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Heartstopper Forever film TRA propaganda: "People don't want me using public bathrooms", "Government is taking away my rights"

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HelenaRavenclaw · 18/07/2026 06:42

The final instalment of Netflix's Heartstopper is here, and it's a film. The TRA propaganda is hardly unsurprising given that it's written by Alice Oseman the arch-TRA...but it's disgusting how these people are using a teen film to twist the truth and sensationalize things to get pity from the masses. "People don't want [trans people] to use public bathrooms": how convenient indeed to leave out the "intended for the opposite sex"! (Like saying "People don't want me to use money", leaving out the "stolen from others" part.) "Government is taking away my rights": what rights don't trans people have? (Does being poor give someone the right to simply grab other people's money without their consent? Doesn't the fact that laws exist and are enforced in society mean that the government is taking away rights from everyone, such as the right to break into one's neighbour's house, or the right to take home things from a store without paying?)

I hope that every sane adult whose children watch this film (and previous seasons of the show) will sit down with the kids and explain how deliberately deceptive and illogical the TRA propaganda is.

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/07/2026 12:15

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 10:43

Isla Bryson is a convicted criminal who was rightfully imprisoned. Do you honestly believe that all trans people are rapists? Focusing entirely on one bad person to paint an entire population as a threat is incredibly dishonest. Every demographic contains bad actors, but weaponising the actions of one terrible person to justify a blanket hostility toward an entire group is textbook prejudice.

Isla Bryson isn’t going to be “rightfully imprisoned” forever, is he? He’ll be out in a few years. Do you think he should go into a women’s hostel after like convicted trans paedophile, who tried to rape a little girl in supermarket toilets, Katie Dolatowski did?

Also, before “Isla” went into prison, he used the magic power of “trans identity” to coerce a class of young women on the beautician course he was on into getting naked for spray tanning, even though they expressed that they were uncomfortable with it.

https://www.dailyrecord.co.uk/news/scottish-news/scots-beauty-students-asked-strip-29059044

Scots beauty students asked to strip in front of trans rapist after sex attacks

Ayrshire College students told how they got naked for spray tan sessions in front of Isla Bryson, 31, while unaware she was awaiting trial for two rapes she committed as a man.

https://www.dailyrecord.co.uk/news/scottish-news/scots-beauty-students-asked-strip-29059044

TheKeatingFive · 20/07/2026 12:10

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 12:05

There are a lot of replies here, but most of them seem to come back to the same flawed arguments.

First, it’s pretty ironic to accuse me of being “obsessed with toilets” when I was responding to a comment that specifically argued trans people should have to use separate facilities. I didn’t introduce the topic — you did.

Second, polling consistently shows that most women in the real world support trans rights and are not living in constant fear about public bathrooms. That isn’t just an assumption; it’s something reflected in actual research, not just online debates and outrage cycles.

Finally, the argument about safeguarding gets things backwards. Genuine safeguarding is about assessing individual circumstances and real risks, not using a small number of extreme cases to justify excluding an entire group of people. Trans people have become a convenient political scapegoat, while many of the real issues affecting women — including inequality, violence, and discrimination — continue to be ignored.

As a woman who has experienced sexism and the effects of patriarchy, I understand how deeply these issues still affect women. But supporting trans people does not undermine women’s rights, and disagreement with this argument does not mean someone hates women. Turning a harmless teen romance or ordinary people wanting to use public facilities into some kind of threat narrative only creates more division.

People who have never had to navigate the world as a trans person may not understand that experience firsthand, but that doesn’t mean their voices should outweigh the people who live it. Feminism should be about challenging systems of oppression, not targeting another vulnerable
minority.

No, your position is totally flawed.

Polling, when consumers are asked more specific questions that are less open to misinterpretation, are overwhelmingly in favour of women's spaces being upheld.

Safeguarding is absolutely about taking blanket positions. How on earth could safeguarding be managed on a case by case basis? That's completely unworkable. People have to have clear and reasonable rules/boundaries to work within.

And let me ask you this. If women have single sex spaces for their own safety and dignity, why on earth would an exception be made for one group of males? What's the justification for that?

And why not other groups of males who you could genuinely show are less of a threat to women? Like elderly men for example?

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 12:05

There are a lot of replies here, but most of them seem to come back to the same flawed arguments.

First, it’s pretty ironic to accuse me of being “obsessed with toilets” when I was responding to a comment that specifically argued trans people should have to use separate facilities. I didn’t introduce the topic — you did.

Second, polling consistently shows that most women in the real world support trans rights and are not living in constant fear about public bathrooms. That isn’t just an assumption; it’s something reflected in actual research, not just online debates and outrage cycles.

