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Sunderland Minster refusing to comply with Supreme Court ruling

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labtest57 · 26/05/2026 22:21

This is from their Facebook page today. No consideration for the women who do not want men in their spaces.

Sunderland Minster refusing to comply with Supreme Court ruling
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OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 27/05/2026 12:32

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HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 27/05/2026 12:32

WarriorN · 27/05/2026 12:26

Surely you MUST create either a single sex toilet for women or fully enclosed secure unisex toilets (which we know have their own issues

Yes, that's my understanding. You don't have to provide separate male and female toilets, but you cannot just relabel cubicle toilets as 'mixed sex'.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 27/05/2026 12:29

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SexRealistic · 27/05/2026 12:29

Ask for a copy of their insurance certificate - and then send all their messages and screenshots to their insurers registered mail.

When their insurance in cancelled they’ll thing again.

They can fuck with the law but their insurers won’t.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 27/05/2026 12:28

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WarriorN · 27/05/2026 12:26

Surely you MUST create either a single sex toilet for women or fully enclosed secure unisex toilets (which we know have their own issues

WarriorN · 27/05/2026 12:25

“May” and “must” are key distinctions as in safeguarding law, must is legally binding. If you don’t you will be prosecuted.

should isn’t as legally binding. However it’s still statutory and you risk loosing your job, being sued or being severely career ending criticised by Ofsted/ others/ papers.

WarriorN · 27/05/2026 12:22

For context:

a poster asks “is this legal in a public building?” (Feminist)

another replies “not with that sign.” (Feminist)

the male poster posts the reply in the screen shot

WarriorN · 27/05/2026 12:16

Late to this; this is totally wrong isn’t it?! 🤪

I can’t believe their gaslighting is still making me doubt myself!

Sunderland Minster refusing to comply with Supreme Court ruling
labtest57 · 27/05/2026 12:15

TheignT · 27/05/2026 10:36

Would making all the toilets unisex get round the law? I haven't seen the toilets so don't know if they'd comply.

They dont comply

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HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 27/05/2026 12:00

Mmmnotsure · 27/05/2026 11:46

Young girls sharing enclosed spaces with potentially any male who claims to be a woman.

Well done, Revd Canon Clare MacLaren, who has presumably never heard of Katie Dolatowski et al and possibly wouldn't care if she had. Championing her own trans son - who therefore is female?

I wonder if CM would want her child put on a male psychiatric ward if, sadly, that were ever necessary?

Young girls sharing enclosed spaces with potentially any male who claims to be a woman...

If they are letting trans-identified girls into men's toilets then they are letting girls share enclosed spaces with any male, with or without a trans-identity.

Aisha176 · 27/05/2026 11:59

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Whatever you think about the short comings Christianity, my point here is to explain how it conflicts with gender critical views & other exclusionary ideologies. Whether you like it or not it's an inclusionary philosophy that happens to underpin Western Civilisation that you are going to have to reckon with.

StellaAndCrow · 27/05/2026 11:57

Stoneycold12 · 27/05/2026 11:53

I'm nowhere near Sunderland, but if I was I would be going to have a look at the Minister, and I would be asking for a woman to accompany me to the loo - ideally a clergywoman.

And of course writing to the Bishop afterwards about this church breaking the law.

Yes, I wonder how they would respond to that in real life?

Their tweet was so mocking and sarcastic - is this how they would respond to women in person? I imagine that at least some of the staff on the ground would be taken aback.

StellaAndCrow · 27/05/2026 11:56

Retiredfromthere · 27/05/2026 06:25

So a woman who because of religion or race, age (think of young girls coping with first periods, older women coping with heavy menstrual flow who many need to wash blood off), or are suffering miscarriage, or have gender critical beliefs which see transwomen as men (not unreasonable IMO) have to take extra action (call a chaperone) in order to use the toilets with privacy from TW. Counting five types of protected characteristic that are supposed not to be discriminated against there who now have barriers to using a single sex space set up so as to stop discrimination.

Why? So that men claiming trans status can be able to walk into and use the female toilets with no special measure at all. Even men who are known to be predators and have history of violence and threats to women. Think Sarah Jane Baker.

Fund raising for a third space, or chaperoning TW into the male toilets is fairer and more proportionate.

I can see its very difficult if you have a trans son and you wish to protect them, and your congregation may wish to be allies. But I did think that the church was supposed to define inclusion more widely than their own family.

Thinking: Is not Dr Upton's stepfather a Bishop in North of England?

"have to take extra action (call a chaperone) in order to use the toilets with privacy from TW."

Yes, and they're not even getting privacy. They're getting even less privacy, because now potentially there might be a transwoman in there, plus this mocking "chaperone".

