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Adam Boulton summarises Ann Widdecombe as ‘a spinster, an old maid and a virgin’

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PeachOctopus · 11/07/2026 13:26

Lots of comments about this news report from Andrew Boulton regarding Anne Widdicombe -he called her a “spinster,” an “old maid” and a “virgin” while speculating about her private life.
I couldn’t believe that as a mainstream broadcaster on Sky he chose language like this to remember her life, regardless of her politics.

Anne Widdicombe- Sky news Andrew Boulton’s misogyny

Nicholas Lissack (@NicholasLissack) on X

Disgraceful scenes on Sky News as a smirking Adam Boulton rants about Ann Widdecombe as a “spinster,” an “old maid” and a “virgin” while speculating about her private life. She was murdered this morning, yet he can’t help but already spew misogynistic...

https://x.com/NicholasLissack/status/2075610331347386840/video/1?s=46

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IwantToRetire · 21/07/2026 17:46

Just adding this here because it is a reminder that the media and self important commentators really should think about what they say or do.

Have posted link about court report today, but details are unpleasant and shocking. So maybe avoid reading if you dont want to know. But just hope al those media leeches will think about how they behave.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cj03r77n07jo

KitchenColourandstyle · 17/07/2026 09:08

Emilesgran · 17/07/2026 08:01

And of course they aren’t implying that the man in question has never had sex, they’re suggesting that he is gay.

Whereas with AW, it’s very much the idea that she has never been fulfilled the way a woman should be, ie by a man having sex with her. And as @IwantToRetire points out, lesbian sex doesn't count in these nudge nudge wink wink allusions.

Not all that far removed from cultures where a woman’s physical virginity is the totality of her social identity.

Exactly the suggestions about men (apart from CR and the rather weird fixation on whether he was a virgin or not) were all homophobia.

Emilesgran · 17/07/2026 08:01

KitchenColourandstyle · 14/07/2026 23:14

The closest I can think of with men has been speculation about their sexuality if they were unmarried a bit of 'confirmed bachelor' wink, wink when they died but the only bloke I can ever think of as having speculation about their virginity is Cliff Richard back in the 80s.

And of course they aren’t implying that the man in question has never had sex, they’re suggesting that he is gay.

Whereas with AW, it’s very much the idea that she has never been fulfilled the way a woman should be, ie by a man having sex with her. And as @IwantToRetire points out, lesbian sex doesn't count in these nudge nudge wink wink allusions.

Not all that far removed from cultures where a woman’s physical virginity is the totality of her social identity.

IwantToRetire · 16/07/2026 17:41

TempestTost · 16/07/2026 02:54

I wonder if part of this is that many people are shocked by the whole idea that someone could remain a virgin or might want to.

I've met a lot of people for example who are convinced that sexual behaviour in the past was the same as it is now, people just pretended to think oral sex or anal sex were gross, or pretended to think people should only have sex with their spouse etc. Really they must have been up to all of it.

It's like they honestly cannot conceive of choosing not to have sex unless they are "asexual" and have no sexual desire.

But also that sex is about what men think is sex. I posted this up thread, but worth remembering that many if not all lesbians are "virgins" ...

TempestTost · 16/07/2026 02:54

LizzieSiddal · 14/07/2026 22:23

Andrew Pierce did the same thing on R4 on Sunday morning. Spoke about her being a “virgin”, “never had sex”.
The host sounded shocked but just moved on to someone else. Why want it not called out?

Has a murdered man ever been spoken about in this way? I’m so fed up with this shit!

I wonder if part of this is that many people are shocked by the whole idea that someone could remain a virgin or might want to.

I've met a lot of people for example who are convinced that sexual behaviour in the past was the same as it is now, people just pretended to think oral sex or anal sex were gross, or pretended to think people should only have sex with their spouse etc. Really they must have been up to all of it.

It's like they honestly cannot conceive of choosing not to have sex unless they are "asexual" and have no sexual desire.

KeepPumping · 15/07/2026 17:16

KitchenColourandstyle · 15/07/2026 17:06

I was a child at the time so I'm not really aware of how prevalent it was but I do remember asking my Mum what a virgin was so it must have been mentioned on prewatershed telly to prompt my question.

