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Good Law Project to report Sex Matters over 'deviant' remark

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IwantToRetire · 27/05/2026 19:47

In its assessment of the EHRC guidance, Sex Matters took issue with the following phrase: "It is unlikely to be either practical or appropriate to approach any particular individual to make enquiries about their sex in relation to facilities, such as toilets, which are incidental to the primary service.”

The sex-based rights group responded in a publication entitled <a class="break-all" href="https://archive.is/o/lLjDq/sex-matters.org/posts/updates/sex-is-not-special-category-data/?ref=ed_latest" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">"Sex is not a 'special category' data", saying: "There is no legal basis for this instruction, which in effect licenses men to enter women’s facilities and claim that it is inappropriate, possibly unlawful and a breach of their human rights to challenge them."

The group further stated: "Telling staff supervising single-sex spaces that they must second-guess themselves when they become aware of a man engaging in the deviant behaviour of accessing a female-only space, or risk breaching data-protection law, will lead to unwanted conduct related to the protected characteristic of sex that is likely to meet the definition of harassment in the Equality Act. It 'violates a person’s dignity or creates an intimidating, hostile, degrading, humiliating, or offensive environment'."

From article at https://www.thenational.scot/news/26143769.good-law-project-report-sex-matters-deviant-remark/
and at https://archive.is/lLjDq

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nicepotoftea · 28/05/2026 18:25

IwantToRetire · 28/05/2026 18:09

Again this is assuming men like this care about this more subtle aspect of the problem and threat they are creating for women.

If they respected this they would never have made the determinded and ongiong onslaught of women only facilities.

If men were likelt to respond to a subtle suggestion they are conforming to expected behaviour must be living in cloud cuckoo land.

What they are doing is illegal.

They need to understand that.

What we need to know is what level of punishment they will incure for their illegal behaviour.

Seriously! Does anyone think the men who should be taking notice are going to go, oh my goodness, it never occured to me that I was being deviant!

Just as men dont think it is deviant to think man have a right to buy women's bodies.

Confused

The problem is that 'illegal' is quite a specific word.

It isn't a crime to walk into an opposite sex toilet, and you aren't going to face any kind of prosecution unless you refuse to leave and/or are found different of another crime.

IwantToRetire · 28/05/2026 18:09

nicepotoftea · 28/05/2026 10:29

I also think that Helen Joyce does specifically mean deviant. She is arguing that the lack of respect for boundaries is a violation. It might sound extreme, but I think I have heard her use the word before in an intentional way.

Some people might not like it, but it's not unusual for feminists to talk in these terms when referring to men.

Again this is assuming men like this care about this more subtle aspect of the problem and threat they are creating for women.

If they respected this they would never have made the determinded and ongiong onslaught of women only facilities.

If men were likelt to respond to a subtle suggestion they are conforming to expected behaviour must be living in cloud cuckoo land.

What they are doing is illegal.

They need to understand that.

What we need to know is what level of punishment they will incure for their illegal behaviour.

Seriously! Does anyone think the men who should be taking notice are going to go, oh my goodness, it never occured to me that I was being deviant!

Just as men dont think it is deviant to think man have a right to buy women's bodies.

Confused
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IwantToRetire · 28/05/2026 18:03

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 28/05/2026 09:22

I think it is more subtle than that. The act of a man entering a women's toilet in a service may or may not be illegal depending on a variety of factors. Deviant is a better word.
IANAL

You think men who think (know) they are right are going to respond to "subtle". ????????????????

This is a real life scenario.

It should be in their face that if the contravene the signing that a facility is only for biological women that is breaking legal ruling.

That's why clear signage and short statement of how is it now a legal requirement should also be mandatory.

Whether a man who isn't pretending to be a woman needs acess to women's facilities for whatever reason should be sorted out with whoever runs the building where it is.

It's important to remember that this has been the norm for years.

Its not that long ago when on a day out to a city I didn't know I was really grateful to see well signposted notices to women's toilets.

And also please to see when I got there that the local authority had put a notice up to advise women in advance that the toilets would be cleaned at a particular time and they apologised as they need to let users know the clearer would be a man.

I think we are giving much to much weight to these primadonas.

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Datun · 28/05/2026 17:37

Baileyonice · 28/05/2026 06:31

A minority doesn't represent the majority so its not fair to categorise trans women as 'deviant' just like its not fair to categorise all muslims as terrorists.

Aren't gender critical people supposed to be anti stereotyping?

lol.

Apart from the fact that the word was used to describe behaviour, not people, any and every man who enters women's space unlawfully, is absolutely representative of all men who do it.

Don't want your behaviour to be called deviant? Don't do it.

