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storminabuttercup · 24/05/2026 09:38

‘If trans women use men’s toilets, they will be subjected to humiliation, abuse and violence.

Anyone with any sense knows this.

Which is why in practice trans women will not use men’s toilets, and will just increasingly be driven out of society.’

let’s just drive women out of society then eh? Because the same stands for women having to share with men in dresses ffs

have I missed something btw? Seems a random
post for a Sunday morning

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Shedmistress · 25/05/2026 12:17

moto748e · 25/05/2026 12:01

I don't really understand this either. What is it about current design of men's toilets that you think is unsatisfactory? Or do you mean, leave the toilets as is, but rename them from Mens to Gender-Neutral (ho ho ho)?

I remain unconvinced by this 'not safe in the Mens' argument. Men's toilets can be dirty and smelly, but I am old, and I have never, in my life, seen any act of violence in a toilet. Which is not to say they never happen, of course. But high-risk? Only for the delicate flowers who find getting out of bed in the morning a challenge, I'd say.

Cross out 'gents'.

Laminate a sign saying 'Gender Neutral'

Stick sign up

Done.

FancyBiscuitsLevel · 25/05/2026 12:16

Male violence means the set up of male toilets as one large room designed for multiple people to use at the same time, is not safe for more vulnerable members of the male community. I have no problem accepting that, what I don’t accept is that a) the only males who are vulnerable to male violence in a public toilet are transwomen and b) the only solution is to put transwomen in female toilets.

This set up of toilet facilities is risky for many men who are vulnerable to male violence. Therefore the solution needs to be a redesign of male toilets /spaces.

Exactly how bathrooms should be redesigned (possibly removing urinals, or changing to individual rooms not several loos in one room, or different layouts etc) is something men should sort out and I would fully support trans organisations campaigning to make male bathrooms safer for transwomen.

I am sick of the problem in this debate not being male violence and people like OJ thinking the problem is women not trying to fix the problems caused by male violence.

Justme56 · 25/05/2026 12:09

OJ doesn’t want to understand though does he. Obviously the single sex exceptions were set up for a reason and someone somewhere must have thought about which spaces were places where women would be more vulnerable. At what age does he think male children are safe to use the men’s toilets by themselves I wonder?

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 25/05/2026 12:06

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moto748e · 25/05/2026 12:01

Shedmistress · 25/05/2026 11:39

The mens have urinals AND cubicles. Anyone with half an ounce of sense would have changed the men's to gender neutral years ago.

I don't really understand this either. What is it about current design of men's toilets that you think is unsatisfactory? Or do you mean, leave the toilets as is, but rename them from Mens to Gender-Neutral (ho ho ho)?

I remain unconvinced by this 'not safe in the Mens' argument. Men's toilets can be dirty and smelly, but I am old, and I have never, in my life, seen any act of violence in a toilet. Which is not to say they never happen, of course. But high-risk? Only for the delicate flowers who find getting out of bed in the morning a challenge, I'd say.

Shedmistress · 25/05/2026 11:56

SwirlyGates · 25/05/2026 11:53

Oh I see. As long as women understand that "gender neutral" is a code for "actually the men's"!

That's what gender neutral does actually mean.

SwirlyGates · 25/05/2026 11:53

Oh I see. As long as women understand that "gender neutral" is a code for "actually the men's"!

Shedmistress · 25/05/2026 11:51

SwirlyGates · 25/05/2026 11:41

@Shedmistress I don't understand your post. Women don't want to walk past men pissing in urinals to get to the cubicles.

Women won't go near them yes. They will use the womens.

Whereas men can. Even men who say they are women.

It is the simplest solution to the problem.

SwirlyGates · 25/05/2026 11:41

@Shedmistress I don't understand your post. Women don't want to walk past men pissing in urinals to get to the cubicles.

Shedmistress · 25/05/2026 11:39

SwirlyGates · 25/05/2026 11:36

To be fair it's probably because the men's contain urinals, and the women's only have cubicles (where we know nothing untoward can ever happen because they're cubicles, right, and who cares who's peeing next to you...).

The additional issue that the queue for the women's is always twice as long as the men's, even before you start inviting all and sundry in, is of course never given any consideration.

Edited to add: that famous photo of Eddie Izzard in the queue for the women's toilet wouldn't happen with a woman queueing for the men's, because there is never a queue for the men's!

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The mens have urinals AND cubicles. Anyone with half an ounce of sense would have changed the men's to gender neutral years ago.

SwirlyGates · 25/05/2026 11:36

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 25/05/2026 10:32

Why is it only the Ladies that becomes a Gender Neutral Toilet, why is it never the Men's.

Perhaps because this is a male rights movement and anything women have has been given to them as a grace and favour by the men, so the men can take it back when ever they want.

That's the feeling I'm left with because of this codswallop, it just a reminder of women's place in the world, which is under the male thumb.

OJ is a failed mediocrity, his brain is so squirrelly, he's Queer's for Palestine level stupid.

To be fair it's probably because the men's contain urinals, and the women's only have cubicles (where we know nothing untoward can ever happen because they're cubicles, right, and who cares who's peeing next to you...).

The additional issue that the queue for the women's is always twice as long as the men's, even before you start inviting all and sundry in, is of course never given any consideration.

Edited to add: that famous photo of Eddie Izzard in the queue for the women's toilet wouldn't happen with a woman queueing for the men's, because there is never a queue for the men's!

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 25/05/2026 11:35

fromorbit · 25/05/2026 11:34

OJ is backchatting JKR. He still doesn't get it.

Owen Jones
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The risk of a trans woman being abused or assaulted in the men’s toilet per visit = extremely high.

The risk of a woman being abused or assaulted in the women’s toilet per visit = extremely low.

