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Sick to the back teeth of “people with ovarian cancer” etc

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HaveYouActuallyDoneAnyWashingThisWeekMum · 04/06/2026 08:07

One of the most insidious effects of the creep of gender wang into everyday life is the replacement of “women” or “woman” with “people”. Just heard Amol Rajan talking about “people with ovarian cancer” on the Today programme; last night the (otherwise watchable and interesting) Sky special on maternity services in the UK mentioned “people in labour…people using our services…”. Argh 😡

Come on, Amol and Sky maternity services programme presenters and every other journalist and broadcaster who does this: you know full well that ovarian cancer sufferers and that the people giving birth are all - every single one of them - WOMEN. Always have been, always will be.

Please use the words WOMAN or WOMEN. It really is very easy. In fact, these words should just trip off your tongues - no mental gymnastics required.

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Bertiebiscuit · 04/06/2026 20:52

So, ahem, 'interesting' that in all the stuff in the media currently about prostate cancer leads with the word "men" every single time. There are literally no people suffering from or being screened for prostate cancer, only men. So only women get erased then. As ever "inclusivity" excludes women.

nicepotoftea · 04/06/2026 15:10

😁Didn't notice the speech marks at first and was wondering what people with ovarian cancer had ever done to you!

I would use 'people' and 'women' interchangeably in speech without thinking, but I strongly object to any intentional avoidance of 'woman' when discussing cancers that are either sex specific or predominantly suffered by women.

HaveYouActuallyDoneAnyWashingThisWeekMum · 04/06/2026 14:10

MimiGC · 04/06/2026 10:57

Just listened to today’s Woman’s Hour on R4. Same shit. The CEO from Ovacome (Ovarian Cancer Charity) referred continually to people with ovarian cancer, not women. Took a quick look at their website and yes, it’s ‘people’ all the way. What was that about women’s erasure?!

I don’t know why that radio programme still has that particular name. Should just be called General Magazine Chit Chat Show or similar.

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TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 04/06/2026 10:37

If you want to be inclusive then you add you don’t take away, so they could say ‘women and trans men with ovarian cancer’ but they do not need to remove the use of ‘women’.

Or better still Women, Including 'Trans' IDing Women.
It's 'inclusive' and accurate. Win, Win.

No thanks. Just woman or women. That’s inclusive of all females. No other words necessary. Thanks.

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GreyskySexRealistsky · 04/06/2026 11:14

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 04/06/2026 11:04

The charity sector is completely captured. I've cancelled nearly all my donations to the national charities and instead give my money to local charities, where I can see how the money is spent on practical help not ideological nonsense.

Yes, I think that's the way forward Henrietta. Also, local charities tend to have lower overheads, fewer staff and smaller marketing budgets (if any) - so more of the money goes to the actual cause.

The charity sector needs to stop jumping on the bandwagon with this inaccurate language. I'm shocked to see Ovacome refer to 'people' with ovarian cancer, not women: "Every year in the UK over 7,000 people are diagnosed with ovarian cancer".

What's wrong with the word 'woman'? Seriously, what's wrong with it?
I might ask them.

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 04/06/2026 11:04

MimiGC · 04/06/2026 10:57

Just listened to today’s Woman’s Hour on R4. Same shit. The CEO from Ovacome (Ovarian Cancer Charity) referred continually to people with ovarian cancer, not women. Took a quick look at their website and yes, it’s ‘people’ all the way. What was that about women’s erasure?!

The charity sector is completely captured. I've cancelled nearly all my donations to the national charities and instead give my money to local charities, where I can see how the money is spent on practical help not ideological nonsense.

MimiGC · 04/06/2026 10:57

Just listened to today’s Woman’s Hour on R4. Same shit. The CEO from Ovacome (Ovarian Cancer Charity) referred continually to people with ovarian cancer, not women. Took a quick look at their website and yes, it’s ‘people’ all the way. What was that about women’s erasure?!

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 04/06/2026 10:37

If you want to be inclusive then you add you don’t take away, so they could say ‘women and trans men with ovarian cancer’ but they do not need to remove the use of ‘women’.

Or better still Women, Including 'Trans' IDing Women.
It's 'inclusive' and accurate. Win, Win.

Bertiebiscuit · 04/06/2026 10:30

BBC trolling women again, ironically on "woman 's hour", a speaker saying "people with ovarian cancer" No, ONLY WOMEN CAN GET OVARIAN CANCER. what is wrong with these women? Handmaids the lot of them.