Keeptoiletssafe · 28/05/2026 16:22

I knew, with a high degree of confidence, that statistically the poster wouldn’t answer. Safety always gets in their way.

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/05/2026 11:41

One of the most recent ruses - to disguise/obscure the fact that everyone knows that what we are talking about is men; about men who adopt trans identities and then try to impinge upon female boundaries and dignity - by talking more generally about 'trans people' ( as if trans people are not either male or female like everyone else). As if trans identified people do not have a sex. It is purely a diversionary tactic used to obscure the crux of the issue.

The whole business relies on blnd acceptance of 'the faith' and an unwillingness, or an inability, to think critically. People have been encouraged to associate critical thinking only with ideologically based criticism of 'oppressive' systems, or the 'oppressive' establishment.

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/05/2026 11:30

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/05/2026 11:28

It is certainly transgressive for a man to enter a designated women only space - certainly when he knows he should not be in there. Why is he doing it? What are his motives? These motives must by their nature be deviant or perverse in some way. People ( men) who transgress boundaries knowing full well that some other people ( women) will be discomforted or feel compromised by that transgressive act. What word might you might you use to describe that type of action or behaviour?

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Stubbornly Wrongheaded: Deliberately choosing to do something that goes against reason, logic, or accepted norms.
Contrarian Pleasure: Finding an odd, often dark satisfaction in doing something disagreeable or unexpected (e.g., taking "perverse pleasure" in an argument).
Perverted or Immoral: Occasionally used to describe something deviating from what is considered natural or morally correct

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/05/2026 11:28

Baileyonice · 27/05/2026 23:17

Well, replace 'deviancy' with its usual social association 'perverted' & it implies its perverted to for trans people to use the lav of the opposite sex. Why is it 'perverted'? And don't give me that vague 'socially unacceptable' fig leaf. The implication is they will do something 'perverted'.

Words have common social associations that more uncommon associations won't save them from.

It is certainly transgressive for a man to enter a designated women only space - certainly when he knows he should not be in there. Why is he doing it? What are his motives? These motives must by their nature be deviant or perverse in some way. People ( men) who transgress boundaries knowing full well that some other people ( women) will be discomforted or feel compromised by that transgressive act. What word might you might you use to describe that type of action or behaviour?

Iloveshihtzus · 28/05/2026 10:31

EmpressaurusKitty · 27/05/2026 20:10

Given that Jolly thinks it’s ok to beat foxes to death while wearing his wife’s kimono, I’d say his definition of deviant doesn’t match most people’s.

I nearly choked on my coffee! Quote of the day. Thank you.

nicepotoftea · 28/05/2026 10:29

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 28/05/2026 09:22

I think it is more subtle than that. The act of a man entering a women's toilet in a service may or may not be illegal depending on a variety of factors. Deviant is a better word.
IANAL

I also think that Helen Joyce does specifically mean deviant. She is arguing that the lack of respect for boundaries is a violation. It might sound extreme, but I think I have heard her use the word before in an intentional way.

Some people might not like it, but it's not unusual for feminists to talk in these terms when referring to men.

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Aposterhasnoname · 28/05/2026 10:19

Absolutely fascinating that sex matters said MEN indulging in deviant behavior and GLP immediately thought they were referring to transwomen. I thought transwomen were literally women.

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 28/05/2026 09:59

IMO Sex Matters actually go out of their way in the material they publish on their website to refer to trans-identified people with respect and to point out that they have needs and rights. They are at pains to make it clear that any issues that are causing friction are because trans-identified men are men, not because they are trans. They want the onus to be on employers and service providers to make it absolutely clear that their single-sex services are actually single-sex and to ensure that they signpost gender neutral services for anyone uncomfortable with using the service for their sex.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 28/05/2026 09:50

"describing women who are trans using women's spaces as 'deviants'"

See, that doesn't even make sense due to the fact that JM can't say "men"
It sounds like he's saying "women who identify as trans" i.e. actual women
He's tied himself in knots

(irrespective of the fact SM didn't even say that in the first place)

PrettyDamnCosmic · 28/05/2026 09:41

Hedgehogsrightsarehumanrights · 27/05/2026 21:18

Am pretty sure SM meant behaviour that deviates from the law, as in behaviour that breaches the law, that the person should, or ought to know about.

JM inference is wholly on him

what a laugh.

Am pretty sure SM meant behaviour that deviates from the law, as in behaviour that breaches the law, that the person should, or ought to know about.

This is exactly what SM have written "deviant behaviour". The GLP are complaining about something that SM have not said "describing women who are trans using women's spaces as 'deviants'". However if the cap fits...

