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Universities will be the last bastion of gender ideology and the denial of women's rights

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BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 07/06/2026 10:47

With thanks to @IcakethereforeIam A new/spinoff thread to discuss/commiserate about the steadfast refusal of universities to acknowledge that women have rights in law.An article from The Critic, and what I posted on the House of Communion/EDM thread (love the typo, BTW!)

https://archive.ph/L8E0b

https://thecritic.co.uk/how-the-war-wasnt-won

It is depressing, and I think she has put into words how I have been feeling lately about the whole thing. I worked in HE many years ago (not as an academic) and it seems clear to me now that, as universities always do, they will continue to move and change at a glacial pace, if at all.

Universities exist, and have for a very long time existed, in order to exist. They generate income in order to generate income. They hoard their resources in order to buy up land and build their estates, in order to generate more wealth by taking on more and more international, high-fee-paying students, whose families then do their publicity for them. Which, in turn, generates more wealth. So they can exist. In order to exist.

I believe that the only thing that will shift the HE sector will be a high-level, extremely public, lawsuit against a top-ten ranking, Russell Group institution, won with significant damages awarded. So, not one academic suing for constructive dismissal, but a suit by a high-profile, wealthy individual or foundation taken against UCL, Imperial College, or LSE, with the outcome and damages awarded not being hidden behind an NDA.

Or a major foreign donor withdrawing support for the institution.
This could take another generation. I have a feeling that universities will be the last bastion of gender ideology, where the law-deniers teach the next generation of law-deniers.

I'm very glad that I no longer work for a university.

Any thoughts? We know that many universities have withdrawn from Stonewall, but there's a lot more to do. Please cheer us all up if you have any progress in HE that you have noticed. I think we could all use a good news story right now, after the EDM and Hampstead Heath Ponds announcement.

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BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 07/06/2026 22:43

Spronkles · 07/06/2026 22:31

I teach at one of the most Gender woo UK Universities - a high rank Stonewall approved employer. Politically our institution is very happy to continue to break the law on women's spaces and remain dangerously inclusive in the student sporting teams

Its exhausting a lot of the time, we also had a "Sex worker" support group at the freshers fair a couple of years ago and no one seemed to realise how problematic is was until it made the nation news cycle - but I'm starting see bits of push back. Partially in new students rolling their eyes from time to time.

In last couple of years I've had to deal with a couple of evil and unhinged students, the kind that give staff nightmares and anxiety, they have all been trans identified... Which sort of undermines the "be kind" narrative... Especially when students use their "transness" as a way to bully people up....some recent incidents in my dept have shaken even the most staunch trans allies.

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Activists have run out of road. They don't have the law to hide behind when they destroy property and intimidate people, and they have lost the good will of a lot of people who might have gone along with their demands once. All they have left is bullying, blaming, and they are starting to turn on each other now, because nothing they say is giving them what they want.

And they're doing all this out in the open for everyone to see and understand, because they're not the sharpest tools in the box.

The more they do, the less likely it is that universities will continue to indulge them, because they will soon find out that whatever demands they meet, it will never be enough for the activists. A lot of them are absolutely unhinged, and the universities will pull the plug once their reputations start to be damaged. No one will want to send their children to a dangerous institution.

The ideology that has embedded itself will need to be rooted out, and that's what will take the most time. Even after the activists have moved on to something else.

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Spronkles · 07/06/2026 22:31

I teach at one of the most Gender woo UK Universities - a high rank Stonewall approved employer. Politically our institution is very happy to continue to break the law on women's spaces and remain dangerously inclusive in the student sporting teams

Its exhausting a lot of the time, we also had a "Sex worker" support group at the freshers fair a couple of years ago and no one seemed to realise how problematic is was until it made the nation news cycle - but I'm starting see bits of push back. Partially in new students rolling their eyes from time to time.

