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SharingMyOpinion · 27/06/2026 09:05

Dear Freddy’s child. Thank you to you and your advocate who confirmed women who give birth are and only ever can be mothers.

A mother is a powerful thing and I’m glad you have one (even if her wishes don’t always align with yours).

Erasure of mothers from the lexicon esp in maternity services serves to degrade women further. Thank you for holding that line.

HoppityBun · 27/06/2026 08:44

ArabellaScott · 27/06/2026 08:27

Birth certs should clearly record bio parents (when known) and have capacity for others taking on official parental roles too. But nobody should be recorded as bio parent if they aren't.

Once again this is being presented as an entirely emotively based process - while disregarding the very practical issues birth certs and records need to address.

Society cannot be run according to feelings and vibes alone.

Yes, I’m a bit puzzled by this birth certificate thing, especially in days of increased terrorism and the need to trace offenders across countries, sometimes.

Birth certificates seem to be regarded as some sort of award or subjective accolade. They’re a necessity, surely , for keeping track of citizenship, benefit entitlements, authentication of who someone is in respective their own marriages and that are their children, verification for airline travel and so on. I’d be interested to know what genealogists think of all this.

I noticed that someone on the Reddit link that was provided said that they were adopted and couldn’t get their original birth certificate, which is simply not true.

ArabellaScott · 27/06/2026 08:36

Like many of the wins it takes a while to settle in. 😊

I am curious to see how this will all play out in countries in the EU.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 27/06/2026 08:35

ArabellaScott · 27/06/2026 08:23

Exactly. Thanks are due to Freddy for effectively putting the theory that the ECHR would have anything to say about the SC judgment and UK law on the matters to bed.

Hats off to Freddy then. 🥳😂

We should have a TERF Island Ally award to give her. 🏆

fromorbit · 27/06/2026 08:31

ArabellaScott · 27/06/2026 08:23

Exactly. Thanks are due to Freddy for effectively putting the theory that the ECHR would have anything to say about the SC judgment and UK law on the matters to bed.

Yes this is a HUGE win for our side. Not appreciated enough so far.

ArabellaScott · 27/06/2026 08:27

Birth certs should clearly record bio parents (when known) and have capacity for others taking on official parental roles too. But nobody should be recorded as bio parent if they aren't.

Once again this is being presented as an entirely emotively based process - while disregarding the very practical issues birth certs and records need to address.

Society cannot be run according to feelings and vibes alone.

ArabellaScott · 27/06/2026 08:23

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 27/06/2026 08:18

Thanks for the link, it sounds like the ECHR has decided it's up to the UK to decide on these things, and the ECHR doesn't have the power to instruct them otherwise. Which means anyone else who's trying to circumvent the legal rulings of the UK isn't going to have any luck with the ECHR. Good 😁

Exactly. Thanks are due to Freddy for effectively putting the theory that the ECHR would have anything to say about the SC judgment and UK law on the matters to bed.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 27/06/2026 08:18

ItsCoolForCats · 26/06/2026 16:27

Thanks for the link, it sounds like the ECHR has decided it's up to the UK to decide on these things, and the ECHR doesn't have the power to instruct them otherwise. Which means anyone else who's trying to circumvent the legal rulings of the UK isn't going to have any luck with the ECHR. Good 😁

Shortshriftandlethal · 27/06/2026 07:09

Pudmyboy · 26/06/2026 16:29

I thought Freddie described the second pregnancy as 'a happy accident'?

I can't believe that. McConnell had to come off testosterone whilst trying to get pregnant and then whilst being pregnant the first time. And also becoming pregnant in the first instance was not that easy or without much effort, as far as I can recall.

Heggettypeg · 27/06/2026 04:57

Rednorth · 27/06/2026 03:33

'Progenitor' is an absolutely awful term.

It always reminds me of the Duchess of Plaza Toro's song in The Gondoliers.

Rednorth · 27/06/2026 03:33

IcedCoffee26 · 26/06/2026 20:26

You have misunderstood.

The parents' dates and places of birth and nationalities and grandparents' names are on the birth certificate, obviously.

But instead of saying Father - John, Mother - Lucy they say Progenitor A - John, Progenitor B - Lucy. Or Progenitor A -John Progenitor B - Diego or Progenitor A - Maria Progenitor B - Lucy. So there is no issue for trans people or same sex partners.

Also Spanish kids have both parents' surnames, always.

'Progenitor' is an absolutely awful term.

Pingponghavoc · 27/06/2026 01:02

IcedCoffee26 · 26/06/2026 20:28

Can you expand on this?

A mother has automatic parental responsibility for her child.

Without this, there would be no one with PR for the child until a birth certificate is issued.

ToiletKaren · 27/06/2026 00:33

In Scotland, the certificate says "mother", and "father or parent" (well it does now) which I think is a better way to allow for lesbian couples to register the birth together.
editing to add it's a different process for male same sex couples

ToiletKaren · 27/06/2026 00:22

IcedCoffee26 · 26/06/2026 23:43

https://www.boe.es/buscar/doc.php?id=BOE-A-2006-3764

There's the official communication from the BOE. See Article 4.

I'm just saying that we don't write gender based titles for the parents on birth certificates anymore. It changed years ago.

Used to say Padre - John, Madre - Lucy now says Progenitor A - John Progenitor B - Lucy.

Problem solved. Haven't noticed anyone giving a toss either.

