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Should breast implants for males be made illegal?

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happydappy2 · 31/05/2026 10:19

Having learned more about the sexual desires of males, AGP in particular. I now think that as women we have to push back and stop this madness. We live in a world where females are vulnerable to sexual assault by males-we are literally hunted by them. Combined with the safeguarding of children aspect....all parents I know explain to young children that if you get lost, look for a lady to help you, preferably another Mummy....I know men can wear a padded bra to achieve the look, but still the thought of males getting sexual pleasure by having fake boobs & their male tackle-just seems wrong. Am I alone in thinking this? Looking at society as a whole, I can't see any benefit to women and children of men being allowed to get silicone breast implants.....

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BunnyBunbunbun · 03/06/2026 12:57

NameChangeMay2026 · 03/06/2026 00:48

It's common sense, because everyone knows that a percentage of men attack LGBTQ people. They always have.

But if you find that hard to believe, the bulleted statistics below are about violence towards transgender people.
Source: Crown Prosecution Service.
Link to the CPS page with these stats: https://www.cps.gov.uk/types-crime/hate-crime/context-and-characteristics-hostility-towards-sexual-orientation-and-transgender-identity

  • Research indicates that 62% - 73% of transgender people have experienced harassment and violence because they were identified as transgender. This included verbal abuse, threatening behaviour, physical and sexual assault.
  • Despite high rates of hate crime or incidents towards transgender people, a high proportion goes unreported.
  • A study in 2012, found that four fifths of respondents are fearful and avoided some situations with half saying that they avoided public toilets and gyms.
  • Research indicates that 91% of transgender boys and 66% of transgender girls experienced harassment at school, leading to depression and isolation.
  • A report from 2015 found that fear of being treated poorly leads victims of hate crime to avoid reporting to authorities. According to the same research, 88% of LGBT people had experienced some form of hate incident.
A longitudinal survey from 2013 showed that:
  • One in ten experiencing homophobic crime was physically assaulted.
  • One in eight victims experienced unwanted sexual contact.
  • One in eight victims have had their home, vehicle or property vandalised.
  • 85% of LGB people who had suffered a hate crime or incident in the past three years reported being harassed, insulted or intimidated as part of it.
  • Two thirds of victims did not report it to anyone.
  • Two in five victims did not report it because they didn’t think it was serious enough to report.
  • One in fourteen victims was concerned about further homophobia from those to whom they would report it.
  • More than one in five of those who did report the crime or incident did not mention its homophobic nature.

According to what you're saying then, gay men (I'm presuming you mean gay men, even though you don't specify) are vulnerable to being beaten up by a small percentage of men. So, following your logic, gay men should also be allowed to use the women's loos.

Taztoy · 03/06/2026 11:57

TheKeatingFive · 03/06/2026 11:55

Well quite.

It would also be very shocking, no? Men beating up other men because of how they're dressed? If this is the case, surely there should be FAR more focus on tackling such appalling behaviour?

But there's crickets on tackling men's behaviour. Instead it's all about pressuring women to give up their spaces. I wonder why? 🤔

Be kind. Protect the dolls. 🤨

TheKeatingFive · 03/06/2026 11:55

Taztoy · 03/06/2026 11:49

If men are at risk of being beaten up in men’s bathrooms, that would be a male problem to solve.

not Women’s. I say no. And I’m not for budging up to let a man in regardless of how he identifies.

Well quite.

It would also be very shocking, no? Men beating up other men because of how they're dressed? If this is the case, surely there should be FAR more focus on tackling such appalling behaviour?

But there's crickets on tackling men's behaviour. Instead it's all about pressuring women to give up their spaces. I wonder why? 🤔

Taztoy · 03/06/2026 11:49

If men are at risk of being beaten up in men’s bathrooms, that would be a male problem to solve.

not Women’s. I say no. And I’m not for budging up to let a man in regardless of how he identifies.

