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Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/06/2026 13:50

Sex is simply about whether you are male or whether you are female. I’m female, “trans women” are not, so they are not actually women.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/06/2026 13:49

I don’t have an “internal sense of what my sex is” other than knowing I’m female, and experiencing life in a biologically female body.

Zoonosis · 25/06/2026 13:47

noblegiraffe · 25/06/2026 13:46

Your gender identity is your internal sense of what sex you are. For most people, this aligns with their biology. For a minority of people, it doesn't. These individuals are transgender.

Well no, they may believe that they are transgender, but we know that many of them change their mind.

Some people might think they are gay for a period of time then change their mind. This doesn't mean gay people don't exist.

noblegiraffe · 25/06/2026 13:46

Your gender identity is your internal sense of what sex you are. For most people, this aligns with their biology. For a minority of people, it doesn't. These individuals are transgender.

Well no, they may believe that they are transgender, but we know that many of them change their mind.

Zoonosis · 25/06/2026 13:44

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 25/06/2026 12:45

We barely have a decent definition of "gender" let alone a definition of "gender reassignment " that everyone agrees on. We would need a cast-iron definition of "transgender identity " before you could even begin to apply this under a Conversion Ban Law, or explain people's rights under said proposed law, or prosecute anyone for not obeying this part of the law.

Do you want to take a stab at defining "gender reassignment " and "transgender identity " so that it covers everyone who is, thinks they might be, is thinking about maybe being, wants to be, doesn't want to be, wants to prevent someone from being, tries to encourage someone to be, etc.?

Because that's what a law will need to do, if we are to avoid a different interpretation from every court case outcome.

ps. And I genuinely would like a definition of these terms, not some activist guff. I am posting in good faith here.

Edited

Are you really still parroting the "we don't even know what gender meeeeeeeeeeeeeans" line? This isn't actually a contested issue, the only "Issue" is gender criticals refuse to accept any reasonable definition because you don't want to believe that either gender identity or trans identities exist so you have to pretend it's all too complicated to fathom.

Your gender identity is your internal sense of what sex you are. For most people, this aligns with their biology. For a minority of people, it doesn't. These individuals are transgender. The EA protects these individuals from discrimination if they are undergoing or proposing to undergo a process of gender reassignment. This draft may offer slightly wider protections by also explicitly including non-binary people and it looks like it may also cover people who are trans but haven't "undergone a process" which is reasonable because conversion therapists tend to target people pre-transition so it avoids a loophole where they can get away with this. This doesn't create any conflict with the Equality Act because protecting these people from conversion therapy doesn't have any impact on how service providers and employers operate, which is what the Equality Act governs.

fromorbit · 25/06/2026 13:37

More takes from X

From LGB alliance

Bev Jackson

It is clearly no coincidence that the draft Conversion Practices Bill has been published almost simultaneously with the plan to press ahead with the puberty blockers trial. The expectation is presumably that opponents will be overstretched and unable to fight both effectively. Gender identity activists always underestimate our strength and determination. Big mistake!

Caroline Farrow
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They published the conversion therapy bill this morning. I’ve read all 20 pages so you don’t have to. It’s worse than the press release admits.

Doctors are protected; the bill carves them out.

Mums aren’t. There’s no equivalent line anywhere in it for a parent.

And “emotional pressure” is written in as something that can make your conduct “abusive.”

So a mum who urges her daughter to wait, to be at peace with her body, is left to a prosecutor’s view of whether that was abuse. She could get up to 5 years in prison.

It goes further. The police or your local council can ask a court to order you to stop, before any charge, before any offence, and even without you in the room to defend yourself. Breaking that order is itself a crime.

Hilary Cass was reassured doctors could keep working. Fine. Now show me the line that protects a mother.

There isn’t one.

It needs stopping

Maya Forstater
The puberty blockers trial and the promised conversion therapy bill are both solutions looking for a problem. The actual thing they are trying to solve is how to legitimise the idea of adult transexualism as being an in born trait which requires extreme societal accommodation.

