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More fuckwittery from Eva Wiseman, Observer

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ConstanzeMozart · 07/06/2026 09:35

fuckwittery
the EHRC ‘insisting’ on single-sex toilets excluding trans people.
Well, only if they try to use the one for the wrong sex.
There are also some bingo points including trans people being excluded from public life, and women who don’t look feminine being harassed in the Ladies.

‘Lavatory deserts’ mean we are all likely to be caught short

‘Lavatory deserts’ mean we are all likely to be caught short

Lack of proper funding for public bathrooms is putting real stress on all of us - which no one needs when they are desperate for the loo

https://observer.co.uk/news/columnists/article/lavatory-deserts-mean-we-are-all-likely-to-be-caught-short

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nutmeg7 · 09/06/2026 11:02

Baileyonice · 09/06/2026 09:19

Well there's no broad spread movement for change nor is it an election defining issue in either country.

That doesn’t mean it is working fine for women.

But it’s not about reality for you, is it?

Just about how things look, and whether you can hand wave away women’s concerns whilst spouting self righteous word wankery.

FridayOnMyMind · 09/06/2026 10:07

Baileyonice · 09/06/2026 08:45

Yeah they "trample" 0.5% of the time being the point.

PS You don't get to speak for all women so 52% is a false total.

Surely even you know how dishonest you are trying to be with statistics there.

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 09/06/2026 09:57

Baileyonice · 09/06/2026 09:19

Well there's no broad spread movement for change nor is it an election defining issue in either country.

And everyone in the PRC is fine with the political situation in their country, and their "rights" therein, evidenced by the fact that there is "no broad spread movement for change nor is it an election defining issue in either country."

See also North Korea.

Baileyonice · 09/06/2026 09:51

GeneralPeter · 09/06/2026 09:28

You don't seem to know much about statistics either.

Prostitution is not illegal (though some related activities are).

Your point was that it's illegitimate for women to be concerned about this (a 'moral panic').

Why should women not be concerned about incarceration rates? Why must they use your preferred numbers, draw your preferred (lack of) conclusions?

We know from the figures that 46 of the transwomen are in prison for rape or attempted rape.

So, re-run the numbers only with those figures and without adjusting downwards the female figures and you get a ratio of 64x.

I've used your figures for the denominator here. I've erred in your favour on every calc. It still comes out really bad.

Prostitution is not illegal (though some related activities are).

"People are imprisoned or prosecuted for prostitution in the UK for the following main reasons:
Brothel-Keeping: Under UK law, any premises used by more than one person for sex work is considered a brothel. Because working alone can be highly dangerous, sex workers often share apartments or spaces for safety. However, doing so is illegal and can lead to prosecution. 1, 2, 3, 4]
Soliciting and Kerb-Crawling: It is illegal to loiter or solicit sex in a public street or in a vehicle (kerb-crawling). 1, 2]
Pimping and Trafficking: The highest penalties—up to seven years in prison—are reserved for third-party exploiters, pimps, and those engaged in human trafficking or forcing people into prostitution. 1, 2, 3, 4, 5]
Failure to Pay Fines: Many individuals, particularly street-based workers, accumulate repeated fines for soliciting. When these fines go unpaid, or they breach community orders or Anti-Social Behaviour Orders (ASBOs), they can face prison sentences. 1, 2]"

Your point was that it's illegitimate for women to be concerned about this (a 'moral panic').
Why should women not be concerned about incarceration rates?

Again the point being made is the impact is far lower than being asserted.

Why must they use your preferred numbers, draw your preferred (lack of) conclusions?

Why should they pay attention to the actual risks & not the ginned up one's? They can do what they want but its notable that its only the UK where this has become an issue. Most other western countries in Scandinavia, Europe, North America & Australia & Asian countries don't consider the risk worth changing the structure of society over.

Perhaps they take a different approach to scapegoating crime problems on minorities like the UK does by understanding them as they are being a symptom of poverty caused by bad governance.

Is Prostitution Legal in the UK - and Elsewhere? - CEASE / Centre to End All Sexual Exploitation

The UK government is only too aware of the serious damage that prostitution inflicts on the individuals involved in it, and on the communities where it takes place. Prostitution is associated with antisocial behaviour, organised crime, trafficking, dru...

https://cease.org.uk/facts/prostitution-2/is-prostitution-legal-in-the-uk-and-elsewhere/

GeneralPeter · 09/06/2026 09:41

Szygy · 09/06/2026 09:31

AIBU to mourn the simple times when everyone knew perfectly well who was a man and who was a woman and didn’t ever give it a second thought?

