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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Unmarried couples to gain property rights and possible wider implications

151 replies

MsGreying · 06/06/2026 15:58

Unmarried people to gain rights to partner's property
https://www.gov.uk/government/news/millions-of-unmarried-couples-to-get-stronger-rights

Whilst a simple glance makes it sound appealing I think this has serious consequences.

There's a 10 week consultant from Friday

Millions of unmarried couples to get stronger rights

Overdue reforms to protect women and meet the needs of modern relationships as the government continues to prioritise tackling VAWG and working people

https://www.gov.uk/government/news/millions-of-unmarried-couples-to-get-stronger-rights

OP posts:
Thisistyresome · 19/06/2026 11:12

Pingponghavoc · 06/06/2026 16:41

My MiL has lived with her partner for over 30 years in his house, often being the sole earner. If they split up or he dies, she is either left homeless or is maintaining a house she doesn't own and cant really afford. Her partners son can't afford the upkeep either.

So having a share of the property would give her more financial security.

But, lots of women dont want to remarry, in part, to protect their children financially. They don't want the risk of losing their home to pay for a second divorce. I know women in this position, too.

I think it would be better to have a campaign clearly setting out the law as it is.

She does have rights, if she has been paying things like the mortgage, repairs etc. then she has acquired rights in property law.

Codifying that particular situation for clarity would be more sensible than making everyone default in to a weird quazi-marriage situation with legal implications to leave just from living together.

TofuTuesday · 10/06/2026 10:23

Just posted the response document above

Howcool · 10/06/2026 10:01

poodlemum01 · 10/06/2026 09:26

Years ago the company I worked for used to share a room in a library with the CAB. We are semi rural so we’d travel, as did the CAB, to do like one a week clinics in different areas.
one day a distressed woman turned up looking for the CAB but it wasn’t their day. Her husband had left her for a younger woman. The house was in his name and she’d never worked. I’ll never forget her distress as 22 year old ignorant me struggled to understand and advise. I tried to direct her to housing support at the council, suggested she contact family, get legal advice etc.
i think of her often and wish I’d been able to help more.
but I made sure when I married to have separate accounts and house in both names.
BIL co habits. I don’t know what a female version of a cock lodger is but his partner is one.
excuse typos as on phone.

Even now in the case of divorce, the house being in his sole name doesn't mean she wouldn't be awarded a settlement. That was the benefit of marriage for her over just cohabiting so it probably was not as bleak as you thought.

poodlemum01 · 10/06/2026 09:26

Years ago the company I worked for used to share a room in a library with the CAB. We are semi rural so we’d travel, as did the CAB, to do like one a week clinics in different areas.
one day a distressed woman turned up looking for the CAB but it wasn’t their day. Her husband had left her for a younger woman. The house was in his name and she’d never worked. I’ll never forget her distress as 22 year old ignorant me struggled to understand and advise. I tried to direct her to housing support at the council, suggested she contact family, get legal advice etc.
i think of her often and wish I’d been able to help more.
but I made sure when I married to have separate accounts and house in both names.
BIL co habits. I don’t know what a female version of a cock lodger is but his partner is one.
excuse typos as on phone.

Howcool · 10/06/2026 09:10

Thanks for the link. I will try to read it fully today and respond to the questionnaire.
At first glance it is infuriating how it has been spun as 'rights for cohabiting couples' when the reality is one party of a couple risks losing a lot in favour of the other just because they shared a house/were in a relationship for 3 years.
I resent that we have to do politicians' jobs for them. They should be putting forward coherent legislation with the pros and cons considered.

FrankieMcGrath · 10/06/2026 09:07

TofuTuesday · 10/06/2026 07:33

Thanks although am I being really silly or how do you actually reply?

TofuTuesday · 10/06/2026 07:33

https://www.gov.uk/government/consultations/a-fairer-end-to-relationships/a-fairer-end-to-relationships-consultation-document

here is the consultation document again. Please reply if you feel strongly.

QuintadosMalvados · 10/06/2026 06:50

FrankieMcGrath · 09/06/2026 17:48

The whole thing is a shit show. Do we know if it’s definitely happening or what steps does it still have to go through?

I wish I knew the answer.
Bombard them with emails about it. There must be links. That's what I'm doing. Be a pain in the ass. If nothing else, you'll feel you're doing something.

I totally agree that this is wholly wrong for many reasons, but as they're only really attempting this to save money, if they realise it may not, they'll stop.

I find that sometimes the more outrageous parts of things get dispensed with pretty quickly.

Nobody sane would argue that anybody who cohabits with a partner where they have no children together and one of them contributes nothing financially should be entitled to anything if they split up.

Having said that, the Australians and Canadians have done this but hopefully there's more sense here.

FrankieMcGrath · 09/06/2026 17:48

The whole thing is a shit show. Do we know if it’s definitely happening or what steps does it still have to go through?

TofuTuesday · 09/06/2026 17:45

D0RA · 09/06/2026 14:46

Good point. Id also like to know how it will work when a party is cohabiting with one person and is married to another ?

