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Why do some feminists oppose misogyny but support gender ideology?

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Doodwhatareyou · 05/07/2026 18:12

I recently ended up in the man hating side of tiktok, which is a place I tend to be in agreement with. I’ve seen several women bravely battle stupid men in the comments who manage to reinforce everything being said.

I’ve seen a pattern though that these women, who seem to be very up on rules of misogyny, and aware of how problematic too many men are, usually have pronouns in their bio, and occasionally will complain about being bullied by terfs.

I’m baffled.

How can they be so up on patriarchal nonsense yet miss the fundamental misogyny in gender ideology. How can they deny the evidence that trans identified men are just as much of a problem for women if not more as they want women’s rights and spaces.

They can make endless videos about how hateful men are because of the way women are treated, and how women have to budge up and make room, yet trans identified men are women, and anyone who says otherwise is a massive bigot. I don’t understand.

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EasternStandard · 08/07/2026 11:48

Baileyonice · 08/07/2026 11:43

The cis women can be violent too that's why women's prisons exist obviously. (Can't believe i have to spell this out but here we are).

If transwomen are women as you believe if you put a man representing as a woman in a cell with a women is there a heightened risk of rape and who is more vulnerable to that?

Ditto if you believe trans men are men and you put a woman representing as a man in a prison cell with a male is there heightened risk of rape and who is more vulnerable?

hihelenhi · 08/07/2026 11:47

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 08/07/2026 11:19

What it does do is fill up the thread nicely and make it too boring for any lurker to bother with, which (given the relay-work that seems to have been going on in this one) is probably the objective.

It's the trouble with encouraging them bang on so people can see how absurd their arguments are; they are so dull that it drives people away.

(Mind you, I get a terrible urge to answer every single one of the nonsensical pseudo-intellectual posts with the words "Clerical fascism!", which would be at least as relevant and meaningful....)

I did suspect when this thread first started with its first few glaringly nonsensical yet goady replies that the reason that regular posters ignored it for so long and didn't bite is that they knew that it would go the way of all similar threads with the same derailers spouting the same fact free disingenuous nonsense, DARVO and insults.

I think you're probably right. Even though it's highly illustrative of the way transactivists operate, most lurkers will likely be bored to tears with the same absolute nonsense from the usual suspects. They never send their best, do they? And yes, it continues to be the worst possible "advocacy" for trans identified people, but I don't think there's a great deal of self awareness in the movement full stop. Just tedious, irrelevant, timewasting nonsense and feeble gaslighting attempts. Sad, really.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 08/07/2026 11:46

Baileyonice · 08/07/2026 11:41

You really should check before babble:

https://www.goodnewsnetwork.org/tennis-star-sisters-unveil-resource-center-victims-gun-violence-compton/

And that's just one of many.

Wow, you really missed the point @AskingQuestionsAllTheTime was making there! 😂

GreyskySexRealistsky · 08/07/2026 11:45

Baileyonice · 08/07/2026 11:38

Your comprehension needs serious work. I said she hasn't advocated for poor women's access to sport. Her background is irrelevant although you would think she would know better given her experience. But I suppose there's no twitter love in that.

You clearly know nothing about her involvement with charities that support underprivileged children, including ensuring their access to sport

You clearly care nothing about men - yes, TW are men – being allowed to take away women's sports places and medals which in many cases are a route out of poverty

You just want to fling some shit and hope it sticks

Baileyonice · 08/07/2026 11:43

EasternStandard · 08/07/2026 11:38

Which woman are you talking about here? The man who presents as a woman?

Can you say what he could do in a cell with a biological woman?

The term biological being unnecessary as she’s the only woman, but to ask clearly.

What could the man presenting as a woman do when he shares with a woman?

The cis women can be violent too that's why women's prisons exist obviously. (Can't believe i have to spell this out but here we are).

EasternStandard · 08/07/2026 11:38

Baileyonice · 08/07/2026 11:35

This might come as shock, so brace yourself, but some women can be ….a wee bit violent….THAT'S WHY THEY ARE IN PRISON!

