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I found an academic blog about the history of women's public toilets and the 'urinary leash'

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BadSkiingMum · 23/07/2026 16:24

By sheer chance I happened to find an academic blog about the history of women's public toilets and the impact of the urinary leash. I was searching for something using the words 'women owned logo' (which is a business promotion scheme in the USA) and my finger slipped off the 'g', leaving me with a search for 'women owned loo'!

It's an interesting blog and what stood out to me is that the big London department stores only introduced women's toilets for commercial reasons, as they realised that it would help women to spend more money. Perhaps there is a lesson in that for the issues of today? I remember that in America they had the 19th century women's 'Rest Rooms' movement in big cities. I think those facilities were more similar to waiting rooms, in that they had a sitting area as well as the toilets, but anyone who has been to a hotel built in that era knows that ladies loos often have a sitting area as well as the toilet facilities. So there was a understanding of the privacy/safety need, as well as hygiene.

Women’s rights and the “loo leash”: the fight for public toilets in the UK | Water, Sanitation and Health (WASH) Blog

Thank you to the author for putting this article out there.

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alexdgr8 · 15/08/2026 01:38

Like Ladies only carriages.
There was never a carriage for men only.

alexdgr8 · 15/08/2026 01:36

Women's waiting rooms I remember.

But never heard or seen men's ones.
It was marked Ladies waiting room.
The other was simply
Waiting room. Open to all

WearyAuldWumman · 15/08/2026 01:08

Bacha1910 · 28/07/2026 16:49

There were still rooms marked ladies’ and men's waiting rooms on some stations when I was a child in the 1980s. Though, I think long disused. My nan always insisted on sitting in the one for women.

I recall using them in the '60s and '70s.

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 15/08/2026 00:53

BadSkiingMum · 23/07/2026 16:24

By sheer chance I happened to find an academic blog about the history of women's public toilets and the impact of the urinary leash. I was searching for something using the words 'women owned logo' (which is a business promotion scheme in the USA) and my finger slipped off the 'g', leaving me with a search for 'women owned loo'!

It's an interesting blog and what stood out to me is that the big London department stores only introduced women's toilets for commercial reasons, as they realised that it would help women to spend more money. Perhaps there is a lesson in that for the issues of today? I remember that in America they had the 19th century women's 'Rest Rooms' movement in big cities. I think those facilities were more similar to waiting rooms, in that they had a sitting area as well as the toilets, but anyone who has been to a hotel built in that era knows that ladies loos often have a sitting area as well as the toilet facilities. So there was a understanding of the privacy/safety need, as well as hygiene.

Women’s rights and the “loo leash”: the fight for public toilets in the UK | Water, Sanitation and Health (WASH) Blog

Thank you to the author for putting this article out there.

The 'urinary leash' is a total myth. Working-class women had been away from home in workplaces forever (in fields, factories, stately homes, etc), they weren't in any way 'leashed' to their homes.

Nor we're upper-class women, who either ordered a servant to fetch a chamberpot or used the convenient hole in their bodices and pissed wherever.

Public toilets were a response to hygiene concerns, to stop people pissing in the street. And have never been safe.

lcakethereforeIam · 15/08/2026 00:07

This was just supposed to be a pertinent bump

But reading the thread reminded me of a bit in one of the books in Pat Barker's Regeneration trilogy, a character (an older woman) was described as urinating in the street by just straddling her legs and pissing like a mare. Something facilitated by the long dresses of black bombazine she wore. It seemed to be a custom that was dying out but, presumably, had been commoner. I don't believe the author made this up from thin air but it's never appeared in anything else I've ever read. Currently I'm reading Little Women, in which (so far) no one goes to the toilet despite going on long picnics, with plenty of food and drink or spending hours sitting under trees some distance from home. Obviously it would be unusual if these bodily functions did get a mention. How the sexes managed their toilet arrangements (or didn't) was too vulgar to mention.

I did once tell a bloke in a pub, who was annoying me, that women going to the toilet in pairs was a holdover from the days when we wore long skirts and needed help to wrangle them. He believed me. I thought I was making it up...

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MarmaladeorJam · 13/08/2026 15:26

Grammarnut · 13/08/2026 14:35

I have some modern hoops, and you can do just that. But working class women were probably still wearing the original crinolin, which was actually stiff fabric and would have been much less easy to manipulate.
I have often wondered how women in the early 1800s managed menstruation with see-thru muslins. Anyone know?

