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Should breast implants for males be made illegal?

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happydappy2 · 31/05/2026 10:19

Having learned more about the sexual desires of males, AGP in particular. I now think that as women we have to push back and stop this madness. We live in a world where females are vulnerable to sexual assault by males-we are literally hunted by them. Combined with the safeguarding of children aspect....all parents I know explain to young children that if you get lost, look for a lady to help you, preferably another Mummy....I know men can wear a padded bra to achieve the look, but still the thought of males getting sexual pleasure by having fake boobs & their male tackle-just seems wrong. Am I alone in thinking this? Looking at society as a whole, I can't see any benefit to women and children of men being allowed to get silicone breast implants.....

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Kate8175 · 01/06/2026 13:09

Their body their choice - isn’t that one of the basic tenets of feminism? We shouldn’t be telling people - women, men, cis or trans what to do with their bodies

LlynTegid · 01/06/2026 13:07

I would prefer that breast implants were only for women who have had illness or accident, such as a masectomy because of cancer. Indeed that is my view of cosmetic surgery in general.

My view won't prevail, so as long as not on the NHS, no issue.

TheKeatingFive · 01/06/2026 13:06

SinuousTendrils · 01/06/2026 13:00

What if, as a small child, you looked at your body and had a penis, or some approximation of one, despite having internal female organs?
I'm not sure your clear cut idea of how the world works would apply here.
It happens more often than you might like.

A small child with an extremely rare and complex DSD should be guided by their parents in this kind of situation, having established, medically, what sex they actually are.

Which has absolutely nothing to do with children being 'transed'.

Taztoy · 01/06/2026 13:05

SinuousTendrils · 01/06/2026 13:02

Just because you don't agree with something doesn't mean it's any less true 😊

Humans cannot change sex. To say otherwise is a lie.

humans can present as they choose but they can’t, in the uk, access single sex spaces other than those of the sex of which they were born

TheKeatingFive · 01/06/2026 13:04

SinuousTendrils · 01/06/2026 13:02

Just because you don't agree with something doesn't mean it's any less true 😊

No that's not the case. Facts are facts. No human has ever changed sex. Fact.

SinuousTendrils · 01/06/2026 13:02

TheKeatingFive · 01/06/2026 12:58

Well of course. However humans still can't change sex.

Just because you don't agree with something doesn't mean it's any less true 😊

SinuousTendrils · 01/06/2026 13:00

PrettyDamnCosmic · 01/06/2026 12:52

Did people on this forum know they were female at age 4? I am guessing yes. So what can't trans people know they are trans at age 4?

Sex is real so knowing whether you are male or female is as simple as looking at your own body. So called "trans" is just a made up thing that no 4 year old would conceive of without the coercion of adults. There is no such thing as a "trans" child just parents who want a "trans" child.

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What if, as a small child, you looked at your body and had a penis, or some approximation of one, despite having internal female organs?
I'm not sure your clear cut idea of how the world works would apply here.
It happens more often than you might like.

TheKeatingFive · 01/06/2026 12:58

SinuousTendrils · 01/06/2026 12:57

I am not sure you would be able to understand if that wasn't your experience.
People experience the world in different ways to the way you do.

Well of course. However humans still can't change sex.

TheKeatingFive · 01/06/2026 12:57

SinuousTendrils · 01/06/2026 12:55

It does happen and it isn't rare.

No it doesn't

What's with the blatant lying?

PrettyDamnCosmic · 01/06/2026 12:57

SinuousTendrils · 01/06/2026 12:55

It does happen and it isn't rare.

It does happen and it isn't rare.

I am a retired doctor. This is utter bollocks. Why lie about this when you will be caught out so easily?

SinuousTendrils · 01/06/2026 12:57

AWeeCupOfTeaAndAnIndividualFruitTrifle · 01/06/2026 12:43

How do you know you're not Donald Trump, or another race/nationality, or a tiger, or an iPad, or a tea-towel, or Warrington train station?

There was a woman once who 'married' the Berlin Wall - when did you first realise and come to acceptance of the fact that you didn't fancy brick walls (assuming that you don't)?

I am not sure you would be able to understand if that wasn't your experience.
People experience the world in different ways to the way you do.

SinuousTendrils · 01/06/2026 12:55

PrettyDamnCosmic · 01/06/2026 12:47

There are photographs of exactly this (children being born with both sets of genitalia) in the hospital i work in.

No there aren't. No child is born with both sets of genitalia. It's developmentally & embryologically impossible. A few rare DSDs may have ambiguous genitalia but that's different. The true sex may need to be verified by examining chromoomes.