You are proving the point. A way higher larger percentage of men are violent criminals. We know that. Sort that out. Maybe men need to pay for bouncers in the toilets since men are so crazy.

However I don't think toilets for guys are that dangerous.

He has absolutely no evidence for that.

fromorbit · 25/05/2026 11:34

fromorbit · 25/05/2026 10:22

JKR on Owen's latest is up to her usual standard.

J.K. Rowling
Follow the logic. Women are deluded and naive for thinking predatory and violent men can be kept out of women-only spaces. ‘They can rape you anywhere.’ However, trans-identified men can only be safe in women-only spaces, because no abuser would ever follow them in there.

OJ is backchatting JKR. He still doesn't get it.

Owen Jones
1h
The risk of a trans woman being abused or assaulted in the men’s toilet per visit = extremely high.

The risk of a woman being abused or assaulted in the women’s toilet per visit = extremely low.

You are proving the point. A way higher larger percentage of men are violent criminals. We know that. Sort that out. Maybe men need to pay for bouncers in the toilets since men are so crazy.

However I don't think toilets for guys are that dangerous.

moto748e · 25/05/2026 11:13

They are not 'left without facilities',

Are these desired 'faciities' things like bins for sanpro that they can rummage through?

loislovesstewie · 25/05/2026 11:09

It's some mental gymnastics by OJ to think that a man going into the gents is in danger from other men, but a man going into the ladies isn't a danger to women. Perhaps he's totally cowed by the women in his life!😂😂😂

MarieDeGournay · 25/05/2026 10:51

RareGoalsVerge · 25/05/2026 10:17

He's railing against a strawman because the EHRC guidance clearly sets out that while women's facilities are only for biological women, it is not reasonable for transwomen to be left without facilities and appropriate universal single-user options must also be available. If a building is only large enough to have 2 loos then it is fine for them both to be fully-self-contained universal single-user, and any larger than that it is possible to divide into appropriate mens, womens and universal options.

But the point is that transwomen can use the men's, there's no physical need for extra facilities for them, like there is a physical need for the adaptations in an accessible toilet for disabled people.

There's no evidence that they are going to be attacked in the men's - unless you take OJ's apparent believe that men are inherently violent as 'evidence'.

So as long as there are men's/women's/accessible toilets available, no transwoman is 'left without facilities' - if they are disabled, they use the accessible toilet; if they are able-bodied they use the men's.

They are not 'left without facilities', they just prefer not to use the facilities designated for their sex.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 25/05/2026 10:32

Why is it only the Ladies that becomes a Gender Neutral Toilet, why is it never the Men's.

Perhaps because this is a male rights movement and anything women have has been given to them as a grace and favour by the men, so the men can take it back when ever they want.

That's the feeling I'm left with because of this codswallop, it just a reminder of women's place in the world, which is under the male thumb.

OJ is a failed mediocrity, his brain is so squirrelly, he's Queer's for Palestine level stupid.

fromorbit · 25/05/2026 10:22

JKR on Owen's latest is up to her usual standard.

J.K. Rowling
Follow the logic. Women are deluded and naive for thinking predatory and violent men can be kept out of women-only spaces. ‘They can rape you anywhere.’ However, trans-identified men can only be safe in women-only spaces, because no abuser would ever follow them in there.

J.K. Rowling (@jk_rowling) on X

Author, founder of Lumos and Beira's Place, surname rhymes with bowling, not growling.

https://x.com/jk_rowling

RareGoalsVerge · 25/05/2026 10:17

He's railing against a strawman because the EHRC guidance clearly sets out that while women's facilities are only for biological women, it is not reasonable for transwomen to be left without facilities and appropriate universal single-user options must also be available. If a building is only large enough to have 2 loos then it is fine for them both to be fully-self-contained universal single-user, and any larger than that it is possible to divide into appropriate mens, womens and universal options.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 25/05/2026 10:11

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TheKeatingFive · 25/05/2026 08:50

WildEnergySupplier · 24/05/2026 09:44

I don't know why we focus so much on people like Andrew Tate when Owen Jones is on mainstream media a lot and I can't think of another man who openly despises women as much as he does.

From the rape of women on October 7 to men in women's toilets to 'sex work', his view is always anti-women.

I don't even think he's left wing - his views have changed dramatically over the years depending on what's popular (remember when he was vehemently anti Corbyn and then, after the 2017 election, was his biggest cheerleader).

He's just a grifter who has one political compass - he despises women.

Totally agree. He's every bit as much of an incel as Tate.

OneTaupeShaker · 25/05/2026 08:47

Little Owhiny Jones' philosophy is that men are horrible and violent, and can't be expected to change, so this is a problem for women to deal with.

Well said Bertiebiscuit and Duncan Bannatyne.

Decent men really need to call LOJ out on this. He's basically said all men are neanderthals including himself. It's not the clever gotcha he thinks it is.

InveterateBigot · 25/05/2026 08:30

Duncan Bannatyne on Twitter: "You are a complete moron Owen Jones"

Bertiebiscuit · 25/05/2026 08:22

Little Owhiny Jones' philosophy is that men are horrible and violent, and can't be expected to change, so this is a problem for women to deal with - all women have to become their mummys, sacrifice their own lives to being kind to men, as women are really only support animals for men, real women that is, the men in frocks can of course carry in depriving women of their legal rights to privacy, safety and dignity and generally making women the audience for their ghastly fetishes. Because in spite of their propensity for violence, men are the real humans deserving respect whilst women are just a servant class who should provide men with babies when required.

BackToLurk · 25/05/2026 07:52

HouseMartinsHome · 24/05/2026 17:59

The comments are reassuring

I don’t know if this woman is on here, but if she is “I love you”

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