Me too - I often wonder about menstruation management.

In fact, it crossed my mind that the layers they wore as undergarments could well have helped for staining.

The later hoops while constraining on the one hand, would surely have been great on the other? In the sense that the legs under the hoops are very free. It created a bubble around the wearer, and again, for many things including menstruation, could have been quite freeing?

If you come across any reading material I would be glad of it!

Grammarnut · 13/08/2026 14:35

BadSkiingMum · 29/07/2026 18:54

I saw the same video, apparently you could just flip the hoops up at the back. Rather like you can with a hula hoop!

I think Edwardian long and straight or even ‘hobble’ skirts must have been more of a nuisance. But that was also when the rational dress movement was picking up pace.

I have some modern hoops, and you can do just that. But working class women were probably still wearing the original crinolin, which was actually stiff fabric and would have been much less easy to manipulate.
I have often wondered how women in the early 1800s managed menstruation with see-thru muslins. Anyone know?

Grammarnut · 13/08/2026 14:32

AlwaysExtraHot · 28/07/2026 16:12

In Tolstoy’s Anna Karenina there’s a reference to her going into the ‘First Class ladies waiting room’ at a station. Although obviously it might be different in the original Russian.
I'm sure I've read fiction by UK authors referring to a First Class ladies waiting room as well. I think it might be one of those things that did exist but which is lost to history.

They certainly did. I suspect they disappeared in the mid-60s. But some stations still have women's waiting rooms even now. Very useful if you are alone.

VerinMathwin · 05/08/2026 22:48

BadSkiingMum · 23/07/2026 16:24

By sheer chance I happened to find an academic blog about the history of women's public toilets and the impact of the urinary leash. I was searching for something using the words 'women owned logo' (which is a business promotion scheme in the USA) and my finger slipped off the 'g', leaving me with a search for 'women owned loo'!

It's an interesting blog and what stood out to me is that the big London department stores only introduced women's toilets for commercial reasons, as they realised that it would help women to spend more money. Perhaps there is a lesson in that for the issues of today? I remember that in America they had the 19th century women's 'Rest Rooms' movement in big cities. I think those facilities were more similar to waiting rooms, in that they had a sitting area as well as the toilets, but anyone who has been to a hotel built in that era knows that ladies loos often have a sitting area as well as the toilet facilities. So there was a understanding of the privacy/safety need, as well as hygiene.

Women’s rights and the “loo leash”: the fight for public toilets in the UK | Water, Sanitation and Health (WASH) Blog

Thank you to the author for putting this article out there.

Interesting read. Some proof reading might have spotted the "After the commissioning of the first flashing public toilet in 1851"...

MarmaladeorJam · 30/07/2026 03:04

EmpressDomesticatednottamed · 29/07/2026 16:20

Oh, erm, I watch a youtube called called Prior Attire, mostly because I sew a bit and am interested in how clothing was constructed. The furthest I have ever gone is a cheats version of a kirtle, not from this channel, she's proper authentic.

Anyhow, the woman whose channel it is addressed this issue, because the people watching asked her to, I think it was the most asked question.. All those cages for crinolines and bustles collapse and fold really easily, they aren't even heavy, as she demonstrated with various receptacles. Not actually demonstrated in case anyone is worried! Getting into a cubicle and managing it would be tricky tho, depending on the cubicle.

I can't put up a link but the video is called "How did Victorian women go to the toilet, a remake"

I also think that working and middle class women had lesser versions or no versions of cages under their skirts, especially working class women. It would get in the way and also use far to much fabric as you'd need to be able to afford yards of the stuff for a crinoline

Corset myth busting also available on same channel.

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I just did a dive on that channel - I love it.

Thank you so much.

EmpressDomesticatednottamed · 29/07/2026 19:39

BadSkiingMum · 29/07/2026 18:54

I saw the same video, apparently you could just flip the hoops up at the back. Rather like you can with a hula hoop!

I think Edwardian long and straight or even ‘hobble’ skirts must have been more of a nuisance. But that was also when the rational dress movement was picking up pace.

One of my grandmothers used to spit feathers about hobble skirts, impossible to get on a bus was a sore point.

BadSkiingMum · 29/07/2026 18:54

I saw the same video, apparently you could just flip the hoops up at the back. Rather like you can with a hula hoop!