Stoneycold12 · 27/05/2026 11:53

I'm nowhere near Sunderland, but if I was I would be going to have a look at the Minister, and I would be asking for a woman to accompany me to the loo - ideally a clergywoman.

And of course writing to the Bishop afterwards about this church breaking the law.

Mmmnotsure · 27/05/2026 11:50

Aisha176 · 27/05/2026 11:27

Uh huh, worshipping at the foot of fear, suspicion & paranoia doesn't work out so well.

No idea what you mean.
I don't think Jesus was worshipping fear, suspicion and paranoia.

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 27/05/2026 11:46

Aisha176 · 27/05/2026 11:14

It's a statement about equality & if you knew anything about Christianity you would know that.

And if you knew anything about what a place of worship of God is you would know its a house of trust not suspicion.

It's a statement about equality & if you knew anything about Christianity you would know that.

Don't be ridiculous, Paul didn't believe in the equality of men and women. He was as more or less misogynistic as every man was at that time, depending on the social mores of whichever society they lived within.

And Christianity might have given women a glimpse of equality, as Christ tried to impart to us, but the Church, in its various guises, hasn't offered women anything like equality until very recent times.

Elevating a small subsection of men who think they are women above actual women is not equality. Our God-given equality has not actually panned out as well as Christ might have wished for, because of patriarchy. Our actual equality comes from secular law. Thanks be to God, you might say, we were given our own brains and the wherewithal to fight patriarchy, misogyny, and injustice, despite the Church.

And this particular church in Sunderland is perpetuating misogyny and inequality, for its own, unknown purposes, not in order to be Christian.

And, by the way, breaking the law at the same time.

I'm not going to debate Christian doctrine with you on this thread anymore, because we'll be boring a lot of other posters stupid. If you want to start another thread about Christian doctrine, please do, and I might join you over there.

Mmmnotsure · 27/05/2026 11:46

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 27/05/2026 11:25

If they are letting children use opposite sex toilets then they have a massive safeguarding fail.

Young girls sharing enclosed spaces with potentially any male who claims to be a woman.

Well done, Revd Canon Clare MacLaren, who has presumably never heard of Katie Dolatowski et al and possibly wouldn't care if she had. Championing her own trans son - who therefore is female?

I wonder if CM would want her child put on a male psychiatric ward if, sadly, that were ever necessary?

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 27/05/2026 11:35

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LeftieRightsHoarder · 27/05/2026 11:29

Mmmnotsure · 27/05/2026 10:33

One of the posts on Sunderland Minster fb from a "trans Christian" (interesting linguistically):

God does not make mistakes, and He does not make mistakes when he makes some people trans. To be trans is to be blessed with a sacred calling, to engage in an act of co-creation such that the accident of one's body rhymes with the essence of one's soul. God made neither bread nor wine; He made wheat and grapes and yeast, and gave humans the wit to work out how to make them more than what they were. Likewise, from the beginning of the world He has caused to be created those who feel strongly that our gender doesn't match the accidents of our body, and given us the wit and willpower to do what we can to bring those things into greater alignment. Transitioning is doing God's will, and trans people are sacred. Get over it!

God does not make mistakes (no one is born in the wrong body is a GC view)
but also
the accident of one's body.

Make it make sense.

The "trans people are sacred" line, though, is kind of what we are being sold in the secular world.

(Did someone say something about women in Abrahamic religions?)

Jesus would be rolling in his grave if he had one.

To be trans is to be blessed with a sacred calling, to engage in an act of co-creation such that the accident of one's body rhymes with the essence of one's soul.

An act of co-creation???!!! With God?

I know these people think they’re very special, but that took my breath away. Someone calling himself a Christian putting himself in a position of equality with God the Creator. Words fail me.

Justnot · 27/05/2026 11:29

Jesus defo would have wanted us to have our own toilets

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 27/05/2026 11:29

Aisha176 · 27/05/2026 11:27

Uh huh, worshipping at the foot of fear, suspicion & paranoia doesn't work out so well.

I have no idea what your posts are on about, soz. Can you please try to be a bit less cryptic. Ta

Aisha176 · 27/05/2026 11:27

Mmmnotsure · 27/05/2026 11:21

And yet Jesus warned about the people in the church itself:

  • *Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves.

Uh huh, worshipping at the foot of fear, suspicion & paranoia doesn't work out so well.

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 27/05/2026 11:25

Niminy · 27/05/2026 11:22

I've just had a look at their safeguarding info. You're supposed to have details of parish safeguarding officer on the web site, and it looks as if they don't have one. It's good practice to have links to Local Authority safeguarding contacts too. I'd say it looks as if safeguarding isn't a priority for this church.

If they are letting children use opposite sex toilets then they have a massive safeguarding fail.

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