In last couple of years I've had to deal with a couple of evil and unhinged students, the kind that give staff nightmares and anxiety, they have all been trans identified... Which sort of undermines the "be kind" narrative... Especially when students use their "transness" as a way to bully people up....some recent incidents in my dept have shaken even the most staunch trans allies.

Mmmnotsure · 07/06/2026 21:36

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 07/06/2026 18:27

Sorry @Mmmnotsure - I mised your earlier post on this thread. Too shocked to think straight!

Ah, but you gave added context ❤

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 07/06/2026 18:27

Sorry @Mmmnotsure - I mised your earlier post on this thread. Too shocked to think straight!

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 07/06/2026 18:22

Flagging this up from another thread (posted thanks @VictorianPlum ) becauwe it seems very relevant.

Michael Foran has been one of the most influential academic legal brains in the UK. His opinion is referenced by the Supreme Court in FWS. He made the case that self-id in Scottish broke the Equality Act 2010 and could be challenged by a Section 35 order. He was recently recruited from Glasgow University by Oxford. Oxford University know who he is.

So now he has been trying to give a short seminar series on "Sex, Gender Identity and the Law". His specialism. I'd have thought students would want to know what the law says especially if they want to change it. Wrong.

Michael Foran on Twitter.

"Due to escalating disruptive protests, I have decided to cancel the remainder of these lectures. This is deeply lamentable, but the disruption has undermined the academic nature of this series. Students shouldn't face bullying or harassment when attending academic events."
https://x.com/michaelpforan/status/2063577885928013833

I am flabbergasted. Academic freedom at University of Oxford? My arse.

Michael Foran (@michaelpforan) on X

Due to escalating disruptive protests, I have decided to cancel the remainder of these lectures. This is deeply lamentable, but the disruption has undermined the academic nature of this series. Students shouldn't face bullying or harassment when attend...

https://x.com/michaelpforan/status/2063577885928013833

OhNoTheyWont · 07/06/2026 18:05

Dragonasaurus · 07/06/2026 12:52

I took dc to Bath open day, and was pleasantly surprised. The toilets are labelled female and male and a third ‘non-binary’ option was available (this is also true of Leeds btw). When you apply for accommodation you can choose mixed/women (inc trans) or men(inc trans)/actual single sex. Not really sure why they need the middle options (which are also obv mixed sex) but it did seem to offer a proper choice. The recognition that you could hold terfy views and still be a student was refreshing tbh

Sorry to disappoint you, but Bath has already sent out an email to staff saying they won't be implementing the FWS ruling; the EHRC guidance is all too complicated for them and they'll be putting their trans colleagues first and they can use the loos that align with their gender.

Heggettypeg · 07/06/2026 18:03

oxfordfeminist · 07/06/2026 15:54

Universities will be the last bastion of gender ideology and the affirmation of women's rights

There, fixed that for you. I certainly hope we will be. Ultimately though it's up to individual students and tutors to believe what they want to believe. Academia is not a police state, happily

Well, why go to the bother of being a police state yourself when you can just sit back and let self-appointed ideologues bully anyone they disagree with, unchecked?

Or have the university now stepped up and dealt with the disruptors in the situation described at 12.48 on this thread?

The debating society at Cambridge managed a civilised debate on gender issues not long ago. Both sides had their say. Nobody screamed and intimidated. That's how it should be.

Mmmnotsure · 07/06/2026 17:22

GirlsInGreen · 07/06/2026 15:16

I'm friends with a woman whose daughter was in the first cohort to get swept up in this as a young teen (she's 27 now) usual story clever, thoughtful, autistic, lonely went from discord to GIDS.
Had a very supportive network at University, all young women & as her mum tells it was seemingly happy for a long time.
She's living back at home now & working part time not really making use of her very good degree from a very good Uni. Had her breasts removed & testosterone has left her balding with urinary/gynae problems.
She was invited to a wedding in London of a University friend. My friend dropped her off - they've all moved on these young women, marriage, one is expecting a child, one has a dream job abroad - my friend rightly or wrongly is angry - her daughter is stuck, unhappy & in failing health whilst all her University group who cheered her transistion on have packed up the progress pride flags & grown up.