Rosie Duffield MP

Make no mistake, this will include parents who are convinced their healthy child may simply grow up to be gay and would like them to pause, talk and think carefully before drastic surgery...

Parents convicted of ‘conversion therapy’ face five years jail.

Shedmistress · 25/06/2026 13:26

I guess this will keep a soon to be 'at a loose end come September' lawyer in work for many years to come.

Wishesandhorses · 25/06/2026 12:50

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 25/06/2026 12:25

From James Esses' post: and @noblegiraffe

It further enshrines the notion of ‘transgender identity’ in the law and makes the offence ridiculously broad: “conduct causing someone to believe that they have or do not have a transgender identity”.
It further enshrines the notion of being ‘non-binary’ in the law.

How do you "cause" someone to believe they have an identity? I suppose you can argue with someone, or threaten someone, until they say they believe they have a particular identity. But how do you prove it? (both the cause and the effect?)

But, honestly (!) how on earth do you cause someone to have an identity, and how do you prove that cause and effect? How is this measured? Do we all have secret magic powers that this Bill will release?

It further enshrines the notion of ‘transgender identity’ in the law
And, more seriously, how will this Bill/law fit alongside the EA 2010?

It has been said since this first reared its head that its main purpose was to get this idea of 'transgender identity' written somewhere in law.

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 25/06/2026 12:45

Zoonosis · 25/06/2026 12:36

Lots of pieces of legislation use slightly different terminology; unless the legislations overlap in their scope and the definitions create a conflict this isn't a problem. What do you think is the overlap or the conflict here?

We barely have a decent definition of "gender" let alone a definition of "gender reassignment " that everyone agrees on. We would need a cast-iron definition of "transgender identity " before you could even begin to apply this under a Conversion Ban Law, or explain people's rights under said proposed law, or prosecute anyone for not obeying this part of the law.

Do you want to take a stab at defining "gender reassignment " and "transgender identity " so that it covers everyone who is, thinks they might be, is thinking about maybe being, wants to be, doesn't want to be, wants to prevent someone from being, tries to encourage someone to be, etc.?

Because that's what a law will need to do, if we are to avoid a different interpretation from every court case outcome.

ps. And I genuinely would like a definition of these terms, not some activist guff. I am posting in good faith here.

Zoonosis · 25/06/2026 12:36

NowSober · 25/06/2026 12:33

Why do you think it would be in conflict with the EA?

In EA2010 the PC is 'gender reassignment' not 'transgender identity'.

Lots of pieces of legislation use slightly different terminology; unless the legislations overlap in their scope and the definitions create a conflict this isn't a problem. What do you think is the overlap or the conflict here?

NowSober · 25/06/2026 12:33

Zoonosis · 25/06/2026 12:31

Why do you think it would be in conflict with the EA?

Why do you think it would be in conflict with the EA?

In EA2010 the PC is 'gender reassignment' not 'transgender identity'.

Zoonosis · 25/06/2026 12:31

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 25/06/2026 12:25

From James Esses' post: and @noblegiraffe

It further enshrines the notion of ‘transgender identity’ in the law and makes the offence ridiculously broad: “conduct causing someone to believe that they have or do not have a transgender identity”.
It further enshrines the notion of being ‘non-binary’ in the law.

How do you "cause" someone to believe they have an identity? I suppose you can argue with someone, or threaten someone, until they say they believe they have a particular identity. But how do you prove it? (both the cause and the effect?)

But, honestly (!) how on earth do you cause someone to have an identity, and how do you prove that cause and effect? How is this measured? Do we all have secret magic powers that this Bill will release?

It further enshrines the notion of ‘transgender identity’ in the law
And, more seriously, how will this Bill/law fit alongside the EA 2010?

Why do you think it would be in conflict with the EA?

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 25/06/2026 12:25

From James Esses' post: and @noblegiraffe

It further enshrines the notion of ‘transgender identity’ in the law and makes the offence ridiculously broad: “conduct causing someone to believe that they have or do not have a transgender identity”.
It further enshrines the notion of being ‘non-binary’ in the law.

