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Cambridge University ignoring the Supreme Court ruling?

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yoursweetpotatoesarebland · 11/06/2026 23:27

Dd is going to the Cambridge open day coming up, I got an email through about the colleges and was having a read through. There’s a section about “gender identity” and how it impacts on what colleges you can apply to. There are two women’s colleges but both accept anyone who identifies as a woman!

This is from Murray Edwards:
“At the admissions level, we will consider any student who, at the point of application, identifies as a woman“

How can this still be allowed? It’s self ID too so has NEVER been legal for the purposes of the eqA.

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MarieDeGournay · 13/06/2026 12:51

CoolBlueBear Sharing the same clothes, interests, hobbies, aesthetics, or even certain personality traits strikes me as a superficial commonality rather than a substantive one.

Baileyonice But the organic inclinations towards these particular behaviours aren't superficial commonalities is the point. The behaviours are simply an expression of deeper biologically influenced underlying similarities.

Are you saying that there is an organic inclination towards clothes, hobbies, interests etc that are typically associated with women?

Do you think that the stereotypes of 'femaleness' are expressions of a 'deeper biological influence'?

I think they are socially constructed, and in support of that I would point to the fact that the behaviours, interests, hobbies, aesthetics, personality traits which are branded 'feminine' have varied over time, and across classes and cultures.

If they were simply an expression of deeper biologically influence[s], wouldn't 'being a woman' be more same-y?

Baileyonice · 13/06/2026 12:21

CoolBlueBear · 13/06/2026 08:28

I think this is where I fundamentally disagree. To me, there is no meaningful commonality between transwomen and women as a sex class. Sharing the same clothes, interests, hobbies, aesthetics, or even certain personality traits strikes me as a superficial commonality rather than a substantive one.

What has shaped my view is my own experience. I've met many transwomen over the years and I was genuinely open to finding the connection that people describe. I thought perhaps there would be an immediate sense of recognition, a feeling that this person was, at some deep level, another woman. Not because of appearance, femininity, masculinity, or shared interests, but because of that subtle, unspoken sense of mutual understanding that often exists between women regardless of how different they are from one another.

I've never experienced that. What I've found instead is that my interactions with transwomen have felt much more similar to my interactions with men than with women. Obviously that's subjective, and others may feel differently, but it has been consistent enough that it has shaped my conclusions.

So when people argue that transwomen are women because they identify more closely with female typical behaviours or preferences, that doesn't resonate with me.

My understanding of womanhood has never been rooted in clothes, hobbies, personalities, or stereotypes. It's rooted in the shared reality of being female, and I don't think identification or affinity with a gender category can replicate that.

Sharing the same clothes, interests, hobbies, aesthetics, or even certain personality traits strikes me as a superficial commonality rather than a substantive one.

But the organic inclinations towards these particular behaviours aren't superficial commonalities is the point. The behaviours are simply an expression of deeper biologically influenced underlying similarities.

I've never experienced that.

Just the opposite for me with both trans women & very effeminate men. Interestingly I don't get any sense of a 'female' connection with butch women just an impression very reminiscent of the 'macho' 'disaggreeable' men I've experienced relationships with. But that's based on anecdotal evidence & my intuition of course.

My understanding of womanhood has never been rooted in clothes, hobbies, personalities, or stereotypes. It's rooted in the shared reality of being female, and I don't think identification or affinity with a gender category can replicate that.

I dunno, I've hung out in many a female dominated & male dominated social settings & the two couldn't be further apart in behaviours. It's absurd to me that people claim there's no difference but I guess maybe it's the company I keep?

Theeyeballsinthesky · 13/06/2026 09:05

So when people argue that transwomen are women because they identify more closely with female typical behaviours or preferences, that doesn't resonate with me.

indeed especially as when you dig down into it, TW will say things like being submissive or emotional or sensitive - god yes us submissive emotional sensitive women eh? It's not like those are stereotypes we've been trying to escape forever

it's also of course nonsense because TRA determination to force men into women's spaces displays none of those traits whatsoever

CoolBlueBear · 13/06/2026 08:28

Baileyonice · 13/06/2026 00:25

Yes, the premise of feminism is differences exist but so do commonalities that justify measures to enable gender equality. And it's the commonalities where the disconnect happens for GC feminists in my view.