Freddie Mercury, George Michael, Rock Hudson, not Boy George, various actors, all the nonsense about Richard Gere in the late 80"s and early 90"s etc. etc. To be fair men perceived as straight were less of a target, but the media would try to catch them on drugs, affairs if married etc. AW had a pretty gentle run IMO, while she was alive anyway, the only time I remember it getting weird was the LT interview, but he has always come across as just odd, to me anyway.

KeepPumping · 15/07/2026 17:10

KitchenColourandstyle · 15/07/2026 17:06

I was a child at the time so I'm not really aware of how prevalent it was but I do remember asking my Mum what a virgin was so it must have been mentioned on prewatershed telly to prompt my question.

I remember being reasonably young watching Madonna"s video for Like A Virgin thinking "No way she is a virgin".

KitchenColourandstyle · 15/07/2026 17:07

Oh and obliviously it was mentioned on his death because that hasn't happen yet.

KitchenColourandstyle · 15/07/2026 17:06

KeepPumping · 15/07/2026 15:22

Yes, it was endless with CR, much worse than AW.

I was a child at the time so I'm not really aware of how prevalent it was but I do remember asking my Mum what a virgin was so it must have been mentioned on prewatershed telly to prompt my question.

KeepPumping · 15/07/2026 15:22

KitchenColourandstyle · 14/07/2026 23:14

The closest I can think of with men has been speculation about their sexuality if they were unmarried a bit of 'confirmed bachelor' wink, wink when they died but the only bloke I can ever think of as having speculation about their virginity is Cliff Richard back in the 80s.

Yes, it was endless with CR, much worse than AW.

DeanElderberry · 15/07/2026 07:01

but incels

KitchenColourandstyle · 14/07/2026 23:14

LizzieSiddal · 14/07/2026 22:23

Andrew Pierce did the same thing on R4 on Sunday morning. Spoke about her being a “virgin”, “never had sex”.
The host sounded shocked but just moved on to someone else. Why want it not called out?

Has a murdered man ever been spoken about in this way? I’m so fed up with this shit!

The closest I can think of with men has been speculation about their sexuality if they were unmarried a bit of 'confirmed bachelor' wink, wink when they died but the only bloke I can ever think of as having speculation about their virginity is Cliff Richard back in the 80s.

EasternStandard · 14/07/2026 22:47

LizzieSiddal · 14/07/2026 22:23

Andrew Pierce did the same thing on R4 on Sunday morning. Spoke about her being a “virgin”, “never had sex”.
The host sounded shocked but just moved on to someone else. Why want it not called out?

Has a murdered man ever been spoken about in this way? I’m so fed up with this shit!

WTF

These men are gross. What’s it to them?

LizzieSiddal · 14/07/2026 22:23

Andrew Pierce did the same thing on R4 on Sunday morning. Spoke about her being a “virgin”, “never had sex”.
The host sounded shocked but just moved on to someone else. Why want it not called out?

Has a murdered man ever been spoken about in this way? I’m so fed up with this shit!

KeepPumping · 14/07/2026 22:14

Metalmotha · 14/07/2026 08:11

Some Men just can’t stand strong independent women who don’t spend their lives making themselves into something acceptable to those misogynistic pricks. What’s even more sickening is the women who enable these tossers.

i live near where Anne lived (in fact, we shared the same hairdressers) really great, strong woman. Yes it sounds politically motivated and not at all surprised that the man from the extreme left chose to murder a woman rather than man.

This is more likely triggered by her Reform connections and her views in general IMO.

KeepPumping · 14/07/2026 22:07

WearyAuldWumman · 13/07/2026 10:04

He's vile.

He is totally out of touch with the mood of the UK public, he thinks he is some sort of freedom fighter or something, but his reality radar obviously malfunctioned some time ago, sad really watching someone making a complete and utter twat of themselves as they perform to their little echo chamber.

1dayatatime · 14/07/2026 12:00

LeftBoobGoneRogue · 14/07/2026 11:21

@Metalmotha we don’t yet know the motivation for her murder, so unless you’re in the counter terror police investigation team it would be premature to declare that he’s far left.

Whilst you are entirely correct that the motivation of the murderer has not been established, the fact that the counter terrorism police are now leading the case would suggest that it wasn't burglary as so many posters initially seemed quite desperate to claim it was.

PaperWalkAndTalk · 14/07/2026 11:47

KittyWilkinson · 12/07/2026 23:37

Herbert's pictures and vitriol have made it onto quite a number of local community FB groups here in England. I was surprised to see him on ours amongst the pothole complaints and planning posts and an update on the local cadets.