How do you "cause" someone to believe they have an identity? I suppose you can argue with someone, or threaten someone, until they say they believe they have a particular identity. But how do you prove it? (both the cause and the effect?)

But, honestly (!) how on earth do you cause someone to have an identity, and how do you prove that cause and effect? How is this measured? Do we all have secret magic powers that this Bill will release?

It further enshrines the notion of ‘transgender identity’ in the law
And, more seriously, how will this Bill/law fit alongside the EA 2010?

noblegiraffe · 25/06/2026 12:17

What the fuck is this poorly defined drivel?

  • (b) causing the individual—
  • (i) to have or not to have,
  • (ii) to believe that they have or do not have,
a transgender identity or a particular transgender identity

Do they have it or do they merely believe they have it and if they merely believe they have it but don't actually have it then what is wrong with trying to talk them out of it?

Say a kid has been obviously groomed online, egg cracking and all that bollocks. They now believe that they have a trans identity despite not showing any previous signs of gender incongruence. They are autistic and not having a good time with puberty and not fitting in with their peers.

What will be done about the online groomers? Nothing because they're not in the UK

And what will be done about the parent who sits down with their child and tells them they've been groomed? Criminalised?

Wishesandhorses · 25/06/2026 11:58

As we've also seen in Darlington case and the Peggie case; when it comes to he said and did/she said and did (even with contempraneous notes), after years of process and expense to get to the day in court, it's discarded because it's impossible to prove either way.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/06/2026 11:58

Wishesandhorses · 25/06/2026 11:39

It's a charter for a lot of petty he said/she said court cases, most of which will be about hurt feelings and someone who breathed wrong or held the wrong facial expression at the wrong moment. And the excerpts strongly suggest, unsurprisingly, that while gay needs are mentioned briefly, the massive majority is all about trans.

Unintended consequences need to be examined to the absolute nth degree in this. For a start, obviously, many professionals just now refusing to take trans clients, or having contracts that state if gender comes up during work then the client will need to find another professional; why would anyone want to take these risks? Filming every session and recording every conversation would have to become standard practice in case a client takes them to court. This could easily lead to people wanting support with gender identity and related issues finding that there's pretty much no support left.

However I am looking at the brief mention of ^Conversion practice’ means … any conduct … with the intention of— (a) causing the individual— (i) to have or not to have, (ii) to believe that they have or do not have, a sexual orientation or a particular sexual orientation; ^

And indeed the proposed amendment: any conduct that uses coercion, threats or manipulation to cause the individual to change their sexual orientation

and thinking lesbians and gay men can get straight to court on that one re the cotton ceiling stuff and the 'learn to cope' stuff, and the 'sexual racism' stuff. Which will not be liked by TAs at all.

There's a reason why every time this has come up, it's been booted back into the long grass; it would create a lot of expensive mess, time wasting, wrangling and chaos. There's also no clear picture of what exactly this bill would achieve in terms of protection from real, serious coercive and abusive conversion practice (the historic stuff the gay community did actually suffer, electrodes and all) that is not covered by current law?

Edited

Agree, it cuts both ways.

Wishesandhorses · 25/06/2026 11:55

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 25/06/2026 11:46

@Wishesandhorses I agree about the court cases. It's going to either be unworkable or unenforceable without a lot of legal shenanigans.

You'd think with the country broke on its arse, and the court system at breaking point in trying to deal with actual serious crime, the last thing the govt would want is to create a huge open door for a lot more timewasting in court over tiny petty matters at the taxpayer's expense. Always fur coat and no knickers.

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 25/06/2026 11:52

EssexLounger · 25/06/2026 11:46

Non-binary doesn't exist and you can be locked up for telling someone that?

I suspect that a lot of the "criminal" elements of this Bill will have to be watered down quite a bit, if it's ever to pass into law. Many people will argue that it's an affront to the right to free speech, which much of it would be, in my opinion.

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 25/06/2026 11:46

@Wishesandhorses I agree about the court cases. It's going to either be unworkable or unenforceable without a lot of legal shenanigans.

