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My response to cross dressing

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manpretty · 07/06/2026 16:17

I have seen on here some resentful remarks about crossdressing, not just from males as I would expect, but from females as well. To be fair men have had to accept women cross dressing for decades now and that is supposed to be totally OK seeing women living in jeans, leggings, shorts, sports trousers, joggers etc. Personally I grew up seeing women wearing skirts and dresses when they went out shopping, to a pub restaurant or cafe and just in ordinary everyday life. They looked great then and I always loved those clothes which is why I now prefer to dress in skirts and dresses myself. I love feeling the flowing materials (nothing sexual) and wearing the very kind of clothes that I wish today`s women would wear themselves. Give me a chiffon skirt or dress and a lovely lacey petticoat (waist slip or full slip) and I feel totally happy and more natural than ever.

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AImportantMermaid · 07/06/2026 17:48

I’m having spaghetti bolognese for dinner, even though it’s Sunday 😊

bathofbeans · 07/06/2026 17:46

I don't know a single solitary woman that wears a 'lacy petticoat, waist or full slip'.

What even is that? Sounds Victorian. Just like your stance.

Squirrelsnut · 07/06/2026 17:34

Theeyeballsinthesky · 07/06/2026 16:43

lol you tit

1000%

littleburn · 07/06/2026 17:26

Clothes are just clothes. I think most women here are more concerned with men who think wearing an item of clothing makes them change sex.

trendysetter · 07/06/2026 17:23

If only we could woman as well as you woman OP.

We don't exist just to be pretty little dolls for men though.

Naunet · 07/06/2026 17:15

How curious my reply was deleted, I must have touched a nerve. The male ego is so painfully fragile.

Boiledbeetle · 07/06/2026 17:13

Cool story bro.

Hallywally · 07/06/2026 17:13

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Naunet · 07/06/2026 17:09

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MagpiePi · 07/06/2026 17:02

I don’t think @manpretty is going to get the screenshots he wants. Lol

polypostwonder · 07/06/2026 16:51

manpretty · 07/06/2026 16:17

I have seen on here some resentful remarks about crossdressing, not just from males as I would expect, but from females as well. To be fair men have had to accept women cross dressing for decades now and that is supposed to be totally OK seeing women living in jeans, leggings, shorts, sports trousers, joggers etc. Personally I grew up seeing women wearing skirts and dresses when they went out shopping, to a pub restaurant or cafe and just in ordinary everyday life. They looked great then and I always loved those clothes which is why I now prefer to dress in skirts and dresses myself. I love feeling the flowing materials (nothing sexual) and wearing the very kind of clothes that I wish today`s women would wear themselves. Give me a chiffon skirt or dress and a lovely lacey petticoat (waist slip or full slip) and I feel totally happy and more natural than ever.

I'm not going to dress according to anyone else's ideas of how I should dress.

You do you, though. Enjoy.

ginasevern · 07/06/2026 16:49

Fine, but you're still a bloke.

SmashThePatriarchy · 07/06/2026 16:49

Weird.

misscockerspaniel · 07/06/2026 16:46

"Resentful" 😁

ChangeyNameyforthis · 07/06/2026 16:46

Free choice for anyone to do whatever and wear whatever they like so long as it’s not hurting anyone.

However, in my own relationships I wouldn’t tolerate a man who cross dressed, or wanted to go about as a woman. I’m not enabling a man in his fetishes.

Each to their own, but it’s a hard no from me.

Shedmistress · 07/06/2026 16:45

It's gonna be a long summer.

ManyShapesOfPasta · 07/06/2026 16:45

Just use the Gents Dave.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 07/06/2026 16:43

lol you tit

Thedogscollar · 07/06/2026 16:42

Wow your comment about
"Men have had to accept women cross dressing for decades now and that is supposed to be totally ok"
This tells me all I need to know about you.
No matter how many floaty chiffon petticoats you wear it's what is between your legs that determines your biological sex.
Nothing will ever change that fact.

Dominoodles · 07/06/2026 16:42

Wear whatever you want dude, nobody cares

TinselAngel · 07/06/2026 16:40

Man parades his fetish on a feminist forum. Nice.

DialSquare · 07/06/2026 16:40

All you’re missing is a gold lamé bag.

DirtyGertiefromno30 · 07/06/2026 16:38

Finished your GCSES have you ?

Tortoisel · 07/06/2026 16:38

I dont know what remarks you are referring to so I cannot comment on that.

My ex cross dressed (if you want to call it that); I didnt have a problem with it.

That said I would likely avoid a cross dressing unknown male in public. Theres not just cross dressers in that category. It’s a very very wide category. Pretty much any unknown male which catches my attention for any reason. Could even just be a man standing there who looks at me and smiles and I have to process that into normal vs creepy. If I am doing any processing it’s usually just an automatic no. Thats how low the bar is for women protecting their safety. It’s not worth the risk. And I dont care about being kind or polite to people I do not know.

So perhaps this is why you feel judged for cross dressing. If you are not a danger to others then dont worry about it and dont take it personally. We are all just trying to live our lives as friction free as possible.

User456778976546 · 07/06/2026 16:37

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