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Man wants men to have free access to women and girls when they are vulnerable or in a state of undress.

32 replies

WallaceinAnderland · 24/05/2026 18:25

It's a reddit one

Cis man here. I want to do what I can to help, so I'm asking what you need, and what you advise. I am happy to use my privilege where possible too.

I made it clear that this is a red line for me, and I will not be voting Labour unless they change course.

https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1tkgmnk/what_can_cis_allies_do/

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BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 24/05/2026 19:13

DuaneBarry · 24/05/2026 19:11

I can’t believe that one of their suggestions is for him to stop disclosing his sex to others. They really think we can’t tell what sex people are unless they tell us, don’t they?

I've given up wondering now. Is it mass psychosis or are they all really just that stupid?

DuaneBarry · 24/05/2026 19:11

I can’t believe that one of their suggestions is for him to stop disclosing his sex to others. They really think we can’t tell what sex people are unless they tell us, don’t they?

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 24/05/2026 19:11

fantam · 24/05/2026 19:07

I think CisMan is taking the piss and winding the TRAs up with his plea for ideas.

Oh I see! I didn't get as far as clicking on the Reddit link because I'm lazy. I'm not a fan of That Place.

Damn it, almost had a plan for worldwide domination.

fantam · 24/05/2026 19:07

I think CisMan is taking the piss and winding the TRAs up with his plea for ideas.

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 24/05/2026 19:03

Actually, the activists should be thinking (if they were ever so inclined to do such a thing) that with friends like that, who needs enemies? A few more men like this one could really bring sunlight to the issues, and the activists couldn't claim transphobia when people complain about the men.

...interesting...

ManyShapesOfPasta · 24/05/2026 18:55

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MarieDeGournay · 24/05/2026 18:48

That's what it all boils down to, doesn't it?
The obvious question to ask campaigners is: why? apart from unproven risks to transwomen in men's toilets [not our problem], sheer bloodymindedness about not letting women have anything of our own, or something more nefarious, what valid reason do men have to use women's toilets?
Just why?

Rhetorical question, obviously, but I like to cut through waffle and simplify things down to the basics - e.g. an entire campaign focused on getting men into women's toilets? Seriously?