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Surrey Pride cancelled for this year due to lack of funding

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Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 16/06/2026 10:23

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cy8w739g8y7o

Surrey Pride has been postponed until 2027, organisers have announced.
Pride in Surrey said rising costs and a decline in pledged corporate sponsorship had made it "impossible to proceed" with the event.
The parade and festival in Guildford were due to take place on 8 August.
Organisers said in a statement posted on Facebook they were making the announcement with "great sadness".
"This year, many Pride events across the country have faced similar cancellations," they wrote.
"We sincerely appreciate your understanding during this difficult time."
It comes after Surrey County Council withdrew its official support for the 2025 event, meaning its staff and services did not officially attend.
The local authority said at the time Pride in Surrey was not "truly representative" of the whole LGBTQ+ community following "concerns" that had been raised.
Stephen Ireland, the former founder of the county event, was jailed for raping a 12-year-old boy in June 2025.
The BBC understands this was a factor in the authority's decision, although it had not actively sponsored Pride since 2021.

Given its abysmal record on safeguarding, this is good news for the people of Surrey, especially the more vulnerable ones who were so badly let down by all concerned before.

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AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 16/06/2026 19:34

BelleHathNoFury · 16/06/2026 19:22

The thing is that gay men, lesbians and bi people marching to demand acceptance and equality was right and good and worthy of pride.

Well they've got equality so why do they need to march?

They don't any more, but if, having achieved what they set out to achieve, they stopped, then the groups who support them would no longer have an excuse for blagging money out of the general public and out of organisations like the Liberal Party and local councils in order to fund the marches.

It is quite usual for campaigns which want to achieve this or that aim to be set up, get what they were after, and then rather than gracefully dissolving their campaign to continue, asking for something different and raising money for that instead, for the sake of the organisers' egos. That sense of self-importance is deeply addictive.

Of course, in some cases it's more sinister than that; Surrey Pride, for instance, with all that lovely access to children who've had their awareness of wrong subverted.

We were proud, in 1971. I for one no longer am: that organisation has had its day, and become sadly despicable in too many cases.

AstonUniversityPotholeDepartment · 16/06/2026 19:34

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I really wouldn't expend this level of energy on behalf of a provincial pride parade that was set up by a child predator. That's why it's experiencing a "decrease in corporate sponsorship".

I'm sure you can find other pride parades to defend that are struggling to find funds to proceed for innocent reasons such as the rise in the cost of living.

TheyAreLovelyLovelyPeople · 16/06/2026 19:33

NattySnake hi there.
Thank you for engaging with this thread a bit.

You understand the concerns around Surrey Pride, yes?

alliumursinum · 16/06/2026 19:33

So did you raise alarm bells about Stephen Ireland @NattySnake ?

spannasaurus · 16/06/2026 19:29

AstonUniversityPotholeDepartment · 16/06/2026 19:25

"Pride in Surrey" should be totally dissolved. It is extricably linked with Stephen Ireland, child rapist and prolific poster on social media. It was always transparently his personal vehicle for promoting his career as an influencer and media personality.

I'm sure there is a need for a local organisation that represents lesbians, gay men and bisexual people, but someone will need to step up to create an organisation that genuinely does that. It wasn't ever what "Pride in Surrey" was originally about, and it can't pivot to filling that role now.

Isn't one of Ireland's exes still on the committee of pride in Surry

NattySnake · 16/06/2026 19:27

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WorldCup34b · 16/06/2026 19:27

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Fuck them. Just go about your lives.
You dont need to march, you have liberation

AstonUniversityPotholeDepartment · 16/06/2026 19:25

"Pride in Surrey" should be totally dissolved. It is extricably linked with Stephen Ireland, child rapist and prolific poster on social media. It was always transparently his personal vehicle for promoting his career as an influencer and media personality.

I'm sure there is a need for a local organisation that represents lesbians, gay men and bisexual people, but someone will need to step up to create an organisation that genuinely does that. It wasn't ever what "Pride in Surrey" was originally about, and it can't pivot to filling that role now.

