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Good Law Project to report Sex Matters over 'deviant' remark

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IwantToRetire · 27/05/2026 19:47

In its assessment of the EHRC guidance, Sex Matters took issue with the following phrase: "It is unlikely to be either practical or appropriate to approach any particular individual to make enquiries about their sex in relation to facilities, such as toilets, which are incidental to the primary service.”

The sex-based rights group responded in a publication entitled <a class="break-all" href="https://archive.is/o/lLjDq/sex-matters.org/posts/updates/sex-is-not-special-category-data/?ref=ed_latest" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">"Sex is not a 'special category' data", saying: "There is no legal basis for this instruction, which in effect licenses men to enter women’s facilities and claim that it is inappropriate, possibly unlawful and a breach of their human rights to challenge them."

The group further stated: "Telling staff supervising single-sex spaces that they must second-guess themselves when they become aware of a man engaging in the deviant behaviour of accessing a female-only space, or risk breaching data-protection law, will lead to unwanted conduct related to the protected characteristic of sex that is likely to meet the definition of harassment in the Equality Act. It 'violates a person’s dignity or creates an intimidating, hostile, degrading, humiliating, or offensive environment'."

From article at https://www.thenational.scot/news/26143769.good-law-project-report-sex-matters-deviant-remark/
and at https://archive.is/lLjDq

Good Law Project to report Sex Matters over 'deviant' remark

The Good Law Project is set to lodge a formal complaint with the Charity Commission after accusing an anti-trans campaign group of describing 'women…

https://www.thenational.scot/news/26143769.good-law-project-report-sex-matters-deviant-remark/

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HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 30/05/2026 09:06

What is this batshit argument? Women of the (first) world, empower yourselves by letting some men into your spaces, take risks by inviting in those who particularly enjoy crossing your boundaries, accept personal responsibility when it all goes wrong.
Sounds more like coercion than autonomy to me.

The answer is always going to be, No.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 30/05/2026 08:39

The law has been made clear. The whining has been epic. All these men know they are in the wrong in accessing women’s spaces. They do it because they don’t care.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 30/05/2026 08:38

Any man knowingly violating women’s boundaries is an automatic red flag.

StillSpartacus · 30/05/2026 08:36

Keeptoiletssafe · 29/05/2026 06:40

Councils are not responsible for many toilets anymore. Years of misuse, subsequent funding issues and the fact they are not legally obliged to provide toilet provision means that this exercise was always going to be futile.

Why would the council log a complaint about a man being in the women’s toilets at a pub? Or a workplace? What would they log it under? Why would anyone think to ring up the council - what would that achieve?

The only thing the very time consuming report shows is that there is no system in place for people to collate what’s going on in toilets.

Exactly. I encountered a bloke in the ladies in a pub in Oxford last night. His pink shorts, long hair and trans tattoo, didn’t in any way disguise his Adam’s apple or the fact that he was 6 foot tall with wide shoulders.

But who was I going to complain to?

He should have had the decency to stay out of a space where he didn’t belong. He didn’t have that decency. He didn’t respect the law and he didn’t comply with behaviour conventions. Thus I consider his actions were deviant.

nicepotoftea · 30/05/2026 08:34

Going back to the topic of the thread, it might be that Sex Matters is demonstrating Victorian sensibilities when they suggest that men who wish to enter women's spaces are deviant, but having Victorian sensibilities isn't grounds for complaint to the Charities Commission.

PrettyDamnCosmic · 30/05/2026 08:14

Ereshkigalangcleg · 30/05/2026 08:00

I imagine she does tbh. She has zero truck with transgenderism though so I don’t know why Bailey is citing her in support of their odd arguments.

I doubt they even knew who Camille Paglia is. They are just Googling & posting links they don’t even understand.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 30/05/2026 08:00

Heggettypeg · 30/05/2026 05:54

While we're at it, what does Camille Paglia think about women's refuges? Does she think the abused women who go there are just wimps who should have stayed at home and toughed it out?

