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Author/illustrator of 'Grandads Pride' chosen as artist for the Summer Reading Challenge

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RolledDahl · 21/06/2026 08:37

Anyone here work in a Library?
For those of you who don't, you may know that every summer we promote the Summer Reading Challenge from the Reading Agency. It's a lovely way to encourage children to keep reading over the summer holidays.

This year the Reading Agency have chosen Harry Woodgate as the illustrator - he is the author of the controversial book Grandad's Pride, which included images of fetish wear...many of you may remember the concerns over some of his illustrations.

I shouldn't be surprised, knowing how captured the literary (& library) arena is in general, but it does seem to be a very deliberate decision.
And I'm not entirely convinced that his use of baby blue and pink as predominant background colours in the posters was completely accidental 😒

Author/illustrator of 'Grandads Pride' chosen as artist for the Summer Reading Challenge
Author/illustrator of 'Grandads Pride' chosen as artist for the Summer Reading Challenge
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callmeLoretta1 · 22/06/2026 04:32

MyBlueCritic · 21/06/2026 18:57

The term?
Absolutely.

I mean, the amount of people I've witness banging on about safeguarding in adult changing rooms, just leaves me bewildered.

Safeguarding applies to young people and vulnerable adults. Not someone who wants to ban trans people from public lol.

Same as referring to toilets as safe spaces.... Eh????? 😂

Safeguarding applies to any vulnerable group such as women and children.

And yes, toilets ARE safe spaces for women. Women flee to the ladies to escape a man. We cry. Seek help. We miscarry there. We change out at the sinks to go clubbing. We wash blood-stained underwear at the sink, and baby sick off our blouses. We are in a semi state of dress. We don't want MALES there.

callmeLoretta1 · 22/06/2026 04:27

MyBlueCritic · 21/06/2026 18:53

You should check your sources bbz, it's irresponsible to spread misinformation about minority groups xx

You mean the much respected Sex Matters and SEEN organisations? Wow. The sources are respected.

And the male sex is not a 'minority group' they are 50% of the population and are the oppressor sex.

SabrinaThwaite · 21/06/2026 22:47

Zoonosis · 21/06/2026 22:45

Sabrina, I am not the person here who is claiming this book about a gay granddad contains secret references to a pro-paedophile movement. You are the one claiming that. You are the one making that connection. You.

Oh I’m not claiming anything.

But I’m fucking wary of people peddling this crap to small children to normalise behaviour that should be ringing alarm
bells. Big time.

Zoonosis · 21/06/2026 22:45

SabrinaThwaite · 21/06/2026 22:41

No, there’s no inherent connection to being gay and having an unhealthy interest in children.

That’s just you being absurd and offensive.

Sabrina, I am not the person here who is claiming this book about a gay granddad contains secret references to a pro-paedophile movement. You are the one claiming that. You are the one making that connection. You.

SabrinaThwaite · 21/06/2026 22:41

No, there’s no inherent connection to being gay and having an unhealthy interest in children.

That’s just you being absurd and offensive.

Zoonosis · 21/06/2026 22:36

SabrinaThwaite · 21/06/2026 22:29

Little tweety birds are quite the pictorial reference for a bonk on the head, aren’t they? Especially for small children.

Whereas something that just says MAP with no pictorial reference for small children means … what?

It means that it's a map.

Seriously. The single sole basis you have for claiming this book contains a MAP reference is that it has a picture of a map featured in the context of a box of travel memorabilia, and that the map has the word "map" written on it to show that it's a map. That, and the apparent assumption that there's an inherent connection between gayness and paedophilia. You're being absurd and more than a little offensive.

SabrinaThwaite · 21/06/2026 22:29

Zoonosis · 21/06/2026 22:21

I've also been reliably informed that when people get bonked on the head, little birds don't actually fly around them in circles tweeting, and yet cartoons persistently portray this, how completely misleading.

Seriously, do you have any idea how ridiculous you sound, determined to die on the hill that maps don't ever have the word "map" written on them and no illustrator would never write the word "map" on a map to show that it's a map and as a result it must be some enormous PAEDOPHILE CONSPIRACY. You actively need help at this point, get off the internet and go and talk to someone.

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Little tweety birds are quite the pictorial reference for a bonk on the head, aren’t they? Especially for small children.