Now 20,000 angels must dance on the head of a pin in every single bloody thread thanks to men like Bailey. It’s exhausting.

They so often combine a surface logic with stubborn wrongness, which suckers me in every time! Like those Twitter posts that include a distracting error for engagement-farming purposes. I have not learned my lesson.

Need to do some work today so must put on all my internet blockers.

Szygy · 09/06/2026 09:31

AIBU to mourn the simple times when everyone knew perfectly well who was a man and who was a woman and didn’t ever give it a second thought?

Now 20,000 angels must dance on the head of a pin in every single bloody thread thanks to men like Bailey. It’s exhausting.

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 09/06/2026 09:29

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 08/06/2026 13:13

I think that is because each TRA on here has his own obsessively focused interests at heart and doesn't give a shiny shit what anyone else, including other TRAs, wants.

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I actually think that, most of the time, they're all the same person! 😏

GeneralPeter · 09/06/2026 09:28

Baileyonice · 09/06/2026 09:23

This bogus analysis has been debunked a zillion times on MR. Incarceration is not offending & in any case the trans population is too small to make any meaningful statistical conclusions about.

Sexual offences can include prostitution btw that trans women are more likely to be involved in.

You don't seem to know much about statistics either.

Prostitution is not illegal (though some related activities are).

Your point was that it's illegitimate for women to be concerned about this (a 'moral panic').

Why should women not be concerned about incarceration rates? Why must they use your preferred numbers, draw your preferred (lack of) conclusions?

We know from the figures that 46 of the transwomen are in prison for rape or attempted rape.

So, re-run the numbers only with those figures and without adjusting downwards the female figures and you get a ratio of 64x.

I've used your figures for the denominator here. I've erred in your favour on every calc. It still comes out really bad.

Baileyonice · 09/06/2026 09:23

GeneralPeter · 09/06/2026 09:15

@Baileyonice -- I've got some numbers for you.

Let's go with 0.5% of the pop is trans (I don't know how accurate this is, but it's your figure). So let's say about 130,000 adult transwomen.

MoJ figures (Nov 2023): between 95 and 99 trans-identifying male prisoners without a GRC (so this is probably an undercount) are in for a primarily sexual offence.

That is 1 in 1,313 of transwomen currently in prison for a sexual offence.

Total adult female population about 27,000,000.

MoJ figures: female prisoners serving for a primarily sexual offence: 150.

That is 1 in 180,000 women currently in prison for a sexual offence.

So, a 137x difference in sexual offence rate on those numbers.

This also means that 95/245 = 39% of the group of "women+" (i.e. women plus trans-identifying-males-without-GRC) prisoners in for a sexual offence are trans women.

At all stages of the calculation, I've hedged in your favour (haven't adjusted for GRC-holders, used the lower number provided by the MoJ).

At what level does it become acceptable to be concerned about this?

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This bogus analysis has been debunked a zillion times on MR. Incarceration is not offending & in any case the trans population is too small to make any meaningful statistical conclusions about.

Sexual offences can include prostitution btw that trans women are more likely to be involved in.

GeneralPeter · 09/06/2026 09:23

Baileyonice · 09/06/2026 09:18

Let's for a moment grant your (rather silly) contention that removing of rights from a group does not count as a harm, only specific instances of harm.

Not what was said at all.

Does a transwoman commit more or less sexual crime than the average woman, for example?

Unknown & irrelevant.

The over arching point being made that you are clearly missing was the actual impact isn't the existential threat being made out not that there wasn't any impact.

"Let's for a moment grant your (rather silly) contention that removing of rights from a group does not count as a harm, only specific instances of harm.

Not what was said at all."

You said that removing rights from 51% of the population does not count. You wanted examples of "trampling".

What did you mean by that then?

GeneralPeter · 09/06/2026 09:21

Baileyonice · 09/06/2026 09:18

Let's for a moment grant your (rather silly) contention that removing of rights from a group does not count as a harm, only specific instances of harm.

Not what was said at all.

Does a transwoman commit more or less sexual crime than the average woman, for example?