Which woman are you talking about here? The man who presents as a woman?

Can you say what he could do in a cell with a biological woman?

The term biological being unnecessary as she’s the only woman, but to ask clearly.

What could the man presenting as a woman do when he shares with a woman?

Baileyonice · 08/07/2026 11:38

nicepotoftea · 08/07/2026 11:34

Nary a whisper from Martina except for non issues that affect rich white women…

I think you have jumped the shark.

Leaving to one side how privileged one can be when one grew up behind the iron curtain and was an out lesbian years before organisations like Stonewall even existed, the idea that only white rich women are entitled to fair competition is as grossly offensive as it is ridiculous.

I don't know who you think you are defending or why. It's certainly not women, but I don't think you are helping trans people either.

Your comprehension needs serious work. I said she hasn't advocated for poor women's access to sport. Her background is irrelevant although you would think she would know better given her experience. But I suppose there's no twitter love in that.

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 08/07/2026 11:35

GreyskySexRealistsky · 08/07/2026 11:32

Gosh you are so right, all top female athletes are rich white women

Racist as well as clueless

Like Serena and Venus Williams? Althea Gibson?

Baileyonice · 08/07/2026 11:35

EasternStandard · 08/07/2026 11:31

Right so there could be a situation where the trans woman is more of a risk to a woman in a cell?

Is there a reason you can think this could be the case?

And as pointed out below a trans man with a male. What is the heightened risk there

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This might come as shock, so brace yourself, but some women can be ….a wee bit violent….THAT'S WHY THEY ARE IN PRISON!

nicepotoftea · 08/07/2026 11:34

Baileyonice · 08/07/2026 11:22

Forgive me but has Martina been concerning herself with the most significant problem to access in women's sport: Poverty?

Ya think all those athletes from nice middle & upper class families that cried about Lia Thomas 5 th place would be even close to that if there wasn't such a monumental gap in wealth inequality?

Nary a whisper from Martina except for non issues that affect rich white women…

Nary a whisper from Martina except for non issues that affect rich white women…

I think you have jumped the shark.

Leaving to one side how privileged one can be when one grew up behind the iron curtain and was an out lesbian years before organisations like Stonewall even existed, the idea that only white rich women are entitled to fair competition is as grossly offensive as it is ridiculous.

I don't know who you think you are defending or why. It's certainly not women, but I don't think you are helping trans people either.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 08/07/2026 11:32

Baileyonice · 08/07/2026 11:22

Forgive me but has Martina been concerning herself with the most significant problem to access in women's sport: Poverty?

Ya think all those athletes from nice middle & upper class families that cried about Lia Thomas 5 th place would be even close to that if there wasn't such a monumental gap in wealth inequality?

Nary a whisper from Martina except for non issues that affect rich white women…

Gosh you are so right, all top female athletes are rich white women

Racist as well as clueless

Seethlaw · 08/07/2026 11:32

Baileyonice · 08/07/2026 11:25

Don't shoot the messenger. You clearly failed to understand the obvious difference & it's actually spelled out for you that's why I repeated it. I can't do more than that.

I'm sorry for you, that you should be stuck in such a mindset.

EasternStandard · 08/07/2026 11:31

Baileyonice · 08/07/2026 11:27

Depends on the individuals that's why prisons have a risk management policy when it comes to housing prisoners as they are liable for any increased risks of violence.

Right so there could be a situation where the trans woman is more of a risk to a woman in a cell?

Is there a reason you can think this could be the case?

And as pointed out below a trans man with a male. What is the heightened risk there

Baileyonice · 08/07/2026 11:27

EasternStandard · 08/07/2026 11:19

Is it your view that a trans woman is the more vulnerable person than a woman when in a prison cell together?

Depends on the individuals that's why prisons have a risk management policy when it comes to housing prisoners as they are liable for any increased risks of violence.

Baileyonice · 08/07/2026 11:25

Seethlaw · 08/07/2026 11:18

I really don't understand what you get from writing things like this one. I mean, you know that's not true, so why are you saying it? What's the goal? Who do you think will believe it? Is it just an automatic go-to when you have nothing left to argue? In which case you might want to ponder the fact that it looks terribly like an own goal, and certainly not any kind of smart response.

