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Online stalking by women and what it means for feminism

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Imnobody4 · 22/06/2026 10:48

Women turn out to be bloody good at on line stalking and harrassment. I did see some of this on line. Is the Internet revealing the dark side of women as well as men.
Click, Stalk, Destroy is Taylor’s new book and it has the jacket cover of a pacy thriller, featuring a darkly lit glass of wine next to a phone, which in this case was her persecutor’s main weapon. Plot twist: Taylor is also a chartered psychologist who has spent her career researching and consulting on female victims of abuse. At 35, she has written two Sunday Times bestselling books and has become a leading voice for changes to the way the criminal justice system prosecutes male violence.

One Sunday morning in late 2023, Jessica Taylor was at home trying her
best to relax and forget about it all. She had been the victim of a year-long stalking campaign targeting her livelihood, her family and her sanity. Then an email popped up on Taylor’s phone and the sick taste of fear was back. “Are the doors locked?” she whispered in panic.
Yet Click, Stalk, Destroy is not the latest Netflix series. It is a professional attempt to understand a new form of stalking and a lightly dramatised and anonymised rendering of Taylor’s brutal experience as its victim.
And there’s more: for a professional who has spent her career trying to combat male violence, her persecutors were women. The subtitle of the book is Inside the Minds of People Who Stalk Online and women can be experts at inflicting these new kinds of harm.

https://www.thetimes.com/article/5407e1fc-b96b-40ac-a89e-9fb05e4c77b4?shareToken=92b97cace731eb7bbe2346fa88ceea21

I was targeted, stalked and threatened. My tormentors were women

The psychologist Jessica Taylor wrote a bestseller on the way we blame female victims of abuse. Then she became the subject of a terrifying online campaign

https://www.thetimes.com/article/5407e1fc-b96b-40ac-a89e-9fb05e4c77b4?shareToken=92b97cace731eb7bbe2346fa88ceea21

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IrnBruAndDietCoke · 22/06/2026 11:21

CityonFire · 22/06/2026 11:14

Look up Jessica Taylor, and all will become clear.

…Oh dear.

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 22/06/2026 11:20

CityonFire · 22/06/2026 11:11

Yes, she is a very problematic individual.

And of course, she could be right about this issue, but unreasonable in how she applies the experience to her own situation.

So wrote excellently about the topic but unable to view her own situation accurately.

CityonFire · 22/06/2026 11:14

IrnBruAndDietCoke · 22/06/2026 11:12

This all sounds very sensationalised and not presented with the sort of intellectual detachment I’d want from someone handling such a sensitive subject matter. It’s like she just needed an angle and decided to go with “ZOMG!!! The wimmins can be criminals toooooo!” Like we know this, that’s why we’re trying to protect incarcerated women from men trying to get into their cells!

Look up Jessica Taylor, and all will become clear.

IrnBruAndDietCoke · 22/06/2026 11:12

This all sounds very sensationalised and not presented with the sort of intellectual detachment I’d want from someone handling such a sensitive subject matter. It’s like she just needed an angle and decided to go with “ZOMG!!! The wimmins can be criminals toooooo!” Like we know this, that’s why we’re trying to protect incarcerated women from men trying to get into their cells!

GreyskySexRealistsky · 22/06/2026 11:11

Is this thread title yours OP? What do you think it means for feminism?

CityonFire · 22/06/2026 11:11

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 22/06/2026 11:07

Without wanting to be a flying monkeys, isn’t this the woman who was criticised for using the stories of her patients without permission?
Perhaps initial justified criticism grew into stalking and harassment when the response wasn’t adequate.

I must say, I don’t know much about it and am happy to be told I’m wrong. I may be completely unreasonably spreading malicious rumours. Alternatively there may be another side to her story.

Yes, she is a very problematic individual.

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 22/06/2026 11:07

Without wanting to be a flying monkeys, isn’t this the woman who was criticised for using the stories of her patients without permission?
Perhaps initial justified criticism grew into stalking and harassment when the response wasn’t adequate.

I must say, I don’t know much about it and am happy to be told I’m wrong. I may be completely unreasonably spreading malicious rumours. Alternatively there may be another side to her story.

Seethlaw · 22/06/2026 10:57

I'm in fandom. This is in no way surprising to me. Stalking and doxxing have been practices far too common among female fans for decades already. Pretty terrifying stuff, for sure.