I think Edwardian long and straight or even ‘hobble’ skirts must have been more of a nuisance. But that was also when the rational dress movement was picking up pace.

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EmpressDomesticatednottamed · 29/07/2026 16:20

UtopiaPlanitia · 29/07/2026 16:09

Did the availability and design of public toilets have an effect on the decline of the huge crinolines? I can't imagine how a woman could use a loo while wearing one of those huge petticoated and hooped skirts 🤯

Oh, erm, I watch a youtube called called Prior Attire, mostly because I sew a bit and am interested in how clothing was constructed. The furthest I have ever gone is a cheats version of a kirtle, not from this channel, she's proper authentic.

Anyhow, the woman whose channel it is addressed this issue, because the people watching asked her to, I think it was the most asked question.. All those cages for crinolines and bustles collapse and fold really easily, they aren't even heavy, as she demonstrated with various receptacles. Not actually demonstrated in case anyone is worried! Getting into a cubicle and managing it would be tricky tho, depending on the cubicle.

I can't put up a link but the video is called "How did Victorian women go to the toilet, a remake"

I also think that working and middle class women had lesser versions or no versions of cages under their skirts, especially working class women. It would get in the way and also use far to much fabric as you'd need to be able to afford yards of the stuff for a crinoline

Corset myth busting also available on same channel.

HoldMyWine · 29/07/2026 16:13

I have read similar myself, during COVID. If you recall public toilets, the few we had were shut during COVID, making life difficult for women being in public spaces such as parks and beaches.
I remember going to my local beach and having to coopee down in the rocks to have a wee. Men obviously didn’t have this problem.

UtopiaPlanitia · 29/07/2026 16:09

Solrock · 29/07/2026 11:55

It was not just working-class women finding a quiet spot to urinate. If you scour Victorian accounts of everyday life you find indicators that middle-class women did so too; there's a striking passage in "My Secret Life" which talks about how middle-class women would find places to urinate in public parks. Mid-Victorian crinolines helped a lot. The trend which is apparent - and this is true with many forms of social change - is the introduction of public toilets acts both as a cause and an effect. Public urination becomes more socially problematic, so public toilets become more common, but at the same time the growing availability of public toilets draws disapproval to public urination.

Also, one must be careful about talking about prostitution in Victorian Britain. Because of the disapproval from some quarters as to sexual relationships outside of marriage, any sexual relationship outside of marriage might be labelled as prostitution, even where no money would change hands. There's a very telling investigation of prostitution in the fourth volume of "London Labour and the London Poor" (written by Bracebridge Hemyng, and not Henry Mayhew, who wrote most of the rest of the series) where you have, for instance, unmarried cohabitation described as prostitution. Whilst the scale of prostitution in Victorian London was undoubtedly large, it was also confused by a certain kind of social commentary which was very common.

Best read on women in Victorian London: "City of Dreadful Delight" by Judith Walkowitz, published in 1992, and still the best book kind-of-but-not-really about Jack the Ripper. It's about narratives of danger facing Victorian women, so heavily focused on perception, but a great book, and very relevant to the modern world.

Did the availability and design of public toilets have an effect on the decline of the huge crinolines? I can't imagine how a woman could use a loo while wearing one of those huge petticoated and hooped skirts 🤯

Solrock · 29/07/2026 11:55

BadSkiingMum · 28/07/2026 21:50

My understanding is that working class women just went anywhere they could when they were out of the home: alleys, side-streets, field edges, behind hedgerows…Long skirts helped.

I think the ‘chaperone’ principle applied too because women would walk together, wait for each other or shield each other from view while toileting. There’s a scene like this in ‘The Piano’.

Unfortunately working class women and girls were subject to a lot of sexual harassment by both men of their own class and middle class men, who regarded female shop-workers, milliners and factory workers as easy game.

Dr Barnado was as much concerned about child prostitution as poverty. Unfortunately prostitution was absolutely rife in Victorian London, which is one of the reasons why he began setting up homes for girls. 😕

It was not just working-class women finding a quiet spot to urinate. If you scour Victorian accounts of everyday life you find indicators that middle-class women did so too; there's a striking passage in "My Secret Life" which talks about how middle-class women would find places to urinate in public parks. Mid-Victorian crinolines helped a lot. The trend which is apparent - and this is true with many forms of social change - is the introduction of public toilets acts both as a cause and an effect. Public urination becomes more socially problematic, so public toilets become more common, but at the same time the growing availability of public toilets draws disapproval to public urination.