Don't shoot the messenger. You clearly failed to understand the obvious difference & it's actually spelled out for you that's why I repeated it. I can't do more than that.

Baileyonice · 08/07/2026 11:22

nicepotoftea · 08/07/2026 11:09

Same goes for 'what about the children' & women's sports.

You think that Martina Navratilova has only recently concerned herself with fairness in sport?

Forgive me but has Martina been concerning herself with the most significant problem to access in women's sport: Poverty?

Ya think all those athletes from nice middle & upper class families that cried about Lia Thomas 5 th place would be even close to that if there wasn't such a monumental gap in wealth inequality?

Nary a whisper from Martina except for non issues that affect rich white women…

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 08/07/2026 11:19

Seethlaw · 08/07/2026 11:11

@Baileyonice

Repeating a discredited argument doesn't make it magically true.

What it does do is fill up the thread nicely and make it too boring for any lurker to bother with, which (given the relay-work that seems to have been going on in this one) is probably the objective.

It's the trouble with encouraging them bang on so people can see how absurd their arguments are; they are so dull that it drives people away.

(Mind you, I get a terrible urge to answer every single one of the nonsensical pseudo-intellectual posts with the words "Clerical fascism!", which would be at least as relevant and meaningful....)

EasternStandard · 08/07/2026 11:19

Baileyonice · 08/07/2026 10:49

I'm in favour of trans people being housed separately in prisons given their propensity for being abused. I also don't believe in giving anti trans activists any free goals by allowing them to exploit an issue they care nothing about (prison conditions) as a political football.

Is it your view that a trans woman is the more vulnerable person than a woman when in a prison cell together?

Seethlaw · 08/07/2026 11:18

Baileyonice · 08/07/2026 11:13

"Discredited" = beyond your understanding

I really don't understand what you get from writing things like this one. I mean, you know that's not true, so why are you saying it? What's the goal? Who do you think will believe it? Is it just an automatic go-to when you have nothing left to argue? In which case you might want to ponder the fact that it looks terribly like an own goal, and certainly not any kind of smart response.

nicepotoftea · 08/07/2026 11:17

Baileyonice · 08/07/2026 11:10

On balance? Not for the overwhelming majority.

So if you want to do something that makes no sense and has no justification the killer argument is 'nobody cared before'.

Very Trump like.

Baileyonice · 08/07/2026 11:13

Seethlaw · 08/07/2026 11:11

@Baileyonice

Repeating a discredited argument doesn't make it magically true.

"Discredited" = beyond your understanding

nicepotoftea · 08/07/2026 11:12

Baileyonice · 08/07/2026 11:08

So, you know, pretty useless, so let's agree to use our own brains, shall we?

Well duh. The human trick is discerning the wheat from the chaff in terms of justification.

3. The "Subjective/Internal Sense" Perspective
Definition: "An adult with an internal sense of being female."
Logical Status: This is non-circular because it uses the word "female" (referring to the sex category or internal identity) to define "woman," separating the definition from the word itself. 1, 2]
4. The Sociological and Historical Perspective
Definition: A fluid set of social roles, behaviors, and cultural expectations.
Logical Status: This perspective avoids circularity by defining the term through measurable cultural, historical, and behavioral attributes rather than a single absolute term. Because these traits change based on time and place, sociology often views "woman" as a complex category that defies a single, universal definition. 1, 2]

"Well duh. The human trick is discerning the wheat from the chaff in terms of justification."

Or you could just write your own posts and not use AI.

Seethlaw · 08/07/2026 11:11

@Baileyonice

Repeating a discredited argument doesn't make it magically true.

Baileyonice · 08/07/2026 11:10

nicepotoftea · 08/07/2026 11:03

So you think that people like Rhona Hotchkiss and Julie Bindel have never concerned themselves with the rights of women in prison?

Could it be that is you that wasn't paying attention?

On balance? Not for the overwhelming majority.