no exaggeration to say that the Met’s conduct in this matter was an open assault by the police on the freedom of the press. Had a similar investigation taken place in most other Western democracies, the commissioner would be clearing his desk right now.
Britain’s tradition is one of policing by consent, but consent requires trust, and trust is crumbling. While that continues to be ignored, and police continue to err as seriously as they did in this case, policing edges ever closer to a crisis of legitimacy.'

There is also Craig Murray, in Scotland.

I don't think I will ever get over the jailing of a journalist for reporting on a case involving politicians. And I know that Murray is a prize knob.

https://scottishpen.org/statement-on-detention-of-author-and-human-rights-campaigner-craig-murray/

'Scottish PEN is extremely alarmed by reports of recent events in Scotland. On 18 October, The National reported that the Scottish author, human rights campaigner and former diplomat Craig Murray had been detained by members of Police Scotland’s Border Policing Command unit under the UK’s draconian anti-terror laws.'

Statement on Detention of Author and Human Rights Campaigner, Craig Murray

https://scottishpen.org/statement-on-detention-of-author-and-human-rights-campaigner-craig-murray/

WrongKindOfFeminist · 05/08/2026 16:19

https://judiciary.scot/home/sentences-judgments/sentences-and-opinions/2021/05/11/craig-murray-petition-and-complaint

'The respondent is 62, has no prior convictions, and has been a useful member of society, having formerly served as a British Ambassador. He is married with a young family. He suffers from a number of health issues, including pulmonary hypertension. We do not repeat the details of the respondent’s health here, but we recognise that the respondent has a number of serious health issues, and have taken them into account in our determination. It was submitted that there were grave concerns over his capacity to deal with a period of imprisonment.'

Craig Murray: Petition and Complaint

https://judiciary.scot/home/sentences-judgments/sentences-and-opinions/2021/05/11/craig-murray-petition-and-complaint

Schmuliana · 05/08/2026 18:49

You know the only reason we even know that these repellent men exist is that they just happened to be alive at the one time in history when the culture had a random moment of madness and decided that these are people we should be centring and listening to. From here on out they will go back to festering away unknown in the grotty bedsits from whence they came, getting up to god knows what but thankfully we won't have to hear about it anymore.

WeMeetInFairIthilien · 05/08/2026 22:37

KTheGrey · 05/08/2026 11:16

I suspect Bath is low on crime at 1.30am, which is nice for those who live there 😆

I dunno, there have been plenty of middle-of-the-night sirens through the summer.

Hoardasurass · 05/08/2026 22:57

INeedAPensieve · 04/08/2026 13:27

Are all of these people connected to one another? As in, is this Stephanie Hayden and Lyndsay Watson etc friends with the Aberdeen polycule? I wonder what information has been discovered on all of their devices.

What a time to be alive...

Yes and tarquin and others who i wont mention because I dont want a pera ban

BlakeCarrington · 06/08/2026 00:02

WerewolfOfLoudon · 05/08/2026 13:36

The polycule insist they are "real" women. Absolutely none of them will declare they are male.

Quite. Defeats the whole object of honesty and transparency to omit the most pertinent fact - they all men and very creepy ones at that.

BlakeCarrington · 06/08/2026 00:04

Schmuliana · 05/08/2026 18:49

You know the only reason we even know that these repellent men exist is that they just happened to be alive at the one time in history when the culture had a random moment of madness and decided that these are people we should be centring and listening to. From here on out they will go back to festering away unknown in the grotty bedsits from whence they came, getting up to god knows what but thankfully we won't have to hear about it anymore.

Oh happy day!

UtopiaPlanitia · 06/08/2026 03:03

Lalgarh · 06/08/2026 01:50

This Frenchman was hoodwinked for 20 years

https://youtube.com/shorts/iXQiV1OBo6U?is=cVm3voTXXQjyk8Xu

Looking at the pictures of all involved, that Frenchman wasn’t very observant 🤯

Seriestwo · 06/08/2026 08:44

Good grief. That poor child.

