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Has there been an influx of TRAs to Mumsnet recently?

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ByTheRiverside · 17/06/2026 16:08

I'm a long time reader. Only recently started to participate.

I very rarely saw any TRAs on here over the years. But in the past few weeks, I've noticed a lot of them coming here.

You can generally tell by the absolute shite coming out of their mouths, such as being avid apologists for sex offenders.

What's their deal with coming here? Are they saying that their 'womanhood' is reliant on us conforming to their belief, so they're trying to get us to agree with them? If that's so, then welcome!!! You're going to have to get used to reality real quick if you stick around.

Has anyone else noticed this, or just me?

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TheBafflingIsGenerallyComplete · 18/06/2026 07:46

It’s also Pride month (although, when isn’t it?) so they are probably whipped up by that too. Sex is real, gender is nonsense. And I say that as a Christian.

Sausagenbacon · 18/06/2026 07:44

I come on here regularly because I'm GC and there's generally interesting and well-informed posts on here to support my position.
If i see boring or wind-up ('please explain all this to me') posts i don't bother with them.
I fail to see the point of
You can generally tell by the absolute shite coming out of their mouths, such as being avid apologists for sex offenders.
Just why?
It's like going from the FT to the Sunday Sport.

Soontobesleeping · 18/06/2026 07:43

Keeptoiletssafe · 17/06/2026 18:35

Toilets
Toilets
Toilets

But they only want to be left to take photos, masturbate next to women and rifle through the sanitary bin in peace!

Maaate · 18/06/2026 07:31

murasaki · 17/06/2026 22:46

The latest batch seem to think TiMs are only male when they've committed a crime. I think they think this is some sort of compromise we can agree on. It is not.

But absolutely no one would go to all the trouble of pretending to be trans...

...except when they do, apparently 🤷‍♀️

NumberTheory · 18/06/2026 02:50

moltopianissimo · 17/06/2026 23:39

School holidays where? Even schools in Scotland don't break up for a couple of weeks.

It’s already the summer break for most in the USA - where a hell of a lot of the TRA energy and (un)reasoning comes from judging by the language used.

IwantToRetire · 18/06/2026 01:13

I think one of the problems is that there has been an increased number of threads about TW / TRAs. Speculating etc., etc..

As though they were interesting.

Personally I dont think women, let alone gender critical feminists who believe in women's sex based rights need to "understand".

All that is important is that they, and all the hangers on understand and accept that women have the right to self determination about their lives.

It likes spending time discussing why men are violent. Unless you are one of those men we dont know. But we do know that women have the right not to be the victim of male violence.

Equally women have the right not to have their sex based rights impinged on by men.

I think (given the male ego) having threads about them just implies to them that really we are interested.

Far better to take up FWR posts with news, ideas, actions, frivolity, etc., etc., that are centred on women.

Or maybe ask MNHQ who have already divided the feminist forum into a third one for Feminist Analyis of Trans - FAT.

murasaki · 17/06/2026 23:40

moltopianissimo · 17/06/2026 23:39

School holidays where? Even schools in Scotland don't break up for a couple of weeks.

A lot of kids finished their gcses this week.

moltopianissimo · 17/06/2026 23:39

DeanElderberry · 17/06/2026 16:12

school holidays, very predictable

School holidays where? Even schools in Scotland don't break up for a couple of weeks.

murasaki · 17/06/2026 23:37

SwirlyGates · 17/06/2026 23:35

Maybe they're having a competition. Go on mumsnet, post something stupid and see how many replies you can get, with a point per quoted post.

I'm going to have to stop responding to the batshittery.

Could well be.

SwirlyGates · 17/06/2026 23:35

Maybe they're having a competition. Go on mumsnet, post something stupid and see how many replies you can get, with a point per quoted post.

I'm going to have to stop responding to the batshittery.

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 17/06/2026 23:31

murasaki · 17/06/2026 22:54

One of them seemed to imply it wasn't just rapist gender but criminal gender too!

Yes, now that you mention it, this is coming up a lot lately. "Criminal gender" is going on the list!

murasaki · 17/06/2026 22:54

BiologicalRobot · 17/06/2026 22:51

I thought there was only rapist gender. Are you telling me Nicola got it wrong and there's more?? 😱

One of them seemed to imply it wasn't just rapist gender but criminal gender too!

BiologicalRobot · 17/06/2026 22:51

murasaki · 17/06/2026 22:46

The latest batch seem to think TiMs are only male when they've committed a crime. I think they think this is some sort of compromise we can agree on. It is not.

