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Good Law Project to report Sex Matters over 'deviant' remark

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IwantToRetire · 27/05/2026 19:47

In its assessment of the EHRC guidance, Sex Matters took issue with the following phrase: "It is unlikely to be either practical or appropriate to approach any particular individual to make enquiries about their sex in relation to facilities, such as toilets, which are incidental to the primary service.”

The sex-based rights group responded in a publication entitled <a class="break-all" href="https://archive.is/o/lLjDq/sex-matters.org/posts/updates/sex-is-not-special-category-data/?ref=ed_latest" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">"Sex is not a 'special category' data", saying: "There is no legal basis for this instruction, which in effect licenses men to enter women’s facilities and claim that it is inappropriate, possibly unlawful and a breach of their human rights to challenge them."

The group further stated: "Telling staff supervising single-sex spaces that they must second-guess themselves when they become aware of a man engaging in the deviant behaviour of accessing a female-only space, or risk breaching data-protection law, will lead to unwanted conduct related to the protected characteristic of sex that is likely to meet the definition of harassment in the Equality Act. It 'violates a person’s dignity or creates an intimidating, hostile, degrading, humiliating, or offensive environment'."

From article at https://www.thenational.scot/news/26143769.good-law-project-report-sex-matters-deviant-remark/
and at https://archive.is/lLjDq

Good Law Project to report Sex Matters over 'deviant' remark

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Datun · 29/05/2026 05:29

Baileyonice · 29/05/2026 03:58

I hear you, but the problem is where 'needs' apply isn't uniform so the material context matters. The overwhelming amount of male violence occurs in very particular settings as in the perpetrator is known to the victim & occurs in their home when they are alone hence we don't require sex segregation in employment spaces, restaurants bars, cafes etc.

The equality act has been in place since 2010 where effectively 'woman' was not defined till 2025 & yet there hasn't been an uptick in trans women's violence in public toilets. It's only in the last few years that this has become a pressing issue without any increases noted despite the growing trans population, widespread grass roots complaints or consistency in female discontent because of a huge generational divide.

If its material evidence that justifies how society should be organised then you kind of need it that often irrelevant oversimplifications don't necessarily qualify as.

The equality act has been in place since 2010 where effectively 'woman' was not defined till 2025 & yet there hasn't been an uptick in trans women's violence in public toilets.

Perhaps you're unaware that one the fastest growing porn genres is transwomen in women's toilets wielding various weapons including their penises.

And since transwomen have also taken to social media to threaten women constantly with beheading, beating and rape, your claim is pointless.

Men constitute the predator class, and transwomen conform entirely, if not more so than non TIMs, to male pattern violence. It's not the winning argument you think it is that all the predators in the male sex class should be able to access vulnerable women just because most of the time they confine their killing and raping to their partners.

Wearenotborg · 29/05/2026 04:59

Baileyonice · 29/05/2026 00:13

Thanks for the expected cynical 'interpretation'. But that's unrelated to the point being made which wasn't that words don't have broad meanings rather some words are commonly socially interchangeable with other words despite their broader meanings & are shrewdly employed to provide plausible deniability.

'Woman' isn't exploited in such a way.

Yes it is. It’s used for an adult human female, but also used by some men to allow them access to female spaces for whatever their reason, nefarious or just predatory.

Coatsoff42 · 29/05/2026 04:59

Baileyonice · 29/05/2026 03:58

I hear you, but the problem is where 'needs' apply isn't uniform so the material context matters. The overwhelming amount of male violence occurs in very particular settings as in the perpetrator is known to the victim & occurs in their home when they are alone hence we don't require sex segregation in employment spaces, restaurants bars, cafes etc.

The equality act has been in place since 2010 where effectively 'woman' was not defined till 2025 & yet there hasn't been an uptick in trans women's violence in public toilets. It's only in the last few years that this has become a pressing issue without any increases noted despite the growing trans population, widespread grass roots complaints or consistency in female discontent because of a huge generational divide.

If its material evidence that justifies how society should be organised then you kind of need it that often irrelevant oversimplifications don't necessarily qualify as.

unfortunately the perpetrators and victims of violence in our society are classified basically by sex. Very rarely are the gender identities of the perpetrators discussed or recorded. So you are describing a set of people based on their biological basis, and then wanting to use these statistics to prove something for gender identity. But the two are unrelated.

