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My response to cross dressing

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manpretty · 07/06/2026 16:17

I have seen on here some resentful remarks about crossdressing, not just from males as I would expect, but from females as well. To be fair men have had to accept women cross dressing for decades now and that is supposed to be totally OK seeing women living in jeans, leggings, shorts, sports trousers, joggers etc. Personally I grew up seeing women wearing skirts and dresses when they went out shopping, to a pub restaurant or cafe and just in ordinary everyday life. They looked great then and I always loved those clothes which is why I now prefer to dress in skirts and dresses myself. I love feeling the flowing materials (nothing sexual) and wearing the very kind of clothes that I wish today`s women would wear themselves. Give me a chiffon skirt or dress and a lovely lacey petticoat (waist slip or full slip) and I feel totally happy and more natural than ever.

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CassOle · 08/06/2026 14:39

Plus, trousers cut for the female figure are women's clothes, and a woman who wears them is not 'cross-dressing' despite the regressive ideas asserted by the OP.

Ponderingwindow · 08/06/2026 14:35

@CassOle
absolutely. We do need clothing cut for various body shapes.

GailBlancheViola · 08/06/2026 14:27

Shedmistress · 08/06/2026 12:40

Adam Graham.

Stephen Graham is the actor. As is Adam Graham but you get my drift.

Edited

Oops, sincere apologies to Stephen Graham.

ADAM Graham of course.

CassOle · 08/06/2026 14:09

In many ways, it comes down to the cut of the pattern.

A 'skirt' such as a utility kilt, a toga, or a flamboyant Louis XIV-style outfit is cut for a man and the male figure.

If a bloke just likes the feel of silk, for example, why not have a silk skirt that is cut for the male figure?

FuzzyPuffling · 08/06/2026 13:55

sontamol · 07/06/2026 18:09

I give you robes and togas in the old days, like women in their skirts. Why did men stop wearing togas and celtic style robes, and Louis quatorze ermine and white tights, and stop wearing their massive wigs and high heels too. I don't think they liked them much. So it's left to cross dressers to pretend they are female, since they have no males like in the old days to emulate any more. But it's nothing new is it. Exhibitionism.

Well I think this is a crying shame. If only modern man dressed in the aforementioned outfits whilst going about their manly duties, I would be so much more inclined to go to the supermarket for more curry.

Shedmistress · 08/06/2026 13:55

I've been veggie since 1984 and at the time the only thing available to buy ready made was cheese and onion pasties from Tesco.

I love love love a hearty veggie sausage. I never liked fish so can't go near anything that resembles that but jumped for joy when I went into a super u near me 3 years ago and found they sold Richmonds veggie sausages. I bought many packets of them. I don't eat meat because the thought makes me wretch.

I knew the lady whose husband discovered Quorn. He got nothing for it. In fact she had to work Saturdays in Tesco's to make ends meet.

Cailleach1 · 08/06/2026 13:48

I might try the vegetarian white pudding now though.

Cailleach1 · 08/06/2026 13:44

MarieDeGournay · 08/06/2026 09:00

Leaving aside the amount of actual meat in 'meat' sausages😏, I'm guessing that the 'indistinguishable' claim is due to Richmond using their same trademark spice 'signature' in both meat and meat-free sausages.

There are lots of reasons for people not to want to eat meat, from moral/ethical beliefs about not killing and eating the flesh of animals, to concerns about the environmental impact of farming/ meat production.

Making non-meat products look and allegedly taste like meat products makes it easier for people who like eating meat but have some concerns about it to switch to alternatives.

People like me who are vegetarians for ethical reasons don't need these products to look/taste like meat. We aren't the target clientele, but I buy them sometimes because they are convenient.

Clonakilty veggie white pudding is lovelySmile

Edited

I think it can be accepted as an indisputable, universal truth that Clonakilty ‘everything’ is lovely.

Edited to add: Oh my gosh, I’m so sorry Marie. Just saw the bit where you said you are a vegetarian. I saw the word Clonakilty and rushed to comment. Didn’t mean to be tone deaf.

Magpiecomplex · 08/06/2026 13:42

BiologicalRobot · 08/06/2026 13:15

Careful, your knees are showing! 😱

Eek! Sorry, I'll add some more petticoats.

BiologicalRobot · 08/06/2026 13:15

Magpiecomplex · 08/06/2026 12:52

Of course, since then I have taken care to dress more appropriately. Even though it gets in the way when I'm in the lab.

Careful, your knees are showing! 😱

teawamutu · 08/06/2026 12:56

Chiffon is gross, manmade and sweaty and lacy petticoats belong to the 1950s.

Is OP Emily Howard?

Magpiecomplex · 08/06/2026 12:52

Of course, since then I have taken care to dress more appropriately. Even though it gets in the way when I'm in the lab.

My response to cross dressing
Magpiecomplex · 08/06/2026 12:49

You know, I think I might have met OP. Years and years ago, on a bus, in East London. He came stomping up the stairs and proceeded to berate all the women wearing jeans or trousers for not womanning properly. Fortunately I was sitting right at the front (best seat on a double decker) so although he could probably see my shoulders shaking with laughter, he couldn't get in front of me for a proper telling off.

Either that or there's more than one of them 🤔

Shedmistress · 08/06/2026 12:40

GailBlancheViola · 08/06/2026 12:36

I'm finding it amusing that the OP codes leggings as male attire, Stephen Graham certainly had the pink ones he wore to Court and cut such a dash in (though not quite the dash he expected) coded as very definitely female.