I thought there was only rapist gender. Are you telling me Nicola got it wrong and there's more?? 😱

murasaki · 17/06/2026 22:46

The latest batch seem to think TiMs are only male when they've committed a crime. I think they think this is some sort of compromise we can agree on. It is not.

IwantToRetire · 17/06/2026 22:32

Zoonosis · 17/06/2026 21:20

This is a discussion board. Anyone is allowed to post here. You are not required to adhere to a particular opinion or belief to participate. You spend all of your time talking about trans people, so why shouldn't a trans person participate? If nothing else, what discussion do you think can be achieved by talking just to a small circle of people who all already hold exactly the same opinion as you? Apart from creating an echo chamber where misinformation gets amplified and extremism gets normalised?

You misunderstand.

Clearly the title of the forum, Feminism and Women's Rights (sex and gender) make it clear that this is an online space to allow those who want to further their understanding and activism in relation to that. Just as if a forum set up for Marxist is a place where those with that analysis can discuss and further their ideas.

This board as titled doesn't have to put aside its positive time to exchange and expand ideas from a common position to those who dont even share that position.

As has been said time and again, it is as daft as going to a vegetarian restaurant and sitting at the table and stamping your feet and yelling why aren't you serving meat.

ByTheRiverside · 17/06/2026 22:28

catpupjoy · 17/06/2026 22:09

What is a tra??

Trans Rights Activist

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catpupjoy · 17/06/2026 22:09

What is a tra??

GreyskySexRealistsky · 17/06/2026 22:07

Zoonosis · 17/06/2026 21:20

This is a discussion board. Anyone is allowed to post here. You are not required to adhere to a particular opinion or belief to participate. You spend all of your time talking about trans people, so why shouldn't a trans person participate? If nothing else, what discussion do you think can be achieved by talking just to a small circle of people who all already hold exactly the same opinion as you? Apart from creating an echo chamber where misinformation gets amplified and extremism gets normalised?

Bingo! Echo chamber!
I called it in my post at 16:23.
I win!

Hedgehogforshort · 17/06/2026 21:45

Well TRA’s obviously lurking around a lot to come across things that offend them.

Some offer an argument and links others have a good old rant.

ByTheRiverside · 17/06/2026 21:43

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  1. Women asserting boundaries isn't bigotry. It's been something sex realists have had to teach TRAs a million times over, but at least the rest of the world are slowly figuring it out.
  2. I have now said twice that there's no reason they shouldn't. I've just asked why.
  3. Other than breaking the rules and being horribly rude, would you like to talk about anything else? I'm happy to debate your deluded ideology if you're going to stick around, but you're going to have to come up with something more than just insulting me.
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Zoonosis · 17/06/2026 21:38

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Hedgehogforshort · 17/06/2026 21:38

Zoonosis · 17/06/2026 21:20

This is a discussion board. Anyone is allowed to post here. You are not required to adhere to a particular opinion or belief to participate. You spend all of your time talking about trans people, so why shouldn't a trans person participate? If nothing else, what discussion do you think can be achieved by talking just to a small circle of people who all already hold exactly the same opinion as you? Apart from creating an echo chamber where misinformation gets amplified and extremism gets normalised?

I agree with you about anyone is entitled to post here and should.

Please provide some evidence of misinformation.

ByTheRiverside · 17/06/2026 21:31

Zoonosis · 17/06/2026 21:20

This is a discussion board. Anyone is allowed to post here. You are not required to adhere to a particular opinion or belief to participate. You spend all of your time talking about trans people, so why shouldn't a trans person participate? If nothing else, what discussion do you think can be achieved by talking just to a small circle of people who all already hold exactly the same opinion as you? Apart from creating an echo chamber where misinformation gets amplified and extremism gets normalised?

What are you talking about? I've already said here that it's a good thing if the TIMs and TIFs come here, because it'll burst their little fantasy bubbles.

Given that their egos can't usually handle it, I'm just asking the question of "What's their purpose if they're all showing up now?"

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Zoonosis · 17/06/2026 21:20

This is a discussion board. Anyone is allowed to post here. You are not required to adhere to a particular opinion or belief to participate. You spend all of your time talking about trans people, so why shouldn't a trans person participate? If nothing else, what discussion do you think can be achieved by talking just to a small circle of people who all already hold exactly the same opinion as you? Apart from creating an echo chamber where misinformation gets amplified and extremism gets normalised?

EmpressaurusKitty · 17/06/2026 21:11

I suspect there’s a rota.

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