I imagine she does tbh. She has zero truck with transgenderism though so I don’t know why Bailey is citing her in support of their odd arguments.

KnottyAuty · 30/05/2026 07:54

Shedmistress · 30/05/2026 03:54

I know it is difficult for activists but did you literally just Google 'why do they have separate toilets'?

I asked why YOU think we have separate sex toilets? Why are there rules around why they put signs up when male cleaners are in there? Why do they exist now?

Exactly what I thought - Bailey needs to also needs to read further than the top search result. On the other hand the naive and ignorant debating tactics have proved a useful talking point at home with the DC, so this poster has been a useful idiot in that regard. And whereas I’d not been feeling much like writing a legal take-down on some NHS policy, he’s 100% irritated me into doing it by the end of the weekend. So he’s quite the public servant!

nicepotoftea · 30/05/2026 06:46

Baileyonice · 30/05/2026 04:21

Because they are a vestige from the Victorian era with recent decades of resistance. Patriarchal influences die hard it appears.

Interestingly before then, communal was quite the thing.

Do you not think there would be any reason why women would want the ability to exclude men in some situations? Who is in control if they don't have the choice?

nicepotoftea · 30/05/2026 06:35

Baileyonice · 30/05/2026 04:14

It's a historical analysis of reasoning which isn't really relevant today.
I'm not trans so I can't speak for them & like all groups I'm sure they aren't a monolith in thinking. But I can speak for myself as a woman & say I have zero issues with unisex toilets but I can empathise with being discriminated in the right to chose.

So would you be happy if you had a choice of unisex and single sex toilets?

Does that seem fair?

Heggettypeg · 30/05/2026 05:54

While we're at it, what does Camille Paglia think about women's refuges? Does she think the abused women who go there are just wimps who should have stayed at home and toughed it out?

Heggettypeg · 30/05/2026 05:39

Baileyonice · 30/05/2026 03:59

It seems there's a wilful determination to ignore the difference between women having the use of a temporary refuge from the patriarchal gaze, and women being forbidden to leave it.

The problem with this bad faith analysis is it just assumes there's only one 'legitimate' approach to feminism as in 'safetyism'. I'm not suggesting there isn't legitimate justification to this approach but rather that's not the only one. Where safetyism feminism focuses on protection, safe spaces, and framing women as inherently vulnerable to systemic harm or micro aggressions, Agency/Power feminism focuses on autonomy, personal responsibility, empowerment & risk taking.

Camille Paglia provides a great insight into this:

"Paglia: When I arrived in college in 1964, in loco parentis was operative. I was in a girl's dorm. We had a sign-in at 11:00 at night. The boys could run free. They had panty raids. We threw water at them out the windows and so on. My generation of women rose up and said, "Get out of our private lives!" And the university said, "No, the world is dangerous. We must protect you against rape and attack and all those things." And we said, "Give us freedom! Give us freedom to risk rape! That is true freedom!”

https://reason.com/2015/05/30/everythings-awesome-and-camill/

Agency feminists think safetyism promotes women as being inherently weak & by extension regresses to separate sphere of influence structures.

I suspect how a woman approaches feminism like other politics has a lot to do with individual personality traits, experience & cultural influences.

"Freedom to risk rape" is not the same as having nowhere to get away from it. The latter is not choice and not empowering. And it's not just rape, its all the other lesser but still shitty male shit.

You are confusing allowing women and girls to take risks in pursuit of experience (which is what Camille Paglia wanted) with forcing them to take completely pointless risks by doing away with basic sensible single-sex facilities.

There are plenty of opportunities for modern women to put themselves in the way of getting raped (if that's how they define freedom) without demolishing basic protections for other women in the process. If a woman wants to live dangerously, she doesn't need a mixed sex toilet (or changing room, hospital ward or prison cell) to do it in.