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 28/05/2026 09:35

EmpressaurusKitty · 28/05/2026 07:27

It’s perfectly reasonable to say that males using women’s toilets is deviant (or illegal, or unreasonable, or bad or several other adjectives) behaviour. That stands regardless of what gender the males identify as.

It’s not at all the same as saying that males who identify a certain way are inherently deviant etc.

Exactly. The use of 'deviant behaviour' in the context of men entering women's spaces is very different from Maugham's framing of SM calling people 'deviants'. Maugham seems to be thinking in terms of saints (who do no wrong), and sinners (who do no right) aka 'deviants', whereas SM called out specific behaviour without putting those who perform it into those black and white categories. I think a court, well versed in the precise use of language, is likely to spot that linguistic sleight of hand a mile off.

People are not wholly good or wholly bad. To call someone a criminal is not the same as saying that someone has committed a criminal offence (such as exceeding a speed limit). Most of us who have exceeded a speed limit would be offended at being classed as a criminal. It is Maugham who has categorised men who enter women's spaces as 'deviants' as if the entering of a women's space defines their characters in their entirety.

[I do not suggest that all cases of speeding are equivalent to all cases of men entering women's spaces. Both of these can vary in seriousness, so a man joining the WI is not the same a man swanning into a female changing room, and doing 71 on the M5 is not the same as doing 48 past the entrance of a primary school.]

womendeserveequalhumanrights · 28/05/2026 09:31

Women seeing men in women's spaces or who say they want to go into women's spaces is going to make 99% of women think those men are creeps.

No matter the language used to describe it.

Edited to add; unless man is a cleaner or plumber and has a legitimate reason for being there - but women can then decide whether or not to enter as there's always a clear sign stating a male may be present in that situation.

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 28/05/2026 09:22

IwantToRetire · 28/05/2026 01:22

On reflexion I do wonder whether in terms of impact the word deviant, correctly indentifying someone behaving at odds with the accepted norms, shouldn't have in fact been the word illegal.

This is because too many TRAs have managed to persuade people that normal social practise is for entitled men to be in women's toilets.

And as the law has had to be used to try and remind people what reality is ie sex is biological, men do not use women's toilets, that SM should have said illegal.

Following the Supreme Court ruling if a facility is labeled women only it is only for biological women. Men who identify as anything under the sun are not by law allowed to use that facility.

They are breadking the law to do so.

Therefore it is an illegal act.

I think it is more subtle than that. The act of a man entering a women's toilet in a service may or may not be illegal depending on a variety of factors. Deviant is a better word.
IANAL

Hedgehogsrightsarehumanrights · 28/05/2026 09:20

One could also reasonably say that a MAN found to be in a female facility without good reason.

is perverting common law principles

EnjoythemoneyJane · 28/05/2026 09:04

popery · 27/05/2026 20:01

Telling staff supervising single-sex spaces that they must second-guess themselves when they become aware of a man engaging in the deviant behaviour of accessing a female-only space

Surely Jolly agrees that it's wrong for men to go in the women's, and that's why he's only arguing for one type of women to go in there?
Is he now acknowledging it's actually men he's arguing for, and there's nothing wrong with it? I can't keep up.

Exactly what I was thinking! I don’t know why he’s getting his kimono in a twist over this reference to deviant men - I mean, we all know TWAW, surely?

nicepotoftea · 28/05/2026 08:58

GreyskySexRealistsky · 28/05/2026 06:57

Again...

SM's statement is about men

The hyperbolic language certainly doesn't help

And presumably won't help the GLP either.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/05/2026 08:46

Brainworm · 28/05/2026 08:06

This is another example of TRAs causing harm to the people they purport to protect. Their intervention broadcasts the belief that SM and those who support SM believe trans people to be deviants. The trans umbrella is big. Upon hearing this message some will get angry/ aggressive, others will dispair etc. but it won’t do any good.

In the mean time, the majority of people involved with SM continue to hold no animosity towards people with trans identities, they simply want to preserve the single sex spaces.

JM is just rage baiting. Without this, everything would settle down and everyone, bar a few activist, would get on with doing what is needed to ensure the system works. Trans advocates would switch to fighting for suitable third spaces etc. He, and others like him seem invested in fuelling hatred and division.

Edited

He’s absolutely invested in that, for GLP but I think he’s pretty unhinged in general.

Shedmistress · 28/05/2026 08:38

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/05/2026 08:25

Bailey seems to be occupied with repeatedly kicking their own leg out from under them.

It is the Bike Meme in real time

Shedmistress · 28/05/2026 08:37

We say men 'can use the loophole to behave badly'
TRAs go mad saying 'that's transphobic'
We say 'we never mentioned trans people at all, that was your link not ours'

I do love it when TRAs throw themselves into a muddy hole and blame feminists for 'hatred'.