Whereas something that just says MAP with no pictorial reference for small children means … what?

Zoonosis · 21/06/2026 22:27

ArabellaScott · 21/06/2026 22:26

More ad homs, slurs, and insults.

Whereas you're always the articulate soul of courtesy and decorum, aren't you Arabella?

ArabellaScott · 21/06/2026 22:26

Zoonosis · 21/06/2026 22:21

I've also been reliably informed that when people get bonked on the head, little birds don't actually fly around them in circles tweeting, and yet cartoons persistently portray this, how completely misleading.

Seriously, do you have any idea how ridiculous you sound, determined to die on the hill that maps don't ever have the word "map" written on them and no illustrator would never write the word "map" on a map to show that it's a map and as a result it must be some enormous PAEDOPHILE CONSPIRACY. You actively need help at this point, get off the internet and go and talk to someone.

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More ad homs, slurs, and insults.

Zoonosis · 21/06/2026 22:21

SabrinaThwaite · 21/06/2026 22:18

I’ve worked with maps all my life. They don’t say ‘MAP’ on them in the way that has been illustrated.

HTH

I've also been reliably informed that when people get bonked on the head, little birds don't actually fly around them in circles tweeting, and yet cartoons persistently portray this, how completely misleading.

Seriously, do you have any idea how ridiculous you sound, determined to die on the hill that maps don't ever have the word "map" written on them and no illustrator would never write the word "map" on a map to show that it's a map and as a result it must be some enormous PAEDOPHILE CONSPIRACY. You actively need help at this point, get off the internet and go and talk to someone.

ArabellaScott · 21/06/2026 22:18

NecklessMumster · 21/06/2026 19:09

Thank you for raising this, I am a volunteer for the summer reading challenge and am interested to know this, we were shown the new illustrations etc in training recently. What I am wary of is the data collection, we are told to ask if the child is male or female or identifies as 'something else'. This is for 0 to 11 year olds. The parent has to give the details as under 13 yrs not allowed to give consent for data yet still supposed to ask. Last year I just put the obvious answers down but another volunteer got a talking to for not taking it seriously ( think one of the other volunteers reported him)

Bloody hell.

SabrinaThwaite · 21/06/2026 22:18

Zoonosis · 21/06/2026 22:13

I've got a road map of Britain, a canal map of Britain, and a map book of my home city all sitting in the bookshelf beside me currently. Every single one of them says the word "map" on the cover. In large letters even. And even if they didn't, this is a children's book, and the map is one very small part of a much larger drawing, there is nothing sinister at all about making it quickly obvious what it is, instead of drawing something fiddly and intricate. You are grasping at straws and there are no straws there.

And you're still not elaborating on the other "sly references" you mentioned so clearly there aren't actually any at all.

I’ve worked with maps all my life. They don’t say ‘MAP’ on them in the way that has been illustrated.

HTH

Zoonosis · 21/06/2026 22:16

ArabellaScott · 21/06/2026 22:11

Why do you keep going on about fisting? Trying to shock the mummies?

Believe me, my comments are among the least shocking on this thread.

Zoonosis · 21/06/2026 22:15

DandelionFarmer · 21/06/2026 22:00

Maybe you could say that a third time? you would like to wouldn't you?

I've read the book. It's has no place in the very young children's section.

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So in other words, no there is nothing else in the book apart from what has already been mentioned.

Zoonosis · 21/06/2026 22:13

SabrinaThwaite · 21/06/2026 22:07

IRL, no, maps generally don’t have MAP printed across the top of them.

There’s plenty of other ways the illustrator could have shown a map.

I've got a road map of Britain, a canal map of Britain, and a map book of my home city all sitting in the bookshelf beside me currently. Every single one of them says the word "map" on the cover. In large letters even. And even if they didn't, this is a children's book, and the map is one very small part of a much larger drawing, there is nothing sinister at all about making it quickly obvious what it is, instead of drawing something fiddly and intricate. You are grasping at straws and there are no straws there.

And you're still not elaborating on the other "sly references" you mentioned so clearly there aren't actually any at all.

ArabellaScott · 21/06/2026 22:11

Zoonosis · 21/06/2026 21:33

No, sorry, I didn't realise there was homework to do before participating on this thread. I doubt most commenters here have actually read it cover to cover though. Have you got anything else to share about it that hasn't already been mentioned? Are you going to reveal at this point there is in fact a bondage fisting scene?