Wearenotborg · 30/05/2026 05:30

Baileyonice · 30/05/2026 05:02

oh yeah nice white civilised men completely different

The data on sexual violence between poor/wealthy warring/peaceful jurisdictions speaks for itself.

More grim was young women taking up cam-girling to prove their non-safetyist credentials.

It never gets old excusing capitalism & instead blaming women's liberty for the debasement of society.

So as Oxfam are campaigning for single sex toilets in India and Africa, are you saying Oxfam are racist? If unisex toilets are so safe, why do Oxfam consider it an urgent need?

Wearenotborg · 30/05/2026 05:28

Baileyonice · 30/05/2026 04:14

It's a historical analysis of reasoning which isn't really relevant today.
I'm not trans so I can't speak for them & like all groups I'm sure they aren't a monolith in thinking. But I can speak for myself as a woman & say I have zero issues with unisex toilets but I can empathise with being discriminated in the right to chose.

Great. So, as transpeople say using unisex toilets is “outing”, you can use those toilets with them, women and men needing single sex toilets can use them and everyone is happy right?

Baileyonice · 30/05/2026 05:02

SundayBangor · 30/05/2026 04:43

oh yeah nice white civilised men completely different
Sorry I forgot
But oh my salad days the memories flooding back! Were you reading in a pomo addled humanities department in the 90s? I remember women swearing blind the women's toilets in their department were beats too!! See we're just as cool as the boys. Crazy days but at least it was all safely cloistered in the ivory towers and not spewing out into public policy and legislation.
More grim was young women taking up cam-girling to prove their non-safetyist credentials. Paglia was bright and instightful but she was bloody irresponsible at times, too.

oh yeah nice white civilised men completely different

The data on sexual violence between poor/wealthy warring/peaceful jurisdictions speaks for itself.

More grim was young women taking up cam-girling to prove their non-safetyist credentials.

It never gets old excusing capitalism & instead blaming women's liberty for the debasement of society.

Shedmistress · 30/05/2026 04:58

'Why am I writing this sign 'male cleaner in attendance' again?
'Because of the Victorian Patriarchy dumbass'

SundayBangor · 30/05/2026 04:43

Baileyonice · 30/05/2026 04:16

Poverty & safety issues go hand in hand. We ain't talkin' third world conditions here.

oh yeah nice white civilised men completely different
Sorry I forgot
But oh my salad days the memories flooding back! Were you reading in a pomo addled humanities department in the 90s? I remember women swearing blind the women's toilets in their department were beats too!! See we're just as cool as the boys. Crazy days but at least it was all safely cloistered in the ivory towers and not spewing out into public policy and legislation.
More grim was young women taking up cam-girling to prove their non-safetyist credentials. Paglia was bright and instightful but she was bloody irresponsible at times, too.

Shedmistress · 30/05/2026 04:28

Baileyonice · 30/05/2026 04:21

Because they are a vestige from the Victorian era with recent decades of resistance. Patriarchal influences die hard it appears.

Interestingly before then, communal was quite the thing.

You think they put signs up when a man is cleaning a woman's toilet because of the Victorians?

Is there evidence of Victorians putting signs up when men cleaned toilets? Do you think men cleaned any toilets in Victorian times?

Baileyonice · 30/05/2026 04:21

Shedmistress · 30/05/2026 03:54

I know it is difficult for activists but did you literally just Google 'why do they have separate toilets'?

I asked why YOU think we have separate sex toilets? Why are there rules around why they put signs up when male cleaners are in there? Why do they exist now?

Because they are a vestige from the Victorian era with recent decades of resistance. Patriarchal influences die hard it appears.

Interestingly before then, communal was quite the thing.

Baileyonice · 30/05/2026 04:16

SundayBangor · 30/05/2026 04:11

Oh, this make more sense. That other article you posted is really very strange.
Oxfam and other aid workers campaign for women's separate amenities in refugee camps, and cities with large numbers of impoverished people living in slums. I can't get my head around the argument that what they're campaigning for is an opportunity for displaced and impoverished women to play at being weak, dainty ladies.
Safety, dignity, privacy. Straightforward, no silly nonsense.