It does happen and it isn't rare.

PrettyDamnCosmic · 01/06/2026 12:52

KG74 · 01/06/2026 12:36

Did people on this forum know they were female at age 4? I am guessing yes. So what can't trans people know they are trans at age 4?

Did people on this forum know they were female at age 4? I am guessing yes. So what can't trans people know they are trans at age 4?

Sex is real so knowing whether you are male or female is as simple as looking at your own body. So called "trans" is just a made up thing that no 4 year old would conceive of without the coercion of adults. There is no such thing as a "trans" child just parents who want a "trans" child.

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 01/06/2026 12:50

@TransParentlyAnnoyed Treating trans people as a conspiracy is encouraging violent men to believe that attacking them - even killing them - is socially acceptable.

Can you show us the evidence of this happening in the UK? Surely the BBC would do an entire webpage on it every time it happened, if it were true.

PrettyDamnCosmic · 01/06/2026 12:47

SinuousTendrils · 01/06/2026 12:35

There are photographs of exactly this (children being born with both sets of genitalia) in the hospital i work in.

There are photographs of exactly this (children being born with both sets of genitalia) in the hospital i work in.

No there aren't. No child is born with both sets of genitalia. It's developmentally & embryologically impossible. A few rare DSDs may have ambiguous genitalia but that's different. The true sex may need to be verified by examining chromoomes.

AWeeCupOfTeaAndAnIndividualFruitTrifle · 01/06/2026 12:43

SinuousTendrils · 01/06/2026 12:34

How do you know you're not?

How do you know you're not Donald Trump, or another race/nationality, or a tiger, or an iPad, or a tea-towel, or Warrington train station?

There was a woman once who 'married' the Berlin Wall - when did you first realise and come to acceptance of the fact that you didn't fancy brick walls (assuming that you don't)?

PrettyDamnCosmic · 01/06/2026 12:41

SinuousTendrils · 01/06/2026 10:52

Son. See above.

Son. See above.

No it's a daughter abusing testosterone who wants to be a boy but never will be.

TheKeatingFive · 01/06/2026 12:41

SinuousTendrils · 01/06/2026 12:37

You repeatedly misgendering someone's child.

Correctly sexing

TheKeatingFive · 01/06/2026 12:40

KG74 · 01/06/2026 12:36

Did people on this forum know they were female at age 4? I am guessing yes. So what can't trans people know they are trans at age 4?

Children know what sex they are at 4 because of their physical make up.

What would alert them to being 'trans'?

TheKeatingFive · 01/06/2026 12:38

SinuousTendrils · 01/06/2026 12:35

There are photographs of exactly this (children being born with both sets of genitalia) in the hospital i work in.

That's utter nonsense. No human has ever been born with complete sets of both genitalia.

And what's that got to do with being 'trans' anyway?

SinuousTendrils · 01/06/2026 12:37

Helleofabore · 01/06/2026 12:03

what is grim!

You repeatedly misgendering someone's child.

Taztoy · 01/06/2026 12:37

SinuousTendrils · 01/06/2026 12:35

There are photographs of exactly this (children being born with both sets of genitalia) in the hospital i work in.

That doesn’t mean they aren’t one sex or the other. As I understand it, all cases of dsd are disorders of sexual development of one or other sex.

KG74 · 01/06/2026 12:36

Did people on this forum know they were female at age 4? I am guessing yes. So what can't trans people know they are trans at age 4?

SinuousTendrils · 01/06/2026 12:35

TheKeatingFive · 01/06/2026 12:16

Your child is/was gender non conforming. They are not somehow the opposite sex. You are in a hiding to nothing trying to get the rest of the world to pretend that they are.

That is not because of 'transphobia' that is because we all know humans can't change sex, it's basic scientific principle.

There are photographs of exactly this (children being born with both sets of genitalia) in the hospital i work in.

AWeeCupOfTeaAndAnIndividualFruitTrifle · 01/06/2026 12:35

happydappy2 · 01/06/2026 12:15

how can a child know they are trans age 4? How can a 4 year old even be aware of the concept of transexuals?

I still remember when my DNephew was around that age and wearing his Thomas the Tank Engine dress-up costume. I said "Wow, you really do look like Thomas, don't you?!" and this upset him, because he angrily stamped his feet insisted "No, I don't look like Thomas - I AM Thomas!"

It made perfect sense to him in his 4yo mind, and I, as an adult, was being really mean for not instantly understanding and accepting 'his truth'. My DN is now 20, he hasn't dressed up as TtTE for a very long time and he identifies as a young man... because he now has a mature mind and understands that this is exactly what he is in actuality.

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