TheKeatingFive · 03/06/2026 11:44

NameChangeMay2026 · 03/06/2026 00:48

It's common sense, because everyone knows that a percentage of men attack LGBTQ people. They always have.

But if you find that hard to believe, the bulleted statistics below are about violence towards transgender people.
Source: Crown Prosecution Service.
Link to the CPS page with these stats: https://www.cps.gov.uk/types-crime/hate-crime/context-and-characteristics-hostility-towards-sexual-orientation-and-transgender-identity

  • Research indicates that 62% - 73% of transgender people have experienced harassment and violence because they were identified as transgender. This included verbal abuse, threatening behaviour, physical and sexual assault.
  • Despite high rates of hate crime or incidents towards transgender people, a high proportion goes unreported.
  • A study in 2012, found that four fifths of respondents are fearful and avoided some situations with half saying that they avoided public toilets and gyms.
  • Research indicates that 91% of transgender boys and 66% of transgender girls experienced harassment at school, leading to depression and isolation.
  • A report from 2015 found that fear of being treated poorly leads victims of hate crime to avoid reporting to authorities. According to the same research, 88% of LGBT people had experienced some form of hate incident.
A longitudinal survey from 2013 showed that:
  • One in ten experiencing homophobic crime was physically assaulted.
  • One in eight victims experienced unwanted sexual contact.
  • One in eight victims have had their home, vehicle or property vandalised.
  • 85% of LGB people who had suffered a hate crime or incident in the past three years reported being harassed, insulted or intimidated as part of it.
  • Two thirds of victims did not report it to anyone.
  • Two in five victims did not report it because they didn’t think it was serious enough to report.
  • One in fourteen victims was concerned about further homophobia from those to whom they would report it.
  • More than one in five of those who did report the crime or incident did not mention its homophobic nature.

Nothing you have quoted there is saying that trans identified men are being beaten up by other men in the men's bathrooms

MarieDeGournay · 03/06/2026 11:32

NameChangeMay2026 · 03/06/2026 00:51

I literally wrote "I doubt very much that you'd want anyone to be beaten up." I'm not sure why you wrote that it's bizarre to suggest you want anyone beaten up when I wrote the direct opposite. Maybe you misread.

As for evidence, see my post above for evidence of transpeople's vulnerability, direct from the Crown Prosecution Service.

Why did you even mention the possibility that I might want anyone to be beaten up?
Why did you phrase it as you having a doubt that I might want anyone to be beaten up?

I read what you actually wrote very carefully, because I don't take lightly even a 'doubt' that I might want anyone to be beaten up.

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 03/06/2026 11:17

NameChangeMay2026 · 03/06/2026 00:48

It's common sense, because everyone knows that a percentage of men attack LGBTQ people. They always have.

But if you find that hard to believe, the bulleted statistics below are about violence towards transgender people.
Source: Crown Prosecution Service.
Link to the CPS page with these stats: https://www.cps.gov.uk/types-crime/hate-crime/context-and-characteristics-hostility-towards-sexual-orientation-and-transgender-identity

  • Research indicates that 62% - 73% of transgender people have experienced harassment and violence because they were identified as transgender. This included verbal abuse, threatening behaviour, physical and sexual assault.
  • Despite high rates of hate crime or incidents towards transgender people, a high proportion goes unreported.
  • A study in 2012, found that four fifths of respondents are fearful and avoided some situations with half saying that they avoided public toilets and gyms.
  • Research indicates that 91% of transgender boys and 66% of transgender girls experienced harassment at school, leading to depression and isolation.
  • A report from 2015 found that fear of being treated poorly leads victims of hate crime to avoid reporting to authorities. According to the same research, 88% of LGBT people had experienced some form of hate incident.
A longitudinal survey from 2013 showed that:
  • One in ten experiencing homophobic crime was physically assaulted.
  • One in eight victims experienced unwanted sexual contact.
  • One in eight victims have had their home, vehicle or property vandalised.
  • 85% of LGB people who had suffered a hate crime or incident in the past three years reported being harassed, insulted or intimidated as part of it.
  • Two thirds of victims did not report it to anyone.
  • Two in five victims did not report it because they didn’t think it was serious enough to report.
  • One in fourteen victims was concerned about further homophobia from those to whom they would report it.
  • More than one in five of those who did report the crime or incident did not mention its homophobic nature.