Poverty & safety issues go hand in hand. We ain't talkin' third world conditions here.

Baileyonice · 30/05/2026 04:14

SundayBangor · 30/05/2026 03:56

So you would say this is the most common understanding of the reason for sex segregated amenities among trans women? That it's about a social performance of feminine weakness?
And they want to be able to pasrtipate in that performance, hence the fight for access to women's amenities?
That's quite the revealing misunderstanding.

It's a historical analysis of reasoning which isn't really relevant today.
I'm not trans so I can't speak for them & like all groups I'm sure they aren't a monolith in thinking. But I can speak for myself as a woman & say I have zero issues with unisex toilets but I can empathise with being discriminated in the right to chose.

SundayBangor · 30/05/2026 04:11

Baileyonice · 30/05/2026 01:25

"The article is about the USA, so of limited relevance here."

"Our Patriarchy isn't the same as theirs!"

😂

"In Victorian Britain, most public toilets were designed for men. Of course, this affected women’s ability to leave the home, as women who wished to travel had to plan their route to include areas where they could relieve themselves. Thus, women never travelled much further than where family and friends resided. This is often called the ‘urinary leash’, as women could only go so far as their bladders would allow them."

"However, the plans for a women’s toilet were set back by several years as men opposed the women’s toilets being situated next to the men’s.
In some cases, plans for women’s toilets were deliberately sabotaged. When a model of a women’s toilet was set up on the pavement in Camden High Street, hansom cabs (driven by men) deliberately drove into the model toilet to demonstrate that it was situated in a most inconvenient position!"

https://www.historic-uk.com/CultureUK/History-of-Womens-Public-Toilets-in-Britain/

Oh, this make more sense. That other article you posted is really very strange.
Oxfam and other aid workers campaign for women's separate amenities in refugee camps, and cities with large numbers of impoverished people living in slums. I can't get my head around the argument that what they're campaigning for is an opportunity for displaced and impoverished women to play at being weak, dainty ladies.
Safety, dignity, privacy. Straightforward, no silly nonsense.

Baileyonice · 30/05/2026 03:59

Heggettypeg · 30/05/2026 03:32

Tell that to Elizabeth Fry. Prisons were mixed sex before they were single sex, and ending that wasn't just a matter of Victorian pearl-clutching about "proper spheres". There are very sound reasons why the Geneva Convention still specifies single sex for imprisonment. If men can, some will.
And I've no doubt that the women who campaigned for women's toilets were also under no illusions about how they'd be treated if they tried to colonise the gents'. Unlike transwomen intruding on women, they didn't have the physical advantage. And perhaps they had a bit of respect for the privacy and dignity of the men they would have been imposing their presence on, as well as for their own. It's not all about violence, sure, but it doesn't have to be. Not unless you're so scared of being thought prudish that you daren't expect - or allow others - any privacy at all.

Men and women do many things together now - many more than were possible in Victorian times; so why this sudden melodramatic screaming about "segregation" in relation to the very few spaces that are still single sex? It seems there's a wilful determination to ignore the difference between women having the use of a temporary refuge from the patriarchal gaze, and women being forbidden to leave it.

But of course, it isn't really about women's rights and freedoms at all, is it? If they were good little girls and let transwomen use the ladies', we wouldn't be hearing a word about "segregation".

It seems there's a wilful determination to ignore the difference between women having the use of a temporary refuge from the patriarchal gaze, and women being forbidden to leave it.

The problem with this bad faith analysis is it just assumes there's only one 'legitimate' approach to feminism as in 'safetyism'. I'm not suggesting there isn't legitimate justification to this approach but rather that's not the only one. Where safetyism feminism focuses on protection, safe spaces, and framing women as inherently vulnerable to systemic harm or micro aggressions, Agency/Power feminism focuses on autonomy, personal responsibility, empowerment & risk taking.

