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Dozens of men discuss ignoring single sex space rules

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 10/06/2026 10:05

https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1u1webq/is_anyone_here_actually_going_to_follow_the/

as mentioned in other threads, I really am concerned about compliance. I know it will never be 100% but am concerned about what blatant non compliance may lead to

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TheHateUGive · 11/06/2026 13:05

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No i am.just asking for an explanation of the idea that women have all these layers on that men do not. It seems that asking that has caused some of you to.start personally attacking me. I wonder why.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 11/06/2026 13:04

TheHateUGive · 11/06/2026 12:48

What about trans women in the general population? Are they more likely to be violent criminals?

Or is it just in prison where the person may have transitioned after they were imprisoned and so were never female presenting in public?

Gary Dean Marie.

Barbie Kardashian.

Katie Dolatowski.

Tanis Wolf.

All pre-offence transitioners.

TheHateUGive · 11/06/2026 13:03

Comtesse · 11/06/2026 13:00

An example - tights, not many men wear them, many women do particularly in the autumn / winter.

Same as trousers really. Yeah they are tighter but youre not even pulling them.all the way down to your ankles and certainly not taking them off.

DiaAssolellat · 11/06/2026 13:03

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TheHateUGive · 11/06/2026 13:02

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 11/06/2026 12:57

We have to fully undress from the waist down in between wrangling cubicle doors and locks.

Men open their fly and point at a urinal.

Eh? You just pull down your underwear and trousers or pull up your skirt. You don't need to take anything off. It doesn't take more than a second.

TheHateUGive · 11/06/2026 13:02

MagpiePi · 11/06/2026 12:56

I think @TheHateUGive thinks we should all be doing what the 'lady' in pink is doing while we are standing in the queue rather than waiting until we are in the cubicle.

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No I don't think that at all. Why would you say that? Simply because I questioned the idea that women routinely wear several more layers than men that we have to fight through to pee? Is that why you are now saying i think people should fondle themselves in public?

BestZebbie · 11/06/2026 13:01

EmpressDomesticatednottamed · 10/06/2026 12:23

Diversion alert on.

FFS, there aren't any baths in public lavatories, just why? Excess of prudery?
Bit more of an argument for rest, after all one can have a sit down, but if forced to hover it is definitely not restful.

Diversion alert off.

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Lavatory is from Latin lavare “to wash”, therefore meaning “washroom” - the room you bathe in. Hence being anglicised to bathroom.

Comtesse · 11/06/2026 13:00

TheHateUGive · 11/06/2026 12:32

Lol

I am asking what these layers and layers of clothes you have to remove to pee are. Do you wear petticoats and slips most days?

An example - tights, not many men wear them, many women do particularly in the autumn / winter.

mrshoho · 11/06/2026 12:57

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selffellatingouroborosofhate · 11/06/2026 12:57

TheHateUGive · 11/06/2026 10:46

How more clothes? You either have on undies and a skirt or trousers. Pretty much same as a man. What the hell are you wearing?

What i see women do in the toilets is spend ages at the sinks.

We have to fully undress from the waist down in between wrangling cubicle doors and locks.

Men open their fly and point at a urinal.

MagpiePi · 11/06/2026 12:56

I think @TheHateUGive thinks we should all be doing what the 'lady' in pink is doing while we are standing in the queue rather than waiting until we are in the cubicle.

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Dozens of men discuss ignoring single sex space rules
TheHateUGive · 11/06/2026 12:52

People will do anything to avoid answering a question.

TheHateUGive · 11/06/2026 12:52

DiaAssolellat · 11/06/2026 12:49

Undies 🤮 Who says this?

I do. Because not everyone wears the same type of underwear and undies is a short way of referring to any type a person might wear. What makes you sick about the term?

Or are you going to say that this is only something that men say or something equally small minded and ridiculous?

DiaAssolellat · 11/06/2026 12:49

TheHateUGive · 11/06/2026 10:46

How more clothes? You either have on undies and a skirt or trousers. Pretty much same as a man. What the hell are you wearing?

What i see women do in the toilets is spend ages at the sinks.

Undies 🤮 Who says this?