Until all people are properly educated in gender identity theory and have it recorded next to their crimes I don’t think it’s a useful comparison. Where are the statistics on agender or pan gender criminals? Are gender fluid people more likely to be violent when identifying as male or female?

Most victims of violence are not able to discuss gender identity with their attacker and rely on biological facts to describe them to the police. Very rarely does the attacker ask for their gender identity first too. This goes for both male and female victims of violence.

How can human rights apply to something we are unable to see or measure, which is completely unrelated to how violence is effected, experienced or recorded?

Baileyonice · 29/05/2026 03:58

Heggettypeg · 29/05/2026 03:22

But notions of human rights etc aren't plucked from the air. The particular rights required arise from needs. And one of the major origins of needs is bodily physical realities.

So if you have accepted the concept of human rights at all (that's the separate philosophical "ought" bit), the realities of human embodiment immediately set up some fairly obvious specific "oughts". Like allowing for people to sleep, eat, drink, and not be physically damaged or killed just because somebody feels like doing it.

One can quibble about details of implementation ( the appropriate length of a working day, for example), but if human rights are to be fit for purpose, physical realities can't be just dismissed.

Rights based on the bodily needs of women and men respectively are just a subset of this, and no different. If human rights are a thing, then for example recognition that one category of human (though not the other) is vulnerable to enforced pregnancy and needs protection from that, is just another "ought" based on a verifiable fact.

I hear you, but the problem is where 'needs' apply isn't uniform so the material context matters. The overwhelming amount of male violence occurs in very particular settings as in the perpetrator is known to the victim & occurs in their home when they are alone hence we don't require sex segregation in employment spaces, restaurants bars, cafes etc.

The equality act has been in place since 2010 where effectively 'woman' was not defined till 2025 & yet there hasn't been an uptick in trans women's violence in public toilets. It's only in the last few years that this has become a pressing issue without any increases noted despite the growing trans population, widespread grass roots complaints or consistency in female discontent because of a huge generational divide.

If its material evidence that justifies how society should be organised then you kind of need it that often irrelevant oversimplifications don't necessarily qualify as.

Heggettypeg · 29/05/2026 03:22

Baileyonice · 29/05/2026 02:44

Absolutely. But transgender and queer theorists argue that human rights, dignity and legal protections are matters of social negotiation and value—not objective deductions from the natural world. By treating sex as a fundamental "ought" that dictates human rights, GC frameworks conflate descriptive biology with human moral frameworks.

But notions of human rights etc aren't plucked from the air. The particular rights required arise from needs. And one of the major origins of needs is bodily physical realities.

So if you have accepted the concept of human rights at all (that's the separate philosophical "ought" bit), the realities of human embodiment immediately set up some fairly obvious specific "oughts". Like allowing for people to sleep, eat, drink, and not be physically damaged or killed just because somebody feels like doing it.

One can quibble about details of implementation ( the appropriate length of a working day, for example), but if human rights are to be fit for purpose, physical realities can't be just dismissed.

Rights based on the bodily needs of women and men respectively are just a subset of this, and no different. If human rights are a thing, then for example recognition that one category of human (though not the other) is vulnerable to enforced pregnancy and needs protection from that, is just another "ought" based on a verifiable fact.

Brainworm · 29/05/2026 03:20

More than 99.9% of babies have their sex accurately observed at birth. Fewer than 0.018% have a developmental difference that leads to their sex being ambiguous in any way. Even in these rare instances, science informs us as to whether they are biologically male or female.

The only people suggesting that a person’s sex is complicated are those seeking to legitimise deviant behaviour, such as using single sex provision for the opposite sex. They know very well which sex they are. In the case of transwomen, they know they are male as this is one of two essential criteria for being a transwoman.

A more honest argument would be to present the case as to why some males should be permitted to use female only provision and why. This doesn’t happen because many, perhaps most, transwoman find any acknowledgment of them being male morally injurious and can’t tolerate it - so go all out to avoid it.