Camille Paglia provides a great insight into this:

"Paglia: When I arrived in college in 1964, in loco parentis was operative. I was in a girl's dorm. We had a sign-in at 11:00 at night. The boys could run free. They had panty raids. We threw water at them out the windows and so on. My generation of women rose up and said, "Get out of our private lives!" And the university said, "No, the world is dangerous. We must protect you against rape and attack and all those things." And we said, "Give us freedom! Give us freedom to risk rape! That is true freedom!”

https://reason.com/2015/05/30/everythings-awesome-and-camill/

Agency feminists think safetyism promotes women as being inherently weak & by extension regresses to separate sphere of influence structures.

I suspect how a woman approaches feminism like other politics has a lot to do with individual personality traits, experience & cultural influences.

Everything's Awesome and Camille Paglia Is Unhappy!

The author of Sexual Personae talks about feminism, rape, academia, and Hillary Clinton.

https://reason.com/2015/05/30/everythings-awesome-and-camill/

SundayBangor · 30/05/2026 03:56

Baileyonice · 29/05/2026 23:23

Be careful what you wish for.

You can always rely on convenient assumptions by GC anhistorique 'feminists' that ironically excuse & enable patriarchal influences.

"In fact, laws in the U.S. did not even address the issue of separating public restrooms by sex until the end of the 19th century, when Massachusetts became the first state to enact such a statute. By 1920, over 40 states had adopted similar legislation requiring that public restrooms be separated by sex.
So why did states in the U.S. begin passing such laws? Were legislators merely recognizing natural anatomical differences between men and women?

I’ve studied the history of the legal and cultural norms that require the separation of public bathrooms by sex, and it’s clear that there was nothing so benign about the enactment of these laws. Rather, these laws were rooted in the so-called “separate spheres ideology” of the early-19th century – the idea that, in order to protect the virtue of women, they needed to stay in the home to take care of the children and household chores.

In modern times, such a view of women’s proper place would be readily dismissed as sexist. By highlighting the sexist origin of laws mandating sex-separation of public restrooms, I hope to provide grounds for at least reconsidering their continued existence."

https://theconversation.com/how-did-public-bathrooms-get-to-be-separated-by-sex-in-the-first-place-59575

So you would say this is the most common understanding of the reason for sex segregated amenities among trans women? That it's about a social performance of feminine weakness?
And they want to be able to pasrtipate in that performance, hence the fight for access to women's amenities?
That's quite the revealing misunderstanding.

Shedmistress · 30/05/2026 03:54

Baileyonice · 29/05/2026 23:23

Be careful what you wish for.

You can always rely on convenient assumptions by GC anhistorique 'feminists' that ironically excuse & enable patriarchal influences.

"In fact, laws in the U.S. did not even address the issue of separating public restrooms by sex until the end of the 19th century, when Massachusetts became the first state to enact such a statute. By 1920, over 40 states had adopted similar legislation requiring that public restrooms be separated by sex.
So why did states in the U.S. begin passing such laws? Were legislators merely recognizing natural anatomical differences between men and women?

I’ve studied the history of the legal and cultural norms that require the separation of public bathrooms by sex, and it’s clear that there was nothing so benign about the enactment of these laws. Rather, these laws were rooted in the so-called “separate spheres ideology” of the early-19th century – the idea that, in order to protect the virtue of women, they needed to stay in the home to take care of the children and household chores.

In modern times, such a view of women’s proper place would be readily dismissed as sexist. By highlighting the sexist origin of laws mandating sex-separation of public restrooms, I hope to provide grounds for at least reconsidering their continued existence."

https://theconversation.com/how-did-public-bathrooms-get-to-be-separated-by-sex-in-the-first-place-59575

I know it is difficult for activists but did you literally just Google 'why do they have separate toilets'?

I asked why YOU think we have separate sex toilets? Why are there rules around why they put signs up when male cleaners are in there? Why do they exist now?

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