ProfMummBRaaarrrTheEverLeaking · 04/06/2026 09:44

Saw the report on the BBC news channel this morning, they also used the word women! Where are my smelling salts 😂

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BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 04/06/2026 09:39

InfoSecInTheCity · 04/06/2026 09:26

If you want to be inclusive then you add you don’t take away, so they could say ‘women and trans men with ovarian cancer’ but they do not need to remove the use of ‘women’. Overwhelmingly the people with ovarian cancer will identify with the word ‘women’ they will recognise that the message is for them, they will understand that the content of the conversation or text has relevance to them. When you remove the word that calls the right people to action then you dilute the message and make it unrecognisable. In attempting to be ‘inclusive’ to the teeny tiny number of trans men who will get ovarian cancer you take away a very commonly known word that is recognisable to women globally who may have a low level of understanding of the English language, you potentially prevent women who need to hear the message from understanding that it is for them, and you just piss off a load of women who are sick to the back teeth of all this bullshit.

you just piss off a load of women who are sick to the back teeth of all this bullshit.

I suspect that is entirely the point of it!

MrsOvertonsWindow · 04/06/2026 09:38

Isn't it tedious dealing with the equivalent of flat earthers who've taken up so much of the public space with all this?

But we mustn't give up, exhausting as it is. The BBC have been exposed and are having to reset and return to more objective accurate reporting. Only the most extreme activists support erasing the language of women for the miniscule % of those who think they're in the wrong body.

The NHS is a toxic mess with Fife & Darlington cases showcasing why. The SC judgment will force them into complying with the law and things are changing, slowly, but they are changing.

The word woman is being reclaimed. It was inevitable - lies can never be sustained.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 04/06/2026 09:32

I'm surprised we've got this far on the thread without someone chipping in "so you're saying women aren't people".

In anticipation of that inane comment - no, that isn't what's being said here.

IpsyUpsyDaisyDoos · 04/06/2026 09:28

Imdunfer · 04/06/2026 09:01

Only a misogynist could complain about genetic women asking to be called women.

Ask yourself why over 99% of people giving birth should give up the right be referred to as the child's mother, which is a very special thing to be.

People can live their lives how they want. What they shouldn't be doing is demanding to change everyone else's experience to suit their own.

It's like me saying I don't like drinking alcohol and then demanding that everyone else also stops drinking alcohol because of MY life.

The outrage would probably be higher for that than for the demands that no one be referred to as a woman anymore.

InfoSecInTheCity · 04/06/2026 09:26

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If you want to be inclusive then you add you don’t take away, so they could say ‘women and trans men with ovarian cancer’ but they do not need to remove the use of ‘women’. Overwhelmingly the people with ovarian cancer will identify with the word ‘women’ they will recognise that the message is for them, they will understand that the content of the conversation or text has relevance to them. When you remove the word that calls the right people to action then you dilute the message and make it unrecognisable. In attempting to be ‘inclusive’ to the teeny tiny number of trans men who will get ovarian cancer you take away a very commonly known word that is recognisable to women globally who may have a low level of understanding of the English language, you potentially prevent women who need to hear the message from understanding that it is for them, and you just piss off a load of women who are sick to the back teeth of all this bullshit.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 04/06/2026 09:20

That's interesting @Imdunfer, thanks

Imdunfer · 04/06/2026 09:19

CompleteGinasaur · 04/06/2026 09:13

I just checked the BBC News website, prepared to be enraged at the usual linguistic gaslighting, and was profoundly gobsmacked. They actually used the word "woman"! At least three times! Has the new head actually told them to rip up that bloody style guide?!

It started after the fallout about the Donald Trump misquote.

That bit took the headlines but the report was very critical about the bias in the Gaza coverage and went into great detail about the lack of balance in the trans issues coverage.

It was all round about the same timing as the Supreme Court judgement and the reporting began to be noticeably different.

I imagine that there are a lot of relieved people inside the BBC and another group gritting their teeth.

CompleteGinasaur · 04/06/2026 09:13

I just checked the BBC News website, prepared to be enraged at the usual linguistic gaslighting, and was profoundly gobsmacked. They actually used the word "woman"! At least three times! Has the new head actually told them to rip up that bloody style guide?!

Coatsoff42 · 04/06/2026 09:09

Yes, it is. But it started for me with being irritated by double standards. It’s hard to unsee.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 04/06/2026 09:08

I agree, I hate the erasure of the word "woman" in these contexts.

My second objection is that it makes the figures wrong. It's not X% of people, it's X% of women. It's quite simply inaccurate.

HaveYouActuallyDoneAnyWashingThisWeekMum · 04/06/2026 09:05

It’s more than that: it’s erasing the words WOMAN and WOMEN.

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I used to think that, then I noticed that men with prostate cancer are never called people with prostate cancer and it got on my nerves, it’s like we all need reminding that women are people too. Like men won’t take ovarian cancer seriously unless they are reminded, like it’s all ‘women’s issues’. It’s just very irritating every time you see it.

Imdunfer · 04/06/2026 09:01

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Only a misogynist could complain about genetic women asking to be called women.

Ask yourself why over 99% of people giving birth should give up the right be referred to as the child's mother, which is a very special thing to be.

People can live their lives how they want. What they shouldn't be doing is demanding to change everyone else's experience to suit their own.

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