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Should breast implants for males be made illegal?

562 replies

happydappy2 · 31/05/2026 10:19

Having learned more about the sexual desires of males, AGP in particular. I now think that as women we have to push back and stop this madness. We live in a world where females are vulnerable to sexual assault by males-we are literally hunted by them. Combined with the safeguarding of children aspect....all parents I know explain to young children that if you get lost, look for a lady to help you, preferably another Mummy....I know men can wear a padded bra to achieve the look, but still the thought of males getting sexual pleasure by having fake boobs & their male tackle-just seems wrong. Am I alone in thinking this? Looking at society as a whole, I can't see any benefit to women and children of men being allowed to get silicone breast implants.....

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TheKeatingFive · 02/06/2026 08:21

Kate8175 · 02/06/2026 08:15

Would you say that to a man who kept pestering a woman when she kept saying no? No means no remember. That applies to you too.

This is a DISCUSSION

Your position is 'I think TWAW. Therefore they should have access to women's spaces'

You are asked 'how do you think this group of men are women?'

You - refuse to answer

How are we supposed to engage seriously with that?

Either they are women and you can tell us why or they aren't and your position is ridiculous.

Which is it?

happydappy2 · 02/06/2026 08:18

TheHateUGive · 02/06/2026 08:08

Why is the question not "should cosmetic "gender affirming" surgery be banned?".

Why is it just about boobs?

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Good point, I'll start another poll on that...

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TheKeatingFive · 02/06/2026 08:18

Kate8175 · 02/06/2026 08:14

quite simple. The things they are saying bare transphobic.

Nice diversion away from what I was saying. I see your tactics.

What things?

Kate8175 · 02/06/2026 08:15

TheKeatingFive · 02/06/2026 08:08

If you never get an answer it's fair enough, no?

Youve told us you believe men to be women. It's important for everyone else to understand how you've come to that conclusion

Would you say that to a man who kept pestering a woman when she kept saying no? No means no remember. That applies to you too.

Kate8175 · 02/06/2026 08:14

TheKeatingFive · 02/06/2026 08:07

Why are you presenting women standing up for their rights to single sex spaces as 'transphobic'?

quite simple. The things they are saying bare transphobic.

Nice diversion away from what I was saying. I see your tactics.

TheHateUGive · 02/06/2026 08:08

Why is the question not "should cosmetic "gender affirming" surgery be banned?".

Why is it just about boobs?

TheKeatingFive · 02/06/2026 08:08

Kate8175 · 02/06/2026 07:58

Here we go again. The tactic of asking the same question over and over. It’s very old.

If you never get an answer it's fair enough, no?

Youve told us you believe men to be women. It's important for everyone else to understand how you've come to that conclusion

TheKeatingFive · 02/06/2026 08:07

Kate8175 · 02/06/2026 07:53

Ah wonderful. Another person claiming I, a survivor, lied about someone saying I want women to get raped. It really is disgusting and just highlights you care so little about vaw and will say anything to further your transphobic views.

Why are you presenting women standing up for their rights to single sex spaces as 'transphobic'?

Kate8175 · 02/06/2026 07:58

Heggettypeg · 02/06/2026 03:51

I know what I mean by a woman. But if you think a transwoman is a woman, you are clearly working to a different definition of woman altogether. So what definition are you using? What is the difference between your definition of a woman and your definition of a man?

Here we go again. The tactic of asking the same question over and over. It’s very old.

Kate8175 · 02/06/2026 07:55

Dominoodles · 01/06/2026 23:33

Wow you are really reading into everything I'm saying, and implying I've said or meant things that I've clearly not. It's clear you either didn't read or didn't understand a word of my post.

Please try not to always take offense to everything, and to accept that others can have differing viewpoints that don't match yours without there being a single shred of hatred behind it. If you always assume the worst from everyone, you'll drive yourself mad looking for purity.

People who you disagree with are also people.

The way you speak is so gaslighty.

Kate8175 · 02/06/2026 07:53

helderste · 01/06/2026 23:08

Oh. Right. I see. Chinny reckon then, innit.

Ah wonderful. Another person claiming I, a survivor, lied about someone saying I want women to get raped. It really is disgusting and just highlights you care so little about vaw and will say anything to further your transphobic views.

ktopfwcv · 02/06/2026 06:40

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 31/05/2026 20:20

Cis men are a danger to society. Pretending that legislating against a minority will fix that is distracting from that truth.

1 in 4 women & 1 in 6 men, minimum, have suffered sexual abuse. I don't know a single woman who hasn't been sexually assaulted in some way, often multiple times starting from childhood.

If trans women were the danger, then the same few (despicable) faces wouldn't need to be recycled.

Trans women simply exist, and are deeply vulnerable to sexual assault themselves.

Adult males are a danger to females, I agree.

ktopfwcv · 02/06/2026 06:37

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 31/05/2026 20:16

Dehumanising entire minorities by labelling them sexually predatory is an age-old tactic used against gay people & people of colour. It's now being used against trans women.

Violent cis men were, are and always will be the biggest risk to women, and it's addressing that (immense) danger with education and through rape justice which women want.

So much easier to vilify a minority than confront the things cis men do and act against them. Years after the vast scale of drug-assisted rape first became clear, there is still no organised response against it, for example.

Are you an ethnic minority?

Wearenotborg · 02/06/2026 06:27

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 02/06/2026 06:13

Reckon you're confusing me with Google there love :)

Answer your own questions, and listen to trans people. You might learn something.