Highlighting the biological differences justifies measures like reproductive freedom, child care, flexible working hours/parental leave etc that enable access to gender parity. Highlighting the commonalities as in cognitive skills & psychological traits justified anti discrimination laws that enabled access to the same work places. How else would you justify women not being the 'weaker sex'? The same way people of colour were justified not being discriminated against. We are all humans & as such cognitively & psychologically interchangeable.

And once the door to interchangeability opens, so does gender identification. Whilst males & females share psychological traits there are typical behaviours more common to one sex than the other due to genetic, hormonal distribution & environmental settings that create behavioural categories distinguishing males from females. Sex after all is in essence the traits that distinguish males from females which isn't just limited to reproductive traits. I'm not saying behaviour defines sex. I'm saying there are behaviours & inclinations more common to each sex that create categorical gendered differences at population scale.

A trans person is in essence simply saying 'I have more in common & as such identify with the opposite gender category I was born as.'

Of course the schism here is the GC presumption that alluding to typical behaviours is in conflict with psychological interchangeability. But it doesn't because interchangeability & typical behaviours are not mutually exclusive. One does not cancel out the other because individuals aren't necessarily reflective of the norm.

I think this is where I fundamentally disagree. To me, there is no meaningful commonality between transwomen and women as a sex class. Sharing the same clothes, interests, hobbies, aesthetics, or even certain personality traits strikes me as a superficial commonality rather than a substantive one.

What has shaped my view is my own experience. I've met many transwomen over the years and I was genuinely open to finding the connection that people describe. I thought perhaps there would be an immediate sense of recognition, a feeling that this person was, at some deep level, another woman. Not because of appearance, femininity, masculinity, or shared interests, but because of that subtle, unspoken sense of mutual understanding that often exists between women regardless of how different they are from one another.

I've never experienced that. What I've found instead is that my interactions with transwomen have felt much more similar to my interactions with men than with women. Obviously that's subjective, and others may feel differently, but it has been consistent enough that it has shaped my conclusions.

So when people argue that transwomen are women because they identify more closely with female typical behaviours or preferences, that doesn't resonate with me.

My understanding of womanhood has never been rooted in clothes, hobbies, personalities, or stereotypes. It's rooted in the shared reality of being female, and I don't think identification or affinity with a gender category can replicate that.

OldCrone · 13/06/2026 08:00

Baileyonice · 13/06/2026 00:25

Yes, the premise of feminism is differences exist but so do commonalities that justify measures to enable gender equality. And it's the commonalities where the disconnect happens for GC feminists in my view.

Highlighting the biological differences justifies measures like reproductive freedom, child care, flexible working hours/parental leave etc that enable access to gender parity. Highlighting the commonalities as in cognitive skills & psychological traits justified anti discrimination laws that enabled access to the same work places. How else would you justify women not being the 'weaker sex'? The same way people of colour were justified not being discriminated against. We are all humans & as such cognitively & psychologically interchangeable.

And once the door to interchangeability opens, so does gender identification. Whilst males & females share psychological traits there are typical behaviours more common to one sex than the other due to genetic, hormonal distribution & environmental settings that create behavioural categories distinguishing males from females. Sex after all is in essence the traits that distinguish males from females which isn't just limited to reproductive traits. I'm not saying behaviour defines sex. I'm saying there are behaviours & inclinations more common to each sex that create categorical gendered differences at population scale.

A trans person is in essence simply saying 'I have more in common & as such identify with the opposite gender category I was born as.'

Of course the schism here is the GC presumption that alluding to typical behaviours is in conflict with psychological interchangeability. But it doesn't because interchangeability & typical behaviours are not mutually exclusive. One does not cancel out the other because individuals aren't necessarily reflective of the norm.

So to summarise your argument:

1.There are significant differences between men's and women's bodies which need to be taken into account so that women can have the same opportunities as men.

2.There is no significant difference between men's and women's brains, so women should have equal access with men to workplace opportunities.

3.Even though there is no significant difference between men's and women's brains, there is such a thing as ladybrain which means that some men think more like most women than most other men. This means that they are actually women.

A trans person is in essence simply saying 'I have more in common & as such identify with the opposite gender category I was born as.'

This person is mistaking stereotypes for reality. If a man thinks he has more in common with women than with other men, then he has to base this on all women, including female bricklayers and weightlifters, not just the fully made up most feminine women.