OP, you clearly know absolutely zero about clothing and styles for men and women throughout history and zero about clothing and styles for men and women throughout the world in the present day. Ignorance is no defence.

OP, take your peurile offensive illiterate nonsense somewhere else, this Board is way above your pay grade in terms of knowledge and intelligence.

Adam Graham.

Stephen Graham is the actor. As is Adam Graham but you get my drift.

EmpressDomesticatednottamed · 08/06/2026 12:38

RedToothBrush · 08/06/2026 11:38

There's a difference between a man wearing a dress, and a man wearing a dress with fake tits hanging out in an inappropriate setting which no woman would get away with without being roasted alive.

There's a difference between a man wearing a dress, using the gents and fully aware he's a man and a man wearing a dress, using the ladies and swearing blind he's a woman.

Otherwise crack on mate but don't suggest women are cross dressing and men have had to be ok with it as if men own trousers and have somehow licensed their use to women as a courtesy we should all be grateful for - really fuck off with that shit. Plenty of men from various cultures where long free flowing attire so that's hardly sexed either.

Call a frock a cassock and it miraculously stops identifiying as a dress.

teawamutu · 08/06/2026 12:37

A plopper. Going to assume he posted, rubbed his nubbin and isn't engaging further.

GailBlancheViola · 08/06/2026 12:36

I'm finding it amusing that the OP codes leggings as male attire, Stephen Graham certainly had the pink ones he wore to Court and cut such a dash in (though not quite the dash he expected) coded as very definitely female.

OP, you clearly know absolutely zero about clothing and styles for men and women throughout history and zero about clothing and styles for men and women throughout the world in the present day. Ignorance is no defence.

OP, take your peurile offensive illiterate nonsense somewhere else, this Board is way above your pay grade in terms of knowledge and intelligence.

MyrtleLion · 08/06/2026 12:31

DH makes a roast every Saturday then we have it every evening. With salad in the summer, added asparagus in the season, and roast vegetables in the winter.

He also look great in a pinny.

MyrtleLion · 08/06/2026 12:24

manpretty · 07/06/2026 16:17

I have seen on here some resentful remarks about crossdressing, not just from males as I would expect, but from females as well. To be fair men have had to accept women cross dressing for decades now and that is supposed to be totally OK seeing women living in jeans, leggings, shorts, sports trousers, joggers etc. Personally I grew up seeing women wearing skirts and dresses when they went out shopping, to a pub restaurant or cafe and just in ordinary everyday life. They looked great then and I always loved those clothes which is why I now prefer to dress in skirts and dresses myself. I love feeling the flowing materials (nothing sexual) and wearing the very kind of clothes that I wish today`s women would wear themselves. Give me a chiffon skirt or dress and a lovely lacey petticoat (waist slip or full slip) and I feel totally happy and more natural than ever.

Neil, is that you?

MarieDeGournay · 08/06/2026 12:03

Boiledbeetle · 08/06/2026 10:14

Inspired by @Hedgehogforshort clothing choices resulting in spontaneous rogering by Mr Hedgehogforshort after their tea, I thought I'd try my luck with the postman.

However, I didn't have any knee high socks so substituted for pink and white striped legwarmers.

I also didn't have anything to put in bunches, so stuck on a wig

Unfortunately those slight changes appear to have had the effect of scaring the shit out of the postie.

I thought I looked super cute. Turns out I could probably scare the dead.

Or maybe I should have opened the door with a bowl of veggie spaghetti bolognaise in my hands.

That will be it. I didn't offer food whilst impeccably dressed in my best roger me senseless outfit.

The Post Office have since rung me and informed me they will be delivering my parcels to a parcel drop shop from now on, and I'm not allowed within 100 feet of a postal worker.

<Twirls bunches and goes off to sulk>

It was definitely the legwarmers, Boily. Proper knee-high socks, and no man - or butch lesbian who gets run out of the ladies' with pitchforks - could resist your charms.

Now you 've not only missed a romantic interlude with Postie, but you have to go and collect your parcels from a drop shop.

I do have a degree of sympathy for you, Boily, but ultimately it's your own fault.

Your case underlines the importance of womanning properly - no short cuts, or legwarmers, ladies!😡

RedToothBrush · 08/06/2026 11:38

There's a difference between a man wearing a dress, and a man wearing a dress with fake tits hanging out in an inappropriate setting which no woman would get away with without being roasted alive.

There's a difference between a man wearing a dress, using the gents and fully aware he's a man and a man wearing a dress, using the ladies and swearing blind he's a woman.

Otherwise crack on mate but don't suggest women are cross dressing and men have had to be ok with it as if men own trousers and have somehow licensed their use to women as a courtesy we should all be grateful for - really fuck off with that shit. Plenty of men from various cultures where long free flowing attire so that's hardly sexed either.

BiologicalRobot · 08/06/2026 11:37

AngleofRepose · 07/06/2026 21:25

No, please don't! I don't really want to know what he's after and why he can't achieve it! 😂

Sorry!! Perhaps someone should mention to him that viagra exists if he can't get it up.

Boiledbeetle · 08/06/2026 11:30

ArabellaScott · 08/06/2026 11:23

Now that is proper ladylike, beetle.

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ArabellaScott · 08/06/2026 11:23

Now that is proper ladylike, beetle.

Boiledbeetle · 08/06/2026 11:08

Great. The gerbils are laughing at me.

My response to cross dressing