EssexLounger · 25/06/2026 11:46

Non-binary doesn't exist and you can be locked up for telling someone that?

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 25/06/2026 11:45

Wishesandhorses · 25/06/2026 11:42

No one should be told there is something wrong with who they are....

Unless they're homosexual or a woman who wants sex based rights and spaces?

Really? Is this an announcement of reciprocal tolerance all of a sudden?

Wishful thinking or rewriting history, take your pick. Other facetious reasons are available.

Wishesandhorses · 25/06/2026 11:42

No one should be told there is something wrong with who they are....

Unless they're homosexual or a woman who wants sex based rights and spaces?

Really? Is this an announcement of reciprocal tolerance all of a sudden?

Wishesandhorses · 25/06/2026 11:39

It's a charter for a lot of petty he said/she said court cases, most of which will be about hurt feelings and someone who breathed wrong or held the wrong facial expression at the wrong moment. And the excerpts strongly suggest, unsurprisingly, that while gay needs are mentioned briefly, the massive majority is all about trans.

Unintended consequences need to be examined to the absolute nth degree in this. For a start, obviously, many professionals just now refusing to take trans clients, or having contracts that state if gender comes up during work then the client will need to find another professional; why would anyone want to take these risks? Filming every session and recording every conversation would have to become standard practice in case a client takes them to court. This could easily lead to people wanting support with gender identity and related issues finding that there's pretty much no support left.

However I am looking at the brief mention of ^Conversion practice’ means … any conduct … with the intention of— (a) causing the individual— (i) to have or not to have, (ii) to believe that they have or do not have, a sexual orientation or a particular sexual orientation; ^

And indeed the proposed amendment: any conduct that uses coercion, threats or manipulation to cause the individual to change their sexual orientation

and thinking lesbians and gay men can get straight to court on that one re the cotton ceiling stuff and the 'learn to cope' stuff, and the 'sexual racism' stuff. Which will not be liked by TAs at all.

There's a reason why every time this has come up, it's been booted back into the long grass; it would create a lot of expensive mess, time wasting, wrangling and chaos. There's also no clear picture of what exactly this bill would achieve in terms of protection from real, serious coercive and abusive conversion practice (the historic stuff the gay community did actually suffer, electrodes and all) that is not covered by current law?

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 25/06/2026 11:30

From Stonewall (it's just so precious, I had to post some of it):

https://www.stonewall.org.uk/news/government-finally-publishes-long-overdue-draft-bill-to-ban-conversion-practices

[my bold]
"...From repealing Section 28, equalising the age of consent, lifting the ban on military service and marriage equality. We’ve always worked towards building a society which is free from discrimination, prejudice and inequality, and today’s announcement of a draft Bill to ban conversion practices is another step closer to this goal....

No one should be told there is something wrong with who they are....

...The draft legislation will now go through a process of pre-legislative scrutiny, before being considered by Parliament. Over the coming weeks and months we will carefully review the legislation, and continue to work with sector partners, Parliamentarans, and government to ensure the legislation is robust, effective, and puts and end to conversion practices once and for all...."

From Simon Blake, CEO:
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"No one should be told they have to change who they are...."

An arrow and text reading 'Stonewall'

Government finally publishes long overdue draft Bill to ban…

Today represents a momentous step forward towards LGBTQ+ equality as the Government have finally published their long overdue draft Bill to ban conversion…

https://www.stonewall.org.uk/news/government-finally-publishes-long-overdue-draft-bill-to-ban-conversion-practices

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 25/06/2026 11:20

After having read James Esses' take, if it really is that bad, I wonder if the new government will quietly scupper it or quietly dump it. If there are no protections for therapists, then no one in a professional therapy role will support this, only activist parents will support it, and LGB Alliance and Sex Matters will be all over it.

Too optimistic?

ps. or it will be debated ad nauseum so the government can stretch it out and then find some reason to say it will be "too expensive" to implement? (that's what they apparently do with everything they are virtue-signalling but have no intention of implementing)

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