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Should breast implants for males be made illegal?

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happydappy2 · 31/05/2026 10:19

Having learned more about the sexual desires of males, AGP in particular. I now think that as women we have to push back and stop this madness. We live in a world where females are vulnerable to sexual assault by males-we are literally hunted by them. Combined with the safeguarding of children aspect....all parents I know explain to young children that if you get lost, look for a lady to help you, preferably another Mummy....I know men can wear a padded bra to achieve the look, but still the thought of males getting sexual pleasure by having fake boobs & their male tackle-just seems wrong. Am I alone in thinking this? Looking at society as a whole, I can't see any benefit to women and children of men being allowed to get silicone breast implants.....

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TransParentlyAnnoyed · 31/05/2026 21:12

happydappy2 · 31/05/2026 20:21

I'm listening to males who underwent surgery thinking they were 'trans' then realised it didn't help their disphora one iota.
trans women are not treated as women because they are not women....
A male taking hormones does not develop breasts-breasts can feed infants and are amazing-a collection of fat cells in the chest area unable to produce milk is not a breast. lets be truthful here.

Boobs are boobs, let's be truthful here. They ain't magic. Lots of people never breastfeed, and that doesn't alter the fact they have boobs.

Trans women are absolutely treated as women - blamed for their own oppression, attacked because of how they look, raped because they are considered lesser humans than cis men.

Obsessing about them fixes absolutely none of the extreme violence all women live with for every second off their lives.

Women are far stronger than men, because we have to be. And that includes trans women.

Magic boobs 😁 I've breastfed three kids and it's just ordinary once you get the knack. If you can do something while you're asleep*, it ain't special

  • with supervision, obvs.
Mt563 · 31/05/2026 21:05

happydappy2 · 31/05/2026 20:54

thats laughable-it's just deflection. Like asking why doesn't battersea dogs & cats home look after giraffes

Ok. Fair.

No. I don't think it should be banned because the minor societal benefit doesn't outweigh the risk I see from setting a precedent for gender-based bans.

happydappy2 · 31/05/2026 20:54

Mt563 · 31/05/2026 20:40

But why focus on this when there are things that would make a bigger difference to women and children living alongside men, for example, men who get violent after drinking. This is far more common and impactful than a few men with implants.

thats laughable-it's just deflection. Like asking why doesn't battersea dogs & cats home look after giraffes

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Coatsoff42 · 31/05/2026 20:52

Mt563 · 31/05/2026 20:40

But why focus on this when there are things that would make a bigger difference to women and children living alongside men, for example, men who get violent after drinking. This is far more common and impactful than a few men with implants.

Yes, also we should do more to stop flytippers, and people who move into school catchment areas for one year only.
But that’s not the question being asked.

Boiledbeetle · 31/05/2026 20:41

If a man wants to pay out of his own pocket and not get it done on the NHS then what he does to his own body is entirely up to him.

As long as he is has not been pressured into having the surgery and is competent enough to understand the surgery and the potential effects of having surgery, including dying on the operating table and post operative infections, MRSA etc then it's up to him.

Until all cosmetic surgery for both sexes is made illegal it would be wrong to make it illegal for just men to not be allowed breast implants.

Mt563 · 31/05/2026 20:40

happydappy2 · 31/05/2026 20:31

no I'm asking specifically about males having silicone breast implants.
There are many things that might not be useful for society such as people jumping out of planes but I'm asking about 1 specific topic.
Perhaps you can explain to me how males having silicone implants benefits women & children-as we have to live along side these men

But why focus on this when there are things that would make a bigger difference to women and children living alongside men, for example, men who get violent after drinking. This is far more common and impactful than a few men with implants.

Taztoy · 31/05/2026 20:36

As long as they stay out of women’s single sex spaces, and pay for it themselves, it’s really up to them, fetish or not.

user293948849167 · 31/05/2026 20:36

I’m GC but voted no….they shouldn’t be available on the NHS but if a fully grown, mentally competent man wants to buy himself some boobs he should be able to (just don’t ask me to call him a woman!)

happydappy2 · 31/05/2026 20:34

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 31/05/2026 20:20

Cis men are a danger to society. Pretending that legislating against a minority will fix that is distracting from that truth.

1 in 4 women & 1 in 6 men, minimum, have suffered sexual abuse. I don't know a single woman who hasn't been sexually assaulted in some way, often multiple times starting from childhood.