WorldCup34b · 16/06/2026 19:23

Good News. Its all so bloody ridiculous.
LOOK AT ME, I'M GAY! Oh feck off

BelleHathNoFury · 16/06/2026 19:22

The thing is that gay men, lesbians and bi people marching to demand acceptance and equality was right and good and worthy of pride.

Well they've got equality so why do they need to march?

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 16/06/2026 19:18

NattySnake
Have I abused you?

Well, yes.
You have indiscriminately called people on this thread
small-minded
intolerant
spiteful
feeble
stupid

I called those terms of vulgar abuse, myself. I have things I could call you, but having better manners than you do, I shall refrain.

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 16/06/2026 19:17

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NattySnake

BiologicalRobot · 16/06/2026 19:07

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Weeallthewayhome · 16/06/2026 19:03

Hopefully the rest of these dull self-indulgent displays of clichéd perversion will follow suit.

Nothing more tedious than an autogynephile in bad shoes mansplaining womanhood. Emperor’s new clothes.

KilkennyCats · 16/06/2026 18:57

Excellent 👍

Ilikeanicecupofteainthemorning · 16/06/2026 18:56

Lifein2046 · 16/06/2026 17:52

Well, last time I went there were men dressed in puppy fetish gear getting kids to pet them and lesbians being abused because they do t believe that men are women and therefore won’t have sex with them. That’s what it’s become and what I want no part of.

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I can confirm this account
some lesbians had banners and were shouting such controversial things as

a lesbian is a female homosexual
there is no such thing as a lesbian with a penis

for this crime they were screamed over by a bunch of men who also encouraged a bunch of teenagers to surround the lesbians and drown them out

I got into conversation with a bystander who asked what all the fuss was about, and I explained that some men, who 'identify as women' think they should be welcomed as sexual partners by lesbians, and shame and ostracise any who refuse (putting it mildly). The woman looked shocked and said
'that's a bit...rapey isn't it?' to which I could only agree

Fillies4DeclanRice · 16/06/2026 18:51

I'm really surprised the Pride in Surrey story isn't a bigger one - it should be a national scandal.

The Lib Dems gave taxpayer funding to them last year AFTER the chairman was jailed for raping a child.

And the BBC and police were so desperate to appear inclusive that they helped give a paedophile - who had so many red flags surrounding him - access to vulnerable children.

Lifein2046 · 16/06/2026 18:42

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You haven’t actually said anything though. You’ve just called us all thick and small minded ignoring the fact that the thing we are objecting to is a lack of child safeguarding.

ShishKofte · 16/06/2026 18:42

Don't feed the snake.

NattySnake · 16/06/2026 18:40

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ginasevern · 16/06/2026 18:39

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Is it small minded to not see the need to celebrate men wearing bondage gear, nappies and butt plugs? Maybe it is, you tell me. I doubt anyone on this site particularly cares what they do in private (as long as it's legal and consensual), and it's not illegal to indulge in kinks. So what are they actually celebrating?

Igmum · 16/06/2026 18:38

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So what is it about RAPING CHILDREN that you support Natty?

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 16/06/2026 18:31

Orangemintcream · 16/06/2026 18:29

Clearly you are a terrible terrible bigot ofcourse.

How very dare you object to such things.

I'd hazard a guess that in spite of being a lesbian @Lifein2046 is also homophobic, queerphobic and funded by the US evangelicals and MAGA supporters. Hmm

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Lifein2046 · 16/06/2026 18:31

Orangemintcream · 16/06/2026 18:29

Clearly you are a terrible terrible bigot ofcourse.

How very dare you object to such things.

Happy to be a bigot if it means not standing for men including children in their kinks and lesbians being abused for being lesbians!

Orangemintcream · 16/06/2026 18:29

Lifein2046 · 16/06/2026 18:27

Well, I’d like to know exactly what kind of person you think I am because I care about child safeguarding and homosexuals not being abused for y’know being exclusively same-sex attracted, if you’d be so kind to enlighten me?

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Clearly you are a terrible terrible bigot ofcourse.

How very dare you object to such things.