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M&S Colchester claim mixed changing is ‘completely safe’ for women.

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PeachOctopus · 27/05/2026 12:31

How is it that M&S can continue to flaunt the high court ruling and do not offer single sex changing rooms?

Abouterf in this video confronts the store manager and is fobbed off and told that it’s head offices policy:

Colchester @marksandspencer I asked where the women’s changing room was to try on swimwear. Manager Andrew (he/ his /him) says gender neutral changing areas are “completely safe” for women and girls. For asking him this question, he told me to leave the store.

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TheKeatingFive · 28/05/2026 15:18

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You asked for non white GCs

You got them.

What's your problem?

TheKeatingFive · 28/05/2026 15:18

Joanneken · 28/05/2026 15:11

Name them or admit you're full of it.

Transphobia is inherently linked to white supremacy.

Allison Bailey
Maya Forstater
Akua Reindorf
Faika El-Nagashi

Off the top of my head

Joanneken · 28/05/2026 15:17

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Joanneken · 28/05/2026 15:15

heathspeedwell · 28/05/2026 15:14

@Joanneken you're very much in the minority with your views. the vast majority of women want single sex spaces for entirely sensible reasons.

https://yougov.co.uk/politics/articles/51545-where-does-the-british-public-stand-on-transgender-rights-in-202425

'a new YouGov study, the fourth in a series reaching back to 2018, shows an increased scepticism towards transgender rights across the board – and particularly in the two and a half years since our previous wave of this study.
Notable in this most recent study – conducted in mid-December – is the growing resistance on transgender rights among those groups that are typically more permissive on the issue, like women and young people.'

Oh gosh, I wonder what could possibly have affected this polling.

JFC 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

spannasaurus · 28/05/2026 15:14

Joanneken · 28/05/2026 15:08

Excuse me?
Name them?!

There's a reason nazis turn up to your rallies, let's be honest here.

Allison Bailey
Akua Reindorf
Sonia sodha

Amongst others

Joanneken · 28/05/2026 15:14

TheKeatingFive · 28/05/2026 15:11

The hate towards women from the TRAs is disgusting.

This is 'your side' btw

https://terfisaslur.com/

You're literally part of a hate movement 😂

The deflection is wild

heathspeedwell · 28/05/2026 15:14

@Joanneken you're very much in the minority with your views. the vast majority of women want single sex spaces for entirely sensible reasons.

https://yougov.co.uk/politics/articles/51545-where-does-the-british-public-stand-on-transgender-rights-in-202425

'a new YouGov study, the fourth in a series reaching back to 2018, shows an increased scepticism towards transgender rights across the board – and particularly in the two and a half years since our previous wave of this study.
Notable in this most recent study – conducted in mid-December – is the growing resistance on transgender rights among those groups that are typically more permissive on the issue, like women and young people.'

Joanneken · 28/05/2026 15:13

TheKeatingFive · 28/05/2026 15:05

When they bring the misogyny out in full force, you gotta hand it to them

😭

This shit doesn't work on independent strong thinkers lol
The biggest misogynists are transphobes

M&S Colchester claim mixed changing is ‘completely safe’ for women.
TheKeatingFive · 28/05/2026 15:11

Joanneken · 28/05/2026 15:10

You can try and patronise me all you like chicken, you're an outlier who mistakes online hivemind for real world opinion.

How will you feel down the line, knowing you were part of a hate movement? Could never be me.

The hate towards women from the TRAs is disgusting.

This is 'your side' btw

https://terfisaslur.com/

TERF is a slur

Documenting the abuse, harassment and misogyny of transgender identity politics

https://terfisaslur.com

Joanneken · 28/05/2026 15:11

TheKeatingFive · 28/05/2026 15:09

Oh god, are you 12? 🙄

Name them or admit you're full of it.

Transphobia is inherently linked to white supremacy.

Pingponghavoc · 28/05/2026 15:10

I want to go to my nearest store and check it out. It's had a bit of a refurb and I can imagine the downstairs changing room, where there is only womens clothes says 'fitting rooms' and one upstairs at the back of the men's section could say 'mens'.

But its bloody hot. Maybe next week.