This is so sad, but was infinitely foreseeable. The people who weren't damaged or sacrificed will happily move forward with their full, adult lives.

It will be the parents (who these children are told are bigots who don't understand/hate them) who will be left to deal with the fallout and carry the grief and devastation of their blighted futures.

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 07/06/2026 16:54

oxfordfeminist · 07/06/2026 15:54

Universities will be the last bastion of gender ideology and the affirmation of women's rights

There, fixed that for you. I certainly hope we will be. Ultimately though it's up to individual students and tutors to believe what they want to believe. Academia is not a police state, happily

Academia is not a police state, happily

Well, it's doing a very good impression of one.

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CassOle · 07/06/2026 16:46

GirlsInGreen · 07/06/2026 15:16

I'm friends with a woman whose daughter was in the first cohort to get swept up in this as a young teen (she's 27 now) usual story clever, thoughtful, autistic, lonely went from discord to GIDS.
Had a very supportive network at University, all young women & as her mum tells it was seemingly happy for a long time.
She's living back at home now & working part time not really making use of her very good degree from a very good Uni. Had her breasts removed & testosterone has left her balding with urinary/gynae problems.
She was invited to a wedding in London of a University friend. My friend dropped her off - they've all moved on these young women, marriage, one is expecting a child, one has a dream job abroad - my friend rightly or wrongly is angry - her daughter is stuck, unhappy & in failing health whilst all her University group who cheered her transistion on have packed up the progress pride flags & grown up.

I'm very sorry to read this.

I have said many times that some of the biggest victims of this ideology/social contagion are the vulnerable people who thought that identifying as trans and altering their body would solve all their problems, as if it were some kind of universal panacea.

oxfordfeminist · 07/06/2026 15:54

Universities will be the last bastion of gender ideology and the affirmation of women's rights

There, fixed that for you. I certainly hope we will be. Ultimately though it's up to individual students and tutors to believe what they want to believe. Academia is not a police state, happily

ParmaVioletTea · 07/06/2026 15:48

And I suspect that a lot of my (lovely) female students are pretty terfy - without realising it.

ParmaVioletTea · 07/06/2026 15:45

I work as an academic - it's all I've ever wanted to do since I was about 14. I'm also a good feminist and teach stuff based on 2nd wave feminism. There are a few of us about, quietly working under the radar. I'm not going to give up.

GirlsInGreen · 07/06/2026 15:16

Dragonasaurus · 07/06/2026 14:28

I have a friend who has a trans daughter at Oxford. She (the daughter) has always had anxiety and other mental health problems. Especially at uni she presents as male, uses a male name and pronouns. Her social group is 100% affirming. Apparently this helped to start with, but her anxiety is now worse than ever. I hope that, eventually, the university will notice that it’s affirming approach isn’t helping anyone - not sure how that message gets through though….

I'm friends with a woman whose daughter was in the first cohort to get swept up in this as a young teen (she's 27 now) usual story clever, thoughtful, autistic, lonely went from discord to GIDS.
Had a very supportive network at University, all young women & as her mum tells it was seemingly happy for a long time.
She's living back at home now & working part time not really making use of her very good degree from a very good Uni. Had her breasts removed & testosterone has left her balding with urinary/gynae problems.
She was invited to a wedding in London of a University friend. My friend dropped her off - they've all moved on these young women, marriage, one is expecting a child, one has a dream job abroad - my friend rightly or wrongly is angry - her daughter is stuck, unhappy & in failing health whilst all her University group who cheered her transistion on have packed up the progress pride flags & grown up.