Keeptoiletssafe · 11/06/2026 12:48

JulietteHasAGun · 11/06/2026 11:38

Oh my god. I always knew dryers were a bacteria breeding nightmare but never thought about them being in the cubicle making it worse. Right, that’s me stopping using the toilets at work.

Paper towels are better! Unisex toilets are (supposed to be) in a room not a cubicle, so there’s no floor gaps to ventilate and get a mop under. This means pathogen build up. A lot of research has been done since Covid as people re-remembered that ventilation was a good thing.

I have to admit, if I use a unisex toilet I use hand sanitiser after I have unlocked the door!

TheHateUGive · 11/06/2026 12:48

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 11/06/2026 12:41

Sexual assaults? Vanishingly few.

Men make up over 95% of sex offenders and trans-identified men are overrepresented as sex offenders in prison.

What about trans women in the general population? Are they more likely to be violent criminals?

Or is it just in prison where the person may have transitioned after they were imprisoned and so were never female presenting in public?

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 11/06/2026 12:41

suggestionsplease1 · 10/06/2026 18:20

How many women have commited crimes since then? We have to share the toilets with them too.

Sexual assaults? Vanishingly few.

Men make up over 95% of sex offenders and trans-identified men are overrepresented as sex offenders in prison.

TheHateUGive · 11/06/2026 12:40

GreyskySexRealistsky · 11/06/2026 12:38

@TheHateUGive Your fixation on this is strange. Just leave it.

My fixation on asking what these layers and layers of clothes that women wear that men do not?

I suspect that it was a bullshit reply and now the person concerned cant actually expwlain what they meant because it was, as I said, bullshit.

I'll ask again anyway. What are these many more layers you wear as a woman that men do not wear?

MuckSavage · 11/06/2026 12:39

Toffeefudgecaramel · 10/06/2026 11:19

I was reading a thread yesterday where someone asked if women minded if there was a transwoman in the women's public toilets. The majority of responses said of course they didn't mind, as they had their own lockable cubicle. Quite a few went beyond that, saying that they had often popped into the gents when there was a queue for the ladies, or that the transwoman was likely to be a more attractive woman than they were, or that they'd probably compliment the transwoman on their hair, or that they never felt in danger from transwomen, only from cis men. No-one mentioned that if "transwomen" are allowed into the ladies, any man can go in and can refuse to leave.

Was that thread on the back of your eyelids?

SallySharp · 11/06/2026 12:38

@whatonearthdoidoz Anyways I don’t really care either way. I think if a man wants to assault a woman they are probably not going to be put off by rules one way or another. So I don’t feel like this is the hill to die on - doesn’t make me feel safer one way or another
Please be realistic Dr Beth did not physically assault Sandie Peggie but he sure gave her a hard time.
Where would you draw your line or where should we draw our lines?

GreyskySexRealistsky · 11/06/2026 12:38

@TheHateUGive Your fixation on this is strange. Just leave it.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 11/06/2026 12:37

CassOle · 11/06/2026 12:37

Has Aida got a new account?

😂

CassOle · 11/06/2026 12:37

Has Aida got a new account?

TheHateUGive · 11/06/2026 12:35

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/06/2026 11:11

Mate, can you really not think this through for yourself?

Firstly, time at the sinks isn't time taking up a cubicle so it's actually totally irrelevant anyway.

Now that's clear, back to the point.

Think through opening the flies, hoiking out the old fella, having a pee, tucking back, flushing if design applies, and (hopefully) washing up and walking out, and then think through the steps a woman will take to perform an equivalent evacuation.

Don't forget your handbag!

Yeah I do it several times a day.

I take down my undies and pull up my skirt/dress or pull down my trousers. I pee, wipe, stand up and pull everything down/up and then wash my hands.

A man does pretty much the same. Men from my culture wipe the same as we do. All men at least shake. Some men even sit down to pee.

I have no idea what you do that would take you much longer than a guy. It might indicate a doctor is needed though

TheHateUGive · 11/06/2026 12:32

GreyskySexRealistsky · 11/06/2026 10:58

Are you hoping to get women to talk about what clothing they have to remove and how they go to the toilet?

Er...no thank you.

Lol

I am asking what these layers and layers of clothes you have to remove to pee are. Do you wear petticoats and slips most days?