The hundreds of responses to him, are very angry and mostly unrepeatable on here. Just ordinary people who aren't AW supporters particularly, but are shocked at her murder.
It's not going how he thought it would.

The Metro are promoting this man (simply because he's got the trans label), so much for the Metro's campaign against VAWG, but that campaign always looked virtue signalling because they always defended any man guilty of sex crimes if he claimed a trans identity.

LeftBoobGoneRogue · 14/07/2026 11:21

Metalmotha · 14/07/2026 08:11

Some Men just can’t stand strong independent women who don’t spend their lives making themselves into something acceptable to those misogynistic pricks. What’s even more sickening is the women who enable these tossers.

i live near where Anne lived (in fact, we shared the same hairdressers) really great, strong woman. Yes it sounds politically motivated and not at all surprised that the man from the extreme left chose to murder a woman rather than man.

@Metalmotha we don’t yet know the motivation for her murder, so unless you’re in the counter terror police investigation team it would be premature to declare that he’s far left.

ScrollingLeaves · 14/07/2026 09:59

Emilesgran · 14/07/2026 07:01

And was her supposed virginity relevant to the discussion or was it prurient speculation that would never have been uttered had it been a man with her achievements who had died in those tragic circumstances?

Why was it worth taking up airtime saying that about her? Was there really nothing else worth saying?

Or was it because for some people a woman’s value still depends on who has fk’d her? Or wanted to?

It’s about the thinking which is,

“What an old bitch. A good f* would gave sorted her out.”

As well as fury that she got away.
without this ‘service’ from men.

Metalmotha · 14/07/2026 08:11

Some Men just can’t stand strong independent women who don’t spend their lives making themselves into something acceptable to those misogynistic pricks. What’s even more sickening is the women who enable these tossers.

i live near where Anne lived (in fact, we shared the same hairdressers) really great, strong woman. Yes it sounds politically motivated and not at all surprised that the man from the extreme left chose to murder a woman rather than man.

Emilesgran · 14/07/2026 07:01

HumbleKatey · 13/07/2026 22:04

Well … Ann Widdcombe was indeed a ‘spinster’ according to the definition of the word. Whether or not that word has negative connotations is up to the reader, From what is known of her life story it seems quite likely that she was also a ‘virgin’; if so it was by choice, and good for her.

And was her supposed virginity relevant to the discussion or was it prurient speculation that would never have been uttered had it been a man with her achievements who had died in those tragic circumstances?

Why was it worth taking up airtime saying that about her? Was there really nothing else worth saying?

Or was it because for some people a woman’s value still depends on who has fk’d her? Or wanted to?

OpheliaWasntMad · 13/07/2026 22:24

HumbleKatey · 13/07/2026 22:04

Well … Ann Widdcombe was indeed a ‘spinster’ according to the definition of the word. Whether or not that word has negative connotations is up to the reader, From what is known of her life story it seems quite likely that she was also a ‘virgin’; if so it was by choice, and good for her.

Her achievements and character should be the focus after her death - not her sexual history.

HumbleKatey · 13/07/2026 22:04

PeachOctopus · 11/07/2026 13:26

Lots of comments about this news report from Andrew Boulton regarding Anne Widdicombe -he called her a “spinster,” an “old maid” and a “virgin” while speculating about her private life.
I couldn’t believe that as a mainstream broadcaster on Sky he chose language like this to remember her life, regardless of her politics.

Anne Widdicombe- Sky news Andrew Boulton’s misogyny

Well … Ann Widdcombe was indeed a ‘spinster’ according to the definition of the word. Whether or not that word has negative connotations is up to the reader, From what is known of her life story it seems quite likely that she was also a ‘virgin’; if so it was by choice, and good for her.

WearyAuldWumman · 13/07/2026 10:04

KittyWilkinson · 12/07/2026 23:37

Herbert's pictures and vitriol have made it onto quite a number of local community FB groups here in England. I was surprised to see him on ours amongst the pothole complaints and planning posts and an update on the local cadets.

The hundreds of responses to him, are very angry and mostly unrepeatable on here. Just ordinary people who aren't AW supporters particularly, but are shocked at her murder.
It's not going how he thought it would.

He's vile.