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 07/06/2026 14:30

APinkAndSpottyGiraffey · 07/06/2026 14:18

This approach is just so illogical, the absolute opposite of what universities are meant to teach - critical thinking!

I seriously cannot understand their position, at all.

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It's a circular phenomenon, in my opinion.

The universities are letting the students run things because they are the paying customers. The universities then only teach what the students are willing to hear. And the students are allowed to learn only what the most vocal minority want them to learn, because they will be threatened by the vocal, bullying minority if they rebel (and this vocal minority is also made up of students who have paid to be there).

All these students then leave academia and take their narrow "education" into the workforce. Or they stay in academia, to teach the next cohort of students only what they want to hear. Because they are the paying customers... so on and so forth.

There is no room for critical thinking because the paying customers don't want to hear anything they don't want to hear, because they aren't paying for that. They are paying to get a job (someday, perhaps) or paying to stretch out their adolescence, an adolescence, remember, during which time they didn't want to hear anything they didn't want to hear.

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Dragonasaurus · 07/06/2026 14:28

I have a friend who has a trans daughter at Oxford. She (the daughter) has always had anxiety and other mental health problems. Especially at uni she presents as male, uses a male name and pronouns. Her social group is 100% affirming. Apparently this helped to start with, but her anxiety is now worse than ever. I hope that, eventually, the university will notice that it’s affirming approach isn’t helping anyone - not sure how that message gets through though….

MabelAnderson · 07/06/2026 14:21

GirlsInGreen · 07/06/2026 12:11

I think you're absolutely right about Universities being amongst the last public institutions to move back to sanity. Its really depressing.
I read a wonderful article that popped up on my twitter feed a week back opining how young women in particular prop the ideology up.

The wonderful Maeve Halligan said the same recently in an interview. I don't know how that gets changed in the short term tbh, women are empathetic & held to account by peers/society in ways men aren't - empathy at the risk of self negation & fear at reaction - what's to be done?

My DD (grades allowing) may go to Oxford this year, I mention it because I asked her if she'd be inclined start a Women's Society much like Maeve,Thea & Serena have at Cambridge - it was just a question not a suggestion on my part.

It was her physical reaction that 'upset' me more than her answer - she kind of coiled back & her eyes went rabbit in the headlight wide "fuck no Mum, have you read what they've been through & are still going through up there? I just want to get my degree & not end up a social pariah - if im asked what I believe, i'll be honest, so i might well end up cancelled anyway - but im not putting myself up against the wall !"

Everyone in her friendship group is a Terf. All would be terrified to rock the boat at Universities, they're all smart enough to know the first through the door gets shot & simultaneously know if someone doesn't go first nothing will change.

She was 7 when I first became aware of 'all this'. I've done all the things women here have done, public meetings, raised money, met & made many life long friends, wrote letters, just talked to people. Things are & have changed. But a dark corner of myself feels a guilt & dread at being asleep at the wheel for so long & now my daughter & her generation are left with the mess to try & navigate.

I dont have an answer, just thought i'd say how its looks in this house with a young woman about to start University. Grim.

Agree. I have a dd at Oxford and she hardly ever talks about this with any of her friends. It came up with one female friend, who brought it up as she’d had a disagreement with her boyfriend on trans issues (friend is GC like dd). I think that’s the only time she has ever discussed her opinion at university.

APinkAndSpottyGiraffey · 07/06/2026 14:18

This approach is just so illogical, the absolute opposite of what universities are meant to teach - critical thinking!

I seriously cannot understand their position, at all.

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BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 07/06/2026 14:05

titchy · 07/06/2026 13:40

It’s about a third of 18 year olds that go to uni - way way way less than other comparable nations, embarrassingly less: https://www.statista.com/statistics/1227272/share-of-people-with-tertiary-education-in-oecd-countries-by-country/?srsltid=AfmBOooa6AIA-1JRtb3a9iQExQVogvQpRU1ftjj5OPO5Dc8cRR2FIVjz

I too am glad OP no longer works in the sector given their disdain and lack of knowledge of it. Hmm

I too am glad OP no longer works in the sector given their disdain and lack of knowledge of it.