Chersfrozenface · 06/08/2026 08:57

UtopiaPlanitia · 06/08/2026 03:03

Looking at the pictures of all involved, that Frenchman wasn’t very observant 🤯

His knowledge of female anatomy and human reproduction must have been truly lamentable.

Monstershark · 06/08/2026 09:13

Probably Easier to claim being hoodwinked than gay in those days

lechiffre55 · 06/08/2026 11:44

Lalgarh · 06/08/2026 01:50

This Frenchman was hoodwinked for 20 years

https://youtube.com/shorts/iXQiV1OBo6U?is=cVm3voTXXQjyk8Xu

I'm sorry but I couldn't stop laughing while watching that. I'm very against sex by deception, but I just couldn't help myself. That crosses the line into the far absurd farce. Made me think of Inspector Clouseau.
Surely from a spying point of view that's got to be an ultimate success? I've heard of disguises but that's just ridiculous.

KTheGrey · 06/08/2026 12:29

WeMeetInFairIthilien · 05/08/2026 22:37

I dunno, there have been plenty of middle-of-the-night sirens through the summer.

Maybe it’s the same over-zealous PC - he did tell WOS that he had to come in IMMEDIATELY which was not only nuts but also actually untrue.

Lalgarh · 06/08/2026 12:47

lechiffre55 · 06/08/2026 11:44

I'm sorry but I couldn't stop laughing while watching that. I'm very against sex by deception, but I just couldn't help myself. That crosses the line into the far absurd farce. Made me think of Inspector Clouseau.
Surely from a spying point of view that's got to be an ultimate success? I've heard of disguises but that's just ridiculous.

Bernard had had multiple bi relationships as well so you'd think he'd know.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bernard_Boursicot

He even wanted to form his own throuple with the spy and another man

I'm thinking the mysterious Tabitha is the Mata Hari of that Aberdeen group. Group purity spiral dictates that someone will accuse him of being an MI5 plant soon

lechiffre55 · 06/08/2026 12:57

@Lalgarh
Ahhh thank you. I think your additional information helps me. I was wondering how could he possibly not have known? Your additional info makes me think that it was only a problem when the "wife" was discovered to be a Chinese spy. I think at that point the diplomat played the "I had no idea, get out of jail" card. That's the only possible explanation that makes any sense.
Perhaps ( almost certainly ) the Chinese knew of the diplomat's tastes and tailored the whole situation from the start.
Prior to your additional info I had a mental vision of the Chinese spy having a meeting with his superiors and there being a big "You want me to do what??? A false moustache and trench coat is one thing, but no fukking way am I doing that! " followed by copious arm twisting and a Chinese wrist burn or two.

Lalgarh · Yesterday 00:53

There's more. Content warning Mental Health.

https://bsky.app/profile/did:plc:fcq54q4txlmbasuy5tuogjqc/post/3msfsinzcy22y

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Polycule falls apart
KnottyAuty · Yesterday 07:28

Lalgarh · Yesterday 00:53

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Oh dear. This all sounds so dysfunctional. For all the parties involved!

WrongKindOfFeminist · Yesterday 07:53

Geezo.

All sounds very disturbing.

WrongKindOfFeminist · Yesterday 09:09

I feel that 'clusterfuck' might be a better term than 'polycule'.

Chersfrozenface · Yesterday 09:14

WrongKindOfFeminist · Yesterday 09:09

I feel that 'clusterfuck' might be a better term than 'polycule'.

But then I wouldn't be able to use the adjective "polycular".

EmpressaurusKitty · Yesterday 09:20

Chersfrozenface · Yesterday 09:14

But then I wouldn't be able to use the adjective "polycular".

No, but you could replace it with “clusterfuckular” which has an extra syllable.

MarjorieWestriding · Yesterday 09:31

We definitely need the laugh emoticon back.

BezMark · Yesterday 09:55

quadricodependocule?