Please or to access all these features

Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

"Love is Love" T-shirt by Stonewall and S&M (yes, really)

96 replies

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 18/06/2026 11:42

One of Stonewall's contributions to the innocuous "Pride Month":

https://www.stonewall.org.uk/news/stonewall-launches-range-of-collabs-to-mark-pride-month

Stonewall has partnered with three top designers and a renowned comic publisher to create a range of merchandise to mark this year’s Pride month. All profits to go to supporting its purpose of creating a safe and equal world where all LGBTQ+ people can live, work and thrive.

The House of Kind “We Are All Equals™️” tee, created in collaboration with Single Swan, is designed to symbolise unity and allyship and features an embroidered equals sign and love heart as a reminder that all deserve to be treated fairly and equally. [My bold. I'd like to believe they meant this].

Oh, dear, one of their "collabs" is a brand called Scotty & Mirko (S&M - I kid you not!) with a T-shirt that says "Love is Love."
https://shop.stonewall.org.uk/collections/scotty-mirko-x-stonewall

Do they really not know anything about history, or are they just hoping we won't notice?

OP posts:
Grammarnut · 19/06/2026 08:40

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

NumberTheory · 19/06/2026 07:27

Brainworm · 19/06/2026 05:09

I think it’s the stonewall logo embedded into them

My mistake. Turns out I saw a mislabeled photo and drew the wrong conclusion.

Brainworm · 19/06/2026 05:09

NumberTheory · 18/06/2026 22:37

It's a design element associated with one of the designers from previous work.

I think it’s the stonewall logo embedded into them

dizzydizzydizzy · 19/06/2026 04:43

gayhistorynerd · 18/06/2026 22:31

I still can't find any real source of the "love is love" slogan actually being associated with PIE- I'd really appreciate some links if anyone has any archival evidence, because so far all I've found is people repeating it as fact without anything to back it up

That happens a lot on this board. I made a smiler comment a few days ago on another particularly
(IMHO ill informed) thread - the OP and many others were stating ideas/opinions as if they were robustly-evidenced facts.

TempestTost · 18/06/2026 23:48

GreyskySexRealistsky · 18/06/2026 22:37

Please appreciate that people are perhaps reluctant to post links to p*dophile sites, MAP sites and such like and have them in their search history.

Maybe. Though if not be surprised if it is something they picked up on later.

To me "love is love" is one of the first kinds of slogans for social change. It's so obviously not true, so right from the start to be plausible we have to avoid applying it where it's inappropriate. Like abusive relationships which can of course involve real love.

So it is an easy idea to manipulate one people accept it as a truism.

And it shuts down all the real and serious questions around ssm too, like, Is marriage really about love anyway? Why have legal marriage? Is it correct to say that we can't have legislation that differentiates on the basis of reproductive role because of equal rights?

spannasaurus · 18/06/2026 23:32

RedToothBrush · 18/06/2026 21:53

Gosh, you thought he was sincere?!

No.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 18/06/2026 22:37

gayhistorynerd · 18/06/2026 22:31

I still can't find any real source of the "love is love" slogan actually being associated with PIE- I'd really appreciate some links if anyone has any archival evidence, because so far all I've found is people repeating it as fact without anything to back it up

Please appreciate that people are perhaps reluctant to post links to p*dophile sites, MAP sites and such like and have them in their search history.

NumberTheory · 18/06/2026 22:37

KnottyAuty · 18/06/2026 22:31

Ive not read the thread yet but whats with the penis shaped cross bars in the Es?

It's a design element associated with one of the designers from previous work.

KnottyAuty · 18/06/2026 22:31

lcakethereforeIam · 18/06/2026 11:47

They went all in on designing it too. Really! It must have taken them...ooh...seconds.

If MN approves.

Ive not read the thread yet but whats with the penis shaped cross bars in the Es?

gayhistorynerd · 18/06/2026 22:31

I still can't find any real source of the "love is love" slogan actually being associated with PIE- I'd really appreciate some links if anyone has any archival evidence, because so far all I've found is people repeating it as fact without anything to back it up

SecretSquirrelSect · 18/06/2026 22:19

I'm a huge supporter of same sex marriage and equality.

I do not like 'Love is Love' though as it has always sounded weirdly coercive to me. Love isn't love, if it hurts, you're scared or sad or can't say no or they let you down or are unkind etc etc....

I can only assume the people who like it have had a very privileged path and only ever met and interacted with people who mean what they say.

Swallowdoubleandrunamile · 18/06/2026 22:03

Wishesandhorses · 18/06/2026 12:53

And that's why it will slide past the radar because 'what's the big fuss really', and yep, we've normalised a paedophile slogan and pushed acceptance that little bit further. The paedophile manifesto, a repulsive document published some years back, explained how you could get the general public to go 'what's the harm' just like this, and step by step you loosen off those so very inconvenient social boundaries to men abusing children.

100% this

RedToothBrush · 18/06/2026 21:53

spannasaurus · 18/06/2026 18:13

I assume that one of the "cis athletes" is Imane Khelif who did threaten to sue JKR at one point but never actually did

Gosh, you thought he was sincere?!

