Dude discusses sneaking into explicitly female event where women undress

If people are not actively confronting them they take it as "passing", when usually it's nothing of the sort.

But there are so many factors preventing women from speaking up in such situations. Fear of confrontation, not knowing what to say, a general tendency to politeness and "being kind". There's also the factor that in a group of women, an individual woman may fear the judgement of others (being seen as transphobic) if she says anything.

Fox in the hen house is quite the fantasy isn't it.

Now I really want to know what this event is!

No, men like him do NOT want to be women, which would mean being kind, doing the grunt work for free, being disbelieved, ignored and talked over at every turn and routinely treated as a second class citizen. Men like him keep their penises and their privilege and they know it, because so many women will tolerate this outrage

Sick
Where are all the interruptarons, coming to defend this?
"Among other women" ?? No. Among women. Fixed that
FFS

And a kck in the nts often offends 🙏

That phrase is very telling "they're just women, after all". On the one hand he wants to be a woman, a real woman, more than anything, on the other hand he dismisses real women in just five words _ how to tell us you're still a man at heart

Someone I knew went to naked yoga. The rest of us shuddered collectively when she told us.

And his smell. Men smell different to women.

The whole passing thing is so unnecessarily cruel to trans people. It is sad that it uses them to line the pockets of surgeons and drug companies.

It also really exposes the inescapable quality of being a man, socialised male, in our society: Because it never, ever seems to occur to some transwomen that that instead of them passing, what they are experiencing from actual women and girls, is fawning or acquiescence. Both from fear and a socialised need to be kind.

He says further down: "The point is about how I feel, my fear".

Honestly, you couldn't make it up.

This is why the lady who upset a man with a trans identity by screaming and running away from him had the right reaction.

If you say nothing and quietly leave the female single-sex space, they take it as evidence that they pass and that no one minds them being there. A lot of women are not happy with confronting a man in a female single-sex space. Some will complain to the service provider, but if the bloke doesn't know about the complaint, the transgression becomes evidence that he passes.

I agree. It looks like a made up titillation exercise.

And he'll come back and say how amazing it was that everyone accepted him, they couldn't tell he was a man, despite his one hundred percent male anatomy, face, attitude and misogyny.

If he happens to see this thread then I have a message for him.

You don’t “pass”. Every woman in the event will clock you for a male within seconds. You are a man, women are hardwired to spot men. These are the things that give it away instantly

your height
your body proportions ( shoulders to hips, arm and leg length, torso,neck)
your Adams apple
your voice
your hands
your feet
your jaw size
the way you move
your hair (head, chin, arms, legs)

And then there are these:

your cock and balls
your male entitlement
the fact that you don’t understand women , or speak like a woman
your clothing choices

I hope the event is horrendously expensive and that they throw you out without a refund.

Adam Graham aka 'Isla Bryson' enrolled on a beauty course for women which involved them being naked for the tanning classes. And they were told they had to go along with his fetish and do as he wished.

Disgusting.

"This event is just for women, but I don't care, Imma gonna go anyway. They're just women, after all. Hope they don't catch me!"

It reads like the letters page in a porno mag/site or something else equally as crudy. 🤮
It's a clear violation of a women's space, it's deliberate, it's all for his own gratification, it's sexual assault as far as I'm concerned. 🤬

I don't think there's any event where people are required to walk around naked. More likely they are changing or undressing to some extent but not completely.

Women don't have 'fun with their friends' by taking their clothes off.

If he thinks he might pass while naked, presumably he's had the full op

It could be something like a massage workshop. Probably not undressing completely but maybe partly?

The only thing I can think of is a workshop to teach you how to check your breast for breast cancer?

What sort of female only event that you go to for fun and that requires you to be undressed??

I'm clearly too old because I can't imagine it being anything other than sport. If that's the case the poster is deluded, not least for using the phrase "other" women.

Once they see his meat and two veg he'll find out he doesn't pass! Absolute sleezeball.