The second half of those stats is actually about homosexual people, not transgender people. Did you not realise that? There are no stats there that are specific to violence in toilets.
Are you content for able-bodied homosexual men to use the disabled toilets too? If not, why not?

Taztoy · 03/06/2026 05:20

NameChangeMay2026 · 02/06/2026 21:41

You must surely see that a trans woman is a huge target for being physically attacked by men in the men's loos and that, if they have had much of their strength dissolved by taking hormones, it wouldn't exactly be a fair fight. I'm sure you wouldn't want an innocent person to be badly beaten, no matter their sex or gender.

No reason why TW can't use the disabled loos. People have to learn to share, since there isn't infinite space.

Plenty of reason. I have trauma. I’ve discussed it on here before. I say no.

re the stealthing. I’ve discussed that before too. I believe that using the wrong sex toilet, that is, the toilet different to the sex that you were born, should be a crime. It is analogous to stealthing.

finally, the law says men need to obey the law.

NameChangeMay2026 · 03/06/2026 00:51

MarieDeGournay · 02/06/2026 23:43

I'm not failing to see the risk, I'm failing to see the evidence of any risk of men beating up transwomen in the men's toilets.

So I don't accept that they are being put in a vulnerable position by using the toilets designated for them.
It's bizarre to suggest that I 'want' anyone to be beaten up, just because I want people to do the right thing and use the toilets designated for them!

Mis-use of the accessible toilets by people who don't need the adaptations in them is unacceptable. An accessible toilet is not a consolation prize for transpeople.

There are millions of disabled people in the UK who have no choice but to use an adapted toilet; unlike transpeople, who are able use the standard toilets, but choose not to.

I literally wrote "I doubt very much that you'd want anyone to be beaten up." I'm not sure why you wrote that it's bizarre to suggest you want anyone beaten up when I wrote the direct opposite. Maybe you misread.

As for evidence, see my post above for evidence of transpeople's vulnerability, direct from the Crown Prosecution Service.

NameChangeMay2026 · 03/06/2026 00:48

TheKeatingFive · 03/06/2026 00:24

Why do you think men are beating up other men in the men's loos?

Have you any evidence for this?

It's common sense, because everyone knows that a percentage of men attack LGBTQ people. They always have.

But if you find that hard to believe, the bulleted statistics below are about violence towards transgender people.
Source: Crown Prosecution Service.
Link to the CPS page with these stats: https://www.cps.gov.uk/types-crime/hate-crime/context-and-characteristics-hostility-towards-sexual-orientation-and-transgender-identity

  • Research indicates that 62% - 73% of transgender people have experienced harassment and violence because they were identified as transgender. This included verbal abuse, threatening behaviour, physical and sexual assault.
  • Despite high rates of hate crime or incidents towards transgender people, a high proportion goes unreported.
  • A study in 2012, found that four fifths of respondents are fearful and avoided some situations with half saying that they avoided public toilets and gyms.
  • Research indicates that 91% of transgender boys and 66% of transgender girls experienced harassment at school, leading to depression and isolation.
  • A report from 2015 found that fear of being treated poorly leads victims of hate crime to avoid reporting to authorities. According to the same research, 88% of LGBT people had experienced some form of hate incident.
A longitudinal survey from 2013 showed that:
  • One in ten experiencing homophobic crime was physically assaulted.
  • One in eight victims experienced unwanted sexual contact.
  • One in eight victims have had their home, vehicle or property vandalised.
  • 85% of LGB people who had suffered a hate crime or incident in the past three years reported being harassed, insulted or intimidated as part of it.
  • Two thirds of victims did not report it to anyone.
  • Two in five victims did not report it because they didn’t think it was serious enough to report.
  • One in fourteen victims was concerned about further homophobia from those to whom they would report it.
  • More than one in five of those who did report the crime or incident did not mention its homophobic nature.