Finally, the argument about safeguarding gets things backwards. Genuine safeguarding is about assessing individual circumstances and real risks, not using a small number of extreme cases to justify excluding an entire group of people. Trans people have become a convenient political scapegoat, while many of the real issues affecting women — including inequality, violence, and discrimination — continue to be ignored.

As a woman who has experienced sexism and the effects of patriarchy, I understand how deeply these issues still affect women. But supporting trans people does not undermine women’s rights, and disagreement with this argument does not mean someone hates women. Turning a harmless teen romance or ordinary people wanting to use public facilities into some kind of threat narrative only creates more division.

People who have never had to navigate the world as a trans person may not understand that experience firsthand, but that doesn’t mean their voices should outweigh the people who live it. Feminism should be about challenging systems of oppression, not targeting another vulnerable
minority.

TheKeatingFive · 20/07/2026 11:16

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 10:43

Isla Bryson is a convicted criminal who was rightfully imprisoned. Do you honestly believe that all trans people are rapists? Focusing entirely on one bad person to paint an entire population as a threat is incredibly dishonest. Every demographic contains bad actors, but weaponising the actions of one terrible person to justify a blanket hostility toward an entire group is textbook prejudice.

This is not about 'weaponising the actions' of one person to create hostility.

This is about safeguarding.

Women have had single sex spaces for their safety (among other things) because men commit an overwhelming number of assaults.

IF there was any justification for letting one group of men into women's single sex spaces (I mean, there isn't, because men and men, they have no place in women's single SEX provision, but if there was) ...

You'd have to prove beyond all doubt that this group of men do not commit assaults.

Isla Bryson is a glaring contradiction therefore. And he's not the only offender.

So he's brought up to illustrate that this is a foolhardy and irresponsible approach to women's safety. It is totally out of order to treat women as acceptable collateral damage.

nutmeg7 · 20/07/2026 11:16

nutmeg7 · 20/07/2026 11:15

Laughter is also a sign of finding something funny.

Oh dear,I meant to quote something from up thread about laughter being a defensive response to bring “called out”.

But didn’t manage it!

nutmeg7 · 20/07/2026 11:15

Laughter is also a sign of finding something funny.

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 20/07/2026 11:14

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 11:05

The actual prison statistics show that trans people make up less than 0.2% of the prison estate, so using that tiny number to imply the population is full of 'bad actors' is a massive reach.

As for toilets and spaces, trans people have been using the facilities that match their lived gender for decades without a single issue. The reality is that the vast majority of women in the real world don't care, aren't checking people's birth certificates at the door, and just want to wash their hands in peace. This is an online obsession, not a real-world problem.

I said many bad actors not full. No not every trans person is a bad actor but enough are. Not all men are bad actors we are still allowed single sex spaces for privacy, dignity and safety.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 20/07/2026 11:10

As ever, it comes back to toilets with the TRAs.

Obsessed.

DialSquare · 20/07/2026 11:09

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 10:43

Isla Bryson is a convicted criminal who was rightfully imprisoned. Do you honestly believe that all trans people are rapists? Focusing entirely on one bad person to paint an entire population as a threat is incredibly dishonest. Every demographic contains bad actors, but weaponising the actions of one terrible person to justify a blanket hostility toward an entire group is textbook prejudice.

Well, as you and the rest of the TRA’s know, we aren’t doing that. We are treating trans identified males the same way we are treating all males. It’s called safeguarding.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 20/07/2026 11:09

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 11:05

The actual prison statistics show that trans people make up less than 0.2% of the prison estate, so using that tiny number to imply the population is full of 'bad actors' is a massive reach.

As for toilets and spaces, trans people have been using the facilities that match their lived gender for decades without a single issue. The reality is that the vast majority of women in the real world don't care, aren't checking people's birth certificates at the door, and just want to wash their hands in peace. This is an online obsession, not a real-world problem.

As for toilets and spaces, trans people have been using the facilities that match their lived gender for decades without a single issue. The reality is that the vast majority of women in the real world don't care, aren't checking people's birth certificates at the door, and just want to wash their hands in peace. This is an online obsession, not a real-world problem.

You have zero idea or evidence what women in the real world think.
It's just you assuming what they think.

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 11:05

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 20/07/2026 11:00

Unfortunately the transgender population has many bad actors as proved by current prison population statistics rather than a Swedish study.

I am happy for transgender people to live their lives free from discrimination and harassment however that does not extend to interfering with my right to single sex spaces free from people with the opposite sexed bodies. If they do not wish to use sss for their biological sex then they will need to use individual mixed sex facilities.