I’ve no interest in discussing single sex provision with people who don’t accept a starting point of people knowing which biological sex they are and that this is not complicated. It’s futile.

Baileyonice · 29/05/2026 02:44

Heggettypeg · 29/05/2026 02:39

OK, let's play it your way:

We are told repeatedly, in a hectoring, moralising manner, that "Trans people exist!"

So what? An is is not an ought.

Absolutely. But transgender and queer theorists argue that human rights, dignity and legal protections are matters of social negotiation and value—not objective deductions from the natural world. By treating sex as a fundamental "ought" that dictates human rights, GC frameworks conflate descriptive biology with human moral frameworks.

Heggettypeg · 29/05/2026 02:39

Baileyonice · 29/05/2026 01:47

Thank you for informing us all that you don't know that an is is not an ought.

May I suggest a rudimentary course in philosophy 101 to correct this deeply flawed reasoning?

OK, let's play it your way:

We are told repeatedly, in a hectoring, moralising manner, that "Trans people exist!"

So what? An is is not an ought.

Baileyonice · 29/05/2026 01:47

murasaki · 29/05/2026 00:32

Biology is a fact not an ideology. Don't be so silly.

Thank you for informing us all that you don't know that an is is not an ought.

May I suggest a rudimentary course in philosophy 101 to correct this deeply flawed reasoning?

murasaki · 29/05/2026 00:32

Biology is a fact not an ideology. Don't be so silly.

Baileyonice · 29/05/2026 00:24

murasaki · 29/05/2026 00:21

Woman is one of the most exploited words there is right now. And we are over it.

Deviant is a perfectly adequate word to describe men going into single sex spaces designed for the opposite sex. However deviantly they are using the word woman to justify themselves.

Woman is one of the most exploited words there is right now.

Uh huh, biological essentialists just like any other ideology has a barrow to push.

murasaki · 29/05/2026 00:21

Woman is one of the most exploited words there is right now. And we are over it.

Deviant is a perfectly adequate word to describe men going into single sex spaces designed for the opposite sex. However deviantly they are using the word woman to justify themselves.

Baileyonice · 29/05/2026 00:13

NextRinny · 28/05/2026 23:54

So the common understanding of the word "woman", or any other word, depends on how nefarious the context of usage implies it is?
Right...

Did you actually read that?

I'm glad it is there for all to see.
No one has to reinterprete your words to see just how batshit that is.

Thanks for the expected cynical 'interpretation'. But that's unrelated to the point being made which wasn't that words don't have broad meanings rather some words are commonly socially interchangeable with other words despite their broader meanings & are shrewdly employed to provide plausible deniability.

'Woman' isn't exploited in such a way.

NextRinny · 28/05/2026 23:54

Baileyonice · 28/05/2026 01:58

The difference being the word 'woman' isn't being used to suggest nefariousness.

So the common understanding of the word "woman", or any other word, depends on how nefarious the context of usage implies it is?
Right...

Did you actually read that?

I'm glad it is there for all to see.
No one has to reinterprete your words to see just how batshit that is.

moto748e · 28/05/2026 23:01

The main consequence of a service provider allowing somebody to use an opposite sex facility would be that they wouldn't be able to rely on the Equality Act single sex exemptions that allow discrimination, so the facility would just be mixed sex.

But surely the main consequence of a service provider allowing somebody to use an opposite sex facility would be that they would leave themselves wide open to be sued, with no effective defence?

nicepotoftea · 28/05/2026 21:55

IwantToRetire · 28/05/2026 19:25

AS I keep saying if the toilet or whatever is clearly labelled as being for women, and that this means biological sex as clarified by the Supreme Court and now the guidelines, what is it if not illegal for a man to then persist in entering.

Whether it is deliberate provocation and intended to be an act of aggression they should be dealt with by the law.

Staff shouldn't have to deal with a man who has gone out of his way to break the guidelines.

The need to be shown there will be direct consequences.

But there is a difference between civil law and criminal law.

There is no specific criminal law that says you can't use an opposite sex toilet. There are just laws that allow you to be excluded and other laws that might come into effect if you resisted exclusion.

The main consequence of a service provider allowing somebody to use an opposite sex facility would be that they wouldn't be able to rely on the Equality Act single sex exemptions that allow discrimination, so the facility would just be mixed sex.