Joanneken · 28/05/2026 15:10

TheKeatingFive · 28/05/2026 15:08

I think it's you that's got the handbook love 😂

You can try and patronise me all you like chicken, you're an outlier who mistakes online hivemind for real world opinion.

How will you feel down the line, knowing you were part of a hate movement? Could never be me.

TheKeatingFive · 28/05/2026 15:09

Joanneken · 28/05/2026 15:08

Excuse me?
Name them?!

There's a reason nazis turn up to your rallies, let's be honest here.

Oh god, are you 12? 🙄

HootyMcBoobys · 28/05/2026 15:09

Joanneken · 28/05/2026 15:03

Why would you allow your child to return to that environment after the first incident, if this were the case?

What is wrong with you?

What is wrong with ME? How about what is wrong with the disgusting perverts who do it?

She would be exposed to the same in any retail environment.

You are really something, jumping to ask the Mother of a victim what is wrong with them, rather than addressing the elephant in the room.

MEN accessing female spaces.

No sex based rights? Okay.

So females shouldn't be allowed to ask for a female clinician?
Pregnancy protections and entitlements don't exist?
Of course sex based rights exist.

Mental.

TheKeatingFive · 28/05/2026 15:09

Anjoola · 28/05/2026 15:07

Perhaps a more effective approach might have been for Abouterf to get changed in the mixed sex changing rooms, but on seeing a man in there have a PROPER panic attack and melt down about feeling threatened!

Do you think it's funny to try to humiliate women who don't want to undress in front of strange men?

TheLocust · 28/05/2026 15:09

Joanneken · 28/05/2026 15:03

Why would you allow your child to return to that environment after the first incident, if this were the case?

What is wrong with you?

Of course, there's something wrong with @HootyMcBoobys , not the revolting men wanking into clothes. It's all her fault.

Joanneken · 28/05/2026 15:08

TheKeatingFive · 28/05/2026 15:04

Any why on earth do are you bringing race into this?

Many of the most vocal GC women are not white.

What are you actually trying to achieve here?

Excuse me?
Name them?!

There's a reason nazis turn up to your rallies, let's be honest here.

TheKeatingFive · 28/05/2026 15:08

Joanneken · 28/05/2026 15:07

The “sex-based rights” rhetoric ends up policing all women’s bodies and looks including women who are masc, disabled, intersex, older, or who do not conform to gender expectations, because attempts to enforce “biological” boundaries in public spaces inevitably affect many women, not just trans people.

Sex based rights is just another dog whistle.

Honestly - do they give you people a handbook to learn? Don't you get tired of repeating the same script non stop?

I think it's you that's got the handbook love 😂

Anjoola · 28/05/2026 15:07

Perhaps a more effective approach might have been for Abouterf to get changed in the mixed sex changing rooms, but on seeing a man in there have a PROPER panic attack and melt down about feeling threatened!

Joanneken · 28/05/2026 15:07

TheKeatingFive · 28/05/2026 15:03

Of course there is such a thing - see the recent SC ruling which is very clear.

Why do you think women don't deserve them?

Why do you think that people who believe in basic scientific facts are a 'radicalised gender critical cult'.

That's absolutely unhinged and highly misogynistic talk

The “sex-based rights” rhetoric ends up policing all women’s bodies and looks including women who are masc, disabled, intersex, older, or who do not conform to gender expectations, because attempts to enforce “biological” boundaries in public spaces inevitably affect many women, not just trans people.

Sex based rights is just another dog whistle.

Honestly - do they give you people a handbook to learn? Don't you get tired of repeating the same script non stop?

heathspeedwell · 28/05/2026 15:06

@Joanneken can you please explain why you think 'there is no such things as sex based rights'?

TheKeatingFive · 28/05/2026 15:05

Chersfrozenface · 28/05/2026 15:03

Operation Let Them Speak in cracking action today, I see.

When they bring the misogyny out in full force, you gotta hand it to them

😭

heathspeedwell · 28/05/2026 15:04

You can tell it's half term.

TheKeatingFive · 28/05/2026 15:04

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Any why on earth do are you bringing race into this?

Many of the most vocal GC women are not white.

What are you actually trying to achieve here?

Joanneken · 28/05/2026 15:04

Chersfrozenface · 28/05/2026 15:03

Operation Let Them Speak in cracking action today, I see.

Not an original thought in your head ha

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