How can a man, living in a male body, possibly think he has more in common with actual women than with other men? Other than stereotypes and fantasies about lingerie.

nutmeg7 · 13/06/2026 07:37

Heggettypeg · 12/06/2026 20:58

Somewhere along the line, the meaning of Simone de Beauvoir's statement about not being born but becoming a woman got twisted, from meaning something like " Society won't be satisfied with a diamond until it has been cut, polished and made to sparkle" to "If something has been cut, polished and made to sparkle, then it's a diamond."

That is an excellent way to explain the difference, thank you!

Avezaveza · 13/06/2026 07:16

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 13/06/2026 06:34

Yes, the premise of feminism is differences exist but so do commonalities that justify measures to enable gender equality. And it's the commonalities where the disconnect happens for GC feminists in my view.
The commonality of women is they are all Adult Human Female, the differences that GC Feminists recognise is that there is no stereotypical female, that any female can be whatever they what, because there isn't only on type of women.

Sex after all is in essence the traits that distinguish males from females which isn't just limited to reproductive traits.
Biology is not a state of mind, it's a physical reality, the female sex generally has less muscle power than the male because the female physical resources are diverted to carrying and bearing offspring. Which is why even the fittest of women will never be able to run as fast as a semi fit male, or deliver a punch as strong as even the average male. It's the biological differences between the sexes that is the bases for the discrimination of women.

And once the door to interchangeability opens
There is no 'interchangeability' possible because humans are material beings, and a product of their biology, they're not cut and paste identikits.

A trans person is in essence simply saying 'I have more in common & as such identify with the opposite gender category I was born as.'
That only works if there is a stereotypical women, which there isn't because although all women are Adult Human Females, females can be whoever they choose to be, they don't have to conform to one and only one stereotype. Which is the essence of GC Feminism. A women who thinks she has 'manly' traits, isn't a man, the traits she has are not 'manly' they are her traits, and because she's a women she has made them 'womanly' traits, it's only the perception based on a outmoded stereotype that considers the traits to be 'manly'.

'Trans' is predicated on there being a stereotypical women, GC Feminists reject the idea that there is only one way to be a women. A woman is an Adult Human Female, and whatever way a women is, is what she is and she is a women for it.

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This!

Helleofabore · 13/06/2026 06:59

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 13/06/2026 06:34

Yes, the premise of feminism is differences exist but so do commonalities that justify measures to enable gender equality. And it's the commonalities where the disconnect happens for GC feminists in my view.
The commonality of women is they are all Adult Human Female, the differences that GC Feminists recognise is that there is no stereotypical female, that any female can be whatever they what, because there isn't only on type of women.

Sex after all is in essence the traits that distinguish males from females which isn't just limited to reproductive traits.
Biology is not a state of mind, it's a physical reality, the female sex generally has less muscle power than the male because the female physical resources are diverted to carrying and bearing offspring. Which is why even the fittest of women will never be able to run as fast as a semi fit male, or deliver a punch as strong as even the average male. It's the biological differences between the sexes that is the bases for the discrimination of women.

And once the door to interchangeability opens
There is no 'interchangeability' possible because humans are material beings, and a product of their biology, they're not cut and paste identikits.

A trans person is in essence simply saying 'I have more in common & as such identify with the opposite gender category I was born as.'
That only works if there is a stereotypical women, which there isn't because although all women are Adult Human Females, females can be whoever they choose to be, they don't have to conform to one and only one stereotype. Which is the essence of GC Feminism. A women who thinks she has 'manly' traits, isn't a man, the traits she has are not 'manly' they are her traits, and because she's a women she has made them 'womanly' traits, it's only the perception based on a outmoded stereotype that considers the traits to be 'manly'.

'Trans' is predicated on there being a stereotypical women, GC Feminists reject the idea that there is only one way to be a women. A woman is an Adult Human Female, and whatever way a women is, is what she is and she is a women for it.

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It is an absurd notion, isn’t it, to attempt to convince us that it is ‘feminist’ to separate female people into behavioural traits as a feminist principle?

That poster has attempted to make such statements before and it just isn’t coherent. As you say, it is feminist to protect the concept that a female person can behave and think any way they want to. That then makes it incoherent and regressive to describe any ‘behavioural trait’ as being specifically ‘female’.

However, this is necessary to wedge a group of male people into some academic exercise that allows them to access the terminology that refers to female people. And that language leads to access to female single sex provisions as we have seen .

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 13/06/2026 06:34

Baileyonice · 13/06/2026 00:25

Yes, the premise of feminism is differences exist but so do commonalities that justify measures to enable gender equality. And it's the commonalities where the disconnect happens for GC feminists in my view.

