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Are equality laws clear on sex and gender expression at work? Kids Toy Shop AGP

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MyShyCat · 24/05/2026 22:58

So yesterday I was in a local branch of a well known National Toy Superstore.

I needed to Click and Collect a large lego item for my daughters Birthday. I needed to be in and out as I was rushing to get back to set up for her party so i was already a little stressed thinking about getting stuck behind a long queue of people collecting random items and not being able to find their Order Number etc etc.

In the end, there was no queue and I was able to collect my item in record time.

However, I wasn't expecting to be served by a 6ft male member of staff with a receding hair-line called "Boudica" who had clearly "brought all of himself" to work that day. I wasn't prepared for the enourmous fake latex breasts that he was clearly wearing under his corporate uniform.

Problem is, what do I do? The teacher in me sees this as a safe-guarding issue (especially in a kids toy shop!) I don't believe for one minute that anyone has consented to be part of this mans fantasy.

Do equality laws actually permit this type of behaviour (even in a kids toy shop?) or am I just a big transphobe?

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nocoolnamesleft · 24/05/2026 23:45

I can see why you are concerned about a fetishistic exhibitionist trying to involve bystanders in his fetish who has chosen to do so in an environment attractive to young children. But any attempt to safeguard the children will result in cries of bigot.

RogueFemale · 24/05/2026 23:43

SternJoyousBeev2 · 24/05/2026 23:24

Trust your gut OP. Ignore the posters that try and justify a bloke wearing fake tits in a toy shop. But any complaint you potentially would make would be ignored.

What are they going to say? We fully support the rights of our employees to wear comically large fake boobs and any customer who objects is unwelcome in our stores?

RogueFemale · 24/05/2026 23:37

@MyShyCat Of course it is inappropriate, just as if a woman wore a large strap on fake penis to work. I would write a letter to the toy shop HQ to complain.

See also https://www.andrewdoyle.org/p/why-is-an-oxford-lecturer-allowed

Why is an Oxford lecturer allowed to wear fake breasts to work?

Once again, professional standards take a back seat to identity politics.

https://www.andrewdoyle.org/p/why-is-an-oxford-lecturer-allowed

PaterPower · 24/05/2026 23:24

He must have been hot, wearing latex next to the skin on a day like this. Shows a certain level of… commitment… I suppose.

It’s a shitty retail job. He’s surrounded all day by over-stimulated kids and their often-harassed and usually grumpy parents. Maybe his comedy breasts are what he needs to hold it together through 6-8 hours of that, earning just over minimum wage?

SternJoyousBeev2 · 24/05/2026 23:24

Trust your gut OP. Ignore the posters that try and justify a bloke wearing fake tits in a toy shop. But any complaint you potentially would make would be ignored.

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EmilyinEverton · 24/05/2026 23:09

Do equality laws actually permit this type of behaviour (even in a kids toy shop?)

Maybe ask yourself whether a woman with enormous fake breasts would be so triggering for the answer.