If trans women were the danger, then the same few (despicable) faces wouldn't need to be recycled.

Trans women simply exist, and are deeply vulnerable to sexual assault themselves.

what is the difference between a cis man and a trans woman? They are both male are they not?

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GCornotGCthatisthequestion · 31/05/2026 20:33

I don't think anyone has ever made the claim that women and children benefit from men having breast implants.

I would say that we all benefit from living in a free society where adults can make decisions about their own body that others find horrific.

happydappy2 · 31/05/2026 20:31

Mt563 · 31/05/2026 20:28

So you're suggesting banning things which aren't useful to society in the interest of protecting people?

May I suggest we focus on alcohol then? We've already effectively banned smoking. Alcohol is a big cause of male violence. Much more so than trans people. If your concern is really protecting women by banning things.

no I'm asking specifically about males having silicone breast implants.
There are many things that might not be useful for society such as people jumping out of planes but I'm asking about 1 specific topic.
Perhaps you can explain to me how males having silicone implants benefits women & children-as we have to live along side these men

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Coatsoff42 · 31/05/2026 20:30

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 31/05/2026 20:20

Cis men are a danger to society. Pretending that legislating against a minority will fix that is distracting from that truth.

1 in 4 women & 1 in 6 men, minimum, have suffered sexual abuse. I don't know a single woman who hasn't been sexually assaulted in some way, often multiple times starting from childhood.

If trans women were the danger, then the same few (despicable) faces wouldn't need to be recycled.

Trans women simply exist, and are deeply vulnerable to sexual assault themselves.

This cis-male nonsense annoys me as there is no way of identifying that it is gender conforming men who are the abusers. No one can see the inner identity conflict in their abuser. Are they genderqueer? Are they stealth transgender? Are they non-binary but unable to disclose it to their friends and family? We can only ever see a body and describe that.
Assuming all men are cis male based on their appearance alone is the kind of gender stereotyped, blinkered thinking most modern people hate. And it has no bearing on crime stats or legislation.

happydappy2 · 31/05/2026 20:28

GCornotGCthatisthequestion · 31/05/2026 20:25

Would you treat males and females differently in this regard? Banning breast implants for men but allowing women to have them removed?

the reasons females wish to present as male are very different to the reasons males wish to present as female. In a sane world I don't see any benefit for a female to have her healthy breasts removed. It means if she changes her mind later, and has a baby, she won't be able to breast feed. What are the benefits for that woman and her potential future child?

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Mt563 · 31/05/2026 20:28

happydappy2 · 31/05/2026 20:17

That is a great question-as I said earlier, they can achieve the same affect by wearing a padded bra. But the question remains, is it beneficial to society as a whole, to have males with silicone breast implants? Or is it feeding males delusions & sexual fetishes?

So you're suggesting banning things which aren't useful to society in the interest of protecting people?

May I suggest we focus on alcohol then? We've already effectively banned smoking. Alcohol is a big cause of male violence. Much more so than trans people. If your concern is really protecting women by banning things.

happydappy2 · 31/05/2026 20:25

some people are very concerned that males with gender disphoria are being badly let down

some people think that there are 2 sexes and many different ways to express yourself but trying to become the opposite sex is impossible

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GCornotGCthatisthequestion · 31/05/2026 20:25

happydappy2 · 31/05/2026 20:23

I'm asking about males getting silicone implants-you are talking about a female who had surgery

Would you treat males and females differently in this regard? Banning breast implants for men but allowing women to have them removed?

Mt563 · 31/05/2026 20:24

Trans people are a tiny minority. Of that, male agps are a tiny minority of that tiny minority. Those with breast implants likely an even smaller part of that tiny minority of a tiny minority.

There really are bigger things to worry about. It does feel like some people are just obsessed with trans people.

GCornotGCthatisthequestion · 31/05/2026 20:23

is it beneficial to society as a whole, to have males with silicone breast implants? Or is it feeding males delusions & sexual fetishes?

It could be both or neither. It doesn't have to be a binary choice between one or the other.

happydappy2 · 31/05/2026 20:23

GCornotGCthatisthequestion · 31/05/2026 20:20

You literally said that gender dysphoria isn't cured by surgery in the post I quoted. I was giving an example to counter your sweeping blanket statement.