Unknown & irrelevant.

The over arching point being made that you are clearly missing was the actual impact isn't the existential threat being made out not that there wasn't any impact.

Unknown & irrelevant.

Known (see my answer). You don't seem to know much about this issue if you were unaware of that basic fact.

"Existential" threat? Firstly, some women are killed, but no, that is not what most women are arguing about. Again you seem very new to this terrain.

You were railing against people taking positions based on ignorance earlier. Start with yourself.

Baileyonice · 09/06/2026 09:19

nutmeg7 · 09/06/2026 09:16

They do not work fine.
Not looking at the legal situation Australia and Canada. Perhaps ask some Canadian and Australian women.

Well there's no broad spread movement for change nor is it an election defining issue in either country.

Baileyonice · 09/06/2026 09:18

GeneralPeter · 09/06/2026 09:01

You've raised a really good point. Why don't we look at data.

If women's concerns were about "trans people existing" then 0.5% might be a sensible number to refer to.

But it's not. Mostly, women's concerns are about harms to safety, dignity and fairness.

Let's for a moment grant your (rather silly) contention that removing of rights from a group does not count as a harm, only specific instances of harm.

Does a transwoman commit more or less sexual crime than the average woman, for example?

(This is relevant because often we're considering how adding transwomen to a group previously restricted to women changes the risk profile).

By roughly what multiple? Up or down?

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Let's for a moment grant your (rather silly) contention that removing of rights from a group does not count as a harm, only specific instances of harm.

Not what was said at all.

Does a transwoman commit more or less sexual crime than the average woman, for example?

Unknown & irrelevant.

The over arching point being made that you are clearly missing was the actual impact isn't the existential threat being made out not that there wasn't any impact.

nutmeg7 · 09/06/2026 09:16

Baileyonice · 09/06/2026 01:59

Both Canadian & Australian have exemptions under specific circumstances for cis women that work fine.

They do not work fine.
Not looking at the legal situation Australia and Canada. Perhaps ask some Canadian and Australian women.

GeneralPeter · 09/06/2026 09:15

@Baileyonice -- I've got some numbers for you.

Let's go with 0.5% of the pop is trans (I don't know how accurate this is, but it's your figure). So let's say about 130,000 adult transwomen.

MoJ figures (Nov 2023): between 95 and 99 trans-identifying male prisoners without a GRC (so this is probably an undercount) are in for a primarily sexual offence.

That is 1 in 1,313 of transwomen currently in prison for a sexual offence.

Total adult female population about 27,000,000.

MoJ figures: female prisoners serving for a primarily sexual offence: 150.

That is 1 in 180,000 women currently in prison for a sexual offence.

So, a 137x difference in sexual offence rate on those numbers.

This also means that 95/245 = 39% of the group of "women+" (i.e. women plus trans-identifying-males-without-GRC) prisoners in for a sexual offence are trans women.

At all stages of the calculation, I've hedged in your favour (haven't adjusted for GRC-holders, used the lower number provided by the MoJ).

At what level does it become acceptable to be concerned about this?

GeneralPeter · 09/06/2026 09:01

Baileyonice · 09/06/2026 08:45

Yeah they "trample" 0.5% of the time being the point.

PS You don't get to speak for all women so 52% is a false total.

You've raised a really good point. Why don't we look at data.

If women's concerns were about "trans people existing" then 0.5% might be a sensible number to refer to.

But it's not. Mostly, women's concerns are about harms to safety, dignity and fairness.

Let's for a moment grant your (rather silly) contention that removing of rights from a group does not count as a harm, only specific instances of harm.

Does a transwoman commit more or less sexual crime than the average woman, for example?

(This is relevant because often we're considering how adding transwomen to a group previously restricted to women changes the risk profile).

By roughly what multiple? Up or down?

TheKeatingFive · 09/06/2026 08:54

Baileyonice · 09/06/2026 08:45

Yeah they "trample" 0.5% of the time being the point.

PS You don't get to speak for all women so 52% is a false total.

One man thinking he has the right to access women's spaces can have an impact on countless women.

All womem deserve their rights to single sex spaces upheld. If they don't want to exercise those rights, that's up to them, but there may well come a time when they're glad they exist.