Whether or not they would be complying with other regulations would be another matter, but it is not yet clear what a court would decide.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 28/05/2026 21:54

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HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 28/05/2026 21:48

GallantKumquat · 28/05/2026 20:21

This whole thread has been interesting, especially the 'illegal' vs. 'deviant' discussion. Joyce has alluded to this multiple times and has clearly thought deeply about it and discussed it generally at Sex Matters.

A major argument against the EHRC guidance has been that it's unenforcible. Joyce (and others at SMs) have made the point that enforceability is not the primary concern of drafted law and regulation. That drafters assume people will comply out of civic responsibility, living as they do in a society that's governed by law. That's in fact how laws work in practice - by social force. That force, however isn't just altruism, it also works through stigma - flagrant, selfish lawbreaking is stigmatised: even if you don't agree with a law, even if you're unlikely to be taken to court for violating it, even if you're selfish and non-altruistic, you're still most likely subject to shame and fear of being stigmatised as an anti-social scoff-law.

By noting the behaviour is deviant (not just potentially illegal sexual harassment), SM is underlining that men entering women's toilets or supporters advocating for men to enter women's toilets (GLP & TRAs) ought to be stigmatised. SM is trying to build the social force necessary to make the regulation effective. It' will take time, but I think public sentiment is such that compliance will build.

The GLP's efforts to publicise the word may well, in the short term, galvanising the non-compliance faction of TRAs, but I think it actually works to SM's objectives of motivating social force in the long term. After all the GLP is essentially complaining that SM is stigmatising them, and they're right if you follow the logic, the implication is that GLP should be stigmatised! SM is isn't allowed to make that connection by name (being a charity) but GLP is making that connection for them amping up social media publicity. And it seems unlikely that the Charity Commission will come to the GLP's defence and bail them out of their self-designation.

One wonders if there isn't an aspect of SM waving around the red cape of a matador. Maybe more people should take the suggestion of donating to the GLP seriously.

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Yes, I think that this is exactly the case.

I think disapproval from other men will be crucial. My DH says he was never explicitly told why he shouldn't enter a women's space but the idea that it was a completely unacceptable thing to even think about doing was modelled to him by adult males from a young age.

Woman are not to be shamed for wanting their own spaces and resources. The men who try to cross their boundaries are to be shamed. #shamehastochangesides

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 28/05/2026 21:27

IwantToRetire · 28/05/2026 18:03

You think men who think (know) they are right are going to respond to "subtle". ????????????????

This is a real life scenario.

It should be in their face that if the contravene the signing that a facility is only for biological women that is breaking legal ruling.

That's why clear signage and short statement of how is it now a legal requirement should also be mandatory.

Whether a man who isn't pretending to be a woman needs acess to women's facilities for whatever reason should be sorted out with whoever runs the building where it is.

It's important to remember that this has been the norm for years.

Its not that long ago when on a day out to a city I didn't know I was really grateful to see well signposted notices to women's toilets.

And also please to see when I got there that the local authority had put a notice up to advise women in advance that the toilets would be cleaned at a particular time and they apologised as they need to let users know the clearer would be a man.

I think we are giving much to much weight to these primadonas.

I imagine that Sex Matters have been very careful about choosing the word 'deviant' rather than 'illegal' because they have access to excellent equaliites law lawyers. GLP would be more likely to have a case against them if they used the word 'illegal'. With 'deviant' he will get nowhere.
I think that you have misunderstood the law in this area, but IANAL so I'm not going to pontificate further.

GallantKumquat · 28/05/2026 20:21

nicepotoftea · 28/05/2026 10:29

I also think that Helen Joyce does specifically mean deviant. She is arguing that the lack of respect for boundaries is a violation. It might sound extreme, but I think I have heard her use the word before in an intentional way.

Some people might not like it, but it's not unusual for feminists to talk in these terms when referring to men.

This whole thread has been interesting, especially the 'illegal' vs. 'deviant' discussion. Joyce has alluded to this multiple times and has clearly thought deeply about it and discussed it generally at Sex Matters.