The actual prison statistics show that trans people make up less than 0.2% of the prison estate, so using that tiny number to imply the population is full of 'bad actors' is a massive reach.

As for toilets and spaces, trans people have been using the facilities that match their lived gender for decades without a single issue. The reality is that the vast majority of women in the real world don't care, aren't checking people's birth certificates at the door, and just want to wash their hands in peace. This is an online obsession, not a real-world problem.

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 20/07/2026 11:00

Unfortunately the transgender population has many bad actors as proved by current prison population statistics rather than a Swedish study.

I am happy for transgender people to live their lives free from discrimination and harassment however that does not extend to interfering with my right to single sex spaces free from people with the opposite sexed bodies. If they do not wish to use sss for their biological sex then they will need to use individual mixed sex facilities.

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 10:43

puyr · 20/07/2026 10:01

so you’re just going to ignore all the evidence and the fact that trans women have and continue to be a threat when in female
spaces? Have you heard of Isla Bryson? Or is it that you simply don’t care?

Isla Bryson is a convicted criminal who was rightfully imprisoned. Do you honestly believe that all trans people are rapists? Focusing entirely on one bad person to paint an entire population as a threat is incredibly dishonest. Every demographic contains bad actors, but weaponising the actions of one terrible person to justify a blanket hostility toward an entire group is textbook prejudice.

puyr · 20/07/2026 10:01

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 09:56

Focusing on a few extreme protest signs and using them to judge an entire group is a textbook example of prejudice. Most trans people are just ordinary people trying to live their lives, working, spending time with family and friends, and dealing with the same everyday challenges as everyone else. They're not a single, monolithic group, and there's no good evidence that trans people as a whole pose a threat to women.

In fact, the evidence points in the opposite direction. Study after study has found that transgender people are far more likely than cisgender people to experience violence, harassment, and other forms of victimization. One nationally representative analysis of the U.S. National Crime Victimization Survey found that transgender people were victims of violent crime at about four times the rate of cisgender people. The UK's Office for National Statistics has also reported higher rates of crime victimization among transgender respondents, while noting that its gender identity data has only been collected since 2019 and is still relatively limited.

Claims that trans people are inherently more criminal often rely on a misunderstanding of a 2011 Swedish study. The study's lead author has repeatedly said her work has been misrepresented. She has explained that the research looked at a historical group of people living under very different social and legal conditions, and that it should not be used to argue that trans people are naturally more criminal or to draw conclusions about transgender people today.

There's nothing wrong with criticising violent or hateful rhetoric at protests. But judging an entire group by the words or actions of a small minority is neither fair nor supported by the evidence.

so you’re just going to ignore all the evidence and the fact that trans women have and continue to be a threat when in female
spaces? Have you heard of Isla Bryson? Or is it that you simply don’t care?

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 09:58

puyr · 20/07/2026 09:36

that gave me a much needed laugh. Thank you.

Glad I could cheer you up. It's definitely easier to laugh it off than to actually self-reflect on why a teen show triggers you so much. But then again, laughter is a classic defense mechanism when you've been called out.

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 09:56

puyr · 20/07/2026 09:35

clearly you’ve not been paying attention to the men in frocks with decapitate terf banners, who’ve actually assaulted women. Trans women are male obviously and carry out criminal acts at a rate higher than natal men. Check the statistics. Is it just men you care about, their right to live securely and fuck biological women?
There’s a visceral, deep seated hatred of women in trans ideology and if you haven’t noticed it,
you've been asleep.

Focusing on a few extreme protest signs and using them to judge an entire group is a textbook example of prejudice. Most trans people are just ordinary people trying to live their lives, working, spending time with family and friends, and dealing with the same everyday challenges as everyone else. They're not a single, monolithic group, and there's no good evidence that trans people as a whole pose a threat to women.

In fact, the evidence points in the opposite direction. Study after study has found that transgender people are far more likely than cisgender people to experience violence, harassment, and other forms of victimization. One nationally representative analysis of the U.S. National Crime Victimization Survey found that transgender people were victims of violent crime at about four times the rate of cisgender people. The UK's Office for National Statistics has also reported higher rates of crime victimization among transgender respondents, while noting that its gender identity data has only been collected since 2019 and is still relatively limited.

Claims that trans people are inherently more criminal often rely on a misunderstanding of a 2011 Swedish study. The study's lead author has repeatedly said her work has been misrepresented. She has explained that the research looked at a historical group of people living under very different social and legal conditions, and that it should not be used to argue that trans people are naturally more criminal or to draw conclusions about transgender people today.

There's nothing wrong with criticising violent or hateful rhetoric at protests. But judging an entire group by the words or actions of a small minority is neither fair nor supported by the evidence.