This scenario is incredibly common, we have all read posts / know in RL of women who say they can’t get married because their fiancé is “ technically “ still married.

In fact every man I know who has left his wife and children ( which is a lot ) has moved in with a new partner before he and his wife are divorced.

What about the men who “ work away from home “ and are cohabiting with more than one women in different parts of the country , while still not legally divorced from the woman he calls his “ ex wife “?

You can make a claim against someone who is married.
the consultation is linked somewhere in the thread

D0RA · 09/06/2026 14:46

TriesNotToBeCynical · 09/06/2026 14:32

Is a period of cohabitation going to automatically revoke previously made wills, as marriage does?

Good point. Id also like to know how it will work when a party is cohabiting with one person and is married to another ?

This scenario is incredibly common, we have all read posts / know in RL of women who say they can’t get married because their fiancé is “ technically “ still married.

In fact every man I know who has left his wife and children ( which is a lot ) has moved in with a new partner before he and his wife are divorced.

What about the men who “ work away from home “ and are cohabiting with more than one women in different parts of the country , while still not legally divorced from the woman he calls his “ ex wife “?

IonianNerveGrip · 09/06/2026 14:36

TriesNotToBeCynical · 09/06/2026 14:32

Is a period of cohabitation going to automatically revoke previously made wills, as marriage does?

Excellent question that will need to be considered.

One of the proposals is for unmarried partners to inherit when one dies intestate. They already can, so I presume the idea is to alter the existing provisions for what happens when a person in this situation dies.

TriesNotToBeCynical · 09/06/2026 14:32

Is a period of cohabitation going to automatically revoke previously made wills, as marriage does?

QuintadosMalvados · 09/06/2026 12:41

@BendoftheBeginning Yes I am.

BendoftheBeginning · 09/06/2026 09:02

QuintadosMalvados · 08/06/2026 19:58

It's not the right thing to do.
And it won't be drafted properly.
There is also no such thing as common law marriage.

Are you going to feed back on the consultation? I’m sorry to keep banging on about this, but when we fed back our concerns on on self ID we made even Maria Miller pause to reconsider, and that was the start of the that government and the ones that followed changing their minds.

QuintadosMalvados · 08/06/2026 19:59

Error404FucksNotFound · 08/06/2026 18:56

Yeah. Funny that, isnt it?

Yeah.
And all done under the guise of 'protecting' women too.
Cheeky feckers.

QuintadosMalvados · 08/06/2026 19:58

ACynicalDad · 08/06/2026 18:32

In theory this is the right thing to do, but I think the drafting will be vital to making it work and ensuring it's not a complete shit show. I'd be particularly keen to see protections when one partner has contributed and they have kids and have effectively been common law married. Cheeky CL don't need any cover. I suspect Jess Philips was behind the drafting and she will have done it with protecting vulnerable women at front of mind.

It's not the right thing to do.
And it won't be drafted properly.
There is also no such thing as common law marriage.

IonianNerveGrip · 08/06/2026 19:05

Said this on the other thread too, but I'm generally mistrustful of any discussion on this subject that focuses only on marriage giving people rights, and doesn't mention that it also takes them away. The status quo means unmarried cohabitants also have rights that married ones don't, generally about their assets, and those rights are clearly very important to some of them.

However we do it, we're going to end up with some people who are disadvantaged. I'm not persuaded that creating a different set of problems to the ones that exist now is necessarily going to be an improvement.

Error404FucksNotFound · 08/06/2026 18:56

Lakesfun · 08/06/2026 15:30

Would it be very cynical to notice that is is being discussed at a time in history when more unmarried women are finally starting to accumulate assets?

Yeah. Funny that, isnt it?

RaininSummer · 08/06/2026 18:48

I agree. Just educate people as I do not want my partner having rights over the house I paid off shortly after he moved in out of my wages alone and which I continue to maintain financially without his input. This is the main reason I do not get married so don't take me choices away because others don't do their research.

AngleofRepose · 08/06/2026 18:44

senua · 08/06/2026 18:38

Of course.Confused
And don't call me 'they'.

Apologies, wasn't meant as an insult, just that some posters are men, and I didn't want to assume.

senua · 08/06/2026 18:38

AngleofRepose · 08/06/2026 18:22

Yes, I understand that, was just asking senua if that was what they were referring to.

Of course.Confused
And don't call me 'they'.

ACynicalDad · 08/06/2026 18:32

In theory this is the right thing to do, but I think the drafting will be vital to making it work and ensuring it's not a complete shit show. I'd be particularly keen to see protections when one partner has contributed and they have kids and have effectively been common law married. Cheeky CL don't need any cover. I suspect Jess Philips was behind the drafting and she will have done it with protecting vulnerable women at front of mind.

Howcool · 08/06/2026 18:31

AngleofRepose · 08/06/2026 18:22

Yes, I understand that, was just asking senua if that was what they were referring to.

I wasn't aware of it at the time but looking back that allowed all the subsequent overreach by Stonewall et al.

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