Context and characteristics of hostility towards sexual orientation and transgender identity | The Crown Prosecution Service

https://www.cps.gov.uk/types-crime/hate-crime/context-and-characteristics-hostility-towards-sexual-orientation-and-transgender-identity

TheKeatingFive · 03/06/2026 00:24

NameChangeMay2026 · 02/06/2026 21:41

You must surely see that a trans woman is a huge target for being physically attacked by men in the men's loos and that, if they have had much of their strength dissolved by taking hormones, it wouldn't exactly be a fair fight. I'm sure you wouldn't want an innocent person to be badly beaten, no matter their sex or gender.

No reason why TW can't use the disabled loos. People have to learn to share, since there isn't infinite space.

Why do you think men are beating up other men in the men's loos?

Have you any evidence for this?

MarieDeGournay · 02/06/2026 23:43

NameChangeMay2026 · 02/06/2026 22:40

I think you're failing to see the risk to transwomen of certain kinds of men beating them up.

They're much safer in the disabled loos, which are almost always free anyway. People have to share, since there's not infinite space.

I don't know why you'd want to insist on TW being put into a vulnerable position. I very much doubt you would want anyone to be beaten up.

I'm not failing to see the risk, I'm failing to see the evidence of any risk of men beating up transwomen in the men's toilets.

So I don't accept that they are being put in a vulnerable position by using the toilets designated for them.
It's bizarre to suggest that I 'want' anyone to be beaten up, just because I want people to do the right thing and use the toilets designated for them!

Mis-use of the accessible toilets by people who don't need the adaptations in them is unacceptable. An accessible toilet is not a consolation prize for transpeople.

There are millions of disabled people in the UK who have no choice but to use an adapted toilet; unlike transpeople, who are able use the standard toilets, but choose not to.

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 02/06/2026 22:55

NameChangeMay2026 · 02/06/2026 22:40

I think you're failing to see the risk to transwomen of certain kinds of men beating them up.

They're much safer in the disabled loos, which are almost always free anyway. People have to share, since there's not infinite space.

I don't know why you'd want to insist on TW being put into a vulnerable position. I very much doubt you would want anyone to be beaten up.

Do you think that gay men, old men, disabled men, teenage men should also be told to use the disabled loos? I think that it is time that the issue of the small proportion of men who are violent towards other men based on how they look, is finally addressed by men themselves as a sex-class of grown up humans.

NameChangeMay2026 · 02/06/2026 22:40

MarieDeGournay · 02/06/2026 22:37

NameChangeMay2026 No reason why TW can't use the disabled loos. People have to learn to share, since there isn't infinite space.

No reason why TW can't use the men's loos - there's no evidence they'd be in any danger there.

Why the hell should they use the disabled loos, if they are not disabled?

Disabled people campaigned for decades for the adapted facilities that they need, not that they 'prefer' or 'feel more comfortable using' or 'validates their identity'.

Disabled people need adapted toilets.
Transwomen do not.
Need.
Choice.
Not the same thing.

There isn't infinite space, so transpeople can use the existing facilities designated for their biological sex.

I think you're failing to see the risk to transwomen of certain kinds of men beating them up.

They're much safer in the disabled loos, which are almost always free anyway. People have to share, since there's not infinite space.

I don't know why you'd want to insist on TW being put into a vulnerable position. I very much doubt you would want anyone to be beaten up.

MarieDeGournay · 02/06/2026 22:37

NameChangeMay2026 No reason why TW can't use the disabled loos. People have to learn to share, since there isn't infinite space.

No reason why TW can't use the men's loos - there's no evidence they'd be in any danger there.

Why the hell should they use the disabled loos, if they are not disabled?