Highlighting the biological differences justifies measures like reproductive freedom, child care, flexible working hours/parental leave etc that enable access to gender parity. Highlighting the commonalities as in cognitive skills & psychological traits justified anti discrimination laws that enabled access to the same work places. How else would you justify women not being the 'weaker sex'? The same way people of colour were justified not being discriminated against. We are all humans & as such cognitively & psychologically interchangeable.

And once the door to interchangeability opens, so does gender identification. Whilst males & females share psychological traits there are typical behaviours more common to one sex than the other due to genetic, hormonal distribution & environmental settings that create behavioural categories distinguishing males from females. Sex after all is in essence the traits that distinguish males from females which isn't just limited to reproductive traits. I'm not saying behaviour defines sex. I'm saying there are behaviours & inclinations more common to each sex that create categorical gendered differences at population scale.

A trans person is in essence simply saying 'I have more in common & as such identify with the opposite gender category I was born as.'

Of course the schism here is the GC presumption that alluding to typical behaviours is in conflict with psychological interchangeability. But it doesn't because interchangeability & typical behaviours are not mutually exclusive. One does not cancel out the other because individuals aren't necessarily reflective of the norm.

Yes, the premise of feminism is differences exist but so do commonalities that justify measures to enable gender equality. And it's the commonalities where the disconnect happens for GC feminists in my view.
The commonality of women is they are all Adult Human Female, the differences that GC Feminists recognise is that there is no stereotypical female, that any female can be whatever they what, because there isn't only on type of women.

Sex after all is in essence the traits that distinguish males from females which isn't just limited to reproductive traits.
Biology is not a state of mind, it's a physical reality, the female sex generally has less muscle power than the male because the female physical resources are diverted to carrying and bearing offspring. Which is why even the fittest of women will never be able to run as fast as a semi fit male, or deliver a punch as strong as even the average male. It's the biological differences between the sexes that is the bases for the discrimination of women.

And once the door to interchangeability opens
There is no 'interchangeability' possible because humans are material beings, and a product of their biology, they're not cut and paste identikits.

A trans person is in essence simply saying 'I have more in common & as such identify with the opposite gender category I was born as.'
That only works if there is a stereotypical women, which there isn't because although all women are Adult Human Females, females can be whoever they choose to be, they don't have to conform to one and only one stereotype. Which is the essence of GC Feminism. A women who thinks she has 'manly' traits, isn't a man, the traits she has are not 'manly' they are her traits, and because she's a women she has made them 'womanly' traits, it's only the perception based on a outmoded stereotype that considers the traits to be 'manly'.

'Trans' is predicated on there being a stereotypical women, GC Feminists reject the idea that there is only one way to be a women. A woman is an Adult Human Female, and whatever way a women is, is what she is and she is a women for it.

Helleofabore · 13/06/2026 06:04

FlirtsWithRhinos · 12/06/2026 20:37

Arrogance is also ugly.

Can you explain, as I don't think you have yet, whether you really believe the significant difference between men and women is ia difference in how we think rather than in our bodies? Do you really believe that if a man thinks or feels enough like "a woman" (whatever that means), he might as well be one? And if you do, what evidence did you carefully assess to come to that conclusion and what evidence would you need to see to change your mind?

Because honestly, I can dance on the head of a post-modern pin flirting with all sorts of deconstructions of things we take for granted, and I can write you no end of essays on different ways to reframe woman as a cultural moment, a subversive other, a void for filling, a performance, and all of them would have meaningful insights and valid aspects in their own right.

But none of them, none of them, for all the intellectual onanism, would undo the fact that female bodies exist and are different to male bodies, and that whether you think that division is instrinsicly meaningful or was just a fluke fluttering of a cultural butterfly's wings that could just have easily landed on hair colour or foot shape, that difference now has consequences that don't just evaporate away just because some clever student plays "what if" with language.

So, sure, I understand that many very clever people have talked themselves into believing it's more open minded, progressive, and just damn cleverer to believe men and women are far more nuanced and complicated than boring everyday sex that anyone can know about. I even thought it myself once. But then I thought even harder and realised I was just plain wrong.

Yep.

There are quite a few posters on FWR who could write any number of academic papers as you say, Flirts. Wonderfully explorative prose building support for different theoretical premises.

But most of us understand that all that support will be built on beliefs rather than material reality. Established science that categorises humans into male and female using body formation will continue to abide while those theoretical arguments will crumble away. That cycle will, of course, continue.