Also, one must be careful about talking about prostitution in Victorian Britain. Because of the disapproval from some quarters as to sexual relationships outside of marriage, any sexual relationship outside of marriage might be labelled as prostitution, even where no money would change hands. There's a very telling investigation of prostitution in the fourth volume of "London Labour and the London Poor" (written by Bracebridge Hemyng, and not Henry Mayhew, who wrote most of the rest of the series) where you have, for instance, unmarried cohabitation described as prostitution. Whilst the scale of prostitution in Victorian London was undoubtedly large, it was also confused by a certain kind of social commentary which was very common.

Best read on women in Victorian London: "City of Dreadful Delight" by Judith Walkowitz, published in 1992, and still the best book kind-of-but-not-really about Jack the Ripper. It's about narratives of danger facing Victorian women, so heavily focused on perception, but a great book, and very relevant to the modern world.

MarmaladeorJam · 29/07/2026 03:13

A series on Elizabethan theatre mentioned the fact that chamber pots were taken to people (especially women).

The pots were placed on the ground and the women could simply squat on the pot, with privacy provided by the gowns.

BadSkiingMum · 28/07/2026 21:50

My understanding is that working class women just went anywhere they could when they were out of the home: alleys, side-streets, field edges, behind hedgerows…Long skirts helped.

I think the ‘chaperone’ principle applied too because women would walk together, wait for each other or shield each other from view while toileting. There’s a scene like this in ‘The Piano’.

Unfortunately working class women and girls were subject to a lot of sexual harassment by both men of their own class and middle class men, who regarded female shop-workers, milliners and factory workers as easy game.

Dr Barnado was as much concerned about child prostitution as poverty. Unfortunately prostitution was absolutely rife in Victorian London, which is one of the reasons why he began setting up homes for girls. 😕

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MarmaladeorJam · 28/07/2026 19:24

UtopiaPlanitia · 28/07/2026 16:34

Yes, but in Victorian terms those women who worked for a living didn't count because they were working-class and, therefore, didn't have the sensitive natures of middle-class and upper-class women. They were to be pitied and managed by religion and charity.

To this day, I still think the UK and Irish States/NGOs view working-class women as less important when it comes to crime prevention and less easily distressed than women from the middle and upper classes.

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So so true.

I think the divisions of money have a far bigger impact than the divisions of race.

MarmaladeorJam · 28/07/2026 19:21

AlwaysExtraHot · 28/07/2026 16:11

I was reading a history of New York (random I know!)
Not at all! That must be fascinating. Could you share the title?

The Encyclopedia of New York City by Professor Kenneth T Jackson.

Theresmagicwheretheflowersgrow · 28/07/2026 19:02

AlwaysExtraHot · 28/07/2026 16:12

In Tolstoy’s Anna Karenina there’s a reference to her going into the ‘First Class ladies waiting room’ at a station. Although obviously it might be different in the original Russian.
I'm sure I've read fiction by UK authors referring to a First Class ladies waiting room as well. I think it might be one of those things that did exist but which is lost to history.

I remember ladies' waiting rooms in railway stations. It used to be acknowledged that women and children needed privacy and a safe single sex space away from men. I haven't seen one in this country for years which is a shame as we need our spaces more than ever now.

EmpressDomesticatednottamed · 28/07/2026 17:54

TeaAndStrumpets · 28/07/2026 17:49

Posh department stores in the 70s often had an attendant who supervised the ladies' room and toilet. People generally left her a tip.

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Cavendish House in Cheltenham had one who swooped in and wiped seats.
It was a bit much tbh, she barely let you get out before she was in there..
Then there was one at Paddington Station along with an enormous cat, that one just sat there, as did the cat, I never saw it move out of the cardboard box it reclined in.

EmpressDomesticatednottamed · 28/07/2026 17:51

Bacha1910 · 28/07/2026 16:47

It’s like working class women never existed for some historians.

It's a bit much when the historian is in Leeds given the textile history there!

They had to go somewhere for goodness sake 🙄

TeaAndStrumpets · 28/07/2026 17:49

Posh department stores in the 70s often had an attendant who supervised the ladies' room and toilet. People generally left her a tip.

LadyHexham · 28/07/2026 17:34

There was a ladies' waiting room at Leeds City station when I was a student in the late 70s.

Much warmer than hanging around on the platform between trains.