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Dude discusses sneaking into explicitly female event where women undress

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 17/07/2026 08:18

https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1uys5m7/taking_a_risk/

I absolutely think this should be a crime. To think my partner or daughter could be in some seemingly intimate space where women are trusting each other in a vulnerable state and suddenly someone clocks there is a man in there with them is genuinely shocking

Dude discusses sneaking into explicitly female event where women undress
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GreyskySexRealistsky · 17/07/2026 10:14

He uses the words "scared" and "scary" about going to this event. No actual woman would use those words about a women's event. He knows he's transgressing.

"I'm sad that I now have to deny that I'm trans just to live".
God, the drama.
No one's asking him to deny he's trans.
Just to keep out of a women's event because he's not one.
There is absolutely zero thought for the women there and how they will feel.

Lins77 · 17/07/2026 09:55

He is seeing it as a litmus test for whether he "passes", but that's not necessarily going to be the case. Women may well (probably will) clock him as male, but many will be too polite, embarrassed, or simply afraid, to make that clear.

I would expect a lot of side eye and edging away but not necessarily outright challenge. Unfortunately.

DrUptonsGardenGnome · 17/07/2026 09:42

Massage therapy class? Life drawing? I don’t know but if he’s getting undressed there’s no way he’ll pass.

fashionqueen0123 · 17/07/2026 09:40

I can think of an event where you’d randomly get ‘undressed’. Doesn’t he mean get changed? No women says we’re all getting undressed.
Swimming maybe? But it’s about health? Or maybe he’s invented it

Retiredfromthere · 17/07/2026 09:36

I feel very sorry for the person(s) organising this women only event where there is a deep level of trust that its women only (and no men) as they are being asked to take clothing off. This is the sort of thing where a by product of this TRAs activity will be that the event fails or that they decide its unsafe (for women) to run the event again. I hope they get turned back at the door/booking stage.

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 17/07/2026 09:36

Vile man. What on earth could the event be though? Is he fantasising that too?

solerolover · 17/07/2026 09:30

He definitely gets off on violating the consent of women, disgusting creep. I hope they throw his arse out.

Wishesandhorses · 17/07/2026 09:29

Justme56 · 17/07/2026 08:44

I wouldn’t be surprised if the humiliation is part of the excitement of doing this - the ‘having some fun!’ is a bit of a giveaway.

Yes. I read that and thought yep, there's the fetish.

This is a sexual game using non consenting women.

MagicMarkers · 17/07/2026 09:17

The humiliation is part of his fantasy.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 17/07/2026 09:15

"I will find out if I pass as well as I think"

How very telling.
If there's anything that proves it's all purely about using women as validation this is it.
I hope the women kick up a massive fuss and throw him out.
See how much fun that will be.

Justme56 · 17/07/2026 08:44

I wouldn’t be surprised if the humiliation is part of the excitement of doing this - the ‘having some fun!’ is a bit of a giveaway.

Seethlaw · 17/07/2026 08:26

So very telling that his worry is being humiliated, not a word about how the women there might be feeling. They really don't count except as validation tools.

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