We have yet to have any poster, even those who declare that they hold doctorate qualifications on gender, provide one skerrick of proven evidence to support their statements that a male person can be categorised as a female person. Their claims around who is even ‘transgender’ or not, amounts to individual people arbitrating who is and isn’t transgender based on their own personal criteria that isn’t even definable.

Helleofabore · 13/06/2026 05:37

Baileyonice · 13/06/2026 00:25

Yes, the premise of feminism is differences exist but so do commonalities that justify measures to enable gender equality. And it's the commonalities where the disconnect happens for GC feminists in my view.

Highlighting the biological differences justifies measures like reproductive freedom, child care, flexible working hours/parental leave etc that enable access to gender parity. Highlighting the commonalities as in cognitive skills & psychological traits justified anti discrimination laws that enabled access to the same work places. How else would you justify women not being the 'weaker sex'? The same way people of colour were justified not being discriminated against. We are all humans & as such cognitively & psychologically interchangeable.

And once the door to interchangeability opens, so does gender identification. Whilst males & females share psychological traits there are typical behaviours more common to one sex than the other due to genetic, hormonal distribution & environmental settings that create behavioural categories distinguishing males from females. Sex after all is in essence the traits that distinguish males from females which isn't just limited to reproductive traits. I'm not saying behaviour defines sex. I'm saying there are behaviours & inclinations more common to each sex that create categorical gendered differences at population scale.

A trans person is in essence simply saying 'I have more in common & as such identify with the opposite gender category I was born as.'

Of course the schism here is the GC presumption that alluding to typical behaviours is in conflict with psychological interchangeability. But it doesn't because interchangeability & typical behaviours are not mutually exclusive. One does not cancel out the other because individuals aren't necessarily reflective of the norm.

There is no coherence to any meaningful categorisation of behavioural categories that you seek. You have been attempting to present this argument for nearly a year now.

Because a behavioural category argument will also then include not just some female people, but also some people who are transgender of both sexes and some male people.

What stream of feminist principles involves separating female people into behavioural trait categories?

Baileyonice · 13/06/2026 01:34

MyAmpleSheep · 13/06/2026 01:28

This is logically incoherent. You are arguing that butch women who have more in common with men should use men’s toilets.

We don’t and have never apportioned any services or single sex facilities by personality type. Nor does the Equality Act permit one to do so.

I do not think you could possibly believe in what you’re writing.

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I never said anything about policy. It's simply an explanation about how gender identity & feminism align.

It does not follow that just because people share a social category they are therefore entitled to same rights. See: adults & minors.

MyAmpleSheep · 13/06/2026 01:28

This is logically incoherent. You are arguing that butch women who have more in common with men should use men’s toilets.

We don’t and have never apportioned any services or single sex facilities by personality type. Nor does the Equality Act permit one to do so.

I do not think you could possibly believe in what you’re writing.

Baileyonice · 13/06/2026 00:25

FlirtsWithRhinos · 12/06/2026 17:47

I dunno. I think Feminism can be very varied in its approach, priorities and analysis, but it does at heart need the core belief that female people exist, are fully human with as much to offer the world as men, and matter in our own right.

Whatever the belief system is that believes some men are pretty much women because of the way they think, it ain't Feminism.

Have a good weekend. May courage and honesty triumph.

Yes, the premise of feminism is differences exist but so do commonalities that justify measures to enable gender equality. And it's the commonalities where the disconnect happens for GC feminists in my view.

Highlighting the biological differences justifies measures like reproductive freedom, child care, flexible working hours/parental leave etc that enable access to gender parity. Highlighting the commonalities as in cognitive skills & psychological traits justified anti discrimination laws that enabled access to the same work places. How else would you justify women not being the 'weaker sex'? The same way people of colour were justified not being discriminated against. We are all humans & as such cognitively & psychologically interchangeable.

And once the door to interchangeability opens, so does gender identification. Whilst males & females share psychological traits there are typical behaviours more common to one sex than the other due to genetic, hormonal distribution & environmental settings that create behavioural categories distinguishing males from females. Sex after all is in essence the traits that distinguish males from females which isn't just limited to reproductive traits. I'm not saying behaviour defines sex. I'm saying there are behaviours & inclinations more common to each sex that create categorical gendered differences at population scale.

A trans person is in essence simply saying 'I have more in common & as such identify with the opposite gender category I was born as.'