Baileyonice · 09/06/2026 08:45

WalkingTheTightropeOfStreetCred · 09/06/2026 08:11

And don't you dare dictate to others that (using your stats) you are over cooking the impact here particularly given its 0.5% of people involved when those 0.5% of people are trampling on the rights of 52% of the population to safety, privacy and dignity.

Yeah they "trample" 0.5% of the time being the point.

PS You don't get to speak for all women so 52% is a false total.

WalkingTheTightropeOfStreetCred · 09/06/2026 08:11

Baileyonice · 09/06/2026 02:25

Don't YOU dare dictate to others on the validity of their identity & exaggerate the impact.

And don't you dare dictate to others that (using your stats) you are over cooking the impact here particularly given its 0.5% of people involved when those 0.5% of people are trampling on the rights of 52% of the population to safety, privacy and dignity.

FridayOnMyMind · 09/06/2026 07:17

Baileyonice · 09/06/2026 02:25

Don't YOU dare dictate to others on the validity of their identity & exaggerate the impact.

The irony.

Don’t you dare tell women that a man with a fetish is one of them and to be tolerated.

FridayOnMyMind · 09/06/2026 07:16

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Baileyonice · 09/06/2026 02:25

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 08/06/2026 14:33

Don't you dare dismiss our experiences of family destruction and the sight of our children damaging their own health in the pursuit of the impossible; the sheer injustice of women's spaces being forcibly turned into mixed spaces; the sheer injustice of women's sporting achievements being stolen from them; the sheer injustice of women being dragged through disciplinary procedures at work for complaining about being required to change their clothing in front of men; the sheer injustice of being cancelled for being truthful.

Moral panic? We are talking about people having suicidal thoughts, losing their loved ones to a cult, losing their livelihoods unjustly, and you dismiss our experiences as "moral panic". How very kind the trans allies and trans-identifying people often turn out to be.

Don't YOU dare dictate to others on the validity of their identity & exaggerate the impact.

Baileyonice · 09/06/2026 02:22

FridayOnMyMind · 08/06/2026 10:05

Understanding the biology of human sex is not a moral panic.

Not playing along with fetishistic men pretending to be women (even if they believe it themselves) is not a moral panic.

These silly and transparent attempts to pretend that not believing magical thinking comes from a deficiency in the GC side just makes trans activists appear to be thick and dishonest.

A moral panic is an exaggerated public fear that a specific group or behaviour threatens a society's core values and interests.

In other words, you are over cooking the impact here particularly given its 0.5% of people involved.

Baileyonice · 09/06/2026 02:17

Shortshriftandlethal · 08/06/2026 09:55

Whatever you want to say - what started out as a committed grassroots movement has become very successful; so succesful, in fact, that it has managed to influence the public debate and achieve some of its goals.
What was hidden has been uncovered and the issue of radical trans ideology and its negative impact upon women and children has been revealed.

Has it occured to you that most people are probably centre right on social and cultural issues. They value boundaries. They don't want destructive radicalism. They don't want open borders. They know the difference between male and female, and they don't like being shamed and shunned because they don't like the totalitarianism of progressive identity politics.

So calling out " right wing" all of the time is nothing but a pointless tribal, virtue signaling exercise.

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Has it occured to you that most people are probably centre right on social and cultural issues.

No because that's not true.

The left like the right isn't a monolith. The overwhelming majority would not want open borders rather sustainable & orderly immigration as opposed to the new right who's real issue isn't sustainable & orderly immigration but being racially replaced.

As far as knowing the difference between sex, most people are far less likely to dehumanise, demonise & discriminate against trans people which is the exclusive purview of the far right. So no, most aren't centre right on trans people's basic rights.

and they don't like being shamed and shunned because they don't like the totalitarianism of progressive identity politics.

Most people aren't being shamed & shunned because most people aren't invested in this issue. You are exaggerating the public interest in this issue.

Baileyonice · 09/06/2026 01:59

nutmeg7 · 08/06/2026 08:33

So you suggest rewriting the equality act so that when it says ‘woman’ it means “anyone who thinks they feel like a ‘woman’”? How is that a clear legal definition?

This would not address the basis on which women (biological) are discriminated against (our sex and everything that flows from operating as female in a world designed for the male norm).

And will presumably create conflict with all other legislation that mentions ‘men’ and ‘women’ using the original biological meaning.

Both Canadian & Australian have exemptions under specific circumstances for cis women that work fine.