Why do you keep going on about fisting? Trying to shock the mummies?

SabrinaThwaite · 21/06/2026 22:07

Zoonosis · 21/06/2026 21:49

You've never seen a map with "map" written on it? Ok.

Since you've failed to mention them I assume these other "sly references" are either equally weak or non-existent. Congrats on being the type of person who assumes a book about grandad being gay must mean he's a nonce, I guess.

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IRL, no, maps generally don’t have MAP printed across the top of them.

There’s plenty of other ways the illustrator could have shown a map.

DandelionFarmer · 21/06/2026 22:00

Zoonosis · 21/06/2026 21:48

Please do tell me what I'm missing then? I mainly came here to point out how completely stupid the claim there was a MAP reference was, because people were sharing it without context (I recall the context from a previous thread about the same book). I've also understood from this thread that:

  • There are images of a Pride parade, which include pictures of men in leather gear
  • There's a picture of a trans man with top surgery scars
  • There's a picture of a map (GASP)

All my responses have been based on this understanding. If I've missed something else important that would utterly change my view - like the eagerly anticipated fisting scene - surely you'd share it instead of just making dismissive insinuations?

Maybe you could say that a third time? you would like to wouldn't you?

I've read the book. It's has no place in the very young children's section.

Imnobody4 · 21/06/2026 21:53

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 21/06/2026 20:18

So no answer to my question then.

I understand, it probably doesn’t sound too great when you say it out loud.

I can’t face trawling his ‘trans rights’ posts right now but feel free to dig out any apology if he has made one. It would be a small relief.

I'm treating it with the contempt it deserves, couldn't you tell.

Zoonosis · 21/06/2026 21:49

SabrinaThwaite · 21/06/2026 21:46

I’ve never seen a folded map wIth MAP written on it, have you?

If I was an illustrator wanting to show someone that was well travelled using a map, that’s not how I’d do it.

You've never seen a map with "map" written on it? Ok.

Since you've failed to mention them I assume these other "sly references" are either equally weak or non-existent. Congrats on being the type of person who assumes a book about grandad being gay must mean he's a nonce, I guess.

Zoonosis · 21/06/2026 21:48

DandelionFarmer · 21/06/2026 21:43

Thought not.

Please do tell me what I'm missing then? I mainly came here to point out how completely stupid the claim there was a MAP reference was, because people were sharing it without context (I recall the context from a previous thread about the same book). I've also understood from this thread that:

  • There are images of a Pride parade, which include pictures of men in leather gear
  • There's a picture of a trans man with top surgery scars
  • There's a picture of a map (GASP)

All my responses have been based on this understanding. If I've missed something else important that would utterly change my view - like the eagerly anticipated fisting scene - surely you'd share it instead of just making dismissive insinuations?

SabrinaThwaite · 21/06/2026 21:46

Zoonosis · 21/06/2026 21:40

Go on, do share what those sly references are. Are they all as convincing as the picture of a map definitely being a secret code for MAP?

I’ve never seen a folded map wIth MAP written on it, have you?

If I was an illustrator wanting to show someone that was well travelled using a map, that’s not how I’d do it.

DandelionFarmer · 21/06/2026 21:43

Zoonosis · 21/06/2026 21:33

No, sorry, I didn't realise there was homework to do before participating on this thread. I doubt most commenters here have actually read it cover to cover though. Have you got anything else to share about it that hasn't already been mentioned? Are you going to reveal at this point there is in fact a bondage fisting scene?

Thought not.

Zoonosis · 21/06/2026 21:40

SabrinaThwaite · 21/06/2026 21:37

There’s some sly references in there.

So if you’re going to defend something then it’s always best to be familiar with it.

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Go on, do share what those sly references are. Are they all as convincing as the picture of a map definitely being a secret code for MAP?

SabrinaThwaite · 21/06/2026 21:37

Zoonosis · 21/06/2026 21:33

No, sorry, I didn't realise there was homework to do before participating on this thread. I doubt most commenters here have actually read it cover to cover though. Have you got anything else to share about it that hasn't already been mentioned? Are you going to reveal at this point there is in fact a bondage fisting scene?

There’s some sly references in there.

So if you’re going to defend something then it’s always best to be familiar with it.

ETA grammar