Of course the schism here is the GC presumption that alluding to typical behaviours is in conflict with psychological interchangeability. But it doesn't because interchangeability & typical behaviours are not mutually exclusive. One does not cancel out the other because individuals aren't necessarily reflective of the norm.

moto748e · 12/06/2026 22:23

CoolBlueBear · 12/06/2026 22:05

Sorry that was a bit of a rant and a derail!

Not at all, @CoolBlueBear !

Realfastfoodie · 12/06/2026 22:15

NotNatacha · 12/06/2026 22:12

We’re writing about different things. I’m writing about supervisions in college, which most students will have in their first year (unless few other students in college do their subject) and possibly all the way through their course if they do a popular subject.

If students have supervisions with people not their college even though there’s someone else in college doing the same paper then, absent friction, disagreement or possibly a vast difference in ability, then that’s something which has changed since I was student.

Well, my supervisions weren’t all in a 2:1 ratio either. So different times, different subjects, different experiences maybe. I’m not saying you aren’t being truthful. I am also being truthful.

Just to be clear, I had some supervisors based in other colleges. Some of them ran mixed supervisions.

NotNatacha · 12/06/2026 22:12

Realfastfoodie · 12/06/2026 22:05

@NotNatacha It can be “important to the students” all they like but supervisions are not offered on a purely single sex basis for every subject. I had some supervisions with mixed sex groups. Like I said, this may be subject specific.

I understand this doesn’t suit the narrative, it just happens to be true.

We’re writing about different things. I’m writing about supervisions in college, which most students will have in their first year (unless few other students in college do their subject) and possibly all the way through their course if they do a popular subject.

If students have supervisions with people not their college even though there’s someone else in college doing the same paper then, absent friction, disagreement or possibly a vast difference in ability, then that’s something which has changed since I was student.

Realfastfoodie · 12/06/2026 22:05

@NotNatacha It can be “important to the students” all they like but supervisions are not offered on a purely single sex basis for every subject. I had some supervisions with mixed sex groups. Like I said, this may be subject specific.

I understand this doesn’t suit the narrative, it just happens to be true.

CoolBlueBear · 12/06/2026 22:05

Sorry that was a bit of a rant and a derail!

CoolBlueBear · 12/06/2026 21:54

I agree with you Flirts and Knotty

What bloody annoys me about most public institutions, universities, local authorities, NHS trusts, etc. is that when they drafted their policies, they seemed to look at discrimination law solely from the trans perspective and largely ignored the rights of women.

its seems that they cherrypicked bits of the Equality Act.

For example: one of the key provisions in the Equality Act is s.26. In broad terms, it states that harassment is unwanted conduct that violates a person's dignity or creates an intimidating, hostile, degrading, humiliating or offensive environment. That's sensible law and provides important protection against bullying and genuinely unacceptable behaviour.

The difficulty comes with s.26(4), which states that, in deciding whether conduct amounts to harassment, the following must be taken into account:
(a) the perception of B (the person making the complaint);
(b) the other circumstances of the case; and
(c) whether it is reasonable for the conduct to have that effect.

Most institutions seem to have written their trans-inclusive policies with (a) in mind and forgotten about (b) and (c). The "other circumstances" in (b) include the rights of women in these situations, and (c) is, of course, the million-dollar question.

This is one reason why, in a number of recent cases, the courts have effectively pushed back against aspects of trans ideology. It is not the only reason, but the courts have generally taken a more objective approach, whereas many institutions have adopted a largely subjective one, focused on hurt feelings rather than balancing competing rights.

Part of the reason, I suspect, is that these institutions have been relentlessly lobbied and know they gain reputational kudos for being seen as "kind" and "inclusive". The cynic in me also wonders whether some have simply done a risk assessment based on who is most likely to sue them and concluded that women were the safer bet to ignore.

NotNatacha · 12/06/2026 21:33

@Realfastfoodie
I wrote:
It may be very important to the students that they are both biological women.

You replied:
But that doesn’t happen. Many of the faculty providing supervisions are men. Of course it depends somewhat on the subject and how many staff the college has in the relevant field.

You’ll note that I didn’t mention the sex of supervisors, just students.
You’ll appreciate the difference between staff/student and student/student relationships. I’d think Newnham students might become friends with other Newnham students doing the same subject, among others.

@Mmmnotsure I have heard supervisions referred to as ‘supos’ rather than ‘supers’ but I, too, am generally out of touch.
I think I prefer ‘supers.’