Disabled people campaigned for decades for the adapted facilities that they need, not that they 'prefer' or 'feel more comfortable using' or 'validates their identity'.

Disabled people need adapted toilets.
Transwomen do not.
Need.
Choice.
Not the same thing.

There isn't infinite space, so transpeople can use the existing facilities designated for their biological sex.

NameChangeMay2026 · 02/06/2026 22:16

happydappy2 · 02/06/2026 22:04

no, we're talking about men getting breast implants because they want them. thats what this thread is about

The "we" there was me and Taztoy and our last couple of sentences to each other.

happydappy2 · 02/06/2026 22:06

NameChangeMay2026 · 02/06/2026 21:41

You must surely see that a trans woman is a huge target for being physically attacked by men in the men's loos and that, if they have had much of their strength dissolved by taking hormones, it wouldn't exactly be a fair fight. I'm sure you wouldn't want an innocent person to be badly beaten, no matter their sex or gender.

No reason why TW can't use the disabled loos. People have to learn to share, since there isn't infinite space.

but trans women don't have to take any hormones to be trans....people absolutely don't have to share any space! womens are females, disabled are for disabled.

Mens are for the men-no matter how they identify, it really is that simple.

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happydappy2 · 02/06/2026 22:04

NameChangeMay2026 · 02/06/2026 21:38

Eh? Stealthing is when a man takes his condom off during sex without the permission of his partner. Did you definitely reply to the right thread? We are talking about loos.

no, we're talking about men getting breast implants because they want them. thats what this thread is about

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NameChangeMay2026 · 02/06/2026 21:41

Taztoy · 02/06/2026 20:32

That’s fine. Men can use the men’s. You know. Those men born male who are supposed, in law, to use the men’s anyway.

You must surely see that a trans woman is a huge target for being physically attacked by men in the men's loos and that, if they have had much of their strength dissolved by taking hormones, it wouldn't exactly be a fair fight. I'm sure you wouldn't want an innocent person to be badly beaten, no matter their sex or gender.

No reason why TW can't use the disabled loos. People have to learn to share, since there isn't infinite space.

NameChangeMay2026 · 02/06/2026 21:38

Taztoy · 02/06/2026 20:33

Stealthing is a crime and as a rape survivor I find the disregard for my consent appalling.

Eh? Stealthing is when a man takes his condom off during sex without the permission of his partner. Did you definitely reply to the right thread? We are talking about loos.

Taztoy · 02/06/2026 20:33

NameChangeMay2026 · 02/06/2026 19:33

I don't see what the issue is with sharing loos with trans women. Most of you probably have done so and have no idea.

Stealthing is a crime and as a rape survivor I find the disregard for my consent appalling.

Taztoy · 02/06/2026 20:32

NameChangeMay2026 · 02/06/2026 19:44

Sacrosanct is not practical. There's not enough space in most places for four spaces.

That’s fine. Men can use the men’s. You know. Those men born male who are supposed, in law, to use the men’s anyway.

Taztoy · 02/06/2026 20:30

NameChangeMay2026 · 02/06/2026 19:32

But there's not enough space for four different loo-spaces in many places. It's just not practical. The disabled loos are usually empty anyway. Why can't the third space be for disabled and Unisex?

Because disabled people already have few enough facilities and I don’t fancy pissing myself because a man won’t use the correct sex toilet.

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 02/06/2026 20:04

Kate8175 · 02/06/2026 20:02

keep up the DARVO… it all just helps other on here see your bad faith tactics

I am more than happy for anyone to read this thread. In fact, the more the merrier. That's why I keep bumping it.

Kate8175 · 02/06/2026 20:02

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 02/06/2026 20:01

A whiff of AI, but hey that's the way the world is going.

The posts are pointless becasue we can DARVO her DARVO and so on ad infinitum. I'll be back if she explains how people can change sex.

keep up the DARVO… it all just helps other on here see your bad faith tactics