That's an odd thing to say as I, in my OP, said nothing about numbers of students.

In my second post I said

Every year we see fewer home students (who have no money) at university,

So, I if you are directing your disdain at the "OP" (me), I think you've got the wrong person.

Or was it just general disdain for the discussion you were wishing to indicate?

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teawamutu · 07/06/2026 13:51

Dragonasaurus · 07/06/2026 12:52

I took dc to Bath open day, and was pleasantly surprised. The toilets are labelled female and male and a third ‘non-binary’ option was available (this is also true of Leeds btw). When you apply for accommodation you can choose mixed/women (inc trans) or men(inc trans)/actual single sex. Not really sure why they need the middle options (which are also obv mixed sex) but it did seem to offer a proper choice. The recognition that you could hold terfy views and still be a student was refreshing tbh

The doors say one thing - I'd be very interested to know what happened if a young female student reported an obvious male in the 'actually single sex' Ladies, though.

Supported, ignored or shamed?

ThefARTs · 07/06/2026 13:51

You’re probably right OP.

And I imagine universities which are unionised and who feed into the entertainment, music, arts industries will be there at the bitter end.

I wouldn’t despair of your daughter’s reaction, she seems entirely pragmatic. However it’s people like her who may be able to quietly dampen down the whole situation simply by not whooping it up. I was watching something on TV, can’t remember what it was, but about Henry 8 and the Catholic/church of England. And I thought, no, I wouldn’t be tortured and then burnt at the stake for my beliefs. I sort of thought I would. It’s changed the way I deal with the issues, slightly!

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 07/06/2026 13:45

titchy · 07/06/2026 13:40

It’s about a third of 18 year olds that go to uni - way way way less than other comparable nations, embarrassingly less: https://www.statista.com/statistics/1227272/share-of-people-with-tertiary-education-in-oecd-countries-by-country/?srsltid=AfmBOooa6AIA-1JRtb3a9iQExQVogvQpRU1ftjj5OPO5Dc8cRR2FIVjz

I too am glad OP no longer works in the sector given their disdain and lack of knowledge of it. Hmm

Those stats say 60% for the UK, and a lot higher than many comparable nations.

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 07/06/2026 13:41

BettyFilous · 07/06/2026 12:35

It will be interesting to see whether universities that offer women only accommodation get in line with the law. If I’d signed a contract for single sex accommodation and found myself in a mixed sex ‘women’s’ flat I’d go after the university for my hall fees. The upper limit for a small claims court case is currently £10K, which is around a year’s hall fees depending on location and catering.

This will be an interesting point to watch for. Many overseas female (and male) students require 100% guaranteed same-sex accommodation, or they cannot attend. As the PP has said, re Bath, it is a step too far even for some universities to offer co-ed accommodation only. (Although, in my experience, many of these international students come from wealthy families who would prefer to buy their daughters a house of flats, and fill it with their female friends who pay rent, rather than deal with university accommodation. It's an option for some.)

However, you do not then get the safety and security of uni accommodation with security guards, hall wardens, and additional accommodation for chaperones (yes, really!)

So, it may be that accommodation would be a sort of no-go area for pretending that men can be women, but I don't know if that is the norm across the sector.

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PrettyDamnCosmic · 07/06/2026 13:09

Whist the government continue to peddle the lie that everyone should have a degree, the Uni's have a guaranteed pipeline of young people to educate in mickey mouse subjects.

Not even Blair at his most enthusiastic called for everyone to have a degree. In 1999 he said"Today I set a target of 50 per cent of young adults going into higher education in the next century."

This higher education was supposed to include university degrees, HNDs & apprenticeships. In fact we have ended up with 50% attending university & little emphasis on HNDs & apprenticeships.

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