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 12/06/2026 21:20

FlirtsWithRhinos · 12/06/2026 20:37

Arrogance is also ugly.

Can you explain, as I don't think you have yet, whether you really believe the significant difference between men and women is ia difference in how we think rather than in our bodies? Do you really believe that if a man thinks or feels enough like "a woman" (whatever that means), he might as well be one? And if you do, what evidence did you carefully assess to come to that conclusion and what evidence would you need to see to change your mind?

Because honestly, I can dance on the head of a post-modern pin flirting with all sorts of deconstructions of things we take for granted, and I can write you no end of essays on different ways to reframe woman as a cultural moment, a subversive other, a void for filling, a performance, and all of them would have meaningful insights and valid aspects in their own right.

But none of them, none of them, for all the intellectual onanism, would undo the fact that female bodies exist and are different to male bodies, and that whether you think that division is instrinsicly meaningful or was just a fluke fluttering of a cultural butterfly's wings that could just have easily landed on hair colour or foot shape, that difference now has consequences that don't just evaporate away just because some clever student plays "what if" with language.

So, sure, I understand that many very clever people have talked themselves into believing it's more open minded, progressive, and just damn cleverer to believe men and women are far more nuanced and complicated than boring everyday sex that anyone can know about. I even thought it myself once. But then I thought even harder and realised I was just plain wrong.

👏👏👏

Heggettypeg · 12/06/2026 20:58

Somewhere along the line, the meaning of Simone de Beauvoir's statement about not being born but becoming a woman got twisted, from meaning something like " Society won't be satisfied with a diamond until it has been cut, polished and made to sparkle" to "If something has been cut, polished and made to sparkle, then it's a diamond."

KnottyAuty · 12/06/2026 20:46

Toffeefudgecaramel · 12/06/2026 10:11

I think you'll find that the numbers of trans people are much higher in the undergraduate population. But then no doubt you're aware of that.

This is exact the point.

Theres no evidence that trans people are exclud d from education or that there are any barriers at all. Quite the opposite. The numbers say that trans people are present at rates well above the average population rates.

At the time when the college was established it was to ensure women could access university in an extremely hostile environment. The story of the suffragists hiding inside Newnham as men outside tore apart the effigy of a woman is scary.

So the reason for the college existing is historic. It’s not for safety or privacy/dignity - more a symbol of “lest we forget” the second class status of women - which is ironic that the college seems to have forgotten this.

But if they can’t protect women’s history then they should just be honest and go mixed sex.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 12/06/2026 20:37

oxfordfeminist · 12/06/2026 18:58

So if a previous poster disagrees with you, they must not have gone to university. First-class analysis right there.

How many students and staff are at Cambridge? Over 30k I would say.

But by all means assume that everyone at an institution must think the same way, otherwise they wouldn't have been at university 🙄

To me, one of the most depressing things about trans-exclusionary feminism is the tendency (on the part of many of its adherents at least) to argue that if you don't agree with that point of view, you haven't done any critical thinking / haven't got a brain / etc etc.

It actually is possible for people to assess evidence carefully and come to different conclusions. It happens all the time.

Purity spirals are ugly.

Arrogance is also ugly.

Can you explain, as I don't think you have yet, whether you really believe the significant difference between men and women is ia difference in how we think rather than in our bodies? Do you really believe that if a man thinks or feels enough like "a woman" (whatever that means), he might as well be one? And if you do, what evidence did you carefully assess to come to that conclusion and what evidence would you need to see to change your mind?

Because honestly, I can dance on the head of a post-modern pin flirting with all sorts of deconstructions of things we take for granted, and I can write you no end of essays on different ways to reframe woman as a cultural moment, a subversive other, a void for filling, a performance, and all of them would have meaningful insights and valid aspects in their own right.

But none of them, none of them, for all the intellectual onanism, would undo the fact that female bodies exist and are different to male bodies, and that whether you think that division is instrinsicly meaningful or was just a fluke fluttering of a cultural butterfly's wings that could just have easily landed on hair colour or foot shape, that difference now has consequences that don't just evaporate away just because some clever student plays "what if" with language.

So, sure, I understand that many very clever people have talked themselves into believing it's more open minded, progressive, and just damn cleverer to believe men and women are far more nuanced and complicated than boring everyday sex that anyone can know about. I even thought it myself once. But then I thought even harder and realised I was just plain wrong.

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