RedToothBrush · 18/06/2026 21:51

Dominoodles · 18/06/2026 12:21

Unless I'm missing something here, I don't see the problem? It's a lazy design for sure but there's nothing inherently wrong with a 'love is love' t-shirt

Apart for when it's used with the initials s and m and has dodgy associations with PIE.

But apart from that....

lcakethereforeIam · 18/06/2026 21:48

So even less effort has gone into the design than I thought.

NumberTheory · 18/06/2026 21:41

CriticalCondition · 18/06/2026 20:03

Hose connectors or penises, whatever they are, those thrusting Es are very male.

If they wanted to play around with the letters they could have done something lovely and symbolic with the Vs. But they didn't, did they. Hmm, why is that?

It’s the symbol Scotty, of Scotty & Mirko, has used as a sort of trademark in his previous designs for Mulberry.

CriticalCondition · 18/06/2026 20:03

Hose connectors or penises, whatever they are, those thrusting Es are very male.

If they wanted to play around with the letters they could have done something lovely and symbolic with the Vs. But they didn't, did they. Hmm, why is that?

Duckyfondant · 18/06/2026 19:16

Makes me think of paedophilia and incest - as the slogan could be used by sickos as an argument for both - which then leads me to questioning the whole q+ part of the movement.

Chrysanthemum5 · 18/06/2026 18:50

I was just in Sainsbury’s and their Pride display says ‘Love is Love’ so I guess it’s becoming more
common as a pride saying - to me it will always be associated with PIE though

spannasaurus · 18/06/2026 18:13

onlytherain · 18/06/2026 18:11

According to the person in the video, "multiple cis athletes" are suing JKR for bullying. Who are these athletes? I cannot find anything anywhere on this. These claims seem to be made up.

I assume that one of the "cis athletes" is Imane Khelif who did threaten to sue JKR at one point but never actually did

onlytherain · 18/06/2026 18:11

Thingybob · 18/06/2026 12:18

Sorry in advance for this slightly unrelated post but..

Poor Stonewall seem to be struggling and the TRA's hate them so I'm sure T Shirts are the least of their worries.

For those still on Twitter/X

https://x.com/WomenofSurrey/status/2067304686030324199

Only three employees visible in the building yesterday. Or it could be just one employee, one support human and one identifying as a support dog.

According to the person in the video, "multiple cis athletes" are suing JKR for bullying. Who are these athletes? I cannot find anything anywhere on this. These claims seem to be made up.

TempestTost · 18/06/2026 17:37

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 18/06/2026 12:34

You're absolutely right. It really shouldn't have any association with paedophiles. It really shouldn't.

But why not?

They chose it because the logic works for them as much as anyone else.

It is and always was a moronic slogan.

Gerri1992 · 18/06/2026 17:31

Chatgpt says
"Love is love" originated as a rallying cry in the marriage equality and LGBTQ+ rights movements, solidifying in the early to mid-2000s. It was popularized to argue that same-sex romantic love is inherently as valid, beautiful, and legitimate as opposite-sex relationships.
The origins and evolution of the phrase span several decades:1984 Pop Music: The exact phrase gained early visibility through the Culture Club single "Love is Love", featured on a re-release of their album Waking Up with the House on Fire.

Early 2000s Advocacy: The phrase became a prominent slogan deployed in various grassroots arguments to normalize same-sex relationships and combat anti-gay prejudice.
The phrase became a critical defensive slogan during the campaign surrounding Proposition 8 (Prop 8), a controversial ballot initiative designed to amend the California Constitution to ban same-sex marriage. Initially, the "No on 8" campaign relied heavily on legal and abstract arguments regarding "rights and benefits". "Love is love" became a central counter-narrative to traditionalist messaging.

2016 Tony Awards: The phrase reached a massive global audience when composer Lin-Manuel Miranda recited an acceptance sonnet featuring the repeated line, "And love is love is love is love is love is love is love is love," in honor of the victims of the Pulse nightclub shooting.

While some critics point out that the slogan is largely an emotional appeal rather than a formal, academic argument, sociologists and historians recognize it as one of the defining mantras that helped reframe societal perspectives on human rights in the modern era."

dizzydizzydizzy · 18/06/2026 17:27

Wishesandhorses · 18/06/2026 12:53

And that's why it will slide past the radar because 'what's the big fuss really', and yep, we've normalised a paedophile slogan and pushed acceptance that little bit further. The paedophile manifesto, a repulsive document published some years back, explained how you could get the general public to go 'what's the harm' just like this, and step by step you loosen off those so very inconvenient social boundaries to men abusing children.

I’ve been looking for evidence that PIE used Love is Love. I haven’t anything so far. I’m wondering if it’s actually a myth.

I actually can’t see Stonewall wanting to associate themselves with paedophiles because it is obvious that it would upset people.

As for the t-shirt - not my taste but assuming the slogan is not associated with paedophila, then I don’t see an issue. I think the S&M brand name is funny.

Gerri1992 · 18/06/2026 17:26

Sadly google just finds a bunch of weird Christian websites arguing that because it doesn't says God is love that the phrase is evil and so are homosexuals.