Listened to transpeople. It’s how I turned from a trans ally to a full on TERF. So they’ve only got themselves to blame really. As you can’t seem to come up with a reasonable alternative definition, we must assume you also believe woman is adult human female, you’re just too upset to admit it, as it just confirms males cannot be women.

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 02/06/2026 06:13

Heggettypeg · 02/06/2026 03:51

I know what I mean by a woman. But if you think a transwoman is a woman, you are clearly working to a different definition of woman altogether. So what definition are you using? What is the difference between your definition of a woman and your definition of a man?

Reckon you're confusing me with Google there love :)

Answer your own questions, and listen to trans people. You might learn something.

Wearenotborg · 02/06/2026 06:01

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 01/06/2026 23:52

Oh, please. I heard racists and homophobes use that argument last century, we all did.

TIM is a slur. It's used to demean trans women. The abbreviation 'tw' is there, but few on here use it, preferring the slur.

Calling people - individuals - an "ideology" is also a slur. It's used to dehumanise trans people and to construct conspiracy theories about them.

Objecting to trans people - and their families - reacting to those slurs is transphobic too.

You don't get to tell minorities which words are hate speech, and using that hate speech is a choice.

I don’t use “TW” because they are not women in any way shape or form. TIM is factual. I could call them “men pretending to be women” if you prefer?

TheKeatingFive · 02/06/2026 05:04

NameChangeMay2026 · 02/06/2026 03:00

Cis or trans. Both are.

Trans women are who they say they are.

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So if these men are white, but they say they're black?

If they're human. But they say they are cats?

If they're in their 50s, but they say they're 12v

They are who they said, right?

QldGCandproud · 02/06/2026 04:16

SinuousTendrils · 01/06/2026 13:00

What if, as a small child, you looked at your body and had a penis, or some approximation of one, despite having internal female organs?
I'm not sure your clear cut idea of how the world works would apply here.
It happens more often than you might like.

This is just an argument for breaking down gender norms and expectations, not for strict "trans rules" that force people into the very male/female binary that trans advocates are counter-intuitively, always trying to establish. If a child is born with a DSD, imagine how much more comfortable their lives could be without gender norms. That child could literally just be themselves without issue. A biological boy with a DSD, or who just had a strong inkling towards what is understood to be the feminine end of the gender spectrum could dress, speak, play, be in whatever way actually aligned to his inner self, without it being necessary to totally identify with and conform to equally demanding female gender norms. This is so important because society as a whole is never going to accept wrong-sex identification. And without those strict rules of masculinity in place, he could accept his body, and get on with being the best version of himself. No need to force people to lie about his sex. No need to force women to share their spaces. And, we GCs like to think, probably less violence and suicide because the incessant policing of gender norms would cease. But, and this is the key, women remain in need of our specific sex-based provisions because we have a biology that is designed for reproduction and this makes us vulnerable, less physically strong in most cases, and susceptible to violence and exploitation. These social conditions are unlikely to change any time soon.
It is the gender norms that are the problem. Take away all the rules about appearance, behaviour, preferences and "identity", but remain in acknowledgment about the reality of sex differences (and inate sexual attraction). I think (some of) those who identify as trans are maybe trying to fight gender norms, but are completely incorrect in their approach.

Heggettypeg · 02/06/2026 03:51

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 02/06/2026 03:40

Do you not know?.Bless.

I know what I mean by a woman. But if you think a transwoman is a woman, you are clearly working to a different definition of woman altogether. So what definition are you using? What is the difference between your definition of a woman and your definition of a man?

QldGCandproud · 02/06/2026 03:43

SinuousTendrils · 31/05/2026 21:18

No. Presumably the reason for wanting the surgery would be part of a process in which the male realised they were female and would probably need breasts to complete the process and support their mental health.
I am not sure how this might impact on you or anyone else.

If the male in question was actually female, he would grow breasts naturally during puberty. This example man of yours wants to be female, but is not, therefore needs a surgeon to help him decieve himself and others.

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 02/06/2026 03:40

Heggettypeg · 02/06/2026 03:16

But a "cis" or "trans" what? Define "woman".

Do you not know?.Bless.

Heggettypeg · 02/06/2026 03:16

NameChangeMay2026 · 02/06/2026 03:00

Cis or trans. Both are.

Trans women are who they say they are.

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But a "cis" or "trans" what? Define "woman".

NameChangeMay2026 · 02/06/2026 03:00

Heggettypeg · 02/06/2026 02:53

And a woman is - what?

Cis or trans. Both are.

Trans women are who they say they are.

NameChangeMay2026 · 02/06/2026 03:00

dinodart · 02/06/2026 02:28

for people who say it's their body they can modify as they want, this quickly becomes an absurd idea when you look at most things besides gender. if someone wants to cut off their ears and stick them somewhere else on their body, is it okay cause they want to do it? like nah dawg. society has just legitimized body mutilation for the sake of a mental condition under this one ideology.

That's not an apt comparison. Nobody does what you said for cosmetic reasons, But breast implants are a common body modification. So is ear piercing. Some mods are acceptable and some aren't. If women can get breast implants, men should be able to, too. You'd have to ban them for everyone, not just one sex, otherwise that's discrimination.

Heggettypeg · 02/06/2026 02:53

NameChangeMay2026 · 02/06/2026 01:22

Trans women are women.

End of.

And a woman is - what?