A major argument against the EHRC guidance has been that it's unenforcible. Joyce (and others at SMs) have made the point that enforceability is not the primary concern of drafted law and regulation. That drafters assume people will comply out of civic responsibility, living as they do in a society that's governed by law. That's in fact how laws work in practice - by social force. That force, however isn't just altruism, it also works through stigma - flagrant, selfish lawbreaking is stigmatised: even if you don't agree with a law, even if you're unlikely to be taken to court for violating it, even if you're selfish and non-altruistic, you're still most likely subject to shame and fear of being stigmatised as an anti-social scoff-law.

By noting the behaviour is deviant (not just potentially illegal sexual harassment), SM is underlining that men entering women's toilets or supporters advocating for men to enter women's toilets (GLP & TRAs) ought to be stigmatised. SM is trying to build the social force necessary to make the regulation effective. It' will take time, but I think public sentiment is such that compliance will build.

The GLP's efforts to publicise the word may well, in the short term, galvanising the non-compliance faction of TRAs, but I think it actually works to SM's objectives of motivating social force in the long term. After all the GLP is essentially complaining that SM is stigmatising them, and they're right if you follow the logic, the implication is that GLP should be stigmatised! SM is isn't allowed to make that connection by name (being a charity) but GLP is making that connection for them amping up social media publicity. And it seems unlikely that the Charity Commission will come to the GLP's defence and bail them out of their self-designation.

One wonders if there isn't an aspect of SM waving around the red cape of a matador. Maybe more people should take the suggestion of donating to the GLP seriously.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 28/05/2026 19:41

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IwantToRetire · 28/05/2026 19:25

nicepotoftea · 28/05/2026 18:25

The problem is that 'illegal' is quite a specific word.

It isn't a crime to walk into an opposite sex toilet, and you aren't going to face any kind of prosecution unless you refuse to leave and/or are found different of another crime.

AS I keep saying if the toilet or whatever is clearly labelled as being for women, and that this means biological sex as clarified by the Supreme Court and now the guidelines, what is it if not illegal for a man to then persist in entering.

Whether it is deliberate provocation and intended to be an act of aggression they should be dealt with by the law.

Staff shouldn't have to deal with a man who has gone out of his way to break the guidelines.

The need to be shown there will be direct consequences.

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nicepotoftea · 28/05/2026 18:51

nicepotoftea · 28/05/2026 18:25

The problem is that 'illegal' is quite a specific word.

It isn't a crime to walk into an opposite sex toilet, and you aren't going to face any kind of prosecution unless you refuse to leave and/or are found different of another crime.

charged with another crime!

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 28/05/2026 18:29

Baileyonice · 28/05/2026 00:01

The idea that women's ears don't prick up when they hear the word 'deviant' as an immediate cue for 'pervy' is cute but nevertheless untrue.

It is highly convenient that particularly on these pages where trans women are routinely smeared as perverted that 'deviance' has only its meaning in 'wrong'.

I think perhaps you need to remember that "deviant" can be either a noun (in which case it often does mean a person whose sexual behaviour is unacceptable in some way) or an adjective. The latter is how it was used in the sentence under discussion, and as an adjective it means "different from the norm or the socially acceptable", not "sexually a bit strange and unpleasant."

That a woman was wearing trousers would have been described as "deviant" not so long ago. I doubt this was because it was pervy, when it was being done for instance for safety at work – landgirls wore trousers because skirts getting caught in farm machinery would be dangerous, but at the time their wearing trousers was described as deviant, as in deviating from the accepted norm. And a planet with an irregular orbit, such as Pluto (if that is still a planet, I lose touch) is described as deviant.

Some people just do have to drag sex into everything, though, as the fox-botherer demonstrates.

And in the matter of women claiming that all transwomen are sexual deviants and all the rest of it, that's garbage too because they don't. What they patiently explain over and over and over again for the hard of thinking is that sexually perverse or downright criminal men can and do use trans women as a stalking horse to get them access to little girls and naked women – a practice which every transwoman I know (a fair few) would condemn as both horrible behaviour and not at all good for the real trans people.

In fact I feel that we should call such opportunistic perverts "fake trans" to make it clear they are men pretending to be transwomen in order to gain licence to behave in a repugnant way.