I'm asking about males getting silicone implants-you are talking about a female who had surgery

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MarieDeGournay · 31/05/2026 20:22

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 31/05/2026 20:07

Your inability to grasp that some people are just trans is the issue here.

Trans men, trans women and non-binary people don't exist for sexual reasons.

If trans women don't conform to gender stereotypes, they are not treated as women. It is societal insistence on gender role play which encourages medical transition.

Let me give you an example. Trans boys dramatically reduce their use of binders when they are accepted as boys.

And given that your 'reading' hasn't helped you realise that trans women develop breasts as a result of hormones then I hardly think you're qualified to make judgements about them.

Try reading what trans people themselves sat, rather than transphobic propaganda.

If trans women don't conform to gender stereotypes, they are not treated as women. It is societal insistence on gender role play which encourages medical transition.

That's a very useful point which shows the futility of so called 'medical transition', you should share that insight with gender-questioning people:

Don't bother trying to conform to gender stereotypes of 'what a woman looks like', whatever that may be. Save yourself the time, money, pain and suffering.

You'll never be a woman no matter what you do, no matter what surgical interventions you get done, you'll always be male.

Even if you get a GRC, you'll still be male. You'll probably still look like a male, too, things like height and gait and hands and feet tend to be a giveaway, which would be disappointing if you've gone to all the pain and expense of medical transitioning.

In short, be gender critical - gender stereotypes are dead end for everybody.

happydappy2 · 31/05/2026 20:21

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 31/05/2026 20:07

Your inability to grasp that some people are just trans is the issue here.

Trans men, trans women and non-binary people don't exist for sexual reasons.

If trans women don't conform to gender stereotypes, they are not treated as women. It is societal insistence on gender role play which encourages medical transition.

Let me give you an example. Trans boys dramatically reduce their use of binders when they are accepted as boys.

And given that your 'reading' hasn't helped you realise that trans women develop breasts as a result of hormones then I hardly think you're qualified to make judgements about them.

Try reading what trans people themselves sat, rather than transphobic propaganda.

I'm listening to males who underwent surgery thinking they were 'trans' then realised it didn't help their disphora one iota.
trans women are not treated as women because they are not women....
A male taking hormones does not develop breasts-breasts can feed infants and are amazing-a collection of fat cells in the chest area unable to produce milk is not a breast. lets be truthful here.

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TransParentlyAnnoyed · 31/05/2026 20:20

AnotherVice · 31/05/2026 19:58

It only affects everyone else if everyone else has to pay for it
It doesn’t though. As OP clearly explains. AGPs are a danger to society.

Cis men are a danger to society. Pretending that legislating against a minority will fix that is distracting from that truth.

1 in 4 women & 1 in 6 men, minimum, have suffered sexual abuse. I don't know a single woman who hasn't been sexually assaulted in some way, often multiple times starting from childhood.

If trans women were the danger, then the same few (despicable) faces wouldn't need to be recycled.

Trans women simply exist, and are deeply vulnerable to sexual assault themselves.

GCornotGCthatisthequestion · 31/05/2026 20:20

happydappy2 · 31/05/2026 20:13

ok so not really relevant to this thread?

You literally said that gender dysphoria isn't cured by surgery in the post I quoted. I was giving an example to counter your sweeping blanket statement.

happydappy2 · 31/05/2026 20:17

GCornotGCthatisthequestion · 31/05/2026 20:05

Is an AGP without breast implants any less dangerous than one with breast implants?

That is a great question-as I said earlier, they can achieve the same affect by wearing a padded bra. But the question remains, is it beneficial to society as a whole, to have males with silicone breast implants? Or is it feeding males delusions & sexual fetishes?

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TransParentlyAnnoyed · 31/05/2026 20:16

GCornotGCthatisthequestion · 31/05/2026 20:05

Is an AGP without breast implants any less dangerous than one with breast implants?

Dehumanising entire minorities by labelling them sexually predatory is an age-old tactic used against gay people & people of colour. It's now being used against trans women.

Violent cis men were, are and always will be the biggest risk to women, and it's addressing that (immense) danger with education and through rape justice which women want.

So much easier to vilify a minority than confront the things cis men do and act against them. Years after the vast scale of drug-assisted rape first became clear, there is still no organised response against it, for example.