Grammarnut · 20/07/2026 09:54

Whisperingwaters · 18/07/2026 06:50

Deceptive & illogical propaganda is indeed.

It's not illegal yet for trans people to use their preferred toilet. It's only possibly illegal for service providers to allow them which won't even be known for certain until case law clarifies this. If you have a single-sex space a trans person can still go into that single-sex space, but if someone complains, they can bring out a sex discrimination claim or the organisation can exclude that person, but that doesn’t happen automatically. Even if you do have a single-sex space, the exclusion must be proportionate, which means that the rights of whoever wants to be in a single-sex space, if they’re complaining, have to be counterbalanced against the rights of a trans person. Those rights still exist. The law hasn’t changed on that.

You are incorrect here. The SC ruling specifically made clear that 'case by case' proportionality was not what the law allows. The proportionality refers to having a single (biological) sex space. Certainly, trans people are not prevented going into single sex spaces, but those spaces must align with their sex not their gender id which does not entitle entry to single sex spaces of the opposite sex to the trans person. So a trans woman (a man) can use the men's single sex spaces. The position of trans men (women) is more nuanced since their masculine appearance must be taken into consideration in that they may cause alarm or fear in other women in the single sex space.

puyr · 20/07/2026 09:36

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 09:10

Imagine looking at a lighthearted teen romance, crying 'trans propaganda,' and then accusing others of having a victim mentality. Nobody is oppressed by Heartstopper. If a fictional teenager's story makes you this defensive, you might want to ask yourself why. Sorry to disappoint you, but you're not the victim here, you're just the villain.

that gave me a much needed laugh. Thank you.

puyr · 20/07/2026 09:35

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 09:19

How does a young person wanting to live their life securely translate to a 'hatred of women'? It doesn't. That is a completely manufactured narrative designed to turn a basic human rights issue into a battleground. Trans people are not the issue, nor are they a danger to anyone, they are just trying to live their lives in peace. Compassion isn't a finite resource; you can advocate for women's rights and safety while simultaneously wanting trans youth to grow up free from bullying and harassment. The two are not mutually exclusive.

clearly you’ve not been paying attention to the men in frocks with decapitate terf banners, who’ve actually assaulted women. Trans women are male obviously and carry out criminal acts at a rate higher than natal men. Check the statistics. Is it just men you care about, their right to live securely and fuck biological women?
There’s a visceral, deep seated hatred of women in trans ideology and if you haven’t noticed it,
you've been asleep.

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 09:19

puyr · 20/07/2026 08:50

it encourages professional lifelong victimhood.
And a lifelong hatred of women.

How does a young person wanting to live their life securely translate to a 'hatred of women'? It doesn't. That is a completely manufactured narrative designed to turn a basic human rights issue into a battleground. Trans people are not the issue, nor are they a danger to anyone, they are just trying to live their lives in peace. Compassion isn't a finite resource; you can advocate for women's rights and safety while simultaneously wanting trans youth to grow up free from bullying and harassment. The two are not mutually exclusive.

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 09:13

WrongKindOfFeminist · 20/07/2026 08:43

Representation of whom?

Representation of LGBT+ youth. It shows them experiencing the exact same high school milestones as any other kids. This shouldn't be a controversial concept, yet clearly still is.

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 09:10

puyr · 20/07/2026 08:55

“trying to exist”
Jeez, trotting out the same hackneyed cliches on cue…..
Professional victim mentality.
Nobody wants to erase, kill or genocide anyone. That’s all in your head.

Imagine looking at a lighthearted teen romance, crying 'trans propaganda,' and then accusing others of having a victim mentality. Nobody is oppressed by Heartstopper. If a fictional teenager's story makes you this defensive, you might want to ask yourself why. Sorry to disappoint you, but you're not the victim here, you're just the villain.

puyr · 20/07/2026 08:55

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 08:49

It calls out people who look at a show about LGBT+ youth simply trying to exist and reduce it to 'nonsense trans activism.' It's a teen drama, but the representation matters, and dismissing it like that speaks volumes.

“trying to exist”
Jeez, trotting out the same hackneyed cliches on cue…..
Professional victim mentality.
Nobody wants to erase, kill or genocide anyone. That’s all in your head.

puyr · 20/07/2026 08:50

it encourages professional lifelong victimhood.
And a lifelong hatred of women.

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 08:49

GreyskySexRealistsky · 20/07/2026 08:41

Who is it "calling out"?

It calls out people who look at a show about LGBT+ youth simply trying to exist and reduce it to 'nonsense trans activism.' It's a teen drama, but the representation matters, and dismissing it like that speaks volumes.

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