Linking to a Spanish document isn't vastly helpful to me!
The certificate might be labelled progenitor A and B, but what are the guidelines for whose names can go on the birth certificate - are they saying it doesn't have to be the actual birth parents of the baby?
You've suggested not, by saying it helps same sex parents

SqueakyDinosaur · 26/06/2026 23:58

And is Progenitor A always the small-gamete person, and Progenitor B always the large-gamete person?

Because if a. that's correct, then it's always going to be possible to identify the trans parent(s), and b. if it's not, then that's going to make genealogical research a whole lot more difficult.

stickygotstuck · 26/06/2026 23:58

IcedCoffee26 · 26/06/2026 23:43

https://www.boe.es/buscar/doc.php?id=BOE-A-2006-3764

There's the official communication from the BOE. See Article 4.

I'm just saying that we don't write gender based titles for the parents on birth certificates anymore. It changed years ago.

Used to say Padre - John, Madre - Lucy now says Progenitor A - John Progenitor B - Lucy.

Problem solved. Haven't noticed anyone giving a toss either.

You may not have noticed, but I assure you, people do give a toss. They find it insulting and have complained to the Civil Registry.

IcedCoffee26 · 26/06/2026 23:43

ToiletKaren · 26/06/2026 20:56

How does that help? It's not accurate to put both members of a same sex marriage down as the two progenitors. They can't be.

https://www.boe.es/buscar/doc.php?id=BOE-A-2006-3764

There's the official communication from the BOE. See Article 4.

I'm just saying that we don't write gender based titles for the parents on birth certificates anymore. It changed years ago.

Used to say Padre - John, Madre - Lucy now says Progenitor A - John Progenitor B - Lucy.

Problem solved. Haven't noticed anyone giving a toss either.

ArabellaScott · 26/06/2026 23:19

MyAmpleSheep · 26/06/2026 13:35

Yes, I think this is a very significant indicator.

Agreed.

Excellent news all round.

KnottyAuty · 26/06/2026 22:20

As if we needed further proof, but here’s yet more in support of this weird men’s rights movement

Trans man Freddy McConnell's challenge to be named as father on birth certificate deemed inadmissible by the ECHR
SharingMyOpinion · 26/06/2026 22:16

Kinsters · 26/06/2026 15:14

PTD (now known as Quangocrat) has some pretty interesting and detailed analysis on that Reddit thread if you scroll down a bit. I shan't copy it all here as there's a lot but it's interesting. Basically the ECHR tries to avoid the "American problem" of being hamstrung by a static code by applying a principle called The Comparative Law Framework. When deciding how strict to be with members about supposed human rights infringements they will look at what is done throughout member states. So if member states all agree that trans women are women except for one outlier then they will take a "narrow view" and compel the outlier to fall into line (apparently that's what happened with Godwin). However if there is more diversity in approaches of member states they will take a "wide view" and be more lenient.

I think I have got the gist of it correct but he did say what he wrote was an oversimplification and I have simplified it further. I thought it was interesting though, I've not come across this concept before.

This is the margin of appreciation. It’s narrow or wide depending on the impact on others human rights.

Recent case law says margin of appreciation is narrow where the state makes ‘transition’ dependent on surgical castration or sterilization. I agree with that.

But you can’t force states to allow trans people to do whatever they want because they want to. Wide margin of appreciation in many instances.

NotBadConsidering · 26/06/2026 21:58

I have no doubt Freddy was similarly gaslighted and encouraged to entertain a delusion, and that being reminded of the biological truth must hurt.

I think it’s more likely Freddy was the one doing the gaslighting.

Although she doesn’t seem very bright. She had a mastectomy at 27 then claimed she had no idea that meant she wouldn’t be able to breastfeed after she gave birth.

Floralibra · 26/06/2026 21:54

Hilarious line ‘the woman stored frozen sperm’ ….. 🤣 worlds gone mad! Does even say trans woman which would be the correct sentence instead of biological male which is also correct.

ToiletKaren · 26/06/2026 20:56

IcedCoffee26 · 26/06/2026 20:26

You have misunderstood.

The parents' dates and places of birth and nationalities and grandparents' names are on the birth certificate, obviously.

But instead of saying Father - John, Mother - Lucy they say Progenitor A - John, Progenitor B - Lucy. Or Progenitor A -John Progenitor B - Diego or Progenitor A - Maria Progenitor B - Lucy. So there is no issue for trans people or same sex partners.

Also Spanish kids have both parents' surnames, always.

How does that help? It's not accurate to put both members of a same sex marriage down as the two progenitors. They can't be.

IcedCoffee26 · 26/06/2026 20:28

Pingponghavoc · 26/06/2026 15:27

Mother has an important safeguarding role in the UK.

Can you expand on this?

IcedCoffee26 · 26/06/2026 20:26

callmeLoretta1 · 26/06/2026 15:54

That's deeply offensive, sexist and cruel. A child deserves to know the details of it's birth mother and father, even if circumstances mean they don't have contact with them.

You have misunderstood.

The parents' dates and places of birth and nationalities and grandparents' names are on the birth certificate, obviously.

But instead of saying Father - John, Mother - Lucy they say Progenitor A - John, Progenitor B - Lucy. Or Progenitor A -John Progenitor B - Diego or Progenitor A - Maria Progenitor B - Lucy. So there is no issue for trans people or same